Punar Vivah 14th December 2012 Written Update
Punar Vivah 14th December 2012 Written Update by Rimjhim
Scene 1:
Location: Yash’s house
Seeing yash in a drunk, romantic mood, Vidhi and pari are amused whereas arti is confused and boggled. Yash says that he has something to say to arti. Vidhi takes pari out of the room with an excuse of some work in the kitchen. When arti offers to come along with them to help, vidhi tells her that they would manage in the kitchen, she should control the situation in here first as thats more important. Arti, looking at yash, smiles to herself in anticipation of whats to come. as yash approaches her, she is shy and awkward as to how to react. He gets her to face him and then is about to say what he wants to but is interrupted by persistent hiccups. An exasperated arti, gives him some water. while he drinks, she reprimands him for drinking so much when he being such a health freak, knows about the ill effects of drinking. She turns her face away from him, unable to contain her laughter any longer.
She gets busy arranging the pillows and the bedsheet while yash under the influence of lcohol is groggy and trying to compose himself sits on the sofa. seeing her busy with unnecessary stuff, he sarcastically tells her to change the curtains. She gives him a taste of his own medicine when she actually agrees to it and begins changing the curtains. he stops her to ask if she doesnt ever think about anything beyond pillow covers, bedsheets and curtains. arti pretends to know what he’s talking about and coems close to him. While he closes his eyes, she makes a serious face and apologizes for leaving the wet towel on the sofa when she knows how much he hates that. Yash irritated now, takes the towel and deliberately keeps it on the sofa, messes everything on the bed. arti asks him that he loves order and decorum in the house, then why messing up now. He says that he used to love not anymore since he has changed and because of her. He again comes upto her but trips on the way and is about to fall but arti catches him mid-air.
Outside yash’s room, pari and vidhi are trying to listen whats happening inside. they are confronted by their husbands who jokingly reprimand thm for eavesdropping on yash and arti. Vidhi says its because arti and yash have a unique love story, as they were parents first to each other’s kids, then became friends and finally lovers. Their spouses ask them to concentrate on their own love stories and while prateik takes pari away, vidhi goes with pankaj.
Inside the room, arti makes him lie on the bed. He says that what he has been trying to say is that…while arti waits in anticipation to hear the golden words, yash says that he loves how she manages their room so nicely and makes it look so beautiful. Resigning heerself to yash’s hesitation, she gets up but yash tells her to sit again and says that what he was trying to say was…again arti’s aniticipation build up, but he says that he loves the way she takes care of everybody in the family and that she is the best mom his kids could get. Frustrated now, but not showing it on the face, she asks him to doze off. While he closes his eyes, she takes off his shoes and pulls the sheet on him and is about to go, when yash holds her hand and makes her lie on top of him in mid sleep, and says that he thanks her for coming into his life. Arti is very happy to hear that and thinks to herself that what he couldnt express in words, his heart said it all. She wishes that this moment never ends and becomes the rest of her life.
Scene 2:
Location: yash’s house
Next morning, ansh gathers everybody in the drawing room and tells them about the latest acting reality show for kids, starting on zeetv and tells arti that since the first audition is in their city, bhopal he would definitely tke part in it and she would have to help him out. Everybody is excited to hear of this show and rti assures ansh that she would help him to get through the audition and get selected.
Scene 3:
Location: Prashant’s house
Prashant who is sleeping, feels the sunlight in his face, and seeing a dream, tells arti to close the curtains to keep the sulight from his eyes. Shobha, passing by from his room, hears him say this and comes inside. he is still murmuring arti’s name and telling her not to trouble him on a sunday morning. She spots a glass of water on the bedside and spills the water on him. He wakes up in a tizzy and still with his eyes closed, and in dream, reprimands arti for doing that and opens her eyes to face shobha. She tells him that when arti was with him, he never cared for her. But now that she’s happily settled in her married life, he’s thinking about her. He clarifies that he was watching a dream about her hence thee name calling. she asks him to remember that it was just a dream and not the reality of his life. That the arti who loved him, has no relation with him anymoreand that she is ahppily married with a loving husband and wonderful kids, so its better that he forgets about her and stops thinking about her even in his dreams. Saying so she leaves. The screen freezes on his troubled face.
Precap: yash apologizes arti for being drunk excessively last night and wants to know if he did or say anything to her, under the influence of alcohol that he shouldnt have. Arti maintains a stoical face all the while.
120 Comments
Srinija
December 15, 21:00Yes prsv i would like to agree with all ur cmnts . Specialy bond betwen paypal aarti. After debate again we saw their bond where aarti returned home after yash’s b’day as palak says her not to leave them n go n that’s oly her punishment right guys. Again now its the time 4 pv to raise bond between arthi and payalpalak it would help her when d truth revealed
prsv
December 15, 20:22hi afresh,suni and sj.thank u.
afresh,i am worrying about this since a long time.yes,ur really correct,yash proved his love for children.yash had a such a bond with anshu that,he once said that he cannot live without him.this point makes me fell relaxed,because when truth will be revealed his love for anshu and aarti,makes him to fight for them.but,bond between girls and aarti should be improved alot,so it may help aarti. when truth is revealed,there may be chance that family members too support aarti for the sake yash and girls.
suni,sometimes i fell ,i am unable express my views properly(may be due to my nature since my child hood).that why there is problem with me regarding sharing my views(mainly about this prashant).i think so the reson behind choosing aarti is,she is beautifull and intelligent and grown with modern attiude and idelogy(as she is not like vidhi as u guys disscussed)and she can manage both love and household duty.so she will be perfect with him and she also can please his mother unlike other modern girls.she is orphan,ther are no one behind aarti to support her,so he might have thougth he can keep himself above her(fourunately it had failed).he found himself being low and my be he got out of aarti due to her motherly love.WHEN I THINK OF HIM, I FELL HE IS VERY SMART ENOUGH,HE HAD HIS OWNS IDEAS MARRYING AARTI. U TOO MAY FELL SAME,IF U FELL WHAT I HAVE TOLD IS CORRECT. HE IS A VERY NICE PLAYER,I CAN SAY.
SJ,i am not saying there should be no villans(i too know there will be no storyline after that and show will end.)i am saying that the villans(maya and prashant)should be shown less as all fell irrited by showing them nearly 12 minutes and showing arya for 3-4min and 2 min for family conversations.then this serial will became just as telugu serial where all the time angtrons planning aganist progistrons and there will be no happiness in their life. then interest will be lost.i hope u understand me.
Amaica Devi Maharaj
December 15, 12:36Hi,SJ,Suni and Afreesh,
Thanks,Have a great day.
Amaica Devi Maharaj
December 15, 12:33Hi, Suni,Afreesh and SJ
Thanks for the warm welcome.
I am not used to sharing my views
openly,but Punar Vivah is unique.
My initial interest in the show was because
of Gumeet/Yash,when I saw him for the first time
in the Ramayana.I was totally amazed with his
performances.They could not have chosen a better
person to act the part of Lord Rama.He was perfect.
So really that’s how I got hooked on P.V. This show
is the most popular among the others in my country.
India is richly blessed in so many ways.I find the
people of India are so intelligent and beautiful,
The film industry need to show the world some new
faces like Gumeeth.He will bring in an abundant of
wealth to the country.We on this end love to see our
soap stars make in on the big screen.I know that I am
out of context here but I just got carried away.May be
because today is my birthday. All the best.
Afreesh
December 15, 12:43MANY MORE HAPPY RETURNS OF THE DAY…..HAPPY BIRTH DAY AMAICA…..
