Punar Vivah 18th January 2013 Written Update
Punar Vivah 18th January 2013 Written Update by Rimjhim
Punar Vivah 18th January 2013 Written Episode
There is a Maha Sangam (mixed episode) of Qubool Hai and Punar Vivah today. Update is posted in Qubool Hai section.
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Raji.trs
January 21, 01:07Hi friends. . . Thank you for all wishes because today really successful day. I m happy. . . I m finished my work successfully. 15 out of 6 members only selected with me one.
Listed the place in india
1. Delhi
2. Delhi
3. Pandicherry
4. Mumbai, this s me.
5. Delhi
6. Chennai.
My Thank to god, u all guys and my family. It s a big moment in my life because my madam was hug to me and given one lovable kiss. Other details i send later. Now in airport.
SJ
January 21, 01:47Wow congratulations best wishes Raji , lov and happiness
RENU
January 21, 02:22congrats ragi,u succeeded dear
& my hearty wishes 2 u dear
நீ வெற்றி பெற்றதற்கு என்னுடைய மனப்பூர்வமான வாழ்த்துக்கள்
RENU
January 21, 02:24sry its ‘raji’ not ‘ragi’
Suni
January 21, 04:55I am very happy for you Raji . My love and support is with you . Congratulations again.
Jamuna
January 21, 05:28Valthukkal raji. . .
Harish
January 21, 05:30Superb. Kalakkiringa. . . Congrats
Neha
January 21, 05:32Raji Congratulation.
Neha
January 21, 05:34Neenga talent tha. . . Superb. .
Afreesh
January 21, 06:35Congratulations Raji…..
jose
January 21, 10:10congratulations….my best wishes raji
Apple
January 20, 19:31Than q suni didi for concern yaar
Geetha
January 20, 13:09Hi raji. Valthukal. Unga arivukum talentkum ellam nallathave nadukum.
Apple
January 20, 12:20Hai jamuna, yeh Apple yena inter 1st year ji
Apple
January 20, 12:02Hi suni,sj, afresh, janu,prsv,raji,renu,…all frenz.
Please help me yaar. Recently i had cmplted my project work on plastic polution. Now i want some quotations to give it a final touch. So u guys plz give me some quotes likely about saving environment from not being poluted. Plz help me guys
RENU
January 20, 12:53apple,i dont know whether it suits 2 ur project.but,m posting it dear
‘Plastic Pollution is Turning Parts of the Ocean into a Deadly Dump’
SJ
January 20, 15:29Hello hello everyone, Suni, Affresh, prsv, renu, rajji apple anonymous
Everyone hello
Suni
January 20, 16:00Hi Apple , there is one motto I know of with regards to pollution ,
The 3 R’s of reducing pollution are Reduce , Reuse and Recycle .
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So we should reduce our consumption , for example carry a reusable cloth bag to the supermarket rather than accepting plastic bags . Reuse what we can , such as jars and containers by giving them another purpose when empty , for example as a containment for beans or as a cash pan . And the last R , sort and recycle paper , glass and plastic and carry them to a recycle bin .
Suni
January 20, 16:02Hi SJ 🙂
Apple
January 20, 19:22Hi guys thank u so much for the replies. Have a glorious day ahead . Hope i can post my cmnts daily coz i am not sure as my happy holidays are cmpletd. So dont 4get me. Anytime if chance comes i would defintly be in the forum. LOVE U AND MISS U ALL GUYS. Suni,raji dont 4get to try my fb coz i told na my system wil not support to leave a cmnt here only my brothers. So there wil not be a chance 4 me to take his system in the working days hmmm ;-(
RENU
January 20, 08:29i know some of my friends wil be angry with me coz m posting tamil vms only.so,these 2 songs r my favorite hindi songs.i dont know film name n all.but i hope u all lyk it.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L00XUzqvtc8
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_aQbvn9ZZFE
Suni
January 20, 16:01Thank you Renu 🙂 .
Afreesh
January 20, 08:23Suni….your thoughts & questions respect to development of childhood is absolutely unanswerable. You are very correct on your points….yes, there are numerous factors associated on deciding the character of the child nevertheless of their positive or negative atmosphere. We can’t proclaim a definite methodology for every child, but we can categories them into a certain group. Pertain to Ansh, Yash’s methods are right, there is no doubt on it , but Ansh has followed Prashand’s method without questioning. Which is powerful???…. positive environment or genetics????….. although it’s equally powerful, Ansh decided to follow Yash’s advice…why???..c.the child experienced pure love from yash. Love is very powerful weapon than anything….all negative forces inside us can be eliminated through this weapon. Children can experience this positive force ‘LOVE’ without any obstacle . Yes, your statement is very true…elders are not willing practice love instead they are struggling for achieving negative elements like power, position, materials, etc… Once Papa S. was hardly wishing for united family despite of his stubborn decisions. Therefore, he was listening to his son’s explanations since the magic of paternal love relieved his negative force ego. But, this time ego dominated his positive source and not prevented by the right people at right time. However, he has the primary responsibility for safeguarding his GOOD side but Gayathri & the other sons are supposed to be blamed for not reaching his conscience.
I will come to the divorce matter now….
RENU
January 20, 08:49afreesh,u r ryt dear.pv is entirely diff 4m other serials.it has some responsibility 2 deal with some real life matters regarding second marriage.u know afreesh,my aunt(my maasi) got diverse 4m her husband n she live with him 4 just a week,wen i was 12 years old then afreesh.
after that,my grand parents failed 2 arrange 2nd marriage 4 her coz here we have fear about 2nd marriage ya.n now both of my grand parents passed away,..she is staying with my uncle(i mean my mom’s bro)n my mami is ill-treating her in many ways.my maasi is an educated lady.i talked with my mom 2 do sth but she too not showing any interest regarding this.the most imp thing is my maasi wants 2 remarry but all my kins r not understanding her n now she is crossing 40 ages ya.on seeing pv,my mind wil always think about my maasi only friends.
