Punar Vivah 11th January 2013 Written Update
Punar Vivah 11th January 2013 Written Update by Rimjhim
Scene 1:
Location: Yash’s house
Arti, decorating their room, with the scindia family pictures’ collage while the kids watch happily. She asks for forgiveness from their photos along with the kids and asks them to forgive fast. When she goes over to pamper them, the kids put her on statue and deliberately try to get her to laugh by sharing a joke. ansh starts telling the joke and arti desperately tries to stop laughing. Yash sees this from a distance. The kids complain that arti is strictly not moving. He gives them the idea of tickling her but they say its against the rules. Then yash says that he has an idea and starts making funny faces so that she laughs and moves from her stature. The kids say that she won since she didnt budge under yash’s pressure and go out to play. while she is stuck in her kissing position, yash comes close to her making her finally withdraw away and yash leaning in on her. The kids statue them in this position while they have fun. The whole family engages in fun.
Scene 2:
Location: Yash’s house and ansh’s school
The next morning, teacher tells suraj that ansh got hurt today during his P.T. class and after being given first aid, he’s stable now. She says that she called so that someone could come and pick him from school. Suraj hears ansh’s voice on the phone crying out for yash. He begins to call out to arti but then thinks otherwise wondering about buaji’s words. suraj cancels the phone saying that they dont have any relation with ansh whatsoever and cancels the phone while the teacher is confused. Suraj is tensed at the recent happenings. The teacher begins to check her diary for any other contact no.
She contacts the dubey house and prashant picks up the phone. The teacher tells him the entire story and he leaves lying to his mother that it was his friend on the phone who has called him urgent.
Scene 3:
Location: Outside the school
Ansh is not very happy that prashant came to visit him since arti would get angry, but prashant reminds him of their freidnship and how he had helped ansh with arti and ansh had given a friendship band in reciprocation of his love. He asks ansh to shake hands with him but ansh does it half heartedly. Prashant asks about ansh’s health and says that they would have a fun day today. But ansh refuses saying that he would only go with his parents. After thinking, he says that yash is busy in meeting and therefore didnt bother about ansh, and refused to come to ansh. Hence he had come since he could never leave his kid alone. Ansh remembers prashant’s taiji’s words saying he is prashant’s son. He lures ansh by giving him chocolates and toys and takes Ansh with him in the car.
Scene 4:
Location: In the market and yash’s house
Arti and yash are marketing when they come across an unfortunate kid who sells balloons for a living. He takes that kid and buys all balloons from him. He asks arti to give 1000rs. to the boy and asks him to go get food. yash wishes that all children should get food, education and the love of their parents. Arti too wishes for the same. They think that balloons would thrill their own kids and drive off in the car. They come home and ask for ansh from the girls. They tell arti that ansh was hurt and was sent home, so he would be here only. While yash gives balloons to the girls, Arti goes inside and comes running outside saying that ansh isnt at home. He is shocked to hear this.
yash calls up the school about this and finds out that ansh has been taken by prashant by the teacher, pretending to be his guardian. He asks her why they didnt call at his house, she tells him the whole story of how suraj had refused to come. When arti asks him what happened, yash tells her that ansh was taken by prashant. She too is shocked to hear this. Yash, in anger, leaves.
yash comes and tells arti that shobha told that prashant hasnt returned yet. arti is shocked to find that he lied. Yash asks arti to come along with him and they would find ansh together. The kids too sensing the gravity of the situation, tell arti that they would behave and she should go with yash, without bothering about them. They begin to leave when yash finds suraj wacthing them from a distance.
Scene 5:
Location: In the playground
While prashant is trying to get ansh on his side by saying that arti loved him forst, ansh vehemently denies having seen arti loving prashant ever, and that she only loves yash. Prashant is irritated to hear this.
Scene 6:
Location: Yash’s house
Yash stops suraj and says that he never could have thought that suraj would give yash’s punishment to his son ansh. He accuses suraj being responsible for his son’s disappearance. Suraj retorts back saying that now could he understand the pain of losing his own son and the pain that is borne when the child is in torture, when ansh is not even his real son. Just one year of bonding is such important to you, that you forgot the pain that he would inflict on his parenst when he left them for this girl and leaves. They are hurt and tensed and the screen freezes on Arti’s face.
Precap: Arti, whose hand prashant has held asking her to hit him, snatches her hand away from him and takes ansh and begins to leave. When prashant tries to follow them, yash intervenes and throws him on the ground threatening that if he ever tried to disturb anybody from his family again, he would kill him.
197 Comments
Magi
January 14, 12:25Have been enjoying reading your various points of view for quite some time now and must say that I think all you guys rock, sometimes I agree, sometimes I think how could you say that but I always appreciate you varying opinions and have had some good laughter as well.
Would like to say something on Aarti’s behalf. In my view Aarti is not a selfish person at all her greatest proof of this came on her birthday when Pa S told her to ask for whatever she wanted and he would grant it.. knowing that the truth would come out someday as she fully intended to tell Yash she could have kept this promise as a trump card and hold him to his promise but without giving it a second thought she asked for Pari to be forgiven. As far as Prashant is concerned, maybe Aarti saw what she wanted to in him, she is the type of person who believes that if you are good to someone they would be good to you. When Prashant decided to leave her for (Neela I think is the name of the woman) she begged him not to go, Aarti was of the mistaken view that if she tried harder and loved him more everything would be alright but the fact is that he is the direct opposite of her, he is selfish to the core. Even when Ansh was kidnapped he asked what that had to do with him, if at any time he could have showed some concern it was then. Prashant thinks only about himself and what makes him happy at the moment, should Neela come back and he gets a few dollars in his pocket again, his desire for Ansh would dissipate before you can count to three.
In terms of the lie Aarti was backed into a corner by the Dubey’s Mr. Dubey to a greater extent she wanted to tell the truth from the get go and even actually did call Yash and said everything after which she was berated by Mr. Dubey who reminded her about all the favours they had done for her and her son. She was literally between a rock and a hard place and also she did not want to make the Dubey’s lose face because they had been good to her.
The following excerpt from the written update of April 2, 2012 clearly show that she wanted and in fact did tell Yash the truth.
“Episode begins with Aarti telling Yash that she knows it is too late to talk about this matter but it is important. Gaytri says to Yash’s father and Prateek that, first Aarti denied to perform Kanyadaan by Aarpita’s mother, but now Paridhi made fun of her during music ceremony.
Aarti asks Shobha and her father in law, why they did not talk to Yash about her divorce news. Her father in law tells that what is need of telling the truth now to Yash’s family and why she did not tell the truth when she knew about it. Aarti tells them that, she doesn’t know anything that they have hid the news from Yash’s family.
Aarti says to Shobha that, she can’t marry hiding this big truth about her divorce and decides to tell the truth to Yash before marriage. Shobha says that if she tells the truth then her marriage will not happen, but Aarti accepts it.
Aarti calls Yash mobile, but due to noise Yash was unable to hear. Shobha says to Aarti not to call Yash, but she keeps trying to call him. Yash and Prateek sit on mandap and priest starts rasam. Yash’s elder brother tells Yash and Prateek about next dance performance where Arjun and Purvi from Pavitra Rishta perform to a song where Kamaal Khan sings.
Meanwhile, Yash notices his phone messages from Aarti saying that she wants to tell something very important. Aarti tells Yash about her divorce news and asks Yash for his decision. Aarti’s father in law says Aarti that Yash will not answer showing the disconnected phone wire. At the wedding place of Yash and Prateek, Karanveer Bohra danced on Pyaar ki Pungi song. Aarti’s father in law scolds Aarti that why she is trying to spoil his image in society. Aarti says that she can never do it and says that she will leave that place with her son Anash and packs her bag. Aarti’s father in law tells Aarti that if she wants to spoil his image then she can leave her re-marriage and keep her son Anash happiness away from his father”.