Suni
December 15, 12:45HAPPY , HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU !!! Listen carefully and I will sing the birthday song for you from where I live . I will pray that your birthday wishes are made true 🙂 .
You are not the only one that GC attracted to PV 🙂 . I was also drawn in by his somber , handsome face . He has such expression-able eyes . I longed longed to comfort him ., lol . Unfortunately I did not see him on the Ramayan .
Indian actors are the best , so versatile and good looking . Hollywood cannot compare .
Suni
December 15, 12:48Afreesh , another practical Sagittarius like yourself yaar :p .
Afreesh
December 15, 12:55Yeah….yes…yes….I didn’t notice yaar
SJ
December 15, 17:29Hi back to you , have a wonderful day
prsv
December 15, 12:22i have congrulated cvs for their excellent characterization.but this time i have somthing to complaint about them
they have excellent cast and storyline.they are just destroying it by bringing this prashant.
they should more concentrate on scences they make up.it sis not too good to show more about prashant issue.i can say that friday episode is PERFECT.it contained more arya secenes and conversation between brothers and their wife,a family secene(wher all family members are present)and only a little about prashant(i know it is necessary to show about).
I FELL THAT FOLLOWING SCENSE SHOULD BE THERE TO MAKE THE SHOW A PERFECT ONE.
* mainly the bond between palak,payal and aarti should be shown clearly(as i fell it is not strong as anshu-yash bond).
*family drama(sindhay’s not dubeys.) should be ther to work out sentiment(just like temple secen).
*conversation between brothers and sister in laws and with resepective husband and wife(for comic relive).as they shown on 13th december.
*paralle love track of pankaj and prateek with arya (may help it out. i hope so)
*prashant and dubeys,little(to run the story)
*they should avoid fb secencs of prashant and aarti.they better tell them in prashant words(as i fell irritated of fb park scene).
*last but not least, mainly about arya secens.i fell it is not necessary to tell it.as it handled perfectly.
SUNI,SJ,AFRESH,SOPHIA,SRINIJA AND ALL OTHERS WANT UR COMMENTS ABOUT MY VIEWS.PLEASE.
Afreesh
December 15, 12:53Yes… I too feel the bond between Arthi -Palak & payal not strong as like as yash & Ansh….As usual Arthi talks often that I’m their mother but not seen any touchy performances except debate competition . we didn’t see yash saying I’m his father even once, but he proved their bond with absolute actions
Suni
December 15, 12:57You have excellent ideas . I totally agree , especially on improving the relationship with Aarti and the girls . If only the PV writers would listen !!!
SJ
December 15, 19:45Jst think thre s no happily after. If no villaines no story line.
prsv
December 15, 11:51suni, i am not worried about dubeys.i am worried about arya. they might be happy celebrating it
Suni
December 15, 12:33Very true Prsv .
prsv
December 15, 11:49suni, i had said that prashant might have aatracted to aarti and i think he didnt love her really(as yash did),so he coldnt tolerate her more time.love never ends but attraction goes soon away when u have it for sometime. it might to be same in prashant case.
Suni
December 15, 12:32I agree Prsv , but I am curious as to why was Aarti his choice when he could attract other girls ? Was he trying to find a moralistic girl to please his mother and not himself ? He looked for the type of person Aarti was , he was willing to overlook her strong personality for this purpose .
prsv
December 15, 11:28oh i am sorry for late information,i did nt somebody had give this information already.
prsv
December 15, 11:27hi suni,sj,afresh,sophia and all others.i have a NEWS FOR ALL OF U.
aarti,yash and prashant plans for celebrating shobha and dubeji 30th anniversary.THE TRUTH MAY BE REVEALED AT THAT TIME.
i dont know, why this guys always destroys parties and turn their happiness to sadness
Suni
December 15, 11:48Thank you also Prsv for the info . I don’t have much sympathy if their anniversary gets ruined . They created the mess . If it blows up at their celebration it will only be poetic justice .
Anonymous
December 15, 11:22latest news tht dubey 30th aniversary wil be coming soon in tht day arti secret wil be revealed infront of yash
Suni
December 15, 11:46Thank you for the info . .
prsv
December 15, 11:17suni, i want give my opinion ragarding aarti falling for prashant and marrying him.
she was an orphan,with no one.they dont have people too close ones with her.such kind of people will be waiting for a person to look after them and to share their happiness,sorrows etc.if they find anyone talking as if they cares towards them,they definithly fall for them. in that moment they donot think what kind of person he is? they feel happy that atlast they got somrone in their life.i think aarti might have thougth in same manner. she may have thougt of changing him after marriage(as most of indian girls do).she might also thougth that in this way she can get a family.
it is known from prashant charachter, he too is so smart. he might have attracted by aarti at that time and by making use of her he weakness,he made her to fall for him and got her in the name of LOVE AND MAARIAGE.
Suni
December 15, 11:45Prsv , thank you for your good wishes , I am touched by everyone’s concern . You guys are all so precious .
I agree with all you say Prsv . Aarti would have been seeking the family she never had. Not just Indian girls , women almost everywhere seem to expect to be able to change a man after marriage . They say women marry men with the expectation of changing them but men expect women to remain the same . If we look at what both Prashant and Aarti remembers , we see that Prashant is tolerant of Aarti’s behaviour , he is able to forgive her for her rash behaviour because of her loving , kind nature towards him . I am curious to see what caused the decline of their marriage . Prashant could have chosen another girl for marriage if he disliked her attitude before . Even Yash called him a ladies man .
prsv
December 15, 11:02hi suni and sophia, now i happy that. i got time to comment. sophia ,i can understand u yaar.i too feel same.
suni,i wish and pray fo ur mother’s good health.
aadhil
December 15, 09:46sexy episode sooooo nice <3<3<3 AarYa keep going
Sophia
December 15, 09:42Hi suni,sj,afreesh.
Don’t get angered for my below comment on arya.i know u r great fans of them.
Arya jodi looks ok,good,so good but not exllent(i feel).and again debina-gc jodi is superb.i feel if arti becomes a bit slimer then they will b exllent.arti should concentrate on the shape of her hip.it looks good but not so good.n again pari’s is awesome.she is vry beautiful but not so atractive.n again arti is vry atractive.i luv her eyes.so cute.if arti works on her minus points then she will b like aboolywood heroine.coming to yash he hardly wore 6 pairs.n prasant just 4 pairs.so boring to c.
N u don’t worry that yash had not told those 3 words.i think so he will give a big surprise n then he will tell.though it is late it will b latest
Afreesh
December 15, 11:37Hi shophia… don’t worry you have every rights to share your views & thanks for your concerns towards our feelings….
We are not a blind fans of Arya… sometime our criticism cross the limits but the pv team always very kind with us and did necessary arrangements according to Sj’s wonderful suggestions…
You are right with Arthi & Paridhi look but I couldn’t accept your view about Guru & Debina pair….. very sorry…. she might be is a wonderful wife for him, but they are not attractive pair.
And for my eyes nobody matching with Gurumeet…. I have seen some clips from Geet though I’m not ready to accept Drasti too
If you keenly observe, there is no couple in the television making us disturbed by their closure as like as ARYA…. at this point this Jodi standing firmly with their fans’ heart
I agree they need to be more concern about Arthi’s costume… this is what SJ always remain them but seldom they forget to follow…..what to do????…. we can’t beat them
Suni
December 15, 12:07Hi Sophia , good to hear from you . SJ has also been a strong advocate for changing Aarti’s appearance . It is good to have another person who wants the actors to look their best .