Afreesh
January 20, 10:00Suni….I remember someone commented ‘ divorce is not a happy choice but it is unavoidable sometime’ and then you commented ‘ divorce is an ugly issue’….I’m trying to make sense out of these two statements. Yes…Arthi is the victim of the first statement but she made it ugly later on. But, I don’t like to consider this matter as a complicated issue, because it became very common all over the world. Upto my understanding group of people are regretting for their hasty decisions & some of them endup with resentment. Is that remarriage system provides them the estimated support ???… it depends on each individual & their priority & their maturity to manage the relevant consequences.
If we keenly observe pv team didn’t dig on the ground respect to the cause of divorce, but provided enough information & scheme to attack that scenario with specific tools & techniques which is not followed by the society or the involved people. In the practical world children are the real sufferers belonging to divorced partner or widower. Unfortunately, the remarriage system didn’t find any proper solution to the welfare of the children. We should applause our pv team for focussing that point with highest preference. They have conveyed bravely & decently to consider remarriage for the welfare of their children despite of the individual desires and expectations. Here…. the very different individual were trying to fulfil their child needs rather than their desires, so they have committed mutually to take care of other partner’s child without partiality. This is the strong message to the parent who is marrying other parent. Once their highest priority attained it’s goal then they can drag on themselves to fulfil the requirements of the relationship.
Afreesh
January 20, 10:13Renu…..I feel very sorry for your aunt. Unfortunately, we have many cases like that infront of us which can’t be irreversible. That’s why we all are looking at this show passionately nevertheless of it’s shortcoming. We are somuch connected to each characterisation as if they are alive.
Suni
January 20, 10:39Afreesh , all this talk of divorce made me remember something my mother once told me . She sad that when she was in England and had me as a baby , and my father ill- treated her , my father’s father offered her money from his own pocket and told her to divorce his son . This is making me think about Shobha . God give us sight but we have to us foresight and hindsight to deal with situations . The older generation have a lot of hindsight and have experience to judge situations and people, in a way that we sometimes can’t understand given that we never saw what they saw .
You are very correct that individuals need to be mature when handling matters such as divorce . But this maturity needs support and is not an easy thing to hold on to given the emotions emanating from divorce . I remember how this brave strong Aarti wept and felt abandoned and had to face life alone .Shobha oly waivered from her position to save Prashant’s life , but she never really forgave him . Deep hurt is difficult to overcome .They could not recover that feeling of trust they previously had for him . They say that trust is like a broken mirror , you always see the crack no matter how hard you try to avoid seeing it .
It is difficult to maintain emotional balance during divorce . Who are the emotional supporters? What is their educational level,( education is not only limited to learning from school ) , what is their financial situation ? In this case Yash was placed in at a strategic disadvantage and could not get the best lawyer . How many children are involved , their ages and understanding of the situation . How can a mother or father handle their own emotions and that of their children and at the same time battle societal stigmas ? What sort of society is it , progressive ,regressive , supportive, or con-formative towards divorce ? . Lots of varying and mitigating circumstances surround real life divorce .
Suni
January 20, 10:45Renu , my mother never remarried . Our society doesn’t really look down on divorce too much especially as in recent times it has gotten more common . She never really faced that much societal pressure . I am so sorry to hear about the way they treat her , but that is only because of their lack of understanding and care and not because of what they see as her shortcoming . They should focus on developing their own minds and self before they cast aspersions on anyone . She has every right to wish for a better life for herself .
Afreesh
January 20, 11:22Suni…..I understand, why pv has decided to kill Prashand character quickly???…. why the audience are not ready to see his face irrespective of his reformation???…. because, we all wanted Arthi to move on without stucking on her past life. Most of us are not readily available to understand what is she going through???…
whenever the person is not ready to move on, then the remarriage has nothing to do with them. We have observed Arthi characterisation with exray eyes to understand the innermost reasons regarding the failure of her marriage. We don’t have any peculiar understanding for the cause of divorce, it can be impatience or abandonment or lack of love or anything. But, both the partners are equally responsible for the break of their marriage.
If we consider Arthi case….we have tried enough to find out the root cause of her inefficiency to reach or capture her man. We can’t blame entirely Arthi as well as Prashand. I’m wondering why shoba’s motherly love & Arthi’s pure love couldn’t reach Prashand’s evil side of the heart???….
Already I stated….Female should know to handle their man….Amaica said, women is the boss. Yes women is the boss not only now even at 1920… we have proven statements ‘ There is a women behind every man success’….medieval period, how the women handled their men???….nobody tried to rule their man instead they controlled them by their love….I think earlier system focussed on love rather than material. Otherwise, we wouldn’t be knowing the powerful writters Shakespeare & Kambar.
Technology development & materialistic growth has blinded human insights. We don’t have clear understanding of love. We don’t know who is right and who is wrong???…Then how can we become a boss???….
Why I couldn’t hate Prashand role as like as the way many of us doing???….I’m sympathized with that characterisation, because he had enough good souls around him but they couldn’t reach him why???
Suni
January 20, 18:15Afreesh , I sometimes wonder why we place so much pressure on ourselves . When we work or study we want to reach the highest level of success , we are seldom content . We compete with men and add to our stress . If we marry , we are torn between career and familial responsibilities . Guilt on on all sides . For in today’s world , both men and women often need to work to support the household . When women work , they are faced with the guilt of neglecting the children . When they stay at home, they have another form of guilt for not contributing to the household income or have regret , like Pari , for neglecting careers. No contentment despite modern advancement .
Afreesh , I don’t think that matters of the heart have ever been easy . Like you say , much has been written about the subject by learned men from centuries ago . What has changed with time Afreesh , is that women have found their voices . They no longer need to depend on a man for their bread and butter . They can work for their own Income and not settle for abuse if it occurs . Women before stayed in bad relationships because they had no other choice .
But Afreesh , this relatively new found independence of women , have demoralised the men and have threatened the male ego which can possess a need to feel superior . This depends greatly upon the males upbringing . Many men no longer see a damsel in distress , they see a woman who makes more money than they do themselves and a woman who can handle her own affairs . Chivalry went out the door almost completely after the feminist movement in the Western World .
Afreesh , I once went to the pharmacy , and I opened the door just as an elderly gentleman was about to exit . I held the door open for him but he refused to pass through . Instead he held the door and allowed me to enter . Afreesh , I saw embarrassment on his face at the thought of me holding the door for him ! It made me wonder why the younger men aren’t the same ? What changed from the old mans’s generation to now ? As women we want equality , but we may also want men to do what they always did for us .
