There was a blind girl who hated herself because she was blind.
She hated everyone, except her loving boyfriend. He was always there for her.
She told her boyfriend, ‘If I could only see the world, I will marry you.’
One day, someone donated a pair of eyes to her. When the bandages came off, she was able to see everything, including her boyfriend.
He asked her,’ Now that you can see the world, will you marry me?’
The girl looked at her boyfriend and saw that he was blind. The sight of his closed eyelids shocked her. She hadn’t expected that. The thought of looking at them the rest of her life led her to refuse to marry him.
Her boyfriend left her in tears and days later wrote a note to her saying: ‘Take good care of your eyes, my dear, for before they were yours, they were mine.’
This is how the human brain often works when our status changes.
Only a very few remember what life was like before, and who was always by their side in the most painful situations.
Life Is a Gift
Today before you say an unkind word –
Think of someone who can’t speak.
Before you complain about the taste of your food – Think of someone who has nothing to eat.
Before you complain about your husband or wife – Think of someone who’s crying out to GOD for a companion.
Today before you complain about life –
Think of someone who died too young.
Before you complain about your children –
Think of someone who desires children but they’re barren.
Before you argue about your dirty house someone didn’t clean or sweep –
Think of the people who are living in the streets.
Before whining about the distance you drive
Think of someone who walks the same distance with their feet.
And when you are tired and complain about your job –
Think of the unemployed, the disabled, and those who wish they had your job.
But before you think of pointing the finger or condemning another –
Remember that not one of us is without sin and we all answer to one MAKER.
And when depressing thoughts seem to get you down –
Put a smile on your face and thank GOD you’re alive and still around.
Kris…. Hi, hope everything is well with you and the family.
Are you building in Rousillac to live ?
Everywhere is dangerous now… petty theft… crime etc
We just got to be aware of this and put in the necessary
securities in the home… Including cameras and a gun..( just joking)
I still got work going on home… No rush got the entire year
for completion of this one project …
1lb cream of wheat / 1 lb ghee /1 lb sugar /6oz grated ginger /2tins carnation milk /ground elychee .. Heat ghee and add cream of wheat to it ,parch the cream of wheat for like 25 mins on low to medium heat make sure and keep turning /on another pot add carnation milk to 1 cup of regular milk and bring to a boil / when you are done parching the cream of wheat add the boiled milk little by little and keep turning the mixture ,add the sugar /elychee/ground ginger and raisins and cherries optional and mix everything in and that’s about it … NB .. Some people add the sugar to the milk and boil it in but I like to add it in the mixture … Enjoy ! Also instead of cream of wheat u can use flour .Or you can use both together proportionately…
. Same method is required …
Thanks dear,
I am sooooo tired, been up and down the land trying to resecure the house, it’s like closing the gate after the horse ran out, but we will need the house secured when we start building, had people there today so much jep, the stop valves broken a water line hot broken and can’t take off the water had nothing to fix it with hoping with the water schedule no water for us to fix it,
Nice weather today
Take care all
He is doing much better, still quite weak though, but clear lungs, doc told him to continue antibiotics for another 5 days, he is not getting sleep with it, so might get prescription for something to help him sleep, thanks for asking dear, he’s on sick leave till next weekend
Went down to the house on the land people break in again, this time they went with the stove and the big Jake, people just plain wicked you know, now we have a water tank and a washing machine still for the owners to take, we made a report to the oropouche police, so more cleaning and see urine G, just imagine the removed the dead bolt we had on the steel door, scattered everything all over, docs from filing cabinet, people’s files all over the place, is real stress yes
SJ so great to hear from you, all the best my dear,
Keep good all
He is doing much better, still quite weak though, but clear lungs, doc told him to continue antibiotics for another 5 days, he is not getting sleep with it, so might get prescription for something to help him sleep, thanks for asking dear, he’s on sick leave till next weekend
Went down to the house on the land people break in again, this time they went with the stove and the big Jake, people just plain wicked you know, now we have a water tank and a washing machine still for the owners to take, we made a report to the oropouche police, so more cleaning and see urine G, just imagine the removed the dead bolt we had on the steel door, scattered everything all over, docs from filing cabinet, people’s files all over the place, is real stress yes
SJ so great to hear from you, all the best my dear,
Keep good all
Kris…. Happy to know that RVR is recuperating well.
Continue to take good care of him at home…
Next time we must remember to consult our Dr. SJ…
She is also very excellent in that area…I’m sure she’ll
appreciate us consulting her…
Girl… Sorry to hear about the theft… After all that security
.. Steel door etc… Place a hidden camera now…La Brea is the
breathing grounds for criminals in the South… Lazy people..
want easy life.. You plant stuff.. they will reap the crop and
sell it back to you on the wayside… happened to me with
my oranges…They can get employment but they forever
fail the drug test… Can’t stay clean for even three days ..
The companies in the area tried with them but to no avail.
Keep good my girl… We are doing over the electrical in
the first part of the existing building.. Costing a dime..
It don’t end there… Now we got to paint.. and refurbish
windows.. doors. furniture and lighting fixtures…
Bathrooms need redoing also… Everything looks good
until you touch one aspect of it…
DID YOU KNOW, Chadon beni also known as Cilantro or bhandhania is more than a spice…
The leaves and roots of this herb can be boiled and the water drunk for treating pneumonia, flu, diabetes, digestive issues and malaria. The root can be chewed for cutting the poison from scorpion stings and in India the root is reportedly used to alleviate stomach pains.
The leaves themselves can be eaten to stimulate appetite. #healthandwellness
Hello everyone amaica kriss,Trinity,afresh suni all forum new and old friend
A very beautiful good morning to to you all
Hope everyone is ok , Kris’s so soory to hear about your husband abd mom
Sending my love and good wishes and a speedy recovery
Amaicam you busy lady might be busy in your daily hectic routine
Want to say hello and my live to you all
Happy leap year stay blessed
Suni… An old show Saloni… Is now airing on Zee but it’s in English …
I find it very funny…. more like human cartoons… Check it out whenever
you have some time..
2 table spoon if custard in 1 cup water, I grind 2 coconut , squeeze out the milk. I grind it twice ! After that I mix 2 tins of carnation and condensed together with the custard and milk add a little drop of vanilla essence and Walla! Lol
Adjust to your sweetness…
Change is not a four letter word… but often your reaction to it is!