Rimjhim
January 14, 10:09hey guys thanks everyone for being so ardent readers and enjoying my work…hoping to keep up th work for you guys!!!
lov all of ya!!!
Suni
January 14, 06:04Hi Afreesh , the place is wet and cold outside but I must venture out . Lots and lots of rain these days . Ttyl .
Afreesh
January 14, 08:27Hi Suni…..here also too much cool yaar but not raining….in my place I can only dream about dream
Afreesh
January 14, 09:43Sorry I mean here I can only dream about rain yaar….
shla
January 13, 21:07Suni,
I may be fiercely arguing with you about Aarti, Yash and other PV characters but please remember I respect your views and opinion even though they are totally opposite from mine.
Thank you for debating and as I said earlier you are just brilliant.
Suni
January 13, 22:01Thank you Shla . I must also thank you for engaging me in debate . I know that we don’t agree on many points , but we are both loyal fans nonetheless 🙂 . You are brilliant yourself Shla .
I must say Good Night , I have classes tomorrow . Take care until ..
shla
January 13, 17:54Suni, On Pappa’s rule, Aarti turned blind eye in earlier thread and you quoted “IT IS A FOOL THAT PRACTICES TRUTH WITHOUT KNOWING THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN TRUTH AND FALSEHOOD and finally it reminded you about Parthi:
First of all the quote is correct but you are applying it wrong. The key phrase in there is KNOWING THE DIFFERENCE”. Dear, Aarti knew the difference and she has remorse for mistake. She knew she was wrong and she always wanted to rectify the situation as soon possible. I and many have have explained this many times and you are just ignoring what many are saying here. In an attempt to make Aarti more than 100% perfect (which is impossible) you and Afreesh are constantly saying she did the mistake and never realized the gravity of her mistake. That is absolutely incorrect. It is all based on your assumptions and no facts are supported by what Aarti has said in any of episodes.
As far as Parthi’s situation, Aarti has told Prathi to tell the truth to Prathik herself at the earliest time as Aarti believes in telling the truth oneself in her own words at earliest. She never said immediately (at earliest) and most importantly she believed (I know you don’t agree here, but read every word in my previous sentence) and preached that truth should be told. So your argument is little stretch
Suni
January 13, 18:32Shla , I love your persistence . But if one knows the correct thing but chooses to practice what is wrong , then that only makes them a hypocrite to open their mouths and preach . If she sort to love herself then she would also recognize her own errors and her own jeopardizing of her marriage before she spoke to Pari about Being honest with Pratheik .
Suni
January 13, 18:34Shla , I will be off line for a little while . I will return soon and respond .
Suni
January 13, 19:56With regards to Prashant . Aarti knew this man well enough to marry him . She went to college and had other options , Aman said so himself when he taunted Yash . She chose Prashant . When he left her , she begged for him to stay . Why did she beg for such a lowlife man who is showing his true character now ? Even after he rejected her again at the temple , and after marriage , she dreamt of their moments together . She wanted the man back and wished desperately only for him despite knowing his true colours . She longed for this current change of heart towards her and Ansh . She pawned Arpita’s bangles to save him without any remorse when he fell ill .
All of a sudden he is a threat because she has been exposed ? All of a sudden Ansh has been banned from his sight ? Again , hypocrisy , for she drove for miles alone with a man she hated . She opened the door and let him in when he merely coughed despite no one being at home . She drove him and their son to the hospital although the Dubeys could have carried him .
Her efforts to maintain the lie were greater than her efforts to tell the truth .
Now all of a sudden she is making great speeches to Prashant . Why didnt she do this before ? he is still undergoing treatment , so his state of health did not curtail her anger now and it shouldn’t have before . The truth is out and Yash has her back . She can admonish the man she cried long tears to have return to her . God has granted her wish , why is she unappreciative now ? We saw the Prashant , that she knew and love on display with Ansh and the stone . She may deny that Prashant is her husband now , but why is she saying that Prashant isn’t Ansh’s father ? She is giving merit to his accusations by denying that fact . Prashant said not a word to her then , he did not even challenge her .
shla
January 13, 20:59Prashant was a lowlife which Aarti found out later in the marriage about Prashant and not before. The evil people pretend and that is what Prashant did and he showed his true colors. He is showing now again after pretending to be nice earlier too. It is absolutely false that she dreamed about Prashant after her re-marriage. Never. You may be confusing with what you have saw in flashback scene of the time when they are married and before Aarti married to Yash and took their oath during punar vivah.
Come on Suni, if Aarti were to say that Prashant is Ansh’s biological father then I do not know what would be your reaction here. Even if she were to be silent, I am sure you would have condemned her and said why not she accepts her new family. This is an impossible argument. In my opinion she did the right thing to prove to Mr Suraj Pratap Scindia.
Prashant is past life for Aarti immediately after Mehandi and Aarti has every right to admonish the man after she choose her new life partner. For me it is just that simple.
You saw Prashant and his love for Ansh and it was at display? Where was that love when she was pregnant with that baby? And don’t forget he now jealous of what he walked away from. On Prashant is her husband now? Absolutely wrong. They were divorced and Prashant lost that right that moment. Now Yash married her and Yash is her husband. Period.
Suni
January 13, 21:57Shla , I just took time to search for the episode with the particular scene where Aarti remembered Prashant after marriage . Please check April 13 th , 2012 episode .
With regards to Prashant misrepresenting himself , I cannot say that with certainty for we have little to go on with regards to what led to the decline of his love for Aarti . . When she had him beaten up for being late by a group of men , he seemed understanding enough back then despite some understandable complaints .
But when he walked out in utter disgust , Aarti knew what he was . When he never returned not even to see his parents nor child , Aarti again knew what he was . Yet she waited and denounced any hopes of remarriage . It was faith that brought Yash and Aarti together . The Divine Being helped unite them . Therefore Shla , I am not worried about Papa S being able to seperate these two . For what Gad has blessed , no man can curse . I worry more about Aarti growing her character , mending her flaws and strengthening her marriage .
Shla if you claim her to be 100 % perfect them you diminish your assertion that Aarti is only human and prone to making mistakes . No one amongst us is 100% perfect . Only a Gods hold that honor .
Suni
January 13, 22:10One thing before I finally go Shla , I didn’t state that Prashant is her husband now . I said that she ” cannot ” say that Prashant is her husband now but she shouldn’t deny that he is Ansh’s father . This is a fact and many remarried couples have to deal with a lifetime of their ex spouse interacting with the children . There are no ex children , you cannot break such relationship because you do not love your ex partner anymore . This is a sad reality and one of the greatest problems in a remarriage and unfortunately most times the kids suffer from their arguments .
shla
January 13, 17:52Sorry I have to start new thread as with my small screen here it is hard for me to scroll down and respond. Let me answer first answer to Suni’s response to earlier thread and I will break it into 2 separate threads as we are discussing too many points and mixing up things.
On did Aarti consult anyone before agreeing to her punishment in the episode:
Dear Suni, if you remember the episode, after Aarti was not allowed to speak and importantly many things (4 points I identified below) happened after she was not allowed to speak and before Aarti accepted the decision from Pappa. Please note in previous sentence I said accepted and she did agree to follow Yash after Yash made the decision to accept punishment for both of them. Now 4 things: 1. Yash pleaded for her case, 2. Gayatri pleaded for case and 3. Mr Dubey said it is not his fault and finally 4. Shobha also begged and pleaded for her case. So how could you say she did not consult? She saw what happened there and gave opportunity to everyone who is talking there to please her case and allowed all elders to convince Pappa. Mr Pappa did not listen to anyone and want her out immediately. What exactly then you mean consult? I am sure you don’t mean literal meaning of consult. So I can’t understand why you are not looking at facts.
On Yash accepting his decision to abandon his family:
Yes, Yash is correct in this particular situation to abandon his family as Yash was not given any other options by Pappa. He is not going to stand for craziness of his dad. As a true responsible man, Yash (unlike Prashant) who understands his responsibility towards his wife and kids did absolutely right thing.