There are gender issues yaar , that are being ignored by those in authority . The rise in crime against women is a very serious matter . Why are some men resorting to barbaric mentalities ? Why is divorce so common now ? Is it a failure in the education system ?A failure within society ? A lack of trust in the places of worship ? The technological advancement you mentioned ? Some people have everything money can buy , but no contentment .
Afreesh , you hesitate to blame only one side for divorce , but I don’t agree . Sometimes a person does the best they can , but meets failure . Sometimes the change of heart is only on one side . There is a difference between love and infatuation . Many confuse the two .
There are so many pressures on the family , so many distractions and some dont take time to be happy or appreciate their blessings .
Afreesh
January 21, 08:15Suni Good morning yaar…..♡♡♡♡♡♥♡♡♡♡♡♡
I know Suni….you will come up with those excellent thoughts. Perhaps, I didn’t continue the same topic just to make you to raise such questions. I can coordinate my views & your thoughts by connecting pv characterisation.
What is love or where is pure love???…..I can categories love as modern love & traditional love If we look at Arthi & Prashand, that’s the example of modern love. Who got attracted to each other and struggled to get married despite of status & other issues. Finally, entered into relationship with high expectations, later frustrated after knowing the real image of the partner. In their case, Arthi tried to rule him because she couldn’t surrender to the man who doesn’t have the qualities to respect or admire. As you stated, Prashand might’ve fedup to handle two mother simultaneously. The selfish decision had been taken by Prashand to breakup their relationship. Since Arthi has no other choice rather than pleading to him for the second chance. Now my question is who is the root cause of this breakup????….That’s why I hesitate to submit the sole responsibility to one person. I have to admit the fact, if Prashand didn’t face the rejection from Nida & critical illness, would he be able to regret for his distrust & deception????…
Furthermore, if we observe Yash & Arthi , we can conclude it’s a traditional love. She didn’t try to rule him instead started to obey him instantly. She loved him abundantly because of the huge respect & trust. Therefore, she tolerated his rudeness without complain and conquered him by her patience & deep love. Finally, she achieved him…..how???…he surrendered to her without hesitations. We named it as a blind love, but it’s not a blind love that’s the real meaning of love.
When we endure difficulties, we surrender to our Almighty whole heartedly. We do worship to God by love & surrendering ourselves. Love is also a kind of worship, Every religion appreciates to love & being loved, every inspirational authors encourage us to experience love. But how???….Is that possible for Arthi to love Prashand as like as Yash???…NO, it’s impossible. Why???….she can’t respect him because he isn’t a respectable man. So, the modern women Arthi wanted a traditional love but in a modern way. If not, she won’t be expecting yash to confess 3 words in spite of admitting his unsaid emotions. Here the complications starts, we want our man to rule us at the same time we demand equality. Who is confused???….the men or the women???
Modern love doesn’t have respect to women. It’s aiming is to achieve the loved one heart at any cost despite of that person willingness. Prashand didn’t feel shameful for forcing the female who is carrying the baby of another man. Although they have married, Yash hesitated to admire her beauty when she is not ready accept him as a partner. Already we noticed , he started to look at her straight away without any guilt as soon as she confessed her love towards him. That’s the beauty of the traditional love.
Henceforth,my question is….Is that the modern women Arthi respected his surrender???….why she used his blind trust for her favour???…
Suni
January 21, 20:18Afreesh , I blame Prashant solely for the divorce because he walked away and had forsaken the marriage vow . Marriage is supposed to be for better or worse . How can a man abandon his unborn baby ? What manner of beast is that ? He cared nothing if Ansh was dead or alive . Afreesh , I have lived with the knowledge , all my life , that my father never made any real effort to know or care if I was dead or alive . How bad could his parents have been to create him ? I have never told you the stories Afreesh , that my mother has told me . I think she was lucky to get away from him, and so was I . Better no father than that kind of father . When a man has no feelings for an extension on himself , then this points at a deep psychosis rather than a simple problem .
Afreesh , what were Aarti’s choices of a mate anyway ? We saw how the witch treated her , she couldn’t have been welcomed by many family’s given her past . I know that Aman had said that she had choices , but how many would have carried her home ? Why did Prashant choose her ? Was he looking for a pious girl that he could carry home to his mother ? Was it love ? The old actor who portrayed Prashant showed a somewhat aggressive , Impatient , heartless Prashant . When Aarti had him beaten for always being late to meet her , he did not like her methods But he put up with it after his complaint . Why did he marry Aarti ? When they showed the scene with Prashant with the towel and Aarti seeking his affection , he didn’t care to meet her needs , he wasn’t much bothered by her . When he met her at the temple , he couldn’t care less about her and Ansh . How did this man change completely into Yash’s friend ? It seems impractical to ever expect such change in real life . The people who saw him at his worse couldn’t accept him at his best . They had seen too much . Aarti had seen a real man in action , and in comparison , Prashant wasn’t husband or father material .
. Even if she had any love left in her heart for him , she had to make a wise choice for her future You are very correct to say that Prashant would have had no regrets without Nida’s rejection . The cancer ordeal also helped . I blame Shobha and Mr Dubey for not reaching their son . I blame them for not trying hard enough and for not knowing before, what they had created . They accepted Aarti as a daughter and probably had immense guilt for marriying him to an innocent girl like Aarti .
We had drawn a parallel once Afreesh , between Pari and Prashant . Both are their parents only child and used to all attention . Remember Pari being concerned only with her needs ? Remember Prashant always saying that Shobha loves Aarti only . Instead of they seeing the problems within themselves they saw the problem in others . You have to learn to handle the problems that God gives you , both their parents failed in their duties to produce adults that were acceptable within society . Pari learnt from the Schindia family and Aarti’s intervention , but who did Prashant have to learn from , he had no siblings , no in-laws , just preachy Shobha and no stance Mr Dubey . There was no one to direct him or save him , if the witch was an example of his relatives , then poor Aarti . Look how she treated Aarti , she humiliated her . Still Aarti begged to keep that going ! Seriously Afreesh , is any man worth going through all that ? But she endured , she begged to keep him ! Stupid woman, yes , but she did not forsake her vows . Prashant did that .