Sorry dear , I agree with Afreesh on the Debina Jodi . They do not seem compatible to me nor do they appear as a beautiful couple . It is GC’s choice however and he seems deeply in love with her . All that matters really ….
SJ
December 15, 17:58Hello hello I do not agree about yash and Arthis Jodi. Ths show is punarvivah show, not on love base show, GEET was very immature love. This show arthi and yash have children
Did n av ver much choice so could marry to their choice of partners.
Arthi’s hips are fine her shoulder and part of upper body is big, reason is she is very support oriented, she swim des not care she will become or have big muscles. He did JKR over two year, she dd horse riding and did swords. That is why sh become broad on her upper area
She. Is very tall can not wear heals front Of yash . She has very attractive personality
Very modern face , if they change her wardrobe and to simple makeup not every day to much jewellry , the outfit she wears in he show are like bhabhi kind, little too old fashion hw about ash outfit.he look to old in those hair and shirts,
Suni
December 15, 18:36Well said SJ . You have great points . Sophia is just 13 , she is observing well and figuring out what she likes and dislikes about the characters . Her intentions are good , she wants the actors to look their best . SJ , she can learn a lot from you, yaar .
SJ
December 15, 19:54Suni you are so cute some time , you and Affresh give me too much credit when I do not deserve. You guys go n so much detail I do to but somtime I try to look as fun kind too
Otherwise can nt concentrate , and e mad on friends , generally it s not me. But you know
I av s many flaws trying to improve
Please do not mind if I say something wrong
Srinija
December 15, 09:32Hai suni dear, afreesh’s cmnt had opened my eyes telling that love need not be xpresed in words i agree with it now yaar nice comment afreesh. Suni how is ur health
Suni
December 15, 10:03I am fine dear thank . My mom isn’t well , but she is coping for the while , thank you .
Afreesh
December 15, 11:42Hi Srinija….Are you from India?….pls don’t say you are studying at school…..
ani
December 15, 00:50thanks for da picture. have a nice episode
Amaica Devi Maharaj
December 14, 18:59Very interesting episode.
Excellent performances by the
P.V team.Happy extended family.
Afreesh, Suni and S,J. are doing
a great job.Keep up the good work.
SJ
December 14, 19:22Thank you Amacia , nice to hear when get nice comment
Suni
December 14, 21:30Thank you Amaica , you have great views on PV as well , please continue to express them . Your last name is very popular in my part of the world .
arti
December 15, 01:22hi,it very interesting romance of b/w yash & arti.
Afreesh
December 15, 03:02Thank you Amaica…. yes…. we welcome your views….
Hey…I think you are the one said ‘Arthi is playing with her blessings ‘
Me and Suni did big debate on this title ….Thank you once again for that title yaar….
Suni
December 15, 05:06Yes Afreesh , she was 🙂 . Amaica thank you dear , you gave me more reason to debate with Afreesh , lol . Much appreciated .
Afreesh
December 14, 15:21Yes…love is to be expressed by heart not by words. Love is beyond language…. no words can express it clearly than the inner voice. I enjoyed yash’s love war simultaneously I have no complaints for not saying ILU that too drunkenly.
Then Sj will name it Alcohol love…..isn’t it Sj???….
Suni….we didn’t observe yesterday’s dialogue properly….yash said constantly Arthi is an unique female without accepting his brothers’ blabbering he was firmly standing on that point.
Yes….he admitted indirectly that she is best than Arpita….( remembering our question how much he love Arthi more than Arpita or less than)
Finally, shoba found prashand’s sick thoughts….may be writters fedup with Sj complaint regarding the best sasuma award.
Suni… one more point to be noticed…why he want Arthi to start things from her side????…. ( again it remained me our discussions when yash closed his eyes while she came near to him….I couldn’t control my laugh)
Anyway I’m going to sleep with good mood…..
Good evening suni ♡♡♡♡♡♡
Good morning Sj ♡♡♡♡♡♡
SJ
December 14, 19:53No Afreesh you can not go to sleep without knowing my views on your comment.
In my comment I said thank god arthi s pragnent with Bhang baby , if she was not than it will be alcholal baby but yash will not go banana this time because he loves her. Well we all know that was alcholal effect but his love is real. In Mumbai he did not want to happned that but Arthis love was pure in Mumbai because she started to love yash.
Plain and simple , arthi should tell the truth , right now she has 3 rd BM that is why sh des not want to tell ash he truth, next ime something else will come, she should know she s walking on edge, she is preaching how about saving her lve nd her marriage saving to family and hybb who adore her and will get hurt knowing from someone else eventually it will happned the way Parsant intersecting with arthi one after the other it will not take long to come out the truth but I this writter will take their time in between they will show little little romantic. Scenes
To gvive audience what they want to. I have two concern
1 is if yash find out he should sand by arthi and support her, even if he has to go against his family
2. arth should not ever ever think to go back to Parsant and should suspect Parsant and hs father n aw ntention. If arthi go back to Parsant, she will be hurting so many lives ,and I feel gross, she will be such a ad immage to all the woman
I do not kn how to say it
Suni
December 14, 21:16Lollollol !! Drunk Yash had me in stitches today !! He almost killed me when he said go change the curtains and started messing up the place ! Aarti handled him well ( not the way I would have recommended however 😉 ) . I just loved the way Aarti was lying on his chest , listening to but ,what his heart yearns to express out loud . Afreesh , a light bulb moment for Aarti yaar! Does she still need to hear those 3 magic words ? Maybe she does ….it is Aarti afterall . These two are meant for eachother , perfect lunatics 🙂 . I trust that their love would survive it’s challenges , but of-course the writers must veer off course for some time yet ; only to torture us .
Afreesh , great point , he did indeed emphasize that Aarti is a different type of woman . He is also a different type of man . GC is such a versatile actor . Yash has a one track mind even when he is drunk . His mission was to say I love you and he tried so humorously to succeed in his mission . Yes Afreesh , the way he expressed his love spoke with more clarity and emotion than if he had simply blurted it out .
SJ , Prashant looks more and more like a hobo with each passing day . I would like to plead for a clean cut , well dressed antagonist . If he is going to be bad , please , at least let him look good . I am not worried that Aarti will ever willingly return to Prashant . I am prone to believe that Yash will understand Aarti’s dilemma . I am worried though that he may doubt the sincerity of her love for him. Afreesh you are correct , he also seems to yearn for reassurance from Aarti .
Yash is only just crawling out of his shell and enjoying his blossoming romance . He might immediately crawl back in and do the selfless crap !! We heard it being rumored that he may attempt to reunite Aarti with Prashant . My hope is your hope , GC loves doing fighting scenes . I wouldn’t mind seeing a boxing match between Yash and Prashant . They show us most scenes more than once anyways , why not Yash pounding Prashant ???
Suni
December 14, 21:35Afreesh , I forgot to say Good morning yaar 🙂 . SJ and I are usually on the same time , except now when there is day light savings time and SJ’s time is 1 hour behind my own ; until March I believe .
SJ
December 14, 22:50Suni how mom is doing , are you being a good aught er
Suni agreed agreed agreed,
I like curtain part , that was hilarious arthi said o I will change the curtain yash allmost died
You know that pink towel make me sick , from 11 month they ave the same towel , on their frist night mob mistake arthi put it on a chair yash got up and took he towel and put in bathroom.thst towel have very rough surface I d no know how to say it, it looks like towel have si many blisters
I like Vidhi and pari listening arthi and yash, the way Vidhi was standing was so cute
Yash hic up did look lik real hic up.
