Tumhari Pakhi 21st November 2014 Written Update *Last Episode*

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Tumhari Pakhi 21st November 2014 Written Episode

Scene 1
Pakhi takes Pen from Veer, she sits to sign, she looks at Veer and points him to sit beside her, he sits and points her to sign, Pakhi finally sign the divorce papers, Veer says one request from you, I am leaving Riya here, Pakhi is happy, Veer says I don’t think that anybody can raise her better than you and also Ayan will have a sister, plus I will have a reason to come back here, I hope you don’t mind, Pakhi just smiles and looks at Veer, Veer leaves from there.
Its morning, Veer is packing his stuff, Pakhi comes with his shirts and is sad, Veer looks at her and says if we put cactus in room then we get attached to it, I think you are attached to me, Pakhi laughs, she says I laughed on your example, Veer says people tend to get attached to good things, Pakhi says you always maintained that you are the best, Veer says no you are the best undoubtedly, Veer says I will press my shirt, Pakhi says I will press it, Veer says you wont be able to do, Pakhi says you called me best, Veer says ok do it, Pakhi says to Veer that he can make her learn ironing and making sandwich, Veer says I don’t have much time, I have to leave, Pakhi says all will miss you, and me too, Veer gets emotional, Veer opens his arms, Pakhi hugs him., . Pakhi says you are my best friend, Veer says you too, Pakhi says there are many less people like, Veer says and there are is no one like you, Ayan comes with bag and says we have packed biscuits for you, Both Ayan and Riya hugs Veer, they say we will miss you.

Scene 2
Jiji is leaving, she gives gifts to servants, Pakhi ask her to stay for some days, Jiji says it will be difficult for us to leave if we stay now, I pray that you remain same like you are, Pakhi hugs her and touches her feet, Pakhi meets Nandini, Charu, Kumu. Jiji comes to Lavanya and ask her to take care of Pakhi, Riya and Ayan, Lavanya hugs her. Veer comes to Pakhi but doesn’t say anything, they sit in car and leaves. Lavanya says to Pakhi that I was saying yesterday that house is looking like before, all happy but now house is looking what it used to look like after Anshuman’s death, its weird we want people to go away but when they leave, we want them to stop them, Pakhi says this is called human, like time changes people changes, Lavanya says aren’t you afraid of loneliness? Pakhi says my heart is filled so I am not alone, Lavanya says that people like you make love above everything, I am happy that I was part of all this, Lavanya and Girish leaves, Pakhi comes in house and recalls how she first entered this house as bride, Bairi Jiya plays, she looks at Anshuman’s picture, she recalls how anshuman filled her maang, how they held hands many a times, bol na dil se plays, she recalls Anshuman and she was under bed, she recalls how Anshuman said that God must be like you, how they had little moments of togetherness, how they hugged everytime, how they fell in washroom, how they danced in rain, how anshuman filled her maang with sindoor again.

Scene 3
Pakhi, Ayan and Riya are together, they look at stars, Pakhi says the brightest star is Rohini, Mooon have many wives but he loves Rohini the most and travel all the way to meet rohini, Pakhi recalls how Anshuman came to her, Pakhi hugs Riya and Ayan and thinks that Anshuman you said you came to take mother for Ayan and now see I am mother only, earlier I was waiting for you and now you must be waiting for me, I know when I will come to you, there will be glow everywhere, I know you must be smiling seeing us.
Ayan comes to Pakhi in her and says now you are my responsibility and I will love you a lot, he goes, Pakhi thinks that I was yours Anshuman and will always be yours, she sleeps peacefully with Anshuman’s picture, bairi piya plays.

The last Episode ends with Anshuman and Pakhi shown in Mandir praying and Anshuman glancing a Pakhi
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1,614 Comments

    • Aaliyah
      December 18, 02:34

      Good morning angels 😉
      Aaahhh thx my precious girl,
      I consider you 2 also my best friends mwah mah mwah
      and drew is right you are awesome live you 2 enormously 🙂

    • Aaliyah
      December 18, 02:36

      The 3 of us really understand our crap we talk about 😳
      Drool, hoses, knitting 😳

    • Ƥђøęηḯϰ
      December 18, 07:20

      🙂 , that’s just it Angels , we understand each other , we care and love each other , we know who we are and so what if we are what we are 😀 as long as we are together .
      We should ask ADMIN for a fan page please 🙂 , the other shows got fan pages . I can request one and hope they are willing .
      I hope you Angels are having a happy day ❤️❤️ . 🙂

  1. Ƥђøęηḯϰ
    December 17, 16:33 Reply

    Let’s just be who we are 🙂 , like I started off saying , ” who gives a f__ ??
    Love you my sisters ❤️❤️ .