– Jeffrey Gitomer
Opportunity is missed by most people because it is dressed in overalls and looks like work.
-Thomas Eddison
Even if you are on the right track, you’ll get run over if you just sit there.
-Will Rogers
Try to be like the turtle – at ease in your own shell.
-Bill Copeland
Follow your passion, stay true to yourself, never follow someone else’s path unless you’re in the woods and you’re lost and you see a path then by all means you should follow that.
– Ellen Degeneres
If you think you are too small to make a difference, try sleeping with a mosquito.
-Dalai Lama
If you fall, I’ll always be there.
– The Floor
Whatever you are, be a good one
-Abraham Lincoln
Remember no one can make you feel inferior without your consent.
-Eleanor Roosevelt
Work with what you have, where you are.
-Theodore Roosevelt
To be the best , you must be able to handle the worst.
-Wilson Kanad
A jug fills drop by drop.
-Buddha
Hope is the heartbeat of the soul.
-Michelle Horst
It does not matter how slowly you go as long as you do not stop.
-Confucius
Thanks for the concern
Dr Batin is excellent, he is treating him, he is in extended sick leave, when he goes back out it will be mayaro RR is going PTown
My mom is not the best still, I guess it’s age, she is accustomed to moving around so it hard for her to sit still, but she tries,
I am seeing some progress in the land, hope I can start planting fruit trees this year
Trins how’s it coming along
Thanks for the concern
Dr Batin is excellent, he is treating him, he is in extended sick leave, when he goes back out it will be mayaro RR is going PTown
My mom is not the best still, I guess it’s age, she is accustomed to moving around so it hard for her to sit still, but she tries,
I am seeing some progress in the land, hope I can start planting fruit trees this year
Trins how’s it coming along
That’s wonderful news Kris… Take good care of him.
.Dr. Battin is very good.. He is in good hands..
Your Mom is doing well for her age…You can’t get
them to stay quiet… They will get more sick.
Just let her Be.. Do whatever makes her happy.
But ensure that she’s not lonely..not much old folks
around now..
Chan Mom is 86 yrs… Not in good health these days.
KR’s aunt is eighty five and she does yoga and believe in
juicing her fruits and veg… Has dinner at five.. Very discipline.
Your Mom is quiet…My Mom and MIL were quiet people too.
This Poowah is Boss…We love her and still consult with her.
Hey, hope all is well
I’ve been busy,
The husband sick, took him for chest x-ray, suspected pneumonia, confusion with Dr’s, his bro vs Dr Batin, oh boy,
Suni MS, I thought I knew massa actress, but I was mistaken, I don’t know her, but she is excellent though, haven’t been able to view it these days and there’s no written update, oh well,
At the Dr’s
Kris I’m so so sorry to hear about RVR…
Good that you did the ex ray …
If you’re in any doubts he should see dr Shiva Jagger–
Please don’t treat this lightly…this virus causes pneumonia..
My thoughts and prayers are with him
Kris,glad to hear things are progressing well with your development.
Amaica glad to hear from you.
Suni what’s up home slice.
Well my excuse for scratching the car,didn’t work. The plan wasn’t to say anything and act as shock as him when he saw it.
But he had a tough day,he got into fight with a team-mate on the rugby team,and his mom is still a moron of epic proportions. So I told him its was my fault, he then buff meh tail, I felt like I was a teenager being scold by her dad, then he went and sleep and got up happy.
Have a great day ladies of to conquer the world and plan something nice for the hubby.
So no RM T-shirt for you 🙁 .
I’m glad it all worked out 🙂 , bro is an understanding guy .
So you’re like Pinky and the Brain , out to conquer the world 😀 , best of luck !!! Have a great weekend !!! ❤️
Enjoying tonight’s 10.00 pm episode of Meri Saasu Maa..
Finally…. read several updates of M S M..
Easy to follow up with the show now..
Very nice story so far..(some crooks in the family)
Pari and Maasa are strong characters
Is Satendra Pari’s husband ? (also called Saatu)
Kris…See you are back in the land… Good !!!
I’m making pone now instead of carrots and fruit cake..
Trin..,How is the oil price affecting your company.?
How’s the little madam,,,!!!!
Suni. Sweetheart….thanks for asking, everything is fine.
I read the updates on the show…. and your bit to Kris..
I’ll eventually be hooked on the show I know…but not right now.
Enjoyed your story… I like the Chinese Doctor
Kris …… Trin….. Don’t work too hard.. Love you all.
Hey just got in, work start back on my development, so not much time, it feels so good to be busy with the land work, can’t wait to start my planting on my piece, tractor doing food job so far, things finally starting to move forward,
Keep good, till next time
Good to know you’re well Amaica dear ❤️ .
Kris , good luck with the planting it’s hard work .
I struggling to plant an xora hedge 😀 , doing battle with some donkey grass that keeps trying to take over .
A Lawyer Tries To Trick A Chinese Doctor Into Giving Him $100
A Chinese doctor can’t find a job in a hospital in the US, so he opens a clinic and puts a sign outside that reads “GET TREATMENT FOR $20 – IF NOT CURED GET BACK $100.”
An American lawyer thinks this is a great opportunity to earn $100 and goes to the clinic.
Lawyer: “I have lost my sense of taste.”
Chinese: “Nurse, bring medicine from box No. 22 and put 3 drops in patient’s mouth.”
Lawyer: “Ugh. this is kerosene.”
Chinese: “Congrats, your sense of taste is restored. Give me $20.”
The annoyed lawyer goes back after a few days to recover his money.
Lawyer: “I have lost my memory. I cannot remember anything.”
Chinese: “Nurse, bring medicine from box no. 22 and put 3 drops in his mouth.”
Lawyer (annoyed): “This is kerosene. You gave this to me last time for restoring my taste.”
Chinese: “Congrats. You got your memory back. Give me $20.”
The fuming lawyer pays him, and then comes back a week later determined to get back $100.
Lawyer: “My eyesight has become very weak I can’t see at all.”
Chinese: “Well, I don’t have any medicine for that, so take this $100.”