On the point that I don’t get the fact of self-love and I am not listening to you:
I just don’t understand your thinking Suni as I said earlier and I am just going to leave it there.
Suni
January 13, 19:12Did Aarti plead for herself ? She is very vocal for other people’s affairs , why not her own ? Did she ask Yash how he feels ? You don’t have to listen to me Shla . It doesn’t matter to me who listens or not , I have never sort to sway your opinion ,I merely state how I feel .
Aarti created the man that Mr Schindia is today . He gave her many chances in the past . You mentioned before that Papa S had divorce papers drawn up . But Aarti had agreed to those terms . She had accepted that she would leave Schindia house after Ansh’s safe return . She pleaded for a chance when she admitted her flaw of giving priority to Ansh over the Schindia family needs . If the marriage was worth anything to her at that time she would not have agreed so easily to leave . Only after Yash saved Ansh did she change her tunes .
Papa S had respect for her at one point and listened to her on the Pari matter , but how much must he forgive and overlook ? She went about her merry way deceiving everyone , she was too ashamed to beg for she knew how wrong she was .
shla
January 13, 20:29Yes, Aarti absolutely did plead silently. You can see in her fearful eyes and that is a fact which contradicts your assumption that she did not plead. Looks like I can’t convince you to see my point of view. Do you remember when she was vocal with same Pappa, first time he forced divorce paper on her? You forget that and now you want her do the same thing again (to scream and beg again) in front of Pappa, Mr Scindia, not to punish her? He did not listen to his son, how then any of us could believe that he will listen to her if she was vocal now given the history. I don’t get it.
As far as she created Mr. Scindia what he is now? You referred to the incident where she pleaded to save her son and to agree to the terms of saving her own child. Suni, don’t forget she wanted to save her own child which she carried in her own womb for 9 months with lot of pain just to bring that child to this loving world. So at that time she screamed as vocal as she can be and also begged to save that child and accepted the price in the desperation. At that time, she did little know that she was dealing with cunning and evil father-in-law who would put price to save her son as separating her from new husband. At that time luckily, Yash and Aarti both realized when they met at Ansh’s competition that they were tricked by this wise or should I say cunning man. Do you remember that scene, “when Aarti rang the bell, Mr Scindia comes to door and says, oh good you have come to senses and are here to return the papers. And then Yash comes from side to his surprise and Yash says they are not divorcing and Mr Scindia lets both of them in the house.”
And you say Aarti is deceiving instead of Pappa? Aarti made a mistake she wanted to correct and never to decieve and Pappa made a mistake with intent of deceiving and never corrected or apologized. There is a difference which makes a deceit act. Come on, how could you Suni. Passion is good to some extent but your passion to protect Pappa is making me speechless. What I simply want Pappa to do is be reasonable and give a reasonable punish to Aarti, if he chooses but please please don’t carry out the action he loudly proclaimed at the end, “I declare that Aarti and Ansh has to be separated out from Yash and his two daughters. And it is Mr Suraj Pratap Scindia’s word.” Pappa should stop playing games and testing Aarti and let Yash, an adult and responsible man, to figure out how to handle his wife. He is making mockery of marriage and not just punar vivah.
Suni
January 13, 21:07Papa S has been married for way too long for you to accuse him of making a mockery of marriage . Aarti was willing to be with Prashant , what did she know about honest men given that she came from the Dubey house ? I do not now , nor will I ever condone his current coarse of action to seperate Aarti and Yash . But , Aarti was extreme with her deceit and he is extreme with his punishment . As you sow , so you shall reap . She walked and talked bravely with her lie , now she should do the same with her punishment . He is the head of the household , and , like I said before , who doesn’t like his decisions should leave and find their own home . I will never stand below anyone’s roof and ignore their rules . Aarti chose to marry into the Schindia family . She made the final decision because she wanted betterment for Ansh . She got her wish with Yash’s devotion . She repaid his kindness with dishonesty . She knew his stance as it pertained to lies , yet she persisted . Fortunately for her , love has blinded him . Her greatest fear was to lose Yash . God has again blessed her with her wish . Yash stands by her side . She never wished for family peace , only Yash .
shla
January 13, 21:26Suni, You say Suraj was married for long time. That does not mean anything. They say Quality and not Quantity (or longevity here) matters. But look at what he has done to his wife. She has no voice. She cannot express her feeling and opinion like we are debating here.
He has not built his marriage on trust and but on fear. You said once all sons go to him for final decision. Every one, except Yash, has stopped thinking to understand and decide what and what is wrong and what is life. Becoz Mr SCP does final decision.
shla
January 13, 21:29I meant to say everyone except Yash has stopped thinking and stopped deciding what is right and what is wrong in their life.
Anonymous
January 13, 17:06I guess Aarti tries so hard to please everyone (even going to the extent of concealing the truth about her past) is because of what fate has dealt her prior to and even in her Punar Vivah.
Firstly, she was an orphan. That alone can damage a persons self image. Her need and search for love and acceptance led her to Prasanth.
He turned out to be a despicable individual when he insulted, cheated and abandoned his is heavily pregnant wife and even claiming that the child was not his. The second time in her life that she had to deal with abandonment, loneliness etc. Only a woman whose husband has treated her like Prashant treated Aarti can understand the devastating feeling of rejection, unworthiness, emotional trauma she experienced.
The Dubeys took care of her and loved her like their own child.
When they begging her not to divulge the fact that she was a divorcee and not a widow. She felt that she had to comply even though she was against it, as they had done so much for her.
When she helped Yash in resolving his issues, she did it so that she will be accepted by her new family.
She was and still is (by some)treated a little differently from the others. Her need for acceptance of herself and her son played some part in her choices and actions. The moment she faced disapproval she accepted her punishment or left as she expected rejection again.
She is heart broken about the family breakup but I’m sure a part of her is glad to be accepted by Yash despite her mistakes.
Yash is the only one of the three brothers brave enough to challenge is father, Aarti speaks her mind. This annoys Suraj, it bruises his ego a bit. The sons are married and have families of their own but are not allowed to decide for themselves. They have to think like their parents. And if they step out of line in this regard they are ostraci
zed. The family lives under dictatorship. Maybe that’s the problem with extended families, everybody knows everyone elses business, there’s very little privacy.
Daughter in laws, in this family are expendable. You break the rules you’re out. Marriage holds no importance then. The couple can so easily be separated.
People with evil intentions are given more importance and people trying to keep family together are thrown out of the house.
shla
January 13, 17:56Amen,
I am totally agree with you.
shla
January 13, 17:57I meant agreement
Anonymous
January 14, 03:26And I am in total agreement with your arguments as well. They are an exact reflection of my own thoughts on what is happening in this series. Hope high handed attitudes and inflated egos will give way to forgiveness and acceptance and a happy family.
Suni
January 13, 14:19Oh Raji . I feel so badly about not noticing your comment before about having been in an accident . Please forgive me for my mistake o missing that particular comment . . I hope that you are better now , I will pray for your speedy recovery and hope that you get back to normal soon .
Suni
January 13, 14:33And you are still so positive despite that setback Raji . I admire that .
Raji.trs
January 14, 00:11Hi Suni, Good morning. . Thank u dear.. U Dont feel dear. Yesterday i wasnt connect net so not send reply.
I am suffering from fever and with leg pain over yeah…
Sign out.
SJ
January 14, 03:52Raji I am s sorry , to hear you are not feeling well, get well son feel better
Suni
January 14, 06:00Oh Raji , I am very sorry to hear that you still have pain . Time will have to be your healer and then the Mumbai girl who speaks Tamil will be back on her feet again . You have time to watch old episodes of PV, there are some very funny scenes in the old episodes as well and I noticed that the music has changed a bit . Just a suggestion to keep your mind happy . If you see Bua orThaji or Prashant chage the episode . Raji do you know that Sj is a real doctor by profession ? She is always helping us to feel better . But these days she says that there are no more chill pills , Yash and Aarti took them all or she would have or she would have offered you some dear , to help with the pain , her humour is her best medicine to give us when we don’t feel our best .