    • cam
      December 17, 17:02

      Yes mon cheri who gives a f…
      adhil was and is the only guy
      as crazy as we are 🙂

    • cam
      December 17, 17:10

      You are right as usual from now on when you say A
      I will say how high 🙂

  2. Ƥђøęηḯϰ
    December 17, 16:31 Reply

    Angels I think that we are better off without guys here .
    Unless it’s Aadhil , he’s the only good men .

    • cam
      December 17, 17:07

      Yes you know in WWW land these matrix men are *&€%$#×@

  3. hi suni sis camy angel, lucy sis and aaliya sis
    how are you all?

    i dont know what to say here
    i just came here to talk with suni sis
    cause she left suddenly without saying any thing
    i thought atleast she will talk with me on this page
    aadil bro said suni sis is angry on me and one sis
    but we both did not belive that cause i thought if suni sis is angry then she will tell me to dont talk directly on any qh page where i was asking here how is she to her whenever she was commenting
    any way now i understand that she dont want to talk with me any more
    and suni sis here iam not alone who do mistakes in comments
    and aaliyah sis
    read comments of this page and you will know why i call camy angel to camy sis

    http://www.desitvbox.net/tumhari-pakhi-19th-august-2014-written-update/comment-page-1/#comments

    sorry sister’s
    i will not visit again on this page
    i just came here only in one small hope
    that may be suni sis will talk with me
    i read convos of last page which i talked with you suni sis
    i did not undrstand till now also
    what i did wrong
    i was waiting for your reply from three days at that time
    and you was log in but not sending me message
    so i said you that sis i’ll not talk with you if you dont like to talk with me
    but
    any way i dont want to waste your time
    sorry for all my mistakes and please forgive me if you all can
    bye
    have a nice day
    take care
    allah hafi
    fi aamanillah.

  4. Aaliyah
    December 17, 05:26 Reply

    Drew and cam my precious wonderful angels
    Hhhmmm…cam please remain as beautiful as you are
    you and me live indeed in a different world, differ culture
    my lovely girl please do me a big favor and don’t answer mr. Sameer
    please I really beg you don’t, I know why and in what way you talk
    sadly not everyone understand this kinda way, thats why plz safe ur time, breath, chill okay dont loose your cool.

    • cam
      December 17, 08:15

      Oh mon ami merci, je taime

    • cam
      December 17, 08:19

      You are my sunshine thank you for the lovely words
      and I promise you I will keep my cool, promiss
      Never imagine that someone would defend me this way
      and for that, again thank you
      this made me realise why I don’t have friends
      they always misunderstand things and become jealous of me

    • cam
      December 17, 08:22

      But you know, I … love you sweetie, see you 😉

    • Ƥђøęηḯϰ
      December 17, 12:17

      Camy , I hope that you know that I love and understand you too .
      I just think that Sameer is not worth my efforts .
      I realised a while back that he is an idiot and I distsnced myself from him .
      But , I never encourage anyone to follow me , I rather they see for themselves .
      Like with Zac , I never believed anyone till I saw him myself , even you thought he might be genuine . Sameer is a confused guy , insulting him and pointing out his errors will not help him because he is of the opinion that he can control others to his way even through pathetic manipulations.
      You are so real , honest , kind , amazing , sweet , caring , I love you like I would a real sister .
      I’m too caught up these days with something or someone , not the 19 year old , he’s entertainment 😉 , but there is this other guy 😳 . I hesitate to speak because who knows where it will go .
      But , Camy , my french fry , nazi loving femme fatale 🙂 , you are one of a kind , rare and precious , don’t be undone by fakes ok . . That is your mistake , you let others affect your self esteem , no one is worth that Angel , trust me , no one . .

  5. @sweety
    December 17, 05:18 Reply

    aliya without account k ye pic kaise lagai ?