Lawyer (staring at the note): “But this is $20, not $100!!”
Chinese: “Congrats, your eyesight is restored. Give me $20”
Silent but deadly
A little old lady goes to the doctor and says, “Doctor I have this problem with gas, but it really doesn’t bother me too much. My farts never smell and are always silent. As a matter of fact, I’ve farted at least 20 times since I’ve been here in your office. You didn’t know I was farting because they don’t smell and are silent.”
The doctor says, “I see, take these pills and come back to see me next week.”
The next week the lady comes back.
“Doctor,” she says, “I don’t know what you gave me, but now my farts…although still silent…stink terribly.”
The doctor says, “Good! Now that we’ve cleared up your sinuses, let’s work on your hearing.”
PROBLEMS can either make you or break you. The hammer that breaks glass can also shape up the steel. It is up to you to be a glass or a steel. Face your life bravely.
I went back and watch ek Ti raja ek ta rani,boy that show got stupid fast! I’m not wasting my Time on dat load of crap!
Suni do you remember ur classic comment,” I would dilike it till it make sense” that statement applies to that show.
I’m hot water I scratched the hubby car with a rake from front to back. I haven’t told him as yet,you guys know how men get about their cars. I’m off to turn on the charm when he gets home.
Watch Meri Saasu Ma , it’s good so far I’m not disliking it and I’ll fill you in on what you’ve missed.
Oh boy 🙂 , good luck with that , might I suggest , that as a peace offering, you agree to support RM wholeheartedly from this day onwards 😛 .. .
That seem like a very apt punishment for your error 😀 . ..
Oh yo yoi, some men are like that with their cars, good luck, tell him you misbalanced fell or almost, hope he concentrate on how you are more than the car lol,
Oh that Raja Rani show I gave up after a few episodes, I don’t even read the updates,
Sasuma looks good so far, the actress of massa is an excellent actress, I don’t know the rest of them, well Pari dadi and massi, Pari is a strong character so far, hope they don’t turn her I to a submissive typical bahu, looking forward to it, her father however is like, yes dear, lol, go and get milk, lol, yes dear,
JR is on and off OK,
So hope to see you together with Suni on Sasuma
This mayor sounding like dem typical dotish Indian men who blame the way women dress to justify rape, that statement would have been OK another time another day another place, but totally outta place and timing in Asami case, so I hear he resigned, hope his female relatives dresses decent
You know Kris , I don’t know that actress who plays Massa , at all ; but she’s really good with her expressions . The lead guy’s name is Pearl ; strange Indian name .
Massa has some really horrid daughters in-law . In an earlier episode she had tied a rope around her neck and jumped and had to be taken to hospital because she heard them complaining bitterly about her . The worse one is Babita , you’ll know her 😀 . . She had encouraged her husband to try to rob his mother’s house , but he got caught and Massa had said that she knew who had instigated him . The only one who genuinely loves Massa there is her son Sattu . It’s moving along nicely 🙂 .
That witch from Kamla’s show , she is Pari’s step mom , but she’s also Pari’s mother’s younger sister , so that’s why she calls her Massi Ma . I’m not sure if Pari’s siblings share the same mother as her , I’m still figuring that out . Pari’s dad really loves his daughter though , but he’s a weak character , you’re right 🙂 , he does seem like a pushover.
Rant away suni! Rant away!! I second your ranting’s!
I hope everyone had a great wkend and enjoyed it to the max.
So the idiotic mayor isn’t gonna resign sooo I guess I cant wear skirts,shorts and fitted pants because I’m asking to be raped. You really have to wonder what’s going on in the world to day.
I hope u guys had a lovely valentines day,with ur special ones.
Suni,Kris I’m gonna try and watch the new show you guys speak about.
Lol , we better pull out the burka 😀 . .
They are a bunch of jokers yes . .
Yay !! 🙂 It would be so good if we can all watch the new show .
It won’t be PV , but it’ll be something current to comment on .
All the best for your week ❤️ .. .
My dearest Suni, your rant is justified, we find ourselves ranting somuch these days, just imagine basic items, and prices through the roof, and pnmites cheering when the imp say we go eat grass, it dont even have enough land to plant grass too. I’m glad Tim or as someone refer to him as Don Key, said thaat, let the people see who our leaders real face, remember when there were so much kidnapping what manning had said? Shameless people indeed, and the Point fortin mayor also supporting the idiot
Yes Amaica the BIL died recently also, finally going to the house tonight, I am sure the husband and children looking out for us all weeek, weent to seenath’s funeral, met so many people I did not see for so long, I guess weddings and funerals are the popular meeting
time for friends aand faamily now, people so busy with life.
I did look at Ms last night, there will come a time sshe would cry for thaat ssame bahu and treaat her like her daaughter but before that is real drama,
I look at Santoshi when I get aa chaancee, some people aare really as superstitious like that rich family, right here in trinidad i see it.
HAPPY VALENTINES TO ONE AND ALL, LOTS OF LOVE
enjoy tomorrow
Lol Kris , you made me laugh with that comment 😆 ; you’re right though , NHA took all the land we could have planted grass on .
I hear you Kris 😐 , it’s just a sorry state of affairs . B4 people could have looked externally , to foreign lands , to seek betterment , now though , the whole world seems in crisis .
I have DirecTv and we have only 1 Indian channel . You have an overload with flow Kris 😀 . ..
You’re right about Massa Kris , one day she will appreciate that daughter-in-law .
Amaica dear , it’s on 10 a:m and I think 10 p:m .
It’s on weekends , but I’m not sure of the time .
Hey, at the beginning of this year one of my friends said it’s the year of the grim reaper, well, seems she is so right, too many deaths, so many people we know, recently one of my neighbors at home, went mandir together growing up, not even 60 good, found dead on his porch, now a friend of ours, not 60 yet, got headache, went to hospital, prepping her for surgery, went to get her, she died, got a son my daughter age studying in England, he won open scholarship in pres, so sad for the husband and children, Sunday is funeral then my sis, some of her husband relative fell off a veranda in mayaro Crack his skull, Amaica you might be knowing him. Oh my sis did tell me she went to the same satsangh,
Them my friend father, Amaica you might know him, seenath from fyzo, the cinema people, tomorrow is funeral,
Trins hope you are keeping good my dear, I’m sure the little one is the apple of her dad’s eyes, take good care of her, give her lots of hugs and kisses, I give up on serials, too frustrating, instead of entertainment is stress, I sometimes look at santoshi, SMH, Jr, off and on these days, but the rest, balika vadhu I look at, my little one loves it and udaan,
Suni I’ve started looking at meri saasuma, will look forward to reading your comments on it, let’s see how long before they ruin it,
Aapka colors also has ashoka, I look at that,
Well busy weekend ahead take care all
I’m so sad to hear about all those deaths Kris 🙁 , it bothers us a lot when it’s people we know .