Parsant will not look nice without beard they should trim his beard finely and nicely, he look like he just came from prison ,. Vineet Raina is his close to 40s he is KASHMERI and a very god looking one, he is divorce in hs real life too. Without beard he will look too old
I made u and Affresh laugh on this Bhang baby. Be kind on Parsant , you want yash shoud beat him n boxing ring, I want too but , poor Parsant, have cough, cancer and having BMT , yash will hit him once he will say good bye to us. And than arthi will be keep running to Parsant will be cring oh,,, yash jee ya appanay kya Kia. Yay apany kya Kia , Parsant Parsant get up get up
He does not go to wrk in no all the time in ash house or sanding in a park, his wallet te is fully money o arthi I will never leave you alone.
Suni
December 15, 05:01Yes SJ , I am doing the best I can . For the while she is ok , some pain , but she is lucid and able to move about . I take every day as it comes and appreciate every moment . Thank you .
I disagree , Yash would not kill Prashant in the ring . Prashant is a survivor and there are excellent doctors on PV to cure him . I will give a little and hope it comes in a dream sequence .
SJ you are so very observant and funny . I did not even think about the towel , but you are very correct . They do not pay much attention to such detail on the PV set .
I often wonder why women divorce such handsome men as Vineet in real life . Vineet’s personality appears so nice off air. I guess what wasn’t meant to be can never last . Marriage is very complicated .
Yes , Prashant’s funds are yet unexplained . It makes me wonder if he has some interest in Yash’s wealth . I question how much he claims to love Aarti , he isn’t even asking or thinking about Ansh anymore . His attempt to get Aarti back means he holds no regard for Yash’s friendship .He sensed a weakness in Aarti’s relationship and he was ready to pounce . I hope he has genuine regrets and eventually he realizes his mistakes and stops harbouring ridiculous expectations.
SJ , you have begged Aarti to get the bangles back . How come no one ,not even Bhua , missed them ? Still no doctor’s visit for Aarti . Prashant’s doctor may call for the BMT when Ansh goes for the audition . Yash continues to withhold information from Pratheik . Bhua is going to whip out her spy gear and dig up some dirt on Pari . Will Pari trade her info on Aarti for Bhua’s silence ? Yash has many unexplained occurrences floating around unprocessed in his thoughts . The mechanic’s words , Aarti throwing Prashant’s watch and her anger towards him, the ugly blue scarf . Aarti doesn’t seem eager to speak the truth . Poor Yash will be left to assume the worst .
Afreesh
December 15, 06:03Suni & Sj…. you guys are much interested on Prashand appeal more than Arthi….(ha…ha..ha..)
Why that blue muffler bothering you ???… atleast try to make out the motive of the writters yaar..perhaps, they might be knowing that we have soft corner for that handsome man instead of hatred feelings…what to do???… they should play with his costume !!!!!
Sj….I understood your concept on bhang baby & Alcohol baby…..but I conveyed, if yash said ilu to Arthi then you will make name for that LOVE CONFESSION as alcohol love….and your worst migraines bothered me a lot yaar… please you try with facial steamer atleast once because me too got this advice from a migraines patients only.
Suni
December 15, 06:22Afreesh , the colour of it bothered me . Why blue ? Aarti wore a blue saree . You know I always look for symbolism . He seemed to still be holding to a ” piece of ” Aarti . It also alerted Yash to try to make a connection to Prashant . Quite significant for an awfully ugly muffler yaar .
I feel as though Aarti feels some sort of obligation or guilt about moving on and marrying Yash . She was Prashant’s wife before and she is being fooled by his present persona and his illness . She doesn’t actually hate the man , or he would have been thrown out the door with a bottle of water . She has to sort out her feelings . Prashant is still in control of her sympathy towards him . He is using her kindness against her as a weapon .
It was wonderful to see the physical contact being appreciated and welcomed by Yash . Aarti is progressively becoming more comfortable being his wife . She checked his eye when he stood on the road , she silenced him when they were on their mission and she willingly lay down on Yash’s chest . Positive changes for their marriage .
Afreesh
December 15, 09:37Suni….present episodes proves that our analysis regarding Arya’s relationship was almost correct. The main obstacle on their relationship was unwillingness to take their right from each other & they didn’t have any demand from each other. He didn’t think she is mine as well she didn’t think he is mine….why? We discussed enough about it….Prashand’s sick mind was motivated by this point, because that possessive nature is the basement of any married couple.
We can compare prateik & Paridhi with Arthi & Prashand to get clear picture of their divorce reason (they might’ve married at this age). Why Paridhi loved him??? Handsome man with good values and very adjusting personality & he would never interfere with her carefree nature & she can lead him throughout her life as like as her mum does with her dad. Nevertheless of her expectations she was forced to accept the new aspects of the relationship & she shocked to see Prateik’s weakness & his priorities on life. She didn’t want him as a perfect cook or an aimless man. Obviously , There is no wrong in her point but her approach was aggressive. If she didn’t get her tough lessons she might’ve ended with divorce. Similarly, Prashand attracted to Arthi by her beauty & cleverness etc…but her strong & dominated personality & over confidence & her different aspects on life threatened him. They might’ve fought with each other & strongly opposed other’s perspectives. Finally, he escaped from her by the name of new affair…. why Arthi couldn’t make him happy?? Or why couldn’t she respect him???… nobody can force someone to respect them…. it’s a natural flow of feelings, unless the person is respectable we can’t respect them. Prashand is a complete selfish man with low values of life but Arthi is just opposite to his nature…how could she respect him as she did with yash. So, she started her mission to change him with her strict motherly approach & lost him. Finally, she got her message that was the wrong approach & begged him to give her another chance but he refused. (Yesterday’s episode proved my view when shoba threw the class water on his face he made it clear that was the normal incident used to happen with Arthi)…
I don’t think Arthi is expecting yash to say I love u for revealing the truth. It’s something else we need to dig out that point. I couldn’t accept Arthi’s love with Prashand was just lust…may be it’s not valuable but she gave him nurtured motherly love & care which was rejected by him…
Who is Arthi???… if we find out that we can answer her tenderness towards prashand… let me start that title
Suni
December 15, 10:32Afreesh , something is on my mind . Look at what both Aarti and Prashant remembers . Only the early days before marriage , they were not the perfect personality match , but few couples are . Prashant had a good job then , he was angered by Aarti’s prank to have him beaten , but he forgave her . I wonder what changed ? If Aarti truly loved him and and cared for him , what made him fall out of love with her . He knew she was a strong personality , but made her his wife nonetheless .
You are very correct that Shobha gave us a great clue yesterday . I remember when Prashant was pronounced dead by Shobha . Prashant said that he didn’t wish for anyone to have them as parents . Now that Aarti is in a different household her attitude has changed . However she is still a strong minded , dominant figure to Yash . She often makes her views clear , she even teases and jokes with him . Yash doesn’t mind . Prashant even appreciates the changed Aarti despite her arrogance .
Can you imagine Gayatri doing what Shobha did with Prashant ? I don’t think that her sons can do any wrong in her eyes . What was the flaw in the parenting of Prashant that made him into such a manipulative , disobedient, disloyal son ? He never even visited them when they were ill . I don’t believe that even now , after all they have done for him , that he would heed Shobha’s warnings . I suspect that he holds some deep resentment for his mother’s role in the decline of his marriage .