  6. suni tell me
    how can i flirt with any one here or on any place?
    me dont like flirting with any one
    i just hate that kinda person’s
    and person’s means both girl’s and boy’s
    who try to do flirting
    camy how can you think like this so sad

    • Aaliyah
      December 17, 05:15

      So by this you also HATE me mr. Sameer
      Someone who hates my friend isn’t my friend either
      cam is my friend the whole time cam flirts
      and the few I know about her I know her
      If you hates her flirting why do you answer her
      by everything she said to you
      why didn’t you tell her to NOT call you gorgeous
      I’n our world alllllll that is flirting mr. Sameer
      why weren’t you firm and tell her you will name her tooooooo SIS
      I’m very sorry, I’m not angry, just dissapointed again in men

    • s,i,a,o,m,a,n,t,r,a, so sad….
      December 17, 12:03

      oh god what are you saying aaliyah sis
      camy is also my sis like other’s
      i just said how can she think that iam flirting with her or any one?

    • Ƥђøęηḯϰ
      December 17, 12:21

      I’m with you 100% sweetie .
      But , he will not understand .
      The more you speak the more he will misinterpret .

  7. Aaliyah
    December 16, 16:05 Reply

    Oh my goooooooodnessss
    (DREEEEEEEEEW 😐 PLEASE COME HERE I’m scared of our napoleon 😮

    • Aaliyah
      December 16, 16:25

      (Drew she named them pure??? 😐 drew plz come here sis 😀 )

    • Aaliyah
      December 16, 16:27

      (Drew, She is already pouting her lips 😆 )

    • Aaliyah
      December 16, 16:31

      ( she will tell the smatsonian mad person 😀 why she is angel and we sis 😯 )

    • Aaliyah
      December 16, 16:33

      (Do you know why she is angel and we sis? )
      Dont recall her reason, ahm you? 😕

    • Ƥђøęηḯϰ
      December 16, 18:08

      Hahahah 😆 .
      Luce Sameer has gotten mad , he’s speaking with himself .
      He is the alphabet 😕 .

    • cam
      December 16, 18:15

      Hahahahahahahahaa
      Lucy honey no need to be scare mon cheri 🙂
      No drew I don’t think he is the same
      because only adhil did tbe rofl …thing 😕

    • cam
      December 16, 18:20

      Nah …. but he reazon for calling me angel
      was because I flirt with the guy
      and its creepy flirting ur own bro nah yak :mrgreen:

    • cam
      December 16, 18:21

      Okay …gorgeous…explain…r u the alfbeth guy ???? 😐

    • cam
      December 16, 18:22

      Ah luce I live your guy 🙂

    • cam
      December 16, 18:23

      Love not live

    • cam
      December 16, 18:25

      And by pouting my lips 🙄

  8. cam
    December 15, 16:09 Reply

    Lucy lu 😐 ….? what is going on 😐
    CHANGE OF GENDER?????

    • cam
      December 15, 17:37

      Aadhil???????

    • cam
      December 15, 17:40

      Jealous that he dont call me sis ….brrrrroo 😀
      or instead of adhil …zack

    • s,i,a,o,m,a,n,t,r,a, so sad….
      December 16, 02:43

      hehehe lol
      why i will be jealous????????
      i just want to know why he is calling you camy angel and to all girl’s here sis?
      and he said that his sister’s are angel’s
      so iam little confused here
      hehehehe so funny

    • cam
      December 16, 05:46

      Hhhhmmm for me to tell you that….sugar 😉 🙂
      I have to ask him if he allow me to tell you 🙄
      or inform you the that reason 😳
      Becaaauuusssee………. 😳 😳

    • Aaliyah
      December 16, 08:20

      😆 😀 : P 🙂

    • Aaliyah
      December 16, 08:21

      You have to admit it qumkwat
      she is smart 😀

    • Aaliyah
      December 16, 08:23

      Cam knows m not you sadsiomantra

    • haha s,i,a,o,m,a,n,t,r,a, so sad…. what an integilent question you asked
      haha
      buddhu bro
      its simpel if you call’s sis to suni,camy,lucy and aliyah
      so aotumatically you will become angels bro naa
      haha
      mad bro

      and camy angel
      you can tell her why i dont call you sis

      or s,i,a,o,m,a,n,t,r,a, so sad…. i am giveing you hint
      go to tumhari paaki old wrriten update’s page’s
      and read comments you will know why i can’t call sis to camy angel
      haha

    • cam
      December 16, 12:46

      Good heavens gorgeous???? (Pouting mouth )
      …. 🙄 I want to tell him the real reason 😳 …. you dont have to go broadcast it to him 😕
      (drew/lucy.. 😀 I think they are both out of my league, to pure 😛 )

    • Ƥђøęηḯϰ
      December 16, 18:10

      Sameer seriously 😐 , you need professional help . .