The news these days is just nightmarish ; grim reaper year indeed .
I seldom watch Ian Alleyne , but tonight I watched and saw police in uniform severely beating a man . I know that’s the norm , but I thought the dumb ass police would know better by now ; everyone has a camera phone .
Then we have that ridiculous mayor 😐 . I just feel like screaming the words of the old people ” lawd put ah hand ! ” . Imagine the mentality of that mayor , he was blaming the woman for getting murdered , suggesting that she brought it upon herself in some way .
The women activists protested ,in large numbers , and were opposed by 2 crazy looking PNMmites , who can’t even speak properly , defending the idiot mayor . They were loud and obnoxious and irrelevant and seemed so ignorant .
Remember when Rowley wined up on the 17 year old ? He himself has no respect for women . He insulted his wife openly but she just swallow that ” jus so ” . That girl could have been Rowley’s grandchild .
For the political campaign , he made these crass comments about Kamla saying his dog will deal with her cat . That man is disgusting .
Recently he was talking about how women these days don’t know how to peel cassava 😐 . Seriously !! I guess men in Trinidad don’t cook , we live in the Middle Ages and women alone must see about household duties . Furthermore , we came this far , to go back to the Amerindian days of depending on cassava .
I pray for the day that stupidity would be made an offense punishable by law ,
Thank you dear Kris , dear Amaica for considering the soap 🙂 .
It is a typical story thus far , but I’m liking it ; the heroine has some spunk like our Aarti . Comment when guys you can ok , I’m looking forward to your thoughts also .
Kris…
Her BIL passed away the same time that my BIL moved on…
We met while awaiting cremation approval forms at the SPS..
Only yesterday my friend from Floral Creation told me of her
death… Heard about Mr Seenath’s death last night… He used
to seriously lime KR cousin LR in his youthful days… she was
the manager at F’bab republic bank… In Houstan now must
tell her…sorry to hear about the other friends and relatives…
Be strong be happy…love you.
Suni…
I enjoyed reading your write…..
you are absolutely correct about all that you mentioned.
He was teaching the seventeen years old to peel casava..
He’s such an arse.
By the way… what time the show starts… Pls let me know.
Will do anything for you… Love you.
Kris I don’t watch those soaps anymore they just annoy the hell out of me. I almost got sucked in by Ek Ti raja Rk Ti rani,but then it got stupid so I said goodbye. I’ve directtv and I more watch discovery and natgeo.
Amacia love that post about marriage so on point. My daughter is truly a joy so it makes everyday easier having her and the hubby around.
Kris…
Your sis and family attended our Satsangh tonight.
Her children music guru delivered the message.
The guru is a very dear and loved friend of ours.
MUST READ: Dying Girl’s Hidden Message on Mirror Stuns Her Family
We were completely moved by the UK’s Athena Orchard, 13, who died of cancer. Her parents were shocked to find a 3,000 word message adhered to the back of her mirror.
Because her words are so profound, her family decided to share it. Here is the letter for you to read:
“Happiness depends upon ourselves. Maybe it’s not about the happy ending, maybe it’s about the story.
The purpose of life is a life of purpose. The difference between ordinary and extraordinary is that little extra.
Happiness is a direction not a destination. Thank you for existing. Be happy, be free, believe, forever young. You know my name, not my story.
You have heard what I’ve done, but not what I’ve been through. Love is like glass, looks so lovely but it’s easy to shatter.
Love is rare, life is strange, nothing lasts and people change. Every day is special, so make the most of it, you could get a life ending illness tomorrow so make the most of every day. Life is only bad if you make it bad.
If someone loves you, then they wouldn’t let you slip away no matter how hard the situation is. Remember that life is full of ups and downs.
Never give up on something you can’t go a day without thinking about. I want to be that girl who makes the bad days better and the one that makes you say my life has changed since I met her!
Love is not about how much you say I love you – it’s about how much you can prove it’s true. Love is like the wind, you can feel it but you can’t see it. I’m waiting to fall in love with someone I can open my heart to.
Love is not about who you can see spending your future with, it’s about who you can’t see spending your life without… Life is a game for everyone but love is the prize. Only I can judge me.
Sometimes love hurts. Now I’m fighting myself. Baby I can feel your pain. Dreams are my reality. It hurts but it’s okay, I’m used to it.
Don’t be quick to judge me, you only see what I choose to show you… you don’t know the truth. I just want to have fun and be happy without being judged.
This is my life, not yours, don’t worry about what I do. People gonna hate you, rate you, break you, but how strong you stand, that’s what makes you… you! There’s no need to cry because I know you’ll be by my side.”
Dear AMAICA how are you, thank you For thinking of me loving me giving me your affection & keep your door open for me always make me feel I have a home to visit do not need an invitation
I hope you and everyone in your Family are good and doing well. I often think of everyone , our nice healthy discussion ,all yours and Kris’s wisdom much more to think and remember all ours up & down our caring and sharing our ups & down togather
Thank you so much for keep this forum alive and well
I love all of you stay blessed
Hello and love to all forum friend
Hey SJ, so good to hear from you, keep good my dear,
Oh, I think too much rest is never enough, maybe I’m just lazy, lol
Amaica, Suni, Trins, do you have flow cable, they’ve taken off mist of the good channels and pack in some crappie ones, we’ll like they want to overdose we trinis with Indian channels, aapka colors, star plus, Sony Asia, life OK
I’ve been flipping through Chanelle,
Haven’t had a chance to look at MSM, I really wanted to see it, some good actors, I hardly look at zee, getting fed up of these soaps not, they start off so promising of good story then it all comes down to the the same Ole same Ole confusion and back biting etc, I now look at Balika Vadhu on aapka colors, really nice, never fails, bit dragging, but the story is really nice, .