What always bothered me Afreesh , with regards to Yash and Aarti’s love., is that Aarti only looked at Yash differently after he had saved Ansh and after Prashant denounced Ansh . Until that point, I think that she still held hope for Prashant’s change of heart . I mentioned before that when she ran away , she ran to save her children . She did not care for herself nor for the man she supposedly loved . She herself was willing to break her vows and abandon her marriage . She returned to a changed Yash , who still denied loving her , but wanted to make the mother of his child happy . What did she have to hold on to with regards to Yash’s true love ? Yash proved his affection with Prashant’s help . Why did he need encouragement to recognise something that he should have felt for himself ? This Punar Vivah love doesn’t seem as strong as true love . Both Yash and Aarti seem to have come to a compromise and love grew as a result of the appreciation they had of each others characteristics . I didn’t see enough of the falling in love stage . They both told themselves that they were in love and accepted that premise . Yash’s love denial was strong enough to make Prashant doubt his love . Aarti was told by Gayatri to love Yash , she was encouraged by Vidhi and Pratheik to look for signs of love within her . Why couldn’t it be natural and not forced ?
The couple on Qubool hai , fight against falling in love . They are falling despite their better judgement . Aarti and Yash both used their better judgement and avoided falling for a while . How ?Better judgement stands no chance against true love . Asad and Zoya seem to have the traditional love you speak of . The type of love that enters your heart and creates chaos within and will eventually consume your entire being and erode all rational thought .
Afreesh
January 22, 08:05Good morning Suni….♥♡♥♡♥♡♥♡♥……
Sorry yaar….I know the reason behind your hatred feelings towards Prashand characterisation, but still I hurted you….yes Suni, seeing the victim is different than being a victim of the issue. I agree with your views yaar.
I’m also wondering yaar….this lady Arthi is confusing us very badly. Why she was thinking about him after her remarriage . Why she was loving the man who has rejected everyone including his parent. Then she was running behind that rogue comfortably to cure his disease although it’s for noble reason. That’s why I had concluded she might be guilty for not adjusting with his nature to continue their bond . Whether it’s the writters’ fault or they tried indirectly to convey some message???….I didn’t know.
Yes Suni….it’s seems like the surrounded people forced them to love each other. I also irritated from beginning why these idiots are forcing her (vidhi, prateik, shoba). Since we know they were loving each other subconsciously but never ready to admit their innermost desires. Is that the remarried couple hesitate to fall in love???…..we can’t compare azad & Zoya with them. Here a mother remarried to a father just for the welfare of their children despite of their own desires. It’s a kind of ego always disturbed them to feel shameful for admitting their wanderings. I have weird feelings for Arthi’s love but Yash’s love is pure & eternal. I don’t have any second opinion on my earlier discussions regarding yash’s stages of love. You said it rightly Suni , he is not able to move forward towards intimidate relationship due to Arthi’s unwillingness. Yash is a modern man who fond on traditional ethics.
We know they had exaggerated the scenes after Mumbai trip due to GC’s busy schedule. It was a total collapse to that characterisation. Somehow we summarized earlier the possible reasons behind his cruel activities. Pv team didn’t say yash is an angel, but he is a gentlemen that’s it…
Today’s episodes clearly stated Arthi is the best mother not a good wife. I sympathized for yash when she told him that she love her son more than him. This man who has left his family & welfare & readily available to carry her burden & loving her son as his own child, furthermore surrendered himself to her. Out of all, he resumed wonderful reward from this lady
Suni…I think PV wanted to convey indirectly the hidden flaws of a female through Arthi role. Now I feel like she couldn’t handle the BAD man as well as the GOOD man. She is just irritating me yaar….I don’t know why most of the female couldn’t accuse her for her lie & deception as like us.
Anonymous
January 22, 08:10Afreesh , I always wonder what makes me peek into the forum , just when you send your messages from all the way in the UAE to my part of the world . We may find explanations for everything on PV , but never this yaar ! . I am in the library and just had to check in . I will read and reply soon as I get time .
Suni
January 22, 09:37Afreesh , one thing is on my mind yaar . Aarti’s emotions are not in the order that her thinking brain would like it to be . Since Prashant’s return , I questioned Aarti’s anger towards Prashant . Anger is an emotion that stems from passion . Passion has a better place in love . After knowing all that she knew about Pradhant , Aarti should not have run to his side so easily to save his life . I remember SJ saying , put him in an ambulance and send him on his way . But the residual emotions that she harboured for the man ,could not allow her to see him in such danger . She forgot her present state as wife and bahoo and rushed as a wife would , directly to his side . I agree Afreesh , she did give him hope . I am not sure if the writers intended this , but I see what you are saying . Arti has already broken her vows with Yash , he also did the same with his dead wife worship . Yaar , there love seems secondary to their needs to fulfililling their duties as parents . I know you have faith in Yash’s love and saw his denial , but why did he have to hold back do much ? How was he able to hold back so much ? How strong is this type of love if it didn’t happen naturally ? They have mutual respect for eachother and know that their marriage originated as a marriage of convenience . But what occurs when one love is greater than the other ? You guess that Yash loves Aarti more than Aarti loves him . Maybe this is true . What if Aarti loved Prahant more than he loved her . He saw her love in retrospect rather than when he had it in front of him . For love to prosper ,in my opinion , it must be equal and pure on both sides . Afreesh I have seen women take advantage of a man’s love . What is the reason that women and men alike , cannot appreciate pure love , but seek passion as opposed to peace and contentment ? It points to some flaw in the human DNA . We are humans yes , but we are also considered the highest form of animals .
Afreesh don’t worry yaar , I know that you would never try to hurt me . I often wonder if I am woman enough to truly forgive my father if one day he asks for forgiveness . But him being the type of man I heard described , I don’t think that I will ever know , for such a situation will never occur . I am certainly not woman enough or fool enough to seek to ever contact him . That has to be his choice , not mine .
Afreesh
January 22, 11:14Suni…..I also would become busy at this week yaar. My uncle is coming tonight from Singapore, he would be staying here around 1 week. We will discuss on this forum until we feel okey . I will reply soon regarding Arthi’s weird behaviour. I should go to airport to receive him….
Suni
January 22, 11:27Ok yaar , take care and be safe .