    • s,i,a,o,m,a,n,t,r,a, so sad….
      December 15, 02:42

      hey!!!!!
      how are you?
      what’s your name angel’s bro?
      who is angel’s (suni, camy, lucy & aaliyah or someone else? )
      and suni is angry on you why?
      hehehe
      my suni is angry bird
      her anger dont go so easily

    • hi s,i,a,o,m,a,n,t,r,a, so sad….
      iam good alhamdulillah
      what about you?
      what kind of name is this? s,i,a,o,m,a,n,t,r,a, so sad….
      make it short
      and by reading your comments i can guess you are boy so i’ll call you bro
      yess suni sis is angry on me
      but i dont know how much
      and when her anger will go
      and when she will reply to me
      all sister’s are buddhu only naa
      haha
      just kidding
      and my sister’s they are angel’s so iam angel’s bro
      suni sis only gave me that desing

    • s,i,a,o,m,a,n,t,r,a, so sad….
      December 15, 15:46

      hey sameer
      so you are angel’s bro
      hmm good name….
      suni selected that name she is angel?
      hehehe
      and all your sister’s means?
      you call sis to all?
      hehehe so funny lol!!!!!
      hmmmm ok i’ll make it short soon
      and yess iam boy
      nice guess
      hehehe!!! ROLF.
      you want to call me bro?
      hehehe damn funny
      if i will also become your bro and you call angel’s to your sister’s what will i become then????????
      you makeing me to think lol…..
      hehehehe

  9. cam
    December 14, 11:43 Reply

    I just love to see the likes increase although the chit chat isn’t about tp 😀 😀

    • cam
      December 14, 11:46

      And for them we should not dissapoint them 😳
      Wht u think????

    • cam
      December 14, 11:47

      Only for now I have to go
      c u maybe at ur midnight 😉
      Ttyl hon ….love you mon ami ♥

    • Aaliyah
      December 14, 16:16

      Dreeeeeeew honeeeeeeeeeeeeey 😀
      Caaaaaaaaaam francia 😛

    • Aaliyah
      December 14, 16:43

      Cam be careful with your atire, and dont wry if things
      get stick like glue or mashed potato
      just use some oil or ghee 😀
      but better just take a shower.n

    • Aaliyah
      December 14, 16:49

      And ahhm yes my hands are indeed ahm full, I have a hose 😀
      and because of the size 😳 I thought that its better to hide the gigantic truth

    • Aaliyah
      December 14, 17:06

      I’m watching this telenovela and my big love
      is the “hero” he is a psychoanalyst
      studied for opthalmologist and conducted a neurological surgery. How odd is that 😯

    • Ƥђøęηḯϰ
      December 14, 18:01

      So odd that only you can find such a combination Luce 😆 😛 .

    • cam
      December 14, 18:51

      Hahaja yes thats spanish huh
      hey luce and with who with willy 😉

    • cam
      December 14, 18:52

      You naughty girl 😳 holding hoses 😯

    • cam
      December 14, 18:59

      BRAVO…BRAVO…YOU GOOD GIRL
      Ifeellike singing that sound of music song you know
      that one 17 turning 18 and ….voila 😀 here you R holding hoses hahahahhah hey if you needa job 😀 i have a italian job for you 😀 😛
      Drew has specialized in pizza 😉
      never ever have I done that………. 🙄
      but she knows 😳 🙄
      she is a real pro…she can eat and not swallow that pizza 😀

  10. cam
    December 14, 11:19 Reply

    😉 …. moon …night… 😉 s-r 😉 😉
    NO ? 😯 …lullaby …tw … tw.. lit.. s..r 😆
    Hon if you don get it ur as good as me with riddles 😕

    • Ƥђøęηḯϰ
      December 14, 11:22

      😕 🙁 , I think I’m better ’cause I don’t have a clue 😀 . .