There’s quite a few shows, I sometimes look at
Hope all is well with everyone,
Amaica how are you and the family dear
SJ…Just making a quick pass through and saw you here…
How is your Mom and Sis… How’s work with you.
I often think of you my dear..The good times we shared.
Keep good and take care of yourself.. Love you.
Kris…Busy body… Girl time out is good…Your presence
is important here too… I am learning Spanish.. (don’t laugh)
always loved the language.. Guess I’ll fulfill the desire.
Suni… Sweetheart!!! Which band were you in.?
I’m sure you had a great weekend. C keep good.
Trin…I’m happy to hear that you enjoyed your weekend.
That Princess will be sunshine in your life… She came in
the right time… God is good, regardless of the dark clouds
that hang over us sometimes…we just got to rise and shine.
HARDCORE TRUTH ABOUT MARRIAGE! !!!!
1. There is nothing that threatens the security of a wife than the thought of another woman competing for the attention and affection of her husband. Nothing is more painful. Nothing is more disrespecting. Nothing is more insulting. Nothing is more belittling and degrading.
2. Marriage flourishes when the couple works together as a team; when both husband and wife decide that winning together is more important than keeping score.
Good marriages don’t just happen. They are a product of hard work.
3. Your children are watching you and forming lasting opinions on love, commitment, and marriage based on what they see in you. Give them hope. Make them look forward to marriage.
4. Husbands: The reason why other women look attractive is because someone is taking good care of them. Grass is always green where it is watered. Instead of drooling over the green grass on the other side of the fence, work on yours and water it regularly. Any man can admire a beautiful woman, but it takes a true gentleman to make a woman admirable and beautiful.
5. When a husband puts his wife first above everyone and everything except God, it gives his wife the sense of security and honor that every wife hungers for.
6. A successful marriage doesn’t require a big house, a prefect spouse, a million dollars or an expensive car. You can have all the above and still have a miserable marriage. A successful marriage requires honesty, undying commitment and selfless love and Jesus at the center of it all.
7. Pray for your spouse every day; in the morning, in the afternoon and at evening. Don’t wait until there is a problem. Don’t wait until there is an affair. Don’t wait until something bad happens. Don’t wait until your spouse is tempted. Shield your spouse with prayer and cover your marriage with the fence of prayer.
8. The people you surround yourself with have a lot of influence on your marriage. Friends can build or break your marriage; choose them wisely.
9. One spouse cannot build a marriage alone when the other spouse is committed to destroying it. Marriage works when both husband and wife work together as a team to build their marriage.
10. Don’t take your spouse for granted. Don’t take advantage of your spouse’s meekness and goodness. Don’t mistake your spouse’s loyalty for desperation. Don’t misuse or abuse yours spouse’s trust. You may end up regretting after losing someone that meant so much to you.
11. Beware of marital advice from single people. Regardless of how sincere their advice may be, most of it is theoretical and not derived from real life experiences. If you really need Godly advice, seek it from God-fearing, impartial and prayerful mature couples whose resolve has been tested by time and shaped by trials.
12. Dear wife, Don’t underestimate the power of the tongue on your marriage. The tongue has the power to crush your marriage or build it up. Don’t let the Devil use your tongue to kill your spouse’s image, self-confidence and aspirations. Let God use your tongue to build up your marriage and bless and praise your spouse.
IF YOU AGREE KINDLY TAG YOUR “SPOUSE” TO READ THIS .
SJ , SJ , SJ . . you visit then run away . . 😐 . .
Do you think that we forgot you , and only Amaica remembered 😛 . .
Hope you’re good . . I send you my love .
Please don’t throw it back with accusations that I abandoned you 😯 😛 .
You’re in my heart forever ❤️ .
Now talk and tell us what’s up 😀 . ..
Nah Amaica dearest , it is today 🙂 . ..
Thank you soooo much for the lovely wishes ; it really touches my heart that you remembered .
Love you very much ❤️ .
Hope your feeling better .
Happy birthday to you my dear Suni, wish you all the best that life has to offer and many more
We had retreat this weekend it was simply awesome,
Too tired, need rest lol
Take care
Happy BDAY! SUNI be blessed on this special day and share the love and joy.
Didn’t play mas this year,spent the longwkend at Sans Souci watching the husband surf and trying to keep our water baby from putting everything in her mouth.
Thank you all so much ❤️ 🙂 .
Kris , that happens , I think we always need a bit of time to recover from a mini vacation ; there’s never enough time to enjoy the change of routine .
I’m imagining her playing Trinity 🙂 ; you’re truly blessed . ..
Good to see you both safe and sound .
Love you guys ❤️ . Take care . .
HOPE YUU HAVE AN AWESOME REST OF THE WEEK !!!
Good night Kris ❤️ , QH finally ended , thank goodness !!
I hadn’t realized until I saw a new show in its time slot .
I’m surprised there isn’t a fan page 😕 . ..
Good night Amaica dear , Trinity my darling ❤️ . ..
wow, finally, such good news, indeed
hows everybody, amaica deaar how are you doing,
Trins, do enjoy the baby, she’ll grow up too fast.
take caare, kindaa busy these daays,
Kris the little one is quite a hand full but we are enjoying every moment of it, right now she’s obsessed with her dad’s tattoos,the colours has her captivated.
Lovely rainy day on my end…but the real sunshine are you guys..
I need sometime away from everything …mind you I am well and happy..
So please…please continue to visit and discuss with each other…
That will make me very very happy… I’ll still be around but not as active.
Trin… I am really happy to hear about our Punar Vivah Baby… Pls continue
to share..
Kris… Busy body..
Suni…Sweetheart
SJ…Caring and Loving Dr.
Kris,amaica by gods grace I’m cherishing life and celebrating my parents life and legacy. My husband and daughter have been my strength throughout this difficult time,my daughter’s innocence and my husband’s strength has been truly amazing.
SUNI!SUNI!SUNI!!!!!!!!! RUNS ALL OVER D PLACE LIKE AH NUT!!!!!