I really hope that you get better soon .
RANIA
January 13, 11:41Comment
RENU
January 13, 09:15hai raji, Suni, Afreesh, Sj, Amaica, Jose, Sri, Geetha, Apple,shla,anonymous,miss unbelievable,punarvivah & sry if I missed any one
உங்கள் அனைவருக்கும் என் இனிய பொங்கல் நல்வாழுதுக்கள்.
“We thank sun for burning
himself to save us.
we thank plants sacrificing
their life for us.
and we thank all the creatures
helping us to live in this
world for some time”.
Happy Hour of Pongal is
Just a step away.
Wish pongal bring in good luck,
joy, love & prosoerity for all..
Happy Pongal.
Hope this pongal brings you happiness,
peace and prosperity
Happy Pongal……..
wishing Makara Sabjranti Day
Be fill with sweet Happiness.
உடலும் உள்ளமும்
உணர்வும் உறவும்
நல்லா இருக்க
என் மனமார்ந்த பொங்கல் வாழ்த்துக்கள்
Suni
January 13, 09:21Thank you Renu 🙂 . This is so beautiful and profound . Thank you for sharing this .
Raji.trs
January 13, 09:42Hi Renu Chellam, thank u so much. . .
INIYA PONGAL NALVAAZHTHUKKAL ungalukum ungal kudumpaththaruku.
Afreesh
January 13, 09:44Renu….thanks dear
jose
January 13, 10:11thank u so much renu….
wish u happy pongal…..
Anonymous
January 13, 09:07after yash punch prasanth wil turn more evl if anthing happens for yash means no won wil support to arthi
Afreesh
January 13, 06:27Hi Suni…..Good morning yaar….♡♡♡♥♡♡♡♡
Anonymous
January 13, 07:53Hi Afreesh , good Afternoon , I just signed in yaar .
Suni
January 13, 07:54And I forgot to enter my name :/ .
Afreesh
January 13, 08:10How are you dear….I missed you very much yesterday….I couldn’t control laughing while reading your comment yaar….
Suni
January 13, 08:30Hi Afreesh 🙂 . I missed you as well . Did you laugh because I have started to sound like you ?? I don’t know if I should be happy or sad about this yaar 🙁 :).
Suni
January 13, 08:57Afreesh , some friends came to visit their homeland and family for the holidays . The guy works in Africa and has a wife and two little girls . The entire family had relocated there for his job .requirement . They didn’t appreciate going back away from their love ones and longed and wished to be able to stay after their visit was over .
They left the country and journeyed to Houston in America to get a flight to Angola in Africa , their destination . But whilst in Houston , they had to stay over for a while and rented a vehicle . The guy left the vehicle locked but unattended for a short while to buy food , and left his backpack with all his family’s travel documents and his laptop on the back seat . A thief broke into the vehicle and stole the backpack . Now they must be detained and will have to return home and wait a while for passport and visas to be remade . A very harassing experience .
It made me think about our theory of being careful of what we wish for yaar .
Afreesh
January 13, 09:25Suni…..you have raised very valid questions on previous day WU….how could they become against to Yash’s happiness?….
when papa S. refused to feed jelabi for Ansh, I questioned whould he do the same for palak?…but Sj said, it’s not about the Ansh whoever it can be he would do the same. Because, we didn’t expect such attitudes from that great old man. The man who proudly accepted Yash’s decision regarding his legal heir, is not ready to help him when he was crying with pain. How it happened???… why his sympathy vanished uprubtly?…
I’m remembering the previous incidences where he reacted the very similar way of today. Whenever he reached the point of distrust he never listen to anyone & he wanted to punish the person severely. The first-time he had bent from his belief when his priority laid on his beloved son happiness & family togetherness. Even paridhi matter he was ready to throw prateik , When he supported his wife papa S .slapped him instantaneously. But he couldn’t do anything with yash when he supported his wife, Infact he became lenient at punishing them due to his abundant love. Whereby he didn’t recognise his stupidity while declaring his decision since he didn’t punish Arthi indeed he punished himself & his family members. Nothing is out of his hand, but he felt defeated by a wrong women. Perhaps, he might be thinking that he must recover his son from an evil lady.
Yes, he was ready to sympathize with a fatherless boy but he is not willing to fight for a boy who belongs to someone else.
So….I don’t think he does things to prevail but he believes Yash is going on wrong path. Probably he is thinking he has to protect him & his kids from Arthi & her surrounded problems. He doesn’t mind about his wrong ways…..again wrong ways never give success….it may lead him to grand loss
Afreesh
January 13, 09:32Yes Suni…..we should….we must take care of our wishes yaar….I have read about this theory on mind science. Especially our subconscious mind is the biggest culprit, it can achieve whatever wanted….
Afreesh
January 13, 09:43Suni….I have completed my task with you and now we should concentrate with Sj’s emotions. She started to think like previous Suni…..
Suni
January 13, 10:10Afresh , I think that Papa S is blinded by anger at the moment just like Yash is blinded by love . But Aarti’s personality does not help the situation . Of all his sons , Yash is most like him and Yash also became angered many times , but both men always became calm after time . Yash was no angel when Aarti became like Arpita , he detested her deception then . But he has somehow learnt to dismiss her ineptitude with certain matters , because of his blind love for her . That love that he has now Afreesh , is not the best thing for Aarti . She needs a strong man , who can point out her indiscretions , or she will still have to learn the hard way .
Papa S knew that he had laid down certain rules . Why did Aarti allow Ansh to break them ? She was testing yaar , you were so correct about that . How can she expect everyone to not be hurt ? Why did she speak to Vidhi as though nothing has changed ? When everyone stood up for Aarti before , Papa S changed his mind . Now the only person , besides Yash , who was willing to forgive her , Gayatri , is also having doubts . What can this head of the household be led to believe ?only That Aarti is no longer welcome in their hearts and is a serious treat to family togetherness and stability . He is seeing the problems that Prashant is creating . He isaw the way Prashant influenced Ansh . How will this conflict be resolved and by whom ? Can it ever be resolved as long as Aarti is there ? He cannot see no other solutions Afreesh . No one is giving the man solutions to this problem so he is left to make his own choices based on his life experiences .
Your point is accurate and amazing that Papa S was more willing to accept a fatherless boy than he is to accept a boy with a rogue father . Remember even Gayatri once questioned Anshs genetics when he behaved naughtily. The sands have shifted beneath the man’s feet and he no longer knows how to assess the situation that was previously seemingly without flaw . He is being extreme , but just like Aarti , he had good intentions , but wrong methods . If the family rallies around them , he may most likely change his stance .
Suni
January 13, 10:21SJ is always upset when women are treated with supposed disrespect . I have learnt a lot through our discussions yaar . One thing that resonates in my mind , is that if we want to be treated fairly by men or at least have right of law and family support on our side , then we must try to live our lives above reproach . Give society nothing bad to say about us . We are responsible for our actions and should be willing to face the consequences of our indiscretions .
Papa S is not the worse character on this show . There are women who are against members of their own gender ; women who hold on to antiquated views even more strongly than the males . Sometimes women are their own worst enemies and sometimes also we do most harm to ourselves because of our wrong choices .
Afreesh
January 13, 11:01Yes Suni….papa S. Was blinded by anger as the way yash was with Arthi after their Mumbai trip. Because yash was believing that she has defeated his belief forcefully by her deception. Now papa feels the very same thing. That’s why yash understood his father feelings and accepted the punishment gracefully. Unfortunately, nobody approached him on behalf of yash and his anger has been transformed as revenge when he realized the inner fact of his punishment.
I feel in the coming future yash may decide to go out of their house permanently if he couldn’t handle papa’s resentful attitudes.