    • cam
      December 14, 11:24

      Look there drew ->

    • Ƥђøęηḯϰ
      December 14, 11:25

      Thinking about mass producing the hose warmers for the winter season 😀 .
      You wanna invest in a soon to be world recognized accessory business .
      Hey !! Can I advertise in your thrift shop 😀 ?
      Will you help me put up a display in the shop’s window 😆 ??

    • cam
      December 14, 11:25

      Just read the cheezee line 😆

    • cam
      December 14, 11:28

      Hhmmm mass production for winter 🙄 ????
      U know go knit the things but you know what happens with
      hoses during cold seasons… nah ur accutummed to sonseasand 😀

    • Ƥђøęηḯϰ
      December 14, 11:28

      Lucy !!! Help !!!! Camy is talking about the moon and cheese and I’m totally confused 😕 .
      Usually I get her , but I think I need the neutralizer back now please , for me !! 😀 . .

    • Ƥђøęηḯϰ
      December 14, 11:30

      Hahahahahaha 😆 , Camy you will kill me 😀 . .
      Yes , your expertise and advise is noted .
      Hoses do shrink during winter 😀 .
      I’ll have to take that into serious consideration 😉 .

    • cam
      December 14, 11:32

      Omg …cant even spell “accustomed” sry

    • cam
      December 14, 11:35

      Hey but have you click and read the quote ?

    • cam
      December 14, 11:42

      The thing is gone so I have brought the words
      to you, the cheeziest words, as if once a glas is shattered
      you can find every piece and put it together 🙂

  11. cam
    December 14, 11:16 Reply

    Drew I’m pure and sensitive and inocent and all those livelyvlovely nice things
    look among my acquaintances (nearly bite my tongue) you and lucy are my “angels” you see ..you.. 😕 are a virgin 😆 😆
    how purererer can that be my alaskan “hose” knitting bending girl 🙄

    • Ƥђøęηḯϰ
      December 14, 11:20

      Hahahahaha yes indeed 😀 , one can really tell a person from the company they keep 😀 . .

    • Ƥђøęηḯϰ
      December 14, 11:21

      And there isn’t any better company than you Angels ❤️❤️.

    • cam
      December 14, 11:36

      Aahhhhwww thank you I always knew we are one of a kind

  12. Aaliyah
    December 13, 15:23 Reply

    Okay I know the abc ….cam? 😐 …. do you know the abc? 😐
    HEY here we have a ..hm…donno 😐
    (boring)…..
    (cam your the only one left,drew was talking hindi with him/her…. bwoodish.. 😯 ..was like chineze or for you to understand jap style, the one is a replica of abc ..look at the alias …look at it 🙄 )

    • cam
      December 13, 17:44

      Hahahaha 😆

    • cam
      December 13, 17:48

      Oh mon cheri 😆 lucy you are coconuts
      Thats ….:roll: .?….???? TWI 🙄 yes yes twi 😀

    • Ƥђøęηḯϰ
      December 13, 23:26

      Hahahah 😆 try s-r and see what you come up with 😕 .

    • cam
      December 14, 10:48

      Silent Reader ???? 😐

    • cam
      December 14, 10:49

      You know I really love this outfit 😆

    • cam
      December 14, 10:51

      Drew…. a big Q

    • cam
      December 14, 10:55

      (Ssssshhhhhh…..drew…ppsssst….come here. 🙄 listen I was looking at luce her gv 🙄 …and ahum ahum
      can you see her hands clearly …..I mean BOTH 😀 😀 ???? )

    • cam
      December 14, 10:56

      😯

    • Ƥђøęηḯϰ
      December 14, 10:56

      Camy , how do you wash that ” outfit ” 😕 ?
      The drier is known to eat things like socks 😀 .
      Do you wash it even 😀 ? Or hmmm is that painted on 😆 , glued on , somehow holds on 😯 . .

      Starts with s ends with r , not silent reader.

    • Ƥђøęηḯϰ
      December 14, 10:57

      Hahahahaha 😀 , maybe her other hand is holding the watering can Camy 😆 😀 😉 .

    • cam
      December 14, 10:59

      I think this girl is picking up things very clear 😳
      and you angels now how sensitive and pure minded I am
      I hope she isn’t doing things that 😕

    • cam
      December 14, 11:00

      LMFBAO

    • cam
      December 14, 11:04

      the B is for black
      but returning to your Q ….nah …mot glued 😀 ..but if I wear it too ling thaaaaaaaaaan 🙄 it might get glued at
      😳 🙂

    • Ƥђøęηḯϰ
      December 14, 11:04

      Camy I think your string is on to tight Hahahahaha 😀 , you have become delusional , and assuming someone else’s identity 😀 , you !!! Sensitive and pure minded !!! Yeah and I’m the Virgin Mary 😀 . . !! 😀 . .