RENU
January 20, 08:15see this link friends,it contains some of aarya scenes in which our yash pulling aarti’s pallu ya
http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=3398457
n another link contains some of aarti’s pics n aarya’s pics
http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=3398457
Suni
January 20, 09:05Thank you so much Renu 🙂
RENU
January 20, 08:05thank u,thank u,thank u,………..
neha,jose,jamuna,geetha,harish,….
1.i think,i have posted this vm already,but m posting tis again coz i lyk tis song(oru poyyavadhu soll).instead of romantic moments,tis vm has some strong scenes which suits 2 the song very much than original film song ya.(tis is only my view friends)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=HxfCoJId1oc
2.latest hit song 4m thupakki film (google google song)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TL4ofFV8d2Q
i hope u all enjoy it friends n tis is 2 all my tamil pv fans.
Afreesh
January 20, 07:24Suni….Sj….Good morning……♥♥♥♡♡♡♥♡♡♡♥♥♥
Sj….you are always explaining serious issues in your own humorous method yaar….yes, it seems like pv team doesn’t have any clear ideas to continue on the present track. Since they are stucking at TRP & other issues right now. I feel like they become blank & frozen. Perhaps, their frozen state has been delivered by the freezing game. I was expecting brilliant & informative arguments at court scene throughwhich people who are practically involved into this dilemma could get some solution to their problems. But they fooled us by their irrational method.
Anyways, your worries related to Arpita’s bangles is valid or not valid???…I don’t know.
I won’t complain them totally hence so many issues relevant to divorce issues has been conveyed bravely. But, everything is left as it is, never-ending….let’s wait and watch
Suni
January 20, 08:50Afreesh , Good Afternoon yaar . I know that you always say that I give the writers too much credit . I admit that I do sometimes . I always look for a deeper meaning within their plot , not in any way to give praise , but to satisfy my mind . I will never know what was their real intention , biut I gather a great deal from the subtle , easily overlooked things on this show .
I was wondering why the issue with Gayari’s knee was worked into the plot . Why her knee in the first place ? Then it occurred to my overanalysing self that Gaytri has a very weak stance against her husband . She is having problems carrying her own weight , how can she stand against her husband ? Look at how Prashant smashed the vase at Shobha’s feet . He was attacking the firm position that she had adopted against him .
Given that Vineet Raina knew that his stint on PV was short , I do not believe that they had any intention of getting into any sort of conflict resolution with regards to divorce .Amongst the audience members , we are probably in the minority, who sort total reformation for Prashant . What the writers did was to destroy the type of character that Prashant represents . The dogma attached to his thinking cannot live on in this society . A man cannot abandon his wife and unborn baby and parents and only seek their aid in times of need . Relationships must be maintained and sometimes only the very lucky and truly blessed are allowed a second chance .I also feel cheated . The story could have been handled better , we should have seen the circumstances that led to divorce , what made Prashant run 100 miles per hour out that door ? But again , what would the audience have felt for such a storyline ? They would have deemed it boring to watch , dragging . How many are willing to hear Prashant’s side ? Even when he was Yash’s friend many labelled him as bad . Raji pointed out smartly that you cannot regain trust when broken . Love often fails this test .
The court room scene wasn’t all that bad for me . I have learnt to appreciate even their apparent lunacy , because maybe my mind can be just as crazy as theirs at times . I saw the courtroom all dressed with cartoon characters and I understood . Here is a place where innocence should be preserved , kept alive and not be trampled upon . The images and symbolism are what I looked at . Prashant did what many men do in court . He presented a false image of himself but could not hide under the more intense tests upon his character . In a proper court, this would have been his cross examination .
In many holy books , I have also learnt to overlook the inconsistencies . I do not throw out the babe with the bath water . We look at the multi headed Rawan and saw that he couldn’t be destroyed , simply by removing his head . Ram had to aim for the heart . When we look at world issues ( yes Afreesh I cannot help but connect everything 🙂 ) we see similar problems . World leaders change but the same problems remain because the heart of the matter is never addressed . It is not what we see but how we see it . There are many ideas at play on PV . The next plot and challenge would be for Aarti to overcome the societal stigma attached to a divorced woman . Papa S is there to represent this strong unwaivering stance . Let us see how well Gayatri can stand on her weak knees .
Jamuna
January 20, 05:28Harish and neha. . . Ungaluku theriyuma intha site la punarvivah relate comment anupuravangala rompa nalla patichavangala irukanga nalla educated person la irukanga. Enaku therinthu
Renu- engg
Suni- degree
Sj-MD
Raji-Ph.D
Apple- engg
karthik- 4th std. .
Geetha akka- housewife
harish-degree
neha-engg
naan-degree
mathavangaluthu therila sorry
Very nice sinnathula iruntha peri aalungalum discuss panranga
ithula sj and raji athikama patichavangala irukanga. Punar vivah polave antha serial fans kalakkaranga. .
Geetha
January 20, 06:05Hi jamuna, ethavachi enna housewifenu sonna
jose
January 20, 07:03nan pv fan than but nan padikkave ella
Jamuna
January 20, 08:10Hi geetha, karthik amma name geetha avanga house wife avangala tha sonne.
Hi jose ungala pathi ethume enaku theriyathu so sollala.
Athu illana enaku therinchathatha sonnen theriyathathu ku sorry solliruken.
jose
January 20, 11:31sorry jamuna…..
Apple
January 20, 12:18Apple inter 1st year ji
Geetha
January 20, 13:01Hi jamuna. naan house wife than
RENU
January 20, 03:52afreesh,i think its not the fault of gurmeet r kratika
coz,during mumbai incident,they danced 4 a jai jai shiva shankara song without any hesitation.so,lyk neha said it may be due 2 storyline n after the end of prashant chapter,cv wil give attention 2 this part n now they r slightly improving their performance,i think so.
& i think,there wil be a huge drama 2 remove ‘ji’ 4m them n after that they wil show some good romantic scenes bw aarya.
til then we have 2 wait n let our finger crossed.