Suni
January 13, 11:24Afreesh , they should create an award for most influential character who isn’t born yet , lol . The baby is such a great factor in this present track . Ansh is a link to Aarti’s past but Ayu is a link to her tentative future . If Aarti leaves again like Sj assumes , then she deserves to be alone with her kids without any husband . If she leaves that would indicate that she has no faith in Yash .
Yash is fulfilling his vows , he is forsaking all others for Aarti .
You questioned why he hesitates with Aarti when it comes to intimacy beyond jokes and play . I think that Yash has a lot of hidden emotions that he cannot express to Aarti and if he feels that he is holding back on her in any way , then he will remain stuck where he is . Remember how long he took to admit his love ? He is probably harbouring great hurt from the punishment , but he has to be strong for his family . He cannot be comfortable or happy as a man with his family living where they are now . He has so much to deal with now , he has been thrown far outside his comfort zone .
shla
January 13, 11:27I am sorry to budge on into your discussion Afreesh but I have to correct the facts here. You said Yash understood his father’s feeling and accepted the punishment gracefully. That is wrong
Actually Yash said that punishment is too much and it was Aarti who gracefully accepted the punishment to Yash’s dismay. Yash said at that time, since he has taken the marriage oath and as a true husband he had no choice but to share the couple’s punishment. I commend Yash’s stance and i would say that Yash did not accept Suraj’s belief then.
Afreesh
January 13, 11:37Yes Suni….I’m also wondering from beginning why yash couldn’t able to acknowledge her flaws???….he realised his love recently but I have the complaint from beginning….why he always accepted her views nevertheless of his disagrees…
is that any time she mislead him???…. is that any time she punished him????…is that any time she used him for self reason apart from Prashand crap???….He has been supported by Arthi to achieve his task with effortless ease. When he approached that minister’s wife straight away what was the result????….so, he understood the task completed by her cleverness & timely lies .
How did they approached that producer’s wife???…again her cleverness has been utilised.
Upto my understanding, Yash appreciates her personality & he doesn’t like to lead her like his father doing with Gayathri. When someone having full trust & respect & unshakeable love we should pay them the same. But Arthi is very truthful to the people who are really unworthy whereas she is very careless about the people who really deserves her truthfulness. I’m also worried about yash’s status in this gloomy atmosphere. She has opened all the evil channels with huge efforts. But Yash has to face the consequences ….
Now you can admit that point…..yash himself is blessing…..she played with her blessings….(ha…ha…ha..)
Yes I understand what irritates you regarding jelabi matter…..I will continue
Suni
January 13, 11:50Shla, Yash objected to the severity of Aarti’s initial punishment that she agreed to bear on her own by leaving the house . Again in her haste , she had thought nothing about Yash when she agreed to Papa S’s conditions . Yash intervened but was made to share her punishment and he did not oppose his father’s decision at this point .
Please note Shla , that I have every intention to return to our discussion soon , I will never ignore you dear . Afreesh is ahead by 8 hours from my time and I do not like her going to bed overly late , so we try to discuss on mutually acceptable time .
Suni
January 13, 12:01Shla , there are many good traits in Aarti . I will be the first to admit . She is a great character in the making , but she has to change a bit more . I support such change , but at first we try to figure out her flaws . Please do not ever feel that we do not wish her well .
Afreesh
January 13, 12:02Suni….lol…lol…lol….you know what actually I wanted to write the same thing for Sj yaar,….if she run away I have to come to the conclusion that she deserves to be a nun not supposed to marry anyone. Instead of destroying the bad & good men life, she can work at any charity institution with her noble qualities…..you wrote exactly the same feelings of mine….think once again you have to laugh or cry (ha…ha…ha…)
Afreesh
January 13, 12:11Shla…..sorry…. I didn’t notice your comment and was busy in typing….I think Suni answer is enough for you….pls don’t think that I’m ignoring you
shla
January 13, 12:13I am confused with your thinking on she did not think about Yash?
Once you say she does not understand the gravity of her mistakes and has no remorse for what she did.
Now when she accepted the punishment you say she accepted her mistake but she did not think about Yash?
And you also say she is worried about everybody else and does not care about herself? she needs to focus on self?
Above all are opposite to each other to full fill. Yes I understand and don’t worry about what order you reply.
On Yash objected to her severity of punishment, I agreed but I am objecting to the assertion that Yash agreed with Pappa on Pappa’s belief. Facts don’t bore out if you rewatch the episode.
Suni
January 13, 12:36Shla , Aarti was about to make what she thought was unilateral decision when she initially accepted Papa S’s conditions . Why didn’t she beg or complain and say that she would die for her family ? If she had self love she would know what is best for her and by extension what is best for her son , unborn baby , husband and extended family . Her decision was set to affect the entire Schindia family so she should have given it some thinking .
Why does she have this self sacrificial nature ? How has it benefitted her in any way really ? Everything that she worked hard to achieve was tied to a bungee cord of lies and got pulled back to square one . It would have been better for her to have had self love and treat others in the way she wanted them to treat her , for now everyone is treating her the way she treated them . She had little regard for their faith and trust in her before , for if she did , the truth would have come out long before . Now that she has a little taste of her own medicine , no tears should fall from her eyes if she also expects them not to feel hurt .
Afreesh
January 13, 13:02Yes…..I didn’t see much appreciation from Arthi for Yash’s forgiveness & enormous support . Initially she regretted but later she tried to behave as if nothing has happened (Is that she took yadh’s advice in her own way????….yes we know, he said not to be sad but she started laughing louder than a thunderstorm….yes…yes…That is Arthi)
. Otherwise, she wouldn’t allowed her son for getting that jelabi at the very first day. If you observe here…..not only scindhiya’s rules she never mind about Ansh’s feelings. She didn’t expect that rejection from papa s …..why???…..yes she forced him to relieve his rules through child sentiments. It’s ridiculous that somany of us arguing (including our Sj) why can’t he forgive Arthi???…. why didn’t he understand the reason behind her deception???…. if he found the reason behind her deception he would become more arrogant & aggressive.
As a husband yash had the chance to know her inner & outer qualities keenly. But how can we expect that old man has to trust her morality when her ex was having care free connection with her & yash & with entire family.
Suni….I just don’t get it why the people are mad at Prashand. Arthi expecting the forgiveness from scindhiya’s family whereas Prashand expecting forgiveness from Arthi & asking for one more chance…
According to him….he had betrayed her…..so what?….now he is apologising sincerely….why can’t she give him & provide him one more chance….if Arthi’s demand is right then we need to consider that rogue’s demand too…
I have to discuss the negative characters of this show yaar….it can provide us some points to deal with negative people around us
shla
January 13, 13:17Wow she made a unilateral decision? wrong Suni? She said she will ACCEPT the decision. And then Yash seeing intransigent nature of his father and the situation in which his father has put her in the position, Yash made the DECISION saying “let’s go Aartiji” and Aarti accepted her husband’s decision.
Again, you ask why is she is making unilateral decision (by your assumption she should should not make decision on her own) then you ask why she is self sacrificial nature? If you make unilateral decision then isn’t that is NOT self sacrificial? Which one you want?
A & S, you both keep talking about rules? What rules?
First of all, rules have to clearly stated and understood by all. That never happened and nobody told rules to Aarti. I said earlier she learning the family and their rules by herself. You both are getting into Pappa’s head and think everyone knows rules. Second, if rules are not right then they should be changed. That is what makes right from wrong and that’s an universal accepted. Third why does rules apply to Aarti? Why not others? that is so weird and unfair.
I can go on… sorry.
shla
January 13, 13:33I have no idea what are talking about giving a chance to Prashant? She had given him chance even at MEHANDI time even though he has divorced her and left for another woman. He refused and SHE MARRIED ANOTHER MAN as god, family and friends as the witness to their marriage. There is no more CHANCE FOR PRASHANT. You don’t bring back the DEAD to LIFE.