    • cam
      December 14, 11:06

      Omg drew s-r?????? not that good at riddles 😀

    • Ƥђøęηḯϰ
      December 14, 11:06

      I know the B Camy 😀 , you said b4 🙂 .
      I don’t forget the things you say 🙂 . .
      Btw , how are you my angel ??

    • cam
      December 14, 11:06

      HHahahaa

    • cam
      December 14, 11:08

      Aaaauwww 😥 you remember all the idootic things i say
      believe me your even more crazy than I supose
      and for that …..I ❤ U

    • cam
      December 14, 11:09

      W8…. 😐 .u mean the moon???? at night 😉

  13. ok have to go now

    let wind blow away your sadness.
    let rain wash away your worries
    let sub brings you warmth
    let the new day bring you hope and happiness
    home my this message will ake you smile
    bye have a nice day
    ceeya till next…

  14. The story begins with Madhav Jha, a boy from Dumraon, Bihar, as he comes to meet the author Chetan Bhagat and leaves behind a few journals from his half-girlfriend whom he thinks to have passed away. When the author calls him back the following morning to narrate his story, he begins with his struggles to deal with students in St. Stephen’s College. Being from a village, Madhav is quite bad at English. He has come for an interview in Stephens. A good basketball player, Madhav Jha manages to get admission through his sports quota.

    The rich and beautiful Riya Somani, a girl from Delhi, is also selected through the sports quota. Meeting her, as he would call it a twist of fate Madhav and Riya become close friends due to their association with basketball. Madhav always wants to make her his girlfriend, which she refuses. Desperate to get physical with Riya, he demands that she have sex with him. Offended by his obscene ultimatum (Deti hai to de, warna katle), Riya parts company with him and warns him not to talk to her any more..

    A year later, Riya marries her childhood friend Rohan and settles in London where Rohan has a big business. Finding Delhi unbearable on grounds of losing Riya due to his own fault, Madhav decides to settle in his hometown and help his mother with her school. Seeing the condition of the school – no proper classes or toilets – Madhav decides to meet local MLA Ojha for financial help, but MLA is of no help. An opportunity comes when Ojha informs him of Bill Gates’ visit to some schools in Bihar. Madhav tries his best to convince Gates to fund his schools’ development, but in order to do so he has to prepare a speech, preferably in English.

    In the course of his struggle, he comes across Riya, who was already a divorcee. As Madhav is in a fix as to how he would prepare the speech, Riya helps him. The two are successful in their fundraising, but, after the speech, Riya leaves a letter for him which says that she has lung cancer. With three months left to live, Riya leaves for New York to become a singer, a dream she wanted to pursue. After three years, it is revealed from Riya’s journals that she is alive. Madhav goes in search of her in New York and stays in his friend Sailesh’s apartment. After three months of extensively searching, he finds her in a bar working as a singer, two days before leaving for India. They two marry and the story sets off.

    The book ends as the author visits the rural school in Dumraon three and a half years later; he discovers it is being run successfully by Madhav and Riya, who now had a son, Shyam.

    Chetan Bhagat’s new book

  15. Suddenly my eyes struck on someone who was staring at me. she was cute,fair n sweet girl… my eyes just stuck on her,
    and suddendly my mom came and told me
    “wake up” you idiot its morning 10 am now
    go and brush your teeth’s first and then take shower

    hmmmm i guess no one laughed i’ll change my username to short like s,i,a,o,m,a,n,t,w….

  16. Aaliyah
    December 13, 10:53 Reply

    Cam? 🙂 camy? 😛 camela? 😆
    Aahm 🙄 weeeeelllll you knoooooow aahhmm
    aren’t you a itsie pitsie tiny winie…….. COLD 😳
    Drew? Soca hon? bend over queen ? 😐
    maybe you ask her 😳 , her many clothes give peepz the
    idea that she…now…that.. 🙄 she
    (is homeless 😯 )……. isn’t nice 😉

    • Ƥђøęηḯϰ
      December 14, 11:18

      Luce , the homeless don’t wear designer made like our Camy 😀 .