Afreesh
December 15, 12:03Suni…..my purpose of comparing Paridhi & Prashand to come out with some logical views….
They both are only child of their family… they get their wishes fulfilled at once. They might not be controlled or pushed towards their parent’s wish. Basically, both of them are blessed child but misused their blessings & practised to be a self-centered personalities… why he didn’t consider his parent’s problem???.. he was influenced by the second wife
Suni
December 15, 12:16Afreesh do you remember when Pari made Prathik pinch her so that she would cry for being separated from her parents ? You are correct to compare these two . However I wouldn’t blame the child for being spoilt by the parent . Adults have certain responsibilities to ensure that children are well balanced . I remember we had a discussion once , I believe with Sophia and Prsv about moulding the tree while it is young . Difficult thing to do when it is all bent out of shape . Remember Ansh’s attitude when he entered Schindia house ? He would have become like Prashant without Yash and his family .
Afreesh
December 15, 13:15Absolutely true Suni…. Ansh is a very brilliant & lovable child but Xerox copy of Prashand…. yash’s influence made him to become a wonderful child. I think yash ‘s longiness for a baby boy was fulfilled by Ansh. Their bond is something wonderful apart from scenes….very touchy
I couldn’t blame Arthi at the earlier episodes for not revealing the truth by considering their strong bond (Yash & Ansh)
You know Suni…I’m cooling myself to be away from my hatred energy regarding that lie….& trying to balance myself to start the new title…..but I’m delaying….I don’t know why????…
Suni
December 15, 13:34Maybe because it is very difficult for you to accept that aspect of Aarti’s character . You are going against your better judgement . Her ability to delay the revealation of something so important that can deeply hurt her love Yash is frustrating . The fact that she isn’t as strong as you would like her to be , but is currently a slave to others who do not seem to have her best interest at heart . She should simply know better given the fact that this is her second chance . Her new beginning with no place for keeping skeletons in the closet .
Suni
December 15, 13:37But she is also only human Afreesh , the blessed amongst stumble, but never fall completely along our journey .
Afreesh
December 15, 15:49Yes Suni….I’m ready now…. I think you will be surprised to see my honest comments regarding Arthi….let me start
Arthi is a blessed women who possessed with infinite qualities. The qualities of her strong nature & determination & the energy & the power & the confidence & the bravery can’t do anything with the homely personality . She never afraid to undertake any dangerous task in her life. She is not a good follower but a leader, hot headed never mind about the world’s views and listening to only her heart. She is much interested on revolutionary thoughts than the worldwide thought. Her visions are broad & well balanced person. Her presence of mind & cleverness are the charming feature of her nature as well as the secret formula of her success. She can make anyone to accept her as their role model & very admirable personality to a female but frightening personality to a male. she Is Kind hearted, selfless natured, very honest to her heart & straight forward to people. She is self starter, quick learner, very talented & very humble person.
When she entered at Prashand’s house she might’ve appreciated by shoba better than her son. Even Prashand’s loss didn’t affect her inner personality but the rejection shaked her self-confidence & challenged her self esteem & bothered her mind & injured her heart. Finally she endup with over confidence & impatient & manly natured female. She closed her emotions & started to live only for Ansh… nothing was visible to her infront of Ansh
Yash presence in her life nothing did with her instantly. First-time she had seen a different man in her life at their FN. That was the moment she started to listen to someone without their demand or a word. It was a pure chemical change happened automatically by the presence of the man who has the power to control her feminine. She has been attracted towards him subconsciously and never realised. She couldn’t able to accept their traditional views and tried to say her opinion openly and slapped by them nicely.
Before her second entry to yash house her strong mind made a commitment to herself that I should win the race. Henceforth, she made herself flexible to adjust with their traditional views but not accepted their views. As per the commitment she involved herself with riskful task… palak’s birthday party was the one of the dangerous risk she took despite of shoba’s advice & her continued attempts made her to win on her task… once she achieved the heart of the children & the family then she tried her next attempt to make him happy.
Although three of them (vidhi, shoba, prateik) tried their best, she understood her feelings only she lost him
Suni I will continue tomorrow…..it’s too late
Suni
December 15, 16:16Brilliant character sketch Afreesh ! I am not surprised . I know that you see Aarti as a remarkable individual . I know that it makes you angry to see her being unlike herself . With all the powerful attributes she possesses she should not have gotten herself into this crisis .
But Afreesh , her life was moving at an quiet pace before . She had given up on dreams for herself and lived only for Ansh . It was as though she was moved from a world of complacency and acceptance into one of change and challenge . Everything landed on her with such great speed . If she didn’t make mistakes , she would be non -human . But each challenge provided an opportunity for her personal growth and each she conquered except this lie .
The greatest of all her challenges ; this lie brought into her life , all that she has now , and it can also take everything away . One tragic flaw could bring her to her knees with regret , and dismiss everything she arduously sought, in her pursuit of happiness . Let us trust in the power of true love to forgive .
SJ
December 15, 20:21Suni Affresh , no no guys please don’t fight , if you gonna fight what gonna happned to me
I think we all can wrt a PHD on PV. We should open an PV consulting agency, advise or who ever wants to e marry.
Such a rough day today , try to laugh a little. Read some jokes and funy saying my friend sent me.
By the way where did yu find out about shoba’ s 30th anniversary
SJ
December 15, 22:46Affresh because yash is in lve do not have courage to say it , than the baby ame shoud be
Ayu romantic moment yash sinthia. Not alcholal love, think you and Suni are the master in analysts
Afreesh
December 16, 02:21Sj….you are impossible yaar…. I know… we can set up PV consultancy…. sometimes I wonder what is going on with us. But I understand our subconscious mind is trying to resolve something from these characters. Actually, we are trying to understand the people around us through this characterisation. I hope our attempts may provide more clarity to our world views
Afreesh
December 16, 03:36Yes Suni…I continue now….
As soon as she realised her feelings with the melted heart, the mind alarmed her not to fall by hearing Arpita’s name from yash mouth. Hence, she accepted him as he was without any complaint and never tried to change his illusions because she didn’t find any wrong on his feelings and made herself happy just by his presence & showered him with love & care. When she got the opportunity through palak (Mumbai trip) she decided to utilize that trip for his favour. But the atmosphere & the privacy & his presence & his warm support & affection abruptly attacked her heart & she lost her self control & forgot the reality and enjoyed her days as like as teenager. Unknowingly, she risked her life by absent mind & Aman’s company.
She jerked by yash’s rudeness but never ready to give up her marriage for unknown reason & tried her best for reasoning finally decided to leave him for sometime as long as she found the reason behind his arrogance and solved it later by her spirit & energy. Simultaneously, she assured to herself not to interfere with his emotions and decided to leave him according to his wIsh. When she threatened for the life of unborn baby, she became ready to give up everything with a little hope of reunion and later overwhelmed by yash’s changes and again started to enjoy her life without much expectations or demand. All these days Prashand’s truth didn’t bother her since she trapped her mind & truthful heart by shoba’s advice. Prashand’s entry threatened her & She wanted to tell the truth to yash for the sake of safeguarding her marriage but the situations didn’t help her. Later stage, her strong mind & her unique personality adviced what she is doing is right upto her world view & dharma. She took the risk without much worries of consequences….
Suni I will continue latter….
Afreesh
December 16, 06:54Yes…I continue…..