As far as Pappa trusting her morality, it is simple. If one is wise (presumably Pappa is wise!!) then he/she ASK THE QUESTION AND GET THE FACTS FROM EVERYONE. Pappa has no right to punish severely and take revenge without finding out the facts. That is not sign of wise person and they are called crazy. Obviously he does not care about his son’s feeling also.
shla
January 13, 13:46Sorry Afreesh, didn’t mean to use CAP as screaming but was using to highlight the phrase and highlight turned into CAPS.
Suni
January 13, 13:54Shla , be careful dear or you will fall pray to the anger that you dislike so very much in Papa S .
Did Aarti consult anyone when she agreed to leave upon Papa S’s declaration that she do so ? No , she agreed . That means that she made that particular decision unilaterally without thinking about its effects upon others in the household .
Yash disagreed with his fathers decision , Aarti didn’t . Yash accepted his father’s decision ‘, without objection , that he will abandon all family ties for Aarti .
I don’t think that you get the point about self love and you are not even willing to try to understand . But I will again try to explain .It is all that I can do . If Aarti loved herself she would know that it would not be in her best interest to be separated from her family . If she respects and understands her own needs , only then can she understand the feelings of others . I will state it in another way ..Love and respect yourself first and then you can love others the way you love yourself .
Papa S clearly stated the conditions of Yash and Aarti’s punishment to them .
But none is so blind as he/ she who will not see .
Aarti turned a blind eye to many rules before this Shla .
Lord Krishna said to Arjun in ( the book of Karna )
IT IS A FOOL THAT PRACTICES TRUTH WITHOUT KNOWING THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN TRUTH AND FALSEHOOD .
Her lecture to Pari comes to mind here Shla .
Afreesh
January 13, 14:17Suni……The most beautiful lines I learned from DC was how to handle the negative forces in our daily life. If we learn that fact, we can make our soul & mind & heart in a peaceful state. He clearly says don’t defend for your mistakes or behaviours that will never support you instead increase the negativity in our soul. Just accept your mistakes….. Go with the flow……ignore the negative energy without reacting to it….
See….here every word need to be understand deeply. ACCEPTANCE is not for the sake of courtesy or decency or for the sake of sacrifice. It has to be done full heartedly without any negative feelings. Then IGNORING negativity with full of negative feelings doesn’t help us. It has to happen without any reaction from inner consciousness…
I’m very much influenced by this words yaar & always trying my best to follow it everyday at every situations …..you also try dear
Suni
January 13, 14:21I hear you loud and clear Afreesh . Thank you 🙂 .
Afreesh
January 13, 03:16Sj…..I think the writters won’t separate Arya again. Because, the second issue (divorce) must be solved by Yash’s support despite of all the hurdle & . How can they solve the problem without the couple cooperation. Basically, the conflict is between the elder generation’s belief Vs younger generation’s belief
Papa S. Believe
BLOOD RELATIONSHIP IS STRONGER THAN BOND
Yash believe
BOND IS STRONGER OR NOT LESSER THAN BLOOD RELATIONSHIP
if yash not succeeded then there is no meaning on remarriage as well as the show can’t provide any message to society.
Afreesh
January 13, 08:07Sj…..nowadays, you are providing more ideas to the PvP writters yaar….you always insisted Prashand would kidnap Ansh….finally the writters convinced you for a while. Now you started other theme that Arthi run away herself…..why Sj????….when yash quoted, living without her was also a punishment & taken her promise to support him always…How can she run away???…if she did you should accompany me with the champion hockey stick…….
I don’t think the writters would do such grave mistakes. Since recently the viewers started to enjoy the show & union of Arya. Whatever the challenges could be but they should face it together.
Sj…I’m not much glad pertaining to Arthi’s slap & Yash’s punch yaar. Hereafter, Prashand would become more evil. Upto now he didn’t go to extreme level, but now nobody can stop him including shobaji.
SJ
January 13, 11:27Affresh my dear , ths was jst the thought, because so much houch pouch is happening in story line, m thought was because arthi never se her brain properly, she make many decession fthinking for others.she can not see sinthia’s n pain , she sees yash in ain too being separated from his family.she might think in her head everything is appenng cause f me and ansh.
Yah, at his pont arthi an ash are in so much love and will be hard for stay away from each other
But if you think what story line could bem paa Shia s adment with bua’s fire to separate yash an arthi or h might take parsant’s help, writter might show yes arthi an ADH are n so much love with each other, being a part both of them still are faithfully to each other and no ven being toaher still think all the time for each other. Otherwise , what you think, paa sinthia will give up
And say arthi come baby come and do the garhey pervesh . And yash beat hell out of Parsant
And yash and arthi I’ll live happily after. I do not think so there will lot more hurdle will come
And it will show, when you truly love each other and committed to each other how can yo overcome with these opticles.or may be in arthi ‘ absence sintha’s will get in trouble or ah fals n sick, and Arthis sx scence will work and will rescue them , and arthi and ash again united
Or later, shoba and Dubeejee love started to show their colour for there son and shoba become unfaithful towards arth and wants her back
Right now ash and Arthis lv does not look that simple, this is a bi mess, can not believed, Parsant who needed 3rd BMT and can bear Arthis slap and yash punch and taking panga with yash. Drs ka kamal. When I. Get headache , I can not ge up from bed , if their comes and ask
I want your computer, I want your assignment I want whole year of you work and want to go your moms house and wants to steel something, I will say go do it take it, I am having headache
As long you make my headache better. But Parsant killing decese while he did not have time to live with in last minute With 2 BMT become like in iron man. Need that energy, am lossing all my energy on yash and arthi to much yarr.
Suni
January 13, 14:10SJ , please calm down dear . Where are those chill pills you always offer me ? I am sure that the store has restocked them 🙂 . SJ you seem to be allowing this show to affect you much to negatively . It isn’t reality . Look at the forum and take note of all the beautiful people this forum attracts . People who wish each other well and pray for each other and. Take the time to comfort and care for one another . This is the reality spin off of PV 🙂 . The show will always contain drama . We will discuss , but we grow from our discussions . We must never limit our minds to one way of thinking . You are in a very dynamic field and I am sure that you have observed the correlation between illness and a persons’ mental state of mind . Channel your thoughts on the positive aspects for a while . Yash is looking so gorgeous . They took all your advice and he has the hairstyle that you always wanted him to have . Aarti looked beautiful when she opposed Prashant when he misguided Ansh . Yash and Aarti are finally having more alone time .
SJ
January 13, 17:21Ok Suni , Affresh , I will be happy, I will be positive, I will not have any negative feelling
I will be a good girl, I will follow and adopt good hangs from forum friends
I will throw all the negativities and will become reformed like you Suni
I will not cry, I will not be upset, I will do my assignmen properly without thnkng of PV
I will not give any ideas to writers. all right all right my friends
Happy happy maker sankrantis , my mom called and told me , she went to temple, she prayed
So happy prayers day and good food, I will go for Starbucks coffee and will share a bagel with Elena will not think for pv anymore
Suni
January 13, 17:47SJ , you just be yourself dear and let me be me . I only try to make you feel better the only way I know how . I am happy that you are going out with your friend . Hope you have a good time .
SJ
January 14, 00:49Dearest Suni, please do not get mad at me, I love you very much, we may not agree on many things, but all your arguments are brilliant. I can not even think the way you and Afreesh
Write and give your
Give York pont of you . Sometime I get puss of with the story bd I jst write funky things
You are calm, kind, ad a loving person can not see anyone hurt. Such a good quality a good person can have. Many time I things word does nt work the way we think, what arthi took ansh for BMT, why she Arredondo to Parsant, why she dd nt tell the truth earlier, why did se send ansh t get stupid jalabi from grandma.why she is not pleasing yah as wife and a lover
Why shoba does n kill ha idiot Parsant, s any why if with no answer, so all f s have different arguement, I respect your idea and admire York thinking , thank you making me calm
Afreh s teasing me I bece od Suni at be I will someday I will take your wisdom, Affresh loving abpnd funfill azure and can be a better person.