RENU
January 20, 03:27this is 2 all my tamil fans
(especially 2 raji)
வெற்றி என்பது ஒவ்வொரு முறையும் முதல் இடத்தைப் பெறுவது என்று பொருள் அன்று. வெற்றி பெற்றாய் என்றால் உன் செயல்பாடு சென்ற முறையை விட இம்முறை சிறப்பாக அமைந்துள்ளது என்று பொருள்.
have a nyc day friends
RENU
January 20, 03:37i mean punarvivah tamil fans
& my tamil friends
Neha
January 20, 04:59Superb. . . Arumaiya iruku.
Neha
January 20, 05:01I think raji busy. No reply.
Harish
January 20, 05:03Renu, this s wonderful lines.
Harish
January 20, 05:05Thank u renu, wish u too
Jamuna
January 20, 05:08Nice lines. . .
Jamuna
January 20, 05:09Comment
Harish
January 20, 05:12Hi neha jamuna renu raji
Neha
January 20, 05:14Hi harish, vanakkam
eppati irukinga. Punarvivah eppati pochu.
Geetha
January 20, 06:15Nalla iruku renu ungaloda thathuvam
jose
January 20, 06:55nice renu….
RENU
January 20, 03:11@neha:நேஹா, ரொம்ப நன்றி. நான் வேலூர்ல இருக்கேன்.
but neha,raji is a evergreen star in writing tamil cmts.its difficult 4 me 2 write tamil cmts in english dear.i mean thanglish cmts.so,m not trying 2 write tamil cmts in english.
but,i can understand ur tamil cmts as it is my mother tongue na.
if i want 2 write tamil cmts,then i wil write it in tamil itself.ok dear
RENU
January 20, 02:53@raji:எல்லாம் நன்மைக்கே ராஜி செல்லம் conference பற்றி கவலை படாதிங்க.
உன்னால் முடியாதது எதுவும் இல்லை
கடவுள் என்றும் உனக்கு துணை இருப்பார்
இது உன் தோழி ரேணுவின் நம்பிக்கை
Raji.trs
January 19, 22:37Hi Suni, Sj, Renu, Afreesh, Jose, Amica, Prsv, Apple, and all PV fans.
Gøød Mørning tø all. . .
Gød Døesnt Give Any Prøblem Away Frøm Ur Capacity,
If Yøu Have Any Prøblems, That Means Yøu Definitely Have The Capability Of Sølving It.
So Dønt Wørry Før Anything. . .
Neha
January 20, 01:44Dont fear, all the best raji. Nalla pannunga.
RENU
January 20, 03:14u r ryt raji n raji ur daily quotes r really nyc dear.
keep up tis good work chellam.
Suni
January 20, 09:07Thank you Raji , for sharing this . It is one of the principles that I have learnt to live by .
Apple
January 19, 20:17Guys hai nd have a bright coloured day with lots of fun nd joy. Have a jolly day. From urs lovely sweet apple
Raji.trs
January 19, 22:23Wht happens all guys are discuss only romance?
Suni
January 20, 09:08Thank you my sweet Apple 🙂 . My favourite fruit is mango , but on PV forum it is Apple .
Apple
January 20, 12:34Thank u suni didi . Oooohooo ek minute can i cal u didi nd i always hope to accept ur thoughts i mean our relation must go ahead to achieve success in direction as afreesh said plz help me in direction nd hope sj wil help me in costume designing if it comes true. Eagerly AWait until it comes true
Suni
January 20, 16:05Oh Apple you didn’t need to ask , I wish I had a little sister as cute as you 🙂 .
Apple
January 19, 20:08Hai afreesh dear, u had not understood me properly yaar. Hmmm . In the forum only i had expresd her that i love her vry much . Then how can u think that i wil run away leaving such a gud opurtunity . Ha ha ha its realy a vry funny question . As i am younger to suni sis i must take her advice. Nd sj also i know she is a vry gud costume designer. It would be realy my pleasure or my real luck in d life if it comes true. Ha ha ha dont think i like only these two i love all the pv fans nd forum members
Miss Kris
January 19, 19:13@Suni… Thanks for the reply, yeah I’ve been looking at PV from the beginning, was good so far. Until this question. But was wondering about this court case thing. Had to ask, you never know. That looks like a great idea to adopt, you know children friendly court rooms etc. should suggest that to the family court and hear their response to it. This is just a show, fiction anything is possible in these shows. The dead return, good turn bad, bad turns good etc.
Oh yea and since when was Ansh ever Prashant’s for him to be snatched away by Yash? Crazy idiot.
Suni
January 20, 16:12Yeah Miss Kris , where we are from some of these problems are not the norm . . But I think that some of the points are very relevant . Even where we come from there are fathers who behave like Papa S and men who act like Prashant . Wrong and Strong mentality . I know what you mean about the unrealistic at times aspect , but from our choices on Zee , I think that this show is top notch in comparison .
Anonymous
January 19, 18:00Yes true gurmeet is uncomfortable ,when u watch romance scenes between them u can see gurmeet face is serious there is no expression.bichari kritika she playing her role nicely.In interviews she talks freely,she is a nice person.
Anonymous
January 19, 17:53Geet was before marriage ,and punarvivah was after marriage that’s why. He is uncomfortable I think, only gurmeet uncomfortable not kritika .
Anonymous 1
January 19, 21:39I agree gurmeet is unconfertable but gurmmet is an acter should not be matter he is marride
Lot of tv and film acter are marride too. Somehow it seems gurmeet is not taking mc ntrest since his eyes are o Bollywood. He. A talented acter, should keep eyes on god opportunity
But shoud not ruin his immage too, realize kartia keep paying and spent to much time on
Diviam on set. Allthough gurmeet as not strong in court compare to Parsant but his act was very very good , expressive facial expression were wonderful. It is just both of them do not have any cemstry when it comes to little even natural cls scene. Kartika s a very very beautiful and a great person in real life she is not a Romantic person.when ever there are nterview with gurmeet ad kritia , she jump up n middle, never wait for her turn and say excuse
Everyone s a great acter but THS S THE REASN TRP IS DROPPING.
RENU
January 19, 14:40@afreesh:afreesh,u said that u didntt lyk aarya’s romance being watched by another couple hei na?
my little mind thinks this may be the reason tat yash is always feel a bit uncomfortable in doing romance with aarti.i cant get y 4 this behavior of him even after his love confession.
but 2day pv team making us 2 undertand that yash now feeling comfortable in romancing with aarti even in public.so,they may create this plot.but wat 2 u think dear?