Upto her thoughts…she is not doing any wrong or sin, she is just saving a person from the death. She might’ve convinced by her broad vision that Prashand has the right to take BM donation from Ansh as being his biological father. But, she worried about the long standing lie & the sequence of lies but never think she is doing wrong like Paridhi because she can’t refuse the fact that Prashand is her exhusband & there is no harm to help him as long as her intentions are pure. When the whole family out side, she didn’t have any problem to open the door with Prashand while they were knocking the door.
Why she couldn’t think ???…. she didn’t do any wrong according to her.
Why she advice to Paridhi???…. she did sin & need to get apologized
What about her???…. she is doing a great help not mistake & she has the confidence that she can pacify her husband later on
Why her Bp disturbed whenever Prashand enter to yash’s house ?????…. her clever mind warns to her blind belief that the things are not easy as like as she think. Finally, she get stressed & become panic for a while
I don’t think she have guilty feelings towards her remarriage…. but she is guilty for declaring him as dead. And she Is neither have any attraction on him nor sympathy for his loneliness. But she hesitate to be aggressive with him due to courtesy.
Suni… if we match this thoughts with Arthi attitudes then everything looks sensible otherwise it’s ridiculous to advice for someone who is facing the similar problem????. And locking the door with exhusband?????…and going on car with him at late night????…it’s ugly yaar
I said already her thoughts are outstanding & revolutionary….she never mind about world view (including yash & scindhiya family)…. she tried her best to adjust with them for saving her marriage but she can’t accept their traditional mind. Ultimately, she changed them gradually towards her path.
Why she didn’t try to change yash??? she felt….He is a flawless man with modern thoughts & good values. So, willingly she changed herself according to his tunes without any demand from him.
How about yash???… As Prashand said he accepted her with thorns… he didn’t demand any thing from her and influenced by her admirable attributes. The perfect & pure man yash scindhiya started to react softly with the lies & deceits just because of Arthi. Now, he is holding the view that there shouldn’t be a lie between husband & wife.
How much she is influential????….OMG….
Afreesh
December 16, 07:18Suni….there is no much differences between Paridhi & Arthi only the approach is different. You might’ve got the point why I complained about Arthi???….hardly, she tried to save her second marriage nevertheless of yash’s feelings….may be the past bitter feelings on rejection conquered her feelings & challenged her self esteem, and encouraged her to commit herself to save the marriage
But yash never worried about saving his marriage but took every step to keep her with him & tried his best to come out of his illusions without anybody’s help. His love is pure & deep & trust worthy.
Suni
December 16, 07:39Sj ,SJ , SJ , my sweet , funny , concerned friend . I don’t think that me and Afreesh have ever fought . We simply exchange thoughts . I have great respect for Afreesh’s insight and like she said we try to understand through these characters how the people around us think . Please never worry dear . This a very unique soap and it has gripped our interest . Perple like Jane Austen , Chaucer and Shakespeare and mny others are long dead, but people still debate over their writings . Such is the strength of a great work of writing .
Suni
December 16, 08:30Afreesh. I replied first to SJ without reading your views . I was concerned that she sees our conversations as fighting . I have never thought along these lines . I enjoy our healthy exchange of ideas . I have grown immensely in my world view with your and the others help .
I have read your words just once now . I will need to read them a few times more before I can write a proper reply . But there is one thing that raced into my mind from this present topic .
Aarti is a child of the universe . Everything she has been thought and given were ( I agree100% ) blessings . She survived from being an orphan to an adult because of the kindness of strangers , not relatives . When she married Pashant he disappointed their love and destroyed what would have been her family and left her to again to depend upon the kindness of universe . She has always been blessed , I agree .
Yash has a very vibrant and supportive family unit , he did not have to depend on the kindness of strangers as he had a perfect life until Arpita’s death . Yash at this point could find solace from no member of his family . Aarti walked in as a stranger to his life , but also came there as his blessing . She initiated change within him . He had to adjust , share his space . She touched his heart by her kindness towards his kids , she eased that burden . Now he could focus more on his thoughts alone . She bravely stood by his side and saved him from near death . He didn’t mind dying , he rushed into a risky situation . Yash despite having his family , was saved from a life of despair , by Aarti . That incident that produced Ayu , rocked his world . For once he had to face the fact that he is a man , of flesh and blood and that he had desires and belonged to the world of the living . His inner conflict ended when the universe granted him some comfort from Arpita’s apparition giving him consent to move on .
Strange that Arpita appeared many times before , but never said such words . Despite all the support around him . Yash’s battle was his own . But Aarti guided him to that point of accepting that his life must go on in the world of the living . She may not have done this gracefully , but I will explain why .
Aarti pretty much stumbled through life as a free spirit . She learnt her lessons from living , from experience . She learnt to be tough in order to survive . She learnt to laugh instead of immediately cry . She had no perfect world . She knows very well what is right and what is wrong . Do you realize who corrupted her thoughts and played with her blessings ? The universe had given her the strength and courage to try and accept the role of both father and mother to Ansh . But that same universe recognized that her efforts failed . Yash was sent to her .
The period that Aarti spent with the Dubeys corrupted her thinking and altered her course . They are her cross to bear . She was perfect for Yash before she married Prashant , but something happened . Yash’s family arranged his marriage . Aarti rushed to find a family and felt herself in love . Do you realize that they are both from Bhopal ? Both Aarti and Yash had to be prepared first for their great love . A sort of diamond in the rough theory . Neither of them gave the universe a chance to find their soulmate .Arpita questioned Yash loving her from a picture . Prashant was a angry with Aarti’s pranks .
Aarti had to learn to accept people’s help . Example Yash saving Ansh . Yash had to learn to accept the universe’s help . Example , Aarti finding him lifeless in the car .
I didn’t expect to write this much 🙂 . Your words make me think yaar .
Afreesh
December 16, 12:00Suni dear…. we have done enough discussions regarding yash, if you want I repeat….
Yash was doing goast love when he doesn’t find anyone to give him pure love…. is that Arpita came really????…. it was his dream yaar ( a kind of psycho imagination) when he doesn’t know about Arthi’s state how it’s possible for him to imagine as if Arpita accepted him to unite with Arthi…. when he understood clearly that Arthi loved him then his mind created such dream….that’s it my dear
And he was a man with flesh & feelings even before Ayu’s arrival but he has been forced to control his feelings for the sake of his obsession & Arthi’s rejection…. when he believed as he trapped by someone that fact irritated him until he found the truth. As soon as he realised he assumed himself as the sole responsibility of that accident & tried to get relief through physical attempts…now I understand perhaps he felt shame pertaining to Arthi’s approval too, obviously she was also consumed bhang then how would he consider that she approved him… otherwise he won’t wait for Arthi’s assurance till now….fine????
Yes Suni….we both are at same track….I’m asking when he had enough family members why he influenced by Arthi even before knowing her properly???… why he became memorized towards her words???… why he acted according to her wishes???….. that was their power of love…that’s why I’m repeatedly telling if Arthi wanted him without Arpita’s obsession probably she achieved him a long time ago without any problem. She didn’t concentrate or tried enough to understand his feelings. Not only Arthi even yash dump also couldn’t able to notice her changes
So….Universe taken it’s own course to teach them the lessons and it did successfully through Aman… and brought bhang baby at first encounter itself….
Suni
December 16, 14:12Afreesh , forgive me dear , for not spending more time on our discussion . I will reply later, but you will be asleep . . . Hope you have a good night , you have work tomorrow I believe . . Sweet dreams yaar 🙂 .