SO HAPPY TO SEE UR BACK!!!!!! FORCA BARCELONA!!! LOL I had to get my football dig in.
I will pray that she becomes a Madrid fan 😛 . ..
Love life is fine 🙂 , I love myself very much 😀 . ..
Did you see Vardy’s goal today ? It’s a must see .
I guess the very fact that there are thousands and thousands of inspirational quotes and messages out there proves that life can be total crap sometimes 🙂 .
What can we do but move on and be grateful for what we have left .
Sometimes we have to be happy to have had what we had even though we lost it , we knew great people , like your brother in law Amaica , he sounds so genuine , the way he cared for his wife , and you knew such a man 🙂 , that’s amazing . Trinity’s parents had such a strong bond , it’s the kinda love that movies are based on .
Life gets overwhelming at times , there always seems to be something there trying to interrupt our joyful times . We cry we laugh we grieve but we keep on living . What else can we do ? We can’t give up ever .
Suni, so great to see you, what’s up at your end, thanks, my boy is having a hard time finishing his SBAs
Amaica my dear, hope you doing well, did not get a chance to check here, so now saw your message below, thanks,
We got retreat carnival weekend, not going out alone, missing satsangh because my boy can’t go, but every chance I get I’m going
Take care of yourselves and all trinis be safe for the carnival
Trinity 🙁 . . I can’t imagine how you got through that .
We always have to pick up the pieces wherever they fall and keep moving forward .
You’ll never forget , but in time the memories become softer and you’ll remember the good times more . They loved each other in life and till death . My love is with you always .
Amaica I’m good dear 🙂 . . thank you for looking out for me .
Sorry to hear that you weren’t well , and glad to hear that you are recovering .
You need to rest properly . I think you allow a lot of people to become idle because you work so hard ; they take it for granted that you will always get things done and they just put their feet up and relax . I really admire your good heart , but please , don’t allow anyone to take advantage of your kindness . I love you very much and I wish you good health and strength always ❤️ .
It’s really great hearing from you..I’m all smiles.
I missed you…hope to see you again soon.
Excellent tips … Thanks… It’s just my nature to be kind…I know when
to draw the line also…KR is great support.. can’t complain. God Bless.
My doctor also think that I’m pushing myself too much… Get buff too.
Hi Kris…
Time do fly, your young man is busy with exams..He will excel
I’m sure my girl is very happy at UWI .. Still got to be very careful …
Don’t move around alone. Girl now is time for the children.. You are right.
Take care… Keep well.
Hi Trin
Hope you are healing one day at a time…God will give you the strength.
Do visit and share about the baby and the family.
SJ… Mwah..God Bless.
Liman… Hope you got a new phone…Keep well… Blessings.
These red lights might indicate you need to remove people from your life.
Having the right support system can totally elevate you, but the wrong one can destroy you. So many people advocate for surrounding yourself in a positive environment with the right friends. Sometimes it is hard to let go of friends, we find excuses for them and ourselves, but you can’t ignore these seven signs. If they do any of these to you, cut them off. You will thank yourself in the long run.
1. Money is always the issue
These people will constantly borrow and ask for favors but don’t return the favor. They will think you can cover the bill and somehow try to make you pay. They only look to you as a wallet. Stick with people who support each other financially.
2. They don’t do what they say they will do for you
In other words, they never mean what they say. A person with real character will follow through. Cheap talk will just drag you down.
3. They are too busy
If you want to make the time for someone, you are able to. If they are too busy for you, reevaluate the friendship.
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4. They don’t care if you are struggling, just what your success gives them
Once you’ve reached the top, they all of a sudden flock to you. They don’t care about the struggles and challenges you have faced. If that is the case, they won’t be there for you when you actually need it. Real friends are proud of how far you have come.
5. They want to compare
They are always trying to one-up you. A real friend wouldn’t try to make you feel uncomfortable and they don’t compare, either. They’re always happy for each other.
6. They feed on drama
If your friend is constantly gossiping and backstabbing, they aren’t a real friend, or even a good person. Real friends are mature and act like adults.
7. You start to question yourself because of them
If friends in your life make you question yourself and your lifestyle, then leave them. Find friends that inspire and elevate you. Don’t lie to yourself; you know how you feel.
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October 17, 2015 ·
I spent 5 years hurting a good woman by staying with her but never fully choosing her.
I did want to be with this one. I really wanted to choose her. She was an exquisite woman, brilliant and funny and sexy and sensual. She could make my whole body laugh with her quick, dark wit and short-circuit my brain with her exotic beauty. Waking up every morning with her snuggled in my arms was my happy place. I loved her wildly.
Unfortunately, as happens with many young couples, our ignorance of how to do love well quickly created stressful challenges in our relationship. Before long, once my early morning blissful reverie gave way to the strained, immature ways of our everyday life together, I would often wonder if there was another woman out there who was easier to love, and who could love me better.
As the months passed and that thought reverberated more and more through my head, I chose her less and less. Every day, for five years, I chose her a little less.
I stayed with her. I just stopped choosing her. We both suffered.
Choosing her would have meant focusing every day on the gifts she was bringing into my life that I could be grateful for: her laughter, beauty, sensuality, playfulness, companionship, and so … much … more.
Sadly, I often found it nearly impossible to embrace – or even see – what was so wildly wonderful about her.
I was too focused on the anger, insecurities, demands, and other aspects of her strong personality that grated on me. The more I focused on her worst, the more I saw of it, and the more I mirrored it back to her by offering my own worst behavior. Naturally, this only magnified the strain on our relationship … which still made me choose her even less.
Thus did our nasty death spiral play itself out over five years.
She fought hard to make me choose her. That’s a fool’s task. You can’t make someone choose you, even when they might love you.
To be fair, she didn’t fully choose me, either. The rage-fueled invective she often hurled at me was evidence enough of that.
I realize now, however, that she was often angry because she didn’t feel safe with me. She felt me not choosing her every day, in my words and my actions, and she was afraid I would abandon her.
Actually, I did abandon her.
By not fully choosing her every day for five years, by focusing on what bothered me rather than what I adored about her, I deserted her.
Like a precious fragrant flower I brought proudly into my home but then failed to water, I left her alone in countless ways to wither in the dry hot heat of our intimate relationship.