By the way called pharmavpcy for chill pills , they told me, we d not keep any more call arthi and yash they might Have some well we might not agree on many things but we respect each other views
Suni
January 14, 05:26No Sj , I am not mad , I just want you to be you . Sometimes I think that I am crazy to retain all this PV information , but there is something about this show that makes us connect with the characters and just like you feel they are real , many of us do the same .
I am not surprised that Yash and Aarti have all the chill pills 😉 . They seemed very calm before , despite being exiled from the family . I think Yash’s baby blue Kurta kept me calm last week yaar , I wanted him to never take that off , He looked so gorgeous ! Prashant is looking so psycho these days .one less good looking guy adds to my stress . You know what made me laugh a little Sj …the way Ansh’s ankle healed so quickly for him to walk about so much on it . His father is also a fast healer . But maybe there is something special on the PV bandages that have the wonder cure , because wounds disappear so quickly all the time 🙂 .
I hope you have a good day , take care SJ .
Raji.trs
January 12, 22:40Hi Suni, Renu, Sj, Afreesh, Amica, Anomymous, Jose, Apple and ALL PV FANS.
Good Morning To All
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Time And Smile Are Two Critical Things In Life. SomeTimes Time Makes You Forget How To Smile…
Sometimes Someone’s Smile Makes Us Forget Time. . .
Life Is Too Easy When You, “ACCEPT” Everything With “SMILE”.
So Smile Plz. . .
Suni
January 13, 07:55Thank you Raji , for your positive message 🙂 .
shla
January 12, 20:53Thank you every one of you who wished happy pongal and same to you all. I did an internet search to find out about the pongal and to my surprise I found out that pongal is not until Monday, 14 January. Thought some of Tamils friends can correct me if I am wrong. Thanks
shla
January 12, 20:46Sorry Suni, I am going to start a new thread here in response to your suggestion yesterday that I should consider Pappa S’s action as human too like I consider Aarti and her action as human.
To start, you are perception of Aarti is completely different from mine. I cannot put Aarti and Pappa S in same category for reasons mentioned below.
Aarti always says and does everything such that she is trying to bring entire family closer with the goal of making everyone happy. As I said earlier, she makes mistakes like any himan. But she realizes her mistake and has always shown remorse for her actions. Aarti intentionally never took an action (even against Prashant, Buaji and Taijii) or took revenge so that she would hurt others in any episodes so far. You have built your assumptions about Aarti but those are used in your perception about Aarti and you are second guessing her actions. Your views about Aarti are not corroborated from what she said in her own words directly or her intent as seen in any episodes.
Whereas I have seen Pappa S intentionally take some action which may hurt others. Two Examples: 1) when he called his friend commissioner and told where Yash and Aarti were going with money to get back Ansh. That action had put Ansh life in jeopardy in spite of Yash specifically telling his entire family not to inform anyone. Remember at that time Yash has hurt by bullet shot and everyone blamed Aarti for Pappa S’s mistake. 2) Pappa S. tried to get divorce paper signed by Yash and Aarti using many tricks and has told lies to Yash and Aarti to get his wish of separating them in earlier episode. In both cases he was arrogant and shown by his actions that he was not human. On top of it he never apologized for his actions and never felt remorse.
Now he is upset that Aarti is still happy after his punishment so he wants to take revenge by separating Yash and Aarti to satisfy his ego. He is breaking his own family for his ego with little regards to his sons happiness. Thus my perception of Pappa S is built on these actions and to me they seem inhuman.
You may say he is old guy; may be this is a generation issue or he is back to old tricks. Remember elders (Gray hair people) are supposed to be wise and guide all of us in correct path irrespective of their ego and interest and that’s why he we hold them in high esteem.
I think it is Rabindranath Tagore quote that “Gray hairs are signs of wisdom if you hold your tongue, speak and they are but hairs, as in the young.”
RENU
January 12, 14:39HAPPY PONGAL 2 all my friends raji, Suni, Afreesh, Sj, Amaica, Jose, Sri, Geetha, Apple,shla & sry if my missed some friends
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January 12, 14:42sorry yaar,my pot again cheated me,plz taste the sweet pongal inside & dont see the pot friends & tel me how it is?
i mean my pongal & one strict condn u all wont laugh at my pot.ok,its my order,hehehehe,….
HAPPY PONGAL FRIENDS
ENIYA PONGAL NALVAZHUTHUKKAL
SJ
January 12, 15:07Same to all of you my forum friend , enjoy apply time , stay well
Afreesh
January 12, 16:00Renu….where is the pot dear????…. I think you gone home for pongal holidays….right?
jose
January 13, 02:50thanks renu….wish u same
Seeca
January 12, 12:30Yaay! We’re ahead of pavitra rishta. Let’s go 4 gold guys. Good job everyone
Anonymous
January 12, 12:43Really, wow great lets keep it up
Anonymous
January 12, 13:24What do you mean ? In trp?
Suni
January 13, 07:57This is good to hear .
Raji.trs
January 12, 12:24Thank u jose. . . Thank u so much. . Neenga sonnathe podhum… Naan kunamakividuven.
Apple
January 14, 00:47Hooo raji be careful yaar truly hope u to get wel soon. Best best wishes
Raji.trs
January 12, 12:19^\|/^ ,;:;, ^\|/^
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Wish Happy Pongal To All Tamil Friends. . .
And special wishes to Renu, Suni, Afreesh, Sj, Amica, Jose, Sri, Geetha, Apple, all PV FANS and me.
PONGALO PONGAL,
PONGALO PANGAL,
PONGALO PANGAL…
But i m nt fine. . . So no sweet, no celebration and otherwise i m in mumbai here no celebration so enaku seithu nalla vithama ungal family oda happy a kondadungal.
jose
January 12, 12:30thanks raji….
pongal sapida varalaiya……
Raji.trs
January 12, 12:33Wht ur native place. . Jose
jose
January 12, 12:46kanyakumari….
Raji.trs
January 12, 12:54Pauth lampa yena, nai chaiye. . May be 1500km irukum pola iruke. . . So enakum serthu neengale pongal saputhunga.
Apple
January 12, 12:54Thank u raji wish u happy pongal and tel me wat hapend to u yaar
Raji.trs
January 12, 13:11Kuch nai apple, yesterday nit office la iruntha return to home, suddenly ek motor bike control illama en car mela mothitan so en car kum en leg ku nalla adi antha bike man escape. . . . So over pain. Now in hospital.
Raji.trs
January 12, 13:23Mere paar mey jinda math karo. Neend aakai so good night.
Afreesh
January 12, 14:29Oh…Raji….you are so sweet yaar….thank you for your wishes dear
Suni
January 13, 07:59Thank you Raji and I reciprocate those good wishes 🙂 .
Anonymous
January 12, 11:45Yash Arti need to update the phone records in school remove the scindia’s and dubey’s nos just include Yash Arti and maybe prateek’s or Yash work no.
Anonymous
January 12, 11:20Even a stranger for humanity sake would help a child, scindia is not human he’s a monster. Poor Ansh, children are innocent, we adults are so corrupted by ego and pride that we don’t see beyond that. Pity Suraj should be ashamed of himself
Anonymous
January 12, 11:19OMG whats happening in this show papa sindiya u are dng too much
Kris
January 12, 11:14I think the makers of this show should show the world that a husband and wife should support each other in each and every aspect of life and being their second marriage they will stand the test of time and be together always. This PV of Yash Arti should be solid as a rock and fight against all odds. I think Yash Arti have already gone through enough to make their relation strong that not even evil Prashant, Suraj or anybody else can break. Please don’t separate Yash Arti Jodi
Magi
January 12, 16:36Kris, totally, totally agree with you and if the CVs would write a separation into the storyline at this point they will be making light of the bonds of marriage, couples should not be pulled apart to appease family members, there are instances where this may become necessary such as domestic violence and abuse but this is not the case here, Pa S has every right to be upset but no right to split up a family.