Suni
December 16, 22:48Afreesh , I sense that you are trying your utmost best to understand and appreciate Aarti , but i know the ethical person that you are , cannot accept her immoral at times behaviour . We seek to be her supporter but she confuses us with her irrational choices at times .
. Aarti , we both agree , is blessed . Why has the universe chosen her to bestow it’s blessings upon ? She must be capable of her task or she would not have been chosen ? Not everyone is lucky to have a second chance .
I mentioned in a much earlier discussion that I believe that there are positive and negative forces at play in the world . Some succumb to these negative forces , some rise above it . We recently questioned why the stronger we are sometimes , the greater our challenge . As though evil sees the strong as a greater mission .
There is no acceptable reason to lie to the one you love . Aarti’s ability to advise Pari with a straight face can only be explained if we see her as a person in denial . A person who is not herself because of all the pressure placed on her to be a perfect wife , mother , bahoo , sister- in – law , even to her first mother and father in law . She longs for the perfect family that she has almost attained , but that lie stands in her way . She can never be compared to Pari . Pari lied to save only herself . Aarti is lying to save her family .
I once asked when has Aarti thought only about herself ? If we look back to her early days with Prashant , we can get an answer . She was a free sprit , a leader like you said . She told Prashant she did not want tea , her desires came first then . When Prashant walked out , we observed a changed Aarti . Why did she beg him to stay ? This is not the same confident Aarti we saw before . The answer is because of Ansh .
Aarti is still a mother before and above all else, but now she also has a family that loves and supports her and this family she is afraid to hurt . She understood Shobha’s pain and saved a son for his mother . She returned Yash safely to Gayatri . But most significantly , she ran away from Yash because she felt that he wouldn’t accept her unborn baby . She made a bold choice to save her unborn child from possible rejection .
Prsv brilliantly observed that she did not sign the divorce papers when Bhua presented them to her . Why ??? She had boldly declared that she would accept Gayatri’s ultimatum and leave the Schindia house when Ansh was saved . However , Yash saved Ansh and had proven himself a great father figure . She could not leave such a man .
If you notice the scene when Shobha performs last rights to Prashant , observe what shocks Aarti to reality . She was not overly affected by all Prashant’s flaws as much as when she heard Mr Dubey mention that he had called Prashant to save Ansh , but he never came .
She accepted Prashant as dead because she witnessed his blatant disregard for Ansh . She reentered Schindia house on a mission to provide a secure home for her son . This meant changing her ways and discipline for Ansh . She would do whatever it takes to fit in to safeguard her son .
Afreesh , given the Schindia family values do you think Aarti would have even been considered to be Yash’s wife being a divorcee ? Yash would have accepted her , I believe , if Aarti had told the truth on their wedding day . But he would have had no say before In her selection .I firmly believe that the Dubeys role in Aarti’s life was one of her greatest challenges , but the good that follows Aarti did not allow her to be down forever . Here are the parents who produced Prashant . They are elders , but they do not have the Schindia values . They battled with , but resolved to lie anyhow . This trait is in Mr Dubey’s nature . The universe converted that negative into a positive for Aarti . Her marriage to Yash was performed .
You once brilliantly told me that each of us hold a certain responsibility towards our own well being . Aarti’s greatest flaw is not that she is a liar or plays with her blessings . It is that she doesn’t care enough for herself , but rather for everyone else . If that lie is revealed what would happen to everyone who trusts and support her ? How deeply would Yash be hurt ? What would happen to Ansh , Ayu , Payal and Palak ?
She has no love for Prashant . She was married to , and shared a physical relationship with the man . Her loyalty is towards Yash now and I honestly believe that Aarti doesn’t mind the fact the fact that he is near . Remember how familiar she was with Aman . She held no feelings of love for him beyond friendship . I think that this is just an aspect of her personality .
Suni
December 17, 05:59Afreesh I know that Yash only imagined Arpita , but I somehow thought of this when I first read your comments that Yash and Aarti’s mind work in a similar way . Yash was able to converse with Arpita as though she was still alive . His mind created an illusion to comfort the deep grief that no one could erase . He was surrounded by people but felt alone . His perfect world had been shattered and no one could replace that so why let them try ? It was better to exist with his dreams than in reality where everyone suggested he moved on .
Similarly Afreesh , Aarti’s mind has assumed some sort of control . She was most comfortable believing that Prashant was dead . Shobha convinced her this was true . It meant that she could move on without regret . That same Shobha brought him back to life and again begged her to lie . What would be her state of mind ? She wanted to speak the truth immediately then . She knows the difference between truth and lie and can advise Pari .
Throughout this period however , Yash’s love for her grew stronger , the family’s respect for her also increased . That lie now holds tremendous power as it is set to destroy a perfect existence . Her longing for acceptance and love is controlling her and she is not being guided by her conscience . She needs Yash’s love and support and understanding and forgiveness for herself , not for Ansh or Ayu , but for Aarti . If Yash forgives her , that is all that should matter to anyone who loves him . But ,of course there must be much drama in between ,before this point is reached .
Afreesh
December 17, 06:48Suni…..you know me very well than myself yaar.♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡….
you worried about the coming days but I’m not because she has the power to handle it. I tried to know why she is doing such ugly things …anyhow, I will send you reply later…I used to suffer more with migraines during menstruation. I’m free now but trying to take rest….don’t worry about me….. I will be okey soon
Suni
December 17, 07:13Afreesh , spiced tea , especially cinnamon, helps at such a time . I realize also that regular exercise helps to eliminate most of the usual discomfort . Also,yaar , you need time to rest and not harbour any negative energy in the form of stress work or people related . If you have a bath tub , try taking a nice soak with some bath salts and relaxing music . I will give you all the advice I can , because I want you to feel better for the 19 th 🙂 .
Afreesh
December 17, 15:54Suni….Thank you very much for your concern dear…. unfortunately we are supposed to exchange our thoughts in this general form. sometimes I used to write my personal things later I erase it because I know group of people gothroughing our views silently. I used to feel guilty even I didn’t say my name to you (here I used to call people by your name many time by mistake)…but I believe Dc’s word “go with the flow”…so definitely the time will come to share more with you my friend…
Suni…You rightly mentioned I couldn’t accept Arthi still I tried my best. You are very great & perfect on sensing my feelings yaar…In our family we don’t have the practise of saying lies to others even at difficult times. We hate liars as much as yash does eventually I used to get very upset & arrogant with my friends whenever they says lie especially my close friends.
So, I couldn’t able to tolerate Arthi’s series of lies & immoral behaviours to the man who doesn’t deserve those nonsense. On top of that She loves him deeply like a God????….
Apart from that fact she is the combination of me and my second elder sister. The way she doesn’t think about herself and giving first preference to her children and others except herself is the nature of my sister. As I mentioned earlier,” no moral or relious aspects encourage us to feed others when our stomach is burning with hunger. That nature is very dangerous to ourselves as it deprive the blessings from us without our concern”. I do preaches to my sister as much as I can but her recovery is not much appreciatable.
That’s why I accepted that slogan “plying with her blessings”…
Suni….Arthi’s role sketched like she used to say lies for good reason. That’s why she took the risk at Palak’s birthday with the big lie which created thunder storm at Yash’s heart and then Minister Daughter’s Suicide drama also a lie but he accepted. According to those incidents I co-ordinated the present lie. More over,she apologised to God (before 1st time BM donation)that she has to lie for saving a person life. In that phrase of mind, she justified her mistakes & adviced to Pari with straight face.
You tried to match her close behavious with another angle…Yes, we can agree that she is a social type but again why that quality missed from her while dealing with Yash???