Afreesh
January 19, 15:09Renu….I’m thinking why I couldn’t be touched with their romance eventhough they have improved their performance.
The other couple were looking natural comparing to our couple although they are not really on love according to the story. If you notice….when they were sitting nearer to each at the cafe, there was much distance between our couple but QH couple seated comfortably. Something is missing yaar…..I didn’t know, whether the director want this distance or Guru & kratika couldn’t handle each other.
And, this time Arthi was doing the hug properly , but not yash…
SJ
January 19, 17:04I feel gurmeet des not like much with kartia.soetime krita off scree talk to much, even when reporter ask n ash taking se does not ai nd cut the ther one ad started to speak.
Gurmet liked working with dhrasti he was much much comfortable doing intense scene with dhrasti. I do no t even a simple scene why ther chemistry not matching, they look very unnatural
Like Affresh said joys an asad were looking much more natural.
I do not think that us the reason like other couple are watching them, as a acter acter always souroundng with tons of peope, camera, crew, staff, makup artist dance nstructer ect
Yash and arthi Ra goidelic as a Jodi , both are excellent acter, some how , there I tence chemistry are nt coming together. See in bada aca laghtay hay ram and PRYA are od coupple and not even god looking and so much bed scene n ntence scene. Do not think yash is shy
To do intimate scene because you can see geet many time scene dd not needed close scene but doing close scene. Anyway.
In one orum they SUDESH acters are getting very high pad TRP does not matter
Parsant is going to die in PV, e will exit out yash will hit him in self defiance of ansh.
Neha
January 20, 02:01Naan kratika sengar naticha p2 and jansi rani serial pathu iruken athula kratika sengar romance scene supera natichu irukanga punarvivaah la antha alavuku illa. But kratika natikara character avanga nallatha panranga but GC Punarvivah la romance scene nalla pannalana athuku character tha karanam caze yash 1st half la love illa romance illama shy a irukara mathiri kovama irukara maathiri natichanga so athulanthu innum velila varalanu ninaikren atha romance sariya pannala.
RENU
January 19, 14:27suni,where is vidhi,pari,pankaj,prateek,…
as g3 n suraj came 2 court na,then y cant these ppl come 2 court atleast 2 see wats going on there.
oh now only m getting meaning of blind obedience coz no1 in tis world wil give respect 2 elders tis much.i mean we must obey elders but tis is too much yaar.even g3 n suraj came 2 court,..then wat is bothering this idiotic groups(vidhi,pari,prateek,pankaj)
i will leave vidhi-pankaj too but i cant leave tis prateek-pari friends.oh by ignoring aarya,pari is thinking that she is obeying rules n regulation of the family.is it ryt friends.on thinking deeply about these 2 idiots,m getting angry friends.
suni,sj,afreesh,tell me ur view regarding this ya
Suni
January 19, 16:53Renu , you raise very good points . This bunch has been silenced by Papa S . They have no strong voice and are followers , not leaders . Pankraj and Pratheik do not have a pair between them . They are weak . Vidhi is the perfect bahoo and Pari is laying low with a head full of her own troubles . There isn’t much strength in any of them right now . I am hoping that this changes soon .
RENU
January 19, 14:14suni,did u notice the hug scene of aarya in tis epi
coz,tis is the 1st tym they both hug properly with 2 hands. as b4 we can see they wil maintain a distance especially yash but in tis epi,i saw yash hugs aarti with both hands.though its an emotional hug but,it sounds good dear
n i think tis is the 1st hug of aarya n wat 2 u all think friends?
Suni
January 19, 16:57Yeah Renu , we have to celebrate every baby step in this romance . They look gorgeous as a couple , but I agree with Afreesh , they still need to seem more comfortable and give the gentle touch of reassurance that SJ speaks about .
Surendar rao
January 19, 14:09Hi raji, all the best… I love you. Plz u marry me..?
Neha
January 20, 01:362days before u say i love kratika sengar. And today u love raji. Ur love is Superb love. I think u r a 420…
Neha
January 20, 01:40Nee yenna manmathana yelathaiyum love panna. Nee kovam vara maathiri comedy pannatha..
RENU
January 19, 13:25@raji: உங்கள் conferenceஇல் வெற்றி பெற என்னுடைய மனமார்ந்த வாழ்த்துக்கள் தோழி raji
Raji.trs
January 19, 22:27Nantri renu.
Neha
January 20, 01:49Hi renu, neenga tamila naanum tamil tha.kovaila iruken nenga enga irukinga. Inga tamil comments paka happya iruku…
Neha
January 20, 01:51Tamil yeluthu supera iruku. Raji and neenga tamil comment nalla anupuringa.
Miss Kris
January 19, 13:16Does it really happen like that in real life in India where custody of children cases are being held? It is definitely not like that in Trinidad. Children are not allowed in the court house, except in very special circumstances and they go to the judges chambers where the judge asks who would they like to live with. But it is rarely done. It’s the first time I’m seeing this and I have seen my fair amount of divorce cases and fight over custody of children, but never in my life saw this type of setting before. Can someone please shed some light on this for me. How is it done in your country?
Suni
January 19, 13:28Miss Kris , forgive me for answering you , but I have learnt long ago to just accept this show for its entertainment value and its very great symbolism at times And of course GC . I know exactly what you mean about our court cases . I have serious doubts that any court operates in this way
When Prashant went for the BMT , it was a similar scenario . Very unrealistic . But even nerds watch science fiction , which is far worse than this in my estimation . Remember Young and the Restless . I think Victor was there when I was born on that screen and he still is !
Have you been watching PV from the beginning ?
RENU
January 19, 13:02suni,have u noticed 1 thing,4m where tis staircase came in shoba’s house coz til now i didnt see it in any epi except at aarya’s engagement but there too i didnt see the place as they shown in tis epi ya.clarify me dear
n suni,whether yash stays at shoba’s house & tel me y n wats the reason behind it.clarify my doubt yaar?
if yes means,y shoba didnt give a blanket 2 yash,who is sitting at stairs & feeling cold ya
Suni
January 19, 13:17Renu , I don’t know dear . They just stayed for the night to keep an eye on Ansh , but that is an interesting point with regards to whether or not they will remain at the Schindia mansion . Maybe Shobha wanted to give a blanket , but was afraid of Prashant . Your guess is as good as mine on these matters . Good observation about the staircase .