I’ll never not choose another woman I love again.
It’s torture for everyone.
If you’re in relationship, I invite you to ask yourself this question:
“Why am I choosing my partner today?”
If you can’t find a satisfying answer, dig deeper and find one. It could be as simple as noticing that in your deepest heart’s truth, “I just do.”
If you can’t find it today, ask yourself again tomorrow. We all have disconnected days.
But if too many days go by and you just can’t connect with why you’re choosing your partner, and your relationship is rife with stress, let them go. Create the opening for another human being to show up and see them with fresh eyes and a yearning heart that will enthusiastically choose them every day.
Your loved one deserves to be enthusiastically chosen. Every day.
You do, too.
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March 10, 01:47This touched me.
There was a blind girl who hated herself because she was blind.
She hated everyone, except her loving boyfriend. He was always there for her.
She told her boyfriend, ‘If I could only see the world, I will marry you.’
One day, someone donated a pair of eyes to her. When the bandages came off, she was able to see everything, including her boyfriend.
He asked her,’ Now that you can see the world, will you marry me?’
The girl looked at her boyfriend and saw that he was blind. The sight of his closed eyelids shocked her. She hadn’t expected that. The thought of looking at them the rest of her life led her to refuse to marry him.
Her boyfriend left her in tears and days later wrote a note to her saying: ‘Take good care of your eyes, my dear, for before they were yours, they were mine.’
This is how the human brain often works when our status changes.
Only a very few remember what life was like before, and who was always by their side in the most painful situations.
Life Is a Gift
Today before you say an unkind word –
Think of someone who can’t speak.
Before you complain about the taste of your food – Think of someone who has nothing to eat.
Before you complain about your husband or wife – Think of someone who’s crying out to GOD for a companion.
Today before you complain about life –
Think of someone who died too young.
Before you complain about your children –
Think of someone who desires children but they’re barren.
Before you argue about your dirty house someone didn’t clean or sweep –
Think of the people who are living in the streets.
Before whining about the distance you drive
Think of someone who walks the same distance with their feet.
And when you are tired and complain about your job –
Think of the unemployed, the disabled, and those who wish they had your job.
But before you think of pointing the finger or condemning another –
Remember that not one of us is without sin and we all answer to one MAKER.
And when depressing thoughts seem to get you down –
Put a smile on your face and thank GOD you’re alive and still around.
Kris
March 11, 17:48Nice,
How’s everyone doing, missing you all and the talks we have
Bye
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March 12, 15:15Kris…. Hi, hope everything is well with you and the family.
Are you building in Rousillac to live ?
Everywhere is dangerous now… petty theft… crime etc
We just got to be aware of this and put in the necessary
securities in the home… Including cameras and a gun..( just joking)
I still got work going on home… No rush got the entire year
for completion of this one project …
Keep well… Will keep in touch.
A
March 02, 13:53Parsad recipe guys …Tried and Tested…
1lb cream of wheat / 1 lb ghee /1 lb sugar /6oz grated ginger /2tins carnation milk /ground elychee .. Heat ghee and add cream of wheat to it ,parch the cream of wheat for like 25 mins on low to medium heat make sure and keep turning /on another pot add carnation milk to 1 cup of regular milk and bring to a boil / when you are done parching the cream of wheat add the boiled milk little by little and keep turning the mixture ,add the sugar /elychee/ground ginger and raisins and cherries optional and mix everything in and that’s about it … NB .. Some people add the sugar to the milk and boil it in but I like to add it in the mixture … Enjoy ! Also instead of cream of wheat u can use flour .Or you can use both together proportionately…
. Same method is required …
Happy Shivathri
Kris
March 06, 20:05Thanks dear,
I am sooooo tired, been up and down the land trying to resecure the house, it’s like closing the gate after the horse ran out, but we will need the house secured when we start building, had people there today so much jep, the stop valves broken a water line hot broken and can’t take off the water had nothing to fix it with hoping with the water schedule no water for us to fix it,
Nice weather today
Take care all
A
March 01, 10:38Kris… How is your husband feeling… Pls let me know.
Kris
March 01, 16:43He is doing much better, still quite weak though, but clear lungs, doc told him to continue antibiotics for another 5 days, he is not getting sleep with it, so might get prescription for something to help him sleep, thanks for asking dear, he’s on sick leave till next weekend
Went down to the house on the land people break in again, this time they went with the stove and the big Jake, people just plain wicked you know, now we have a water tank and a washing machine still for the owners to take, we made a report to the oropouche police, so more cleaning and see urine G, just imagine the removed the dead bolt we had on the steel door, scattered everything all over, docs from filing cabinet, people’s files all over the place, is real stress yes
SJ so great to hear from you, all the best my dear,
Keep good all
Kris
March 01, 16:45He is doing much better, still quite weak though, but clear lungs, doc told him to continue antibiotics for another 5 days, he is not getting sleep with it, so might get prescription for something to help him sleep, thanks for asking dear, he’s on sick leave till next weekend
Went down to the house on the land people break in again, this time they went with the stove and the big Jake, people just plain wicked you know, now we have a water tank and a washing machine still for the owners to take, we made a report to the oropouche police, so more cleaning and see urine G, just imagine the removed the dead bolt we had on the steel door, scattered everything all over, docs from filing cabinet, people’s files all over the place, is real stress yes
SJ so great to hear from you, all the best my dear,
Keep good all
A
March 02, 08:22Kris…. Happy to know that RVR is recuperating well.
Continue to take good care of him at home…
Next time we must remember to consult our Dr. SJ…
She is also very excellent in that area…I’m sure she’ll
appreciate us consulting her…
Girl… Sorry to hear about the theft… After all that security
.. Steel door etc… Place a hidden camera now…La Brea is the
breathing grounds for criminals in the South… Lazy people..
want easy life.. You plant stuff.. they will reap the crop and
sell it back to you on the wayside… happened to me with
my oranges…They can get employment but they forever
fail the drug test… Can’t stay clean for even three days ..
The companies in the area tried with them but to no avail.
Keep good my girl… We are doing over the electrical in
the first part of the existing building.. Costing a dime..