Is She very comfortable with any man except yash?
Suni… please try to get the point, She doesn’t think much about Yash’s hurt and his family’s reaction… why???…
She is attached with her past relationship than the present one. Whatever, she did for yash’s family is not a big deal to Arthi. That’s why I mentioned she adjusted herself to make them happy but she didn’t accepted or attached with them the way she accepted Shoba’s family. This is what Sj always mention she is not grateful to Yash’s family. She doesn’t trust anyone of them including yash if so she might have shared her secret atleast with Vidhi.
The confidence which she possess right now is not a confidence, infact it’s a over confidence.
You remember…once Gayathri told her you are a good mother but not a good wife(when yash was behaving mad & they rushed to hospital). I agree that point 100%
Henceforth,we will discuss on this title “good mother not a good wife” (ha…ha…ha…)
Suni
December 17, 19:26Touché Afreesh !! I acknowledge your current topic with a huge smile 🙂 . You are using my figurative weapon against me . Brilliant !!! I need to think before I reply yaar . Please give me some time …..
Suni
December 18, 07:56Afreesh your words make great sense to me . All that you say about Aarti is true . But, I know that she has a good soul and I always treat her character the way I treat everyone . I don’t know why , but I always try to understand why people think and behave in certain ways . I know that no one is perfect , and I do not judge anyone because of their imperfections . Because some things in their lives were beyond their control . I know that sometimes people should simply know better . My biggest flaw is that I always give 2 nd , 3 rd , 4 th ..chances . I simply do not give up on people who I see as inherently good , but led astray by life’s injustice . I continuously open myself up for disappointment . I looked for the good even in Prashant , I can’t get over how caring he is towards Aarti now , the way he sat by her side . I know you would want to tap me , but I felt a bit sorry for him .
But one thing Afreesh , I am a firm believer that a person should live with the choices that they have made . I may feel sorry for Prashant , but he is wrong to attempt to undo the knots he firmly tied , the doors he slammed and tossed away the keys . That for me is the measure of a man or woman …being able to live life with the choices made And not seeking to destroy another man’s happiness . I know that I am straying off topic , forgive me please .
Aarti did not choose her life . She had no say in not having parents . Life dealt her a cruel hand , but as we observe she has many blessings . I don’t accept that she played with her blessings because she is a very accomplished young lady , capable of greatness and leadership like you mentioned before . But Afreesh , she is not able to judge relationships with any wisdom . She grew up not having a family . The only persons who are her flesh and blood is Ansh and if the writers allow , will also be Ayu . I agree that she holds back on her love for Payal and Palak . I was disappointed when she carried their lunches and found Ansh missing , but did not hug and kiss them . Recently Aarti doesn’t even speak to Shobha about her feelings . She is closing herself off to everyone . The way she did when she ran away . All her troubles are being locked inside .
She is outwardly delighted with the moment as her dreams are being brought to actuality but she has immense internal pressure .
Being a mother is something Aarti knows to do instinctively . She understands the pain of a mother almost losing her child . Aarti is such a complex character . Maybe you are correct , she doesn’t know how to be a good wife . But Aarti knows how to be herself . She changes a situation to best suit her needs . she is a liar by choice . i remember the way she lied when she returned home late from driving back with Prashant . She does indeed change others . Yash has accepted her messiness , Papa S accepted her pleas . Maybe just like Yash did , she also has to face losing everything in order to learn her lesson . I understand your point about her being over confident . You are correct to say that she only changed in order to fit in and not because she wanted to .
I think Afreeh , that I feel sympathy for her , but she doesn’t have any for herself . Why ??? When I examine her character’s negative side , I am also of the belief that she is not good enough for Yash . Maybe Yash’s goodness will change her . I firmly believe that the Dubeys corrupted her . She needs to leave all of them behind in order to change . Prashant is just like Shobha now . He is taking care of her , but he wants to possess her and force her to be his . Aarti is not Shobha’s daughter . Prashant is her son . She should live with that fact . Why is she hiding this fact ??
I know Afreesh , I did not stick to the topic , sorry yaar . I need ony one pont to admit defeat though. I believe that Aarti is a better mother than a good wife because no good wife would tell a lie to a kind , loving husband as Yash . But , I am stubborn yaar , I want her to be accepted once she recognizes and amends her flaws , because there is more good in her than bad and because a man like Yash loves her .
Anonymous
December 14, 15:03Thanks for the pics…nice episode…prashant plz get out of arti n yash s life…
rima
December 14, 15:01Thanks for the pics
urmilasingh
December 14, 14:14well this drama is going great except for one thing and that is prashant who keeps making trouble
Raji.trs
December 14, 14:02May be Punar vivah serial was crossed 212 but yash used totally 5 dresses.
1. Blue shirt in photo (more then)
2. Marriage dress (one time)
3. Birthday and Diwali and Karva chauth dress(one time)
4. red tee shirt (one time)
5. Block tee shirt (more then) (Why yash? Very bore dresses. Plz change change. . . Dress Styles.
Raji.trs
December 14, 13:49Nalla episode. Irunthalum yash, aarti kita neratiya kadhala sollala atha varutham thara kutiya visayam than. Irunthalu aarti, yash ithayathin thutippilla kadhal purinjikira scene azhaka irunthathu ithula oru visayam purithu kadhal sollaventiyathu illa purinjikitave podhum. Prasanth kanavu very bad. Nallave sobha vanthu kanava kalaichanga gud job sobha.
ArYa Fan
December 15, 11:41En varutha padura??? inimela daan ArYa valkaile nalla naal vara pogudhe!!! Yash avanoda kadhal a purinjikitade oru periya vishayam!!! innoru vaarathu kulle yash avanoda kadhal a aarti kitta solliduvaan anu nenaikiren!!!
Raji.trs
December 14, 13:31So sad, yash wasnt tell. Anyway nice acting for all.
Raji.trs
December 14, 13:27Hi geetha. . . Job workload over Athanala punarvivah paarkakuta time illa late nit tha paarka mutithuyuthu. How r u?
Srinija
December 14, 13:14Anonymus hi aarya rocz but when our yash says d 3 golden words
Srinija
December 14, 13:11Suni its vry disapointng yaar bcoz yash hadn’t splitted those 3 golden words. 🙁 :'(So sad . Ha ha ha 🙂 ansh payal palak r present today after so much time. N prashand stop thinkng of aarti even in dreams its better 4 u bcoz yash has no thougt of leaving his lovely aarti . Yash just loves aarti he shuldnt think of losing his love again even in a dream also right?
Srinija
December 14, 13:09Suni its vry disapointng yaar bcoz yash hadn’t splitted those 3 golden words. 🙁 :'(:-(So sad . Ha ha ha 🙂 ansh payal palak r present today after so much time. N prashand stop thinkng of aarti even in dreams its better 4 u bcoz yash has no thougt of leaving his lovely aarti . Yash just loves aarti he shuldnt think of losing his love again even in a dream also right?
Suni
December 14, 21:25Hi Srinija , I am not overly worried . I am holding on to hope that Yash and Aarti’s love will survive its test and eventually emerge stronger from this challenge . The universe supports true love , but both Yash and Aarti need to realize the precious gift they have been blessed with and fight together to save it . I am happy that Shobha now knows and rejects Prashant’s motive . Hopefully she warns Aarti of his intentions .
Anonymous
December 14, 12:57plz update the pictures
Anonymous
December 14, 12:56awesome episode yashhhhh rocz
arya super………