Apple
January 12, 10:11Hai guys cmng to episodes i hope soon the family will unite. But before that i think bloody prasant wil go to court 4 ansh. How many tricks he do or watever ansh is AarYa son nd yash wil win the case. But yash 4 winning his cute lovely beta or his vansh the dearest ansh i think he want a lawyer’s help to be on his side right! So now d lawyer must be yash’s elder bro pankaj so that he would defnitly get his ansh safely . Vidhi must understand aarti . She must think that aarti had a perfect reason to lie so that yash had accepted her even after lying to him. The whole family knows that yash hates lies but now stil yash is supporting so now why the whole family cant understand them mainly aarti . Now where is dubey he disappeared in d show . Is he planning anything good to prashnt nd bad to aarya. If its d reason 4 his disappearance aarya would never believe him nd never forgive him. Suraj how can he believe his sister hooommm.
Apple
January 12, 09:42Suni i stil unable to control my laughing yaar specialy 4 d thought that bua nd prashant marriage OMG nd next one the place of yash’s joke nd his laugh made me so ……. Sometext missing yaar . And plz tel me wats d profile pic of darious boodoo. I am searching 4 his profile 4 u .
Suni
January 13, 08:02Hi apple , how is Srinija ? I haven’t heard you mention her in a while .please give her my best regards . I hope that she is much better now .
The profile pic is some sort of pokemon character , which is from Japanese animation.
Apple
January 14, 01:00Hai suni dont worry much yaar ur srinija is so so safe she is watching pv regularly but not cmnting bcoz of her regular exams as she had already tøok a long leave 4 about 2 months 4 her injury right so highly busy in all her works yaar recently i told her about our cmnts prasant nd bua marriage she herself cant control her laughing too yaar. Anyway try to search 4 my profile too the name is APPLE JA nd the profile pic wil be 2 birds holding a red rose maximum likes wil be on d name of GC nd PV only ha ha ha ha happy pöngal
Suni
January 14, 05:30I will do that . Happy Pongal to you guys also .
Afreesh
January 12, 05:25Hi Sj….where is your flu halwa recipe dear…..I’m waiting for that .
Sj….yesterday’s episodes I have doubt yaar…..what did yash has done when he came closer to ArthI???? is that we should consider that yash kissed her????….
SJ
January 12, 15:14No halwa recipe for a while, I am burned inside with stupid sinthia and Parsant thing
Which Halwa recipe
Carrot halwa
Looki (green squash ) halwa
Cerme of Wheat halwa
Gram flour halwa
But all these halwa are guuee kind of which Suni Spode not like
How we can eat halwa when yash and arthi are going thru rough time yarr
Afreesh
January 12, 15:58Sj….you did clear my doubt yaar….why???….
Afreesh
January 12, 16:02Sj….I wanted to say….you didn’t clear my doubt regarding the scene….
SJ
January 12, 17:25No he did not kiss her he blew air on her face
What I think, may be yash will be separated from arthi, and both will be miserable
Later sinthia family will be in some kind of danger or yash will fall in sick and arthi will bail it out
The family, and Parsnt will keep continue intervene and keep disturbing yash nd arth’s life
Because arthi heard what pa Sintha said to yash, you knw arthi ably less than a year, you insulted me, your mother is sufring you do not think about none, so I thnk for the sake of family
Arthi will leave herself , or papa sinthia will make some kind of scheme with Parsant to separate yash and arthi.and a missunderstanding will be created between yash and arthi so there will be no honey moon or a happ time for both of them.
Yash and arthi
Suni
January 13, 08:14SJ , the very noble profession that you are in , comes with its own share of stress . Please do not worry unnecessarily over this show especially since we have little control over the writers discretion beyond our written complaint . we should try to remain calm as it can only injure your well being when we lose all hope . Healthy body equals healthy mind , but it also works as healthy mind equals healthy body . You are such a good person , do not allow the negatives to bring you down .
I would appreciate any Halwa you make . I was my mistake for not wanting to give yours a try . Anything made with a good heart tastes the best . Where is the fun SJ we know and love on this forum ?
SJ
January 13, 11:45Yah Sun thanks for your moral support yar, yah Am lossing my mind as well as my health
Yo knw what any time pv started to come in m dream, li yash and arhis next track
Yah many cute scenes are to making laugh, like yash telling joke and ask arthi what was next
Or washing her sari and ripping it , or closing the bathrooms door asking for to count the tiles
I want , I wish children ave school holiday. And all they go on vacation and be close to each other, and in each other arms in a fariland, forget everthing becme romantic and let us remove our stress for a whie, ths s too much yarr, if this s me. I will go mental , will stop recognize
Who s uni who s Affresh. Getting too much . Pleas do not mind my analysis ,
Suni
January 13, 12:18SJ , I understand your point very well dear . You see for me I started to view Aarti in a different light when Ansh had to go for the BMT . I couldn’t understand any mother doing that so willingly to her child . She never asked for an alternative . I know the writers made child’s play of that issue so the serious implications of the procedure were never highlighted .
Recently that jelabi scene got to me yaar . Why did she expect the man who wanted to throw her out to welcome her son so quickly back ? She pushed Papa S further back and made the man more angry . I want to see those fun times you speak about very much . But I want Aarti to become a character that no one can cast scorn upon or diminish in any way . She has a good heart Sj , and luck favours people with good hearts . She just needs a bit of discipline . She needs to strengthen her relationship with Yash and I wish that the writers would show them having more dialogue together discussing how they can overcome the present situation.
shla
January 13, 12:27sorry I need to again challenge your assertion that Pappa got more angry at Aarti becoz she sent Ansh for Jelabee. It is true that Aarti sent Ansh to get Jelabee but Pappa did not know that whether Aarti sent Ansh, Yash sent Anshor Ansh came there by himself. Jumping to the conclusion that Pappa’s got more angry at Aarti becoz Ansh was there is a stretch as Pappa had no idea.
Suni
January 13, 13:04Ansh is under Yash and Aarti’s authority . They are responsible for displining their children . I am prone to understanding that though Papa S is a bit old , but he isn’t blind . He had approached the table from a point that Aarti and Yash were most likely visible to him . The fact that he indirectly spoke to Aarti through Gayatri would corroborate my point , for he told Gayatri to advise Aarti to disciple her child . He is fully aware that no member of his family is allowed to speak to Yash and Aarti , so his the only purpose of his words was to fall on Aarti’s ear .
shla
January 13, 13:41Again, if I accept your premise that he saw Yash and Aarti and Yash and Aarti are responsible then why did not he say both Yash and Aarti and only used Aarti.
You may say he knows Yash but does not know Aarti and Yash will send Ansh to table. That’s wrong Yash already questioned his punishment and Pappa did not know Yash will do the right thing of following his wife. It is clear then that Pappa does not know Yash well enough and thus to be objective viewer his anger is too much.
Afreesh
January 12, 05:16Suni……Good morning yaar……♡♡♡♡♡♡♡
Have a wonderful day dear….don’t bother, It’s fine with me we can discuss tomorrow….
Afreesh
January 12, 05:30Hi Amaica…..Thank you very much for including us in your prayer. You are always showering us (me, Suni, Sj) with your affectionate support & encouragement no matter whether we deserve it or not. Thank you dear…..
SJ
January 13, 17:30Dear Amacia , raji, renu, Suni, Affresh, Everyone in frum, I thank you and including us in your prayer, hat s so muc means to me love oh all
anonymous
January 12, 00:29dubejis lied and got aarti married. it is shoba who has to rectify aarti’s life bcos of their stupid plan. i wud like shobha herself killing her son Prashant. That will be the right penance she can do for such a damage brought into aarti’s life