  17. cam
    December 12, 19:52 Reply

    Lucyyyyyyyy 🙂
    I am with you about that facebook essay
    you know what I don’t understand????
    When tp was going in nooooooooo
    comments, and now they are giving tips???????? 😐 😯

    • cam
      December 12, 19:54

      Maybe they like our talks about the droolingsssss 🙂
      And the knitting and hose 😆 😀

    • Ƥђøęηḯϰ
      December 12, 23:00

      Love you Angels ❤️❤️❤️❤️
      Mwah Mwah . 🙂

    • cam
      December 12, 23:08

      Hi sweetheart 🙂
      Read that essay 😯 ??????? Don think so 8-D

    • cam
      December 12, 23:09

      Garden well watered????????? 😆 😆

    • cam
      December 12, 23:11

      Who ur asking 😳

    • cam
      December 12, 23:12

      Let me see

    • cam
      December 13, 00:01

      Had a Italian job drew 🙂 ❤

    • Aaliyah
      December 13, 00:56

      Gooooooooooooooooood morning 😀 😀

    • Aaliyah
      December 13, 02:24

      Hi dear you are early out of your bed 🙂
      Was the Italian job okay? 🙂 😆
      You are on top of the world?
      🙂
      Drew is all dried up 😐 ?

    • Ƥђøęηḯϰ
      December 13, 13:01

      Hahaha well Camy ,I guess a little fast food ( pizza 😉 ) is ok at times 😛 .

  18. Aaliyah
    December 12, 16:48 Reply

    Drew soca queen your sis loves u

    • Ƥђøęηḯϰ
      December 12, 16:54

      Love you too sweetie , ❤️:)
      How are you ?

    • Ƥђøęηḯϰ
      December 12, 17:08

      Luce , if you need me anytime , please say .
      I know that this will be a difficult season for you .

    • Aaliyah
      December 12, 18:29

      Hey sweetheart 🙂
      I’m fine as you can see
      nah sweetie no prob about this month

    • Aaliyah
      December 12, 18:32

      Camy french fry 🙂
      And you, what r you doing right now
      drew what you think that she is doing
      or where 😐 😛

    • cam
      December 12, 19:41

      Hi mon ami 🙂

    • cam
      December 12, 19:43

      Hi “soca” bending hot chick 😆

    • cam
      December 12, 19:56

      Btw sweheart I’m on top 😉
      Drew!!!!!!!! Hows the wet garden???
      Is it dry now 😆

    • Ƥђøęηḯϰ
      December 12, 22:57

      Garden is very healthy and fine Camy 😉 , well watered 😀 .

    • Ƥђøęηḯϰ
      December 12, 22:58

      Lucy , I never wonder ” what ” Camy is doing 😆 , I only sometimes wonder ” who” 😆 .

  19. One afternoon, I was having quiet time at a coffee shop close to work, and could not help but overhear the conversation taking place between two women beside me.

    “My husband has a short fuse. It’s like he has a perennial black cloud hovering about him, and the children and I feel like we always have to tiptoe around him because he lashes out at the slightest provocation,” the harried young woman told her friend.

    “Pagpasensyahan mo na, maybe he’s just tired from work,” her friend replied. “Tired? Even on a Sunday?! He’s like a snapping turtle. Masungit all the time! To me, the kids and the house help…”

    It was a familiar story I had heard countless times. Anger that seethes and boils over like a volcano—affecting not just men but women as well.

    Studies have shown that anger management issues often find their roots in childhood experiences. If your role models, meaning your parents, expressed anger by shouting, hitting, throwing things or hurling expletives, this is probably the way you think anger needs to be expressed.

    Anger management expert Aaron Karmin writes, “If your knee-jerk response in many situations is anger, it is very likely that your temper is covering up your true feelings and needs. This is especially likely if you grew up in a family where expressing feelings was strongly discouraged. As an adult, you may have a hard time acknowledging feelings other than anger.”

    In a CNN article on Internet trolls, psychology professor John Suler described the motivation for these online bullying tactics—“They want to inject their own emotional turmoil into other people by luring them into negativity. It’s a way for them to feel some kind of control or power over their own disruptive emotions, at other people’s expense.”

    Depression

    Many of them, Suler says, have issues with depression, low self-esteem and anger. So much like the man or woman with serious anger management issues.