RENU
January 19, 13:58thanx suni,atleast they might have show shoba talking with yash 2 sleep n alot his room coz where he slept that n8 n m confused as yash sat on stairs is either watching prashant’s activities 2wards ansh r he simply sitting.then wats the use of yash being in shoba’s house if shoba-dubbeyji r there after aarya 2 take care ansh according 2 them
clarify me dear
RENU
January 19, 12:50friends,this court scene make me 2 remember my childhood thenali raman,mariyathai raman,pirpal,mulla stories.in which court,they r following tis type of justice.but,if we didnt see it as real lyf & remember tat it is just a serial,then we can enjoy it wholeheartedly.m i ryt na friends?
& tis prashant disgusted guy,how could u think that u won ansh’s custody by calling the little child as disgusted & throwing him on the floor.stone hearted person n u deserve it 4 wat u did.
Suni
January 19, 13:09Renu , I kept thinking that the lawyer looked like a character from this show I saw as a child . The Cheshire Cat on Alice in Wonderland . It was one crazy court room and like Afreesh said the outcome was just as crazy as when the doctors cured Prashant with a miracle . Yes Prashant was the worst that he has ever been so far, with that scene .
RENU
January 19, 13:50u r ryt suni,often pv team do this job by thinking that their viewers have no brain at all.but,wat 2 do we have little brain,..so,that we cant tolerate their stupidity suni
RENU
January 19, 12:30hai suni,raji,sj,afreesh,apple,prsv,amaica,my dear tamil friends(sry friends,i dont know ur names as i didnt cmt last 3 days) & all my friends
sorry yaar,i couldnt join u all due 2 my interview & my interview was good & m expecting fruitful result.so,tat i can attend my final round of interview next week r at end of tis month.
how r u all?
friends,4 1st tym m very angry as i missed pv.wen m watching seriously,pv will increase my tension but wen i missed any epi means,it wil be nyc wats tis yaar?
afreesh,if u dont mind,give me a post & i lyk 2 create more n more situations 4 our aarya as its a part of sj’s work but i want 2 be assistant 2 sj dear(if u have no objection dear sj & suni)
coz i imagined many situations in my mind 4 an ex,
1.i co-axed yash’s missing during neelum marriage issue with yash hatred behaviour with aarti after mumbai incident.
2.after entry of prashant n i didnt lyk 2 close prashant chapter friends coz he is needed 2 increase yash’s possessiveness 2wards aarti.but 1 thing i wil make him mad & aarya wil support each other by each n every prblm created by prashant.u know 1 thing friends,i imagined a scene of aarti as 9month pregnant lady & prashant hurting them & aarti have delivery pain n no1 in sparivar trying 2 help them.shall,i continue friends,….
wait wait wait,…friends,dont scold me yaar
actually,wat hei na friends,by watching pv my brain bcame friend 2 pv writers.so,my imagination too went lyk pv writers choice.wat 2 do yaar,hehehe,….
& have u all enjoyed friends?
Suni
January 19, 13:03Hi Renu , so good to hear from you . It is good to know that your interview is going well .
Well, I will fill you in before Afreesh appoints a post for you . It seems as though our head writer SJ , is out on a business trip , anyway , she is somewhere other than here at present . Our plan is to develop a low budget romance for this new impoverished , disinherited Yash . We are going simple with scenes of Arya running through fields and maybe a few hill sides as GC is a health freak . We will have simple complications , like what’s on the menu ? Where is Rmdulary ? Maybe even , I will suggest this to SJ , how to maintain family of 5 and 3 quarter on no money yaar . I suggested a Slumdog millionaire type miracle . Now I see room for Aman Afreesh , as the host of Who Wants to be a Millionaire 🙂 .
Renu , we planned a romance for Ramdulary , even future wife and kids . SJ has a great idea for a guest performance by Hrthik . Afreesh wanted help for a Prashant . So I suggested he fall off a cliff and get a forgetfulness disease , amnesia and never remember nor trouble Aarti again . Apple will get the butterflies for the kids to chase and plan their activity , while Aarti and Yash run through the field .
Renu this is our plan in a nutshell . Yes I am showing signs of cracking . Too much time with PV ! . Do you want to join our insanity ?or run for dear life ? Amaica , I feel that you are avoiding joining us . Please let us know you plans 🙂 .
RENU
January 19, 13:47thanx suni,dont mistake me dear coz if we didnt create any hatred behaviour bw aarya, then we cannot enjoy full romance bw them.so,its necessary 2 create some awkward moments bw them by making aarya 2 ignoring each other & by our situation they must be reunited unwillingly.but here we have full romance which we missed in screen.wat do u think suni?
Afreesh
January 19, 14:41Hi Renu….absolutely you have place in our pv unit. Take the place wherever you can suit yourself. No problem dear…. but the head of each department is Sj & Suni. You will get full support from them.
By the way, I appreciate your idea regarding prashand….yes I too don’t like to kill this character. Bring your creative writings regarding romance part….
Suni…..I agree with Aman entry….it sounds good & perfect to that cute guy….well done dear…good job…
Production has no problem on displaying handsome freaks of Bollywood every week….go-ahead
SJ
January 20, 01:44I do not av problem more the people more the Marries ! We all will welcome yo off course need permission from boss(Affresh ) lady
Apple
January 20, 12:52Hi renu too good to hear about ur interview. See renuji, Apple the fruity funny girl is saying that u would defnitly hear a fruitful news lyk my name about ur job. I wholeheartedly contribute my wishes to u. WISH U ALL THE BEST. Soon u would see the whole worlds happiness onhearing that fruitful news
Apple
January 20, 13:06Hi suni u had given me a vry big tough task for aman . Aman i can accept imran khan but y cant we encourage new guys like varun dhewan or siddarth malhotra we had already saw them in karan johars movie student of the year. Better we hav to take varun he is a vry big fan of our yash. I saw VARUN supporting GC in JDJ there only he said gurmeet bhayya i am big fan of u nd came here to see u