    Karmin says there are three points to look out for to determine whether there is a deeper issue or emotion that lies beneath the mask of anger. First, if you have a hard time compromising, then most likely, as a child, you grew up in a home where the anger was uncontrollable, where the parent expressing the anger always got his or her way through threat and punishment. Compromising may bring you back to that time and space where the dominant emotions were fear and vulnerability.

    Second, if you have trouble expressing other emotions outside of anger, more often than not you are uncomfortable with feelings of fear or guilt. Thus, you always want to be in control all the time, and in doing so, refuse to yield to other emotions. Anger therefore will always be your shield or your preferred “drug” to mask or numb the pain that lies within.

    Third, Karmin says, when you view different opinions and viewpoints as a personal challenge to you and you always view your way as the only right way rather than trying to see through a different lens, there is clearly an underlying issue beneath the anger and seeming bullheadedness or incorrigibility.

    The American Psychological Association (APA) suggests three main approaches to dealing with anger—expressing, suppressing and calming.

    Expressing angry feelings in an assertive—not aggressive—manner is the healthiest way to express anger. There is no need to slam doors, or verbally abuse colleagues, members of your household staff, or worse, family members.

    However, to do this, the APA says you have to learn how to make clear what your needs are, and how to get them met, without hurting others. Being assertive after all doesn’t mean being pushy or demanding; it means being respectful of yourself and others.

    And if you find yourself on the receiving end of the abuse, it is important for you to take yourself out of the situation even momentarily, so that you can calm yourself and clear your mind so as not to react negatively.

    Converted or redirected

    Suppressed anger needs to be converted or redirected. This takes place when you hold in your anger, stop thinking about it, and focus on something positive. The danger in this type of response is that if it isn’t allowed outward expression, your anger can turn inward—on yourself. Anger turned inward may cause hypertension, high blood pressure or depression.

    The APA says that unexpressed anger can create other problems, such as passive-aggressive behavior (getting back at people indirectly, without telling them why, rather than confronting them head-on) or a personality that seems perpetually cynical and hostile, like the husband at the beginning of my story.

    “People who are constantly putting others down, criticizing everything and making cynical comments haven’t learned how to constructively express their anger. Not surprisingly, they aren’t likely to have many successful relationships.”

    I often tell my children and my students that when someone is being very hurtful and obnoxious, there is often an underlying reason. The meaner a person is, the deeper the hurt within. I like to keep that mind-set so that instead of getting upset at the angry person, I try to be compassionate, and when that doesn’t work, rather than respond, I choose to walk away and return when the other person has calmed down.

    Lastly, to the APA’s suggested third approach, self-calming techniques can be applied when you have learned to become aware of the anger that is rising within. It takes a lot of practice, and a higher level of self-awareness is required, but it can be done.

    The issues, situations and people that may cause frustration and anger cannot be totally eliminated, but you always have the choice on how to respond. They say that “Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned.”

    It’s simple and yet profound—control your anger before it controls and destroys you.

    Read more: http://lifestyle.inquirer.net/113803/manage-your-anger-before-it-destroys-you#ixzz3LiNA7SfA
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    • Aaliyah
      December 12, 18:21

      I just want to tell you that we dont need fb oneliners
      to tell each other whatever
      me, cam, and drew are friends, social media friends, soul friends, we dont have a fan page, don’t need it WE
      tell each other what and how we feel and think about
      everything,

    • Aaliyah
      December 12, 18:27

      And if, if, if we might be upset about things, issues thats our, me cam, and drew her problem, we give each other the space, to say what and how we feel about certain things
      this kind of oneliners are just like the kibd if RUBBISH
      that HOROSCOPE is, we are different unique individuals
      And also differ culture religion so we cant say that what helps “U” is helpful for everyone
      thus by this thanks but no thanks.

    • cam
      December 12, 19:45

      I agree with Aaliyah ….. here we solve our things without
      face book 😆 😆

    • cam
      December 12, 19:47

      We are like real life sisters we might argue
      but we aren’t MAD at each other soooooooo s’il vous plait
      BACK OFFFFFFFFF

    • Ƥђøęηḯϰ
      December 12, 22:55

      HahHah , I’m surprised you all even read this out 😀 . I have no idea what it is about apart from the first few lines . I was just going to ignore it 😀 .
      It’s not worth my time .

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