It don’t end there… Now we got to paint.. and refurbish
windows.. doors. furniture and lighting fixtures…
Bathrooms need redoing also… Everything looks good
until you touch one aspect of it…
A
March 03, 21:27DID YOU KNOW, Chadon beni also known as Cilantro or bhandhania is more than a spice…
The leaves and roots of this herb can be boiled and the water drunk for treating pneumonia, flu, diabetes, digestive issues and malaria. The root can be chewed for cutting the poison from scorpion stings and in India the root is reportedly used to alleviate stomach pains.
The leaves themselves can be eaten to stimulate appetite. #healthandwellness
aarya
February 28, 07:52http://www.desitvbox.net/groups/madhubala-ek-ishq-ek-junoon/forum/topic/junoon-its-not-human-love-episode-26/#post-809624
SJ
February 29, 06:26Hello everyone amaica kriss,Trinity,afresh suni all forum new and old friend
A very beautiful good morning to to you all
Hope everyone is ok , Kris’s so soory to hear about your husband abd mom
Sending my love and good wishes and a speedy recovery
Amaicam you busy lady might be busy in your daily hectic routine
Want to say hello and my live to you all
Happy leap year stay blessed
A
February 29, 13:25SJ…. Lovely Dr….
You’re so loved here you’ll never know …
Mwah…. Mwah … Hugs and kisses!!!!
A
February 29, 22:37Suni… An old show Saloni… Is now airing on Zee but it’s in English …
I find it very funny…. more like human cartoons… Check it out whenever
you have some time..
Suni
February 28, 07:32Lots of love , hugs , kisses and good wishes to you all ❤️❤️❤️❤️✨✨✨✨
I’m in a very good mood , no idea why 😀 , just feel like sharing . .
You are all amazingly special people .
Please stay as lovely as you all are . . .
A
February 28, 18:24Thanks and same to you… Mwah
A
March 01, 10:03Coconut Ice Cream…Home made..,
2 table spoon if custard in 1 cup water, I grind 2 coconut , squeeze out the milk. I grind it twice ! After that I mix 2 tins of carnation and condensed together with the custard and milk add a little drop of vanilla essence and Walla! Lol
Adjust to your sweetness…
Suni
February 28, 07:24HAPPY SUNDAY !!!!! ❤️❤️✨✨✨✨
Suni
February 28, 07:21Change is not a four letter word… but often your reaction to it is!
– Jeffrey Gitomer
Opportunity is missed by most people because it is dressed in overalls and looks like work.
-Thomas Eddison
Even if you are on the right track, you’ll get run over if you just sit there.
-Will Rogers
Try to be like the turtle – at ease in your own shell.
-Bill Copeland
Follow your passion, stay true to yourself, never follow someone else’s path unless you’re in the woods and you’re lost and you see a path then by all means you should follow that.
– Ellen Degeneres
If you think you are too small to make a difference, try sleeping with a mosquito.
-Dalai Lama
If you fall, I’ll always be there.
– The Floor
Whatever you are, be a good one
-Abraham Lincoln
Remember no one can make you feel inferior without your consent.
-Eleanor Roosevelt
Work with what you have, where you are.
-Theodore Roosevelt
To be the best , you must be able to handle the worst.
-Wilson Kanad
A jug fills drop by drop.
-Buddha
Hope is the heartbeat of the soul.
-Michelle Horst
It does not matter how slowly you go as long as you do not stop.
-Confucius
A
February 28, 18:22Great quotes Suni…love them all…
Kris
February 26, 18:26Thanks for the concern
Dr Batin is excellent, he is treating him, he is in extended sick leave, when he goes back out it will be mayaro RR is going PTown
My mom is not the best still, I guess it’s age, she is accustomed to moving around so it hard for her to sit still, but she tries,
I am seeing some progress in the land, hope I can start planting fruit trees this year
Trins how’s it coming along
A
February 27, 16:55Kris.. Suni … SJ…
Happy Maha Shivarathi 7 th March 2016..
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aq-CKdT6IG4&list=RDaq-CKdT6IG4
Suni
February 28, 07:04Thank you Amaica dear 🙂 , same to you . .❤️
Kris
February 26, 18:24Thanks for the concern
Dr Batin is excellent, he is treating him, he is in extended sick leave, when he goes back out it will be mayaro RR is going PTown
My mom is not the best still, I guess it’s age, she is accustomed to moving around so it hard for her to sit still, but she tries,
I am seeing some progress in the land, hope I can start planting fruit trees this year
Trins how’s it coming along
A
February 27, 17:32That’s wonderful news Kris… Take good care of him.
.Dr. Battin is very good.. He is in good hands..
Your Mom is doing well for her age…You can’t get
them to stay quiet… They will get more sick.
Just let her Be.. Do whatever makes her happy.
But ensure that she’s not lonely..not much old folks
around now..
Chan Mom is 86 yrs… Not in good health these days.
KR’s aunt is eighty five and she does yoga and believe in
juicing her fruits and veg… Has dinner at five.. Very discipline.
Your Mom is quiet…My Mom and MIL were quiet people too.
This Poowah is Boss…We love her and still consult with her.
trinity
February 22, 16:15Hi all, I hope everyone is having a great day.
Busy as a Bee or should I say QUEEN BEE LOL
Take care have to run bye
A
February 22, 21:49I can hear the buzz from here… Carry on,,,
Suni
February 23, 20:52Hi hi 🙂 . .
Lovely to see you both . . ❤️❤️
All the best for the rest of the week !!
Kris
February 25, 09:13Hey, hope all is well
I’ve been busy,
The husband sick, took him for chest x-ray, suspected pneumonia, confusion with Dr’s, his bro vs Dr Batin, oh boy,
Suni MS, I thought I knew massa actress, but I was mistaken, I don’t know her, but she is excellent though, haven’t been able to view it these days and there’s no written update, oh well,
At the Dr’s
Suni
February 25, 16:14Really sorry to hear about your husband Kris . I wish him a speedy recovery .
How’s your mom ?
Yeah she’s a good actress . I like her confidence.
A
February 26, 10:21Kris I’m so so sorry to hear about RVR…
Good that you did the ex ray …
If you’re in any doubts he should see dr Shiva Jagger–
Please don’t treat this lightly…this virus causes pneumonia..
My thoughts and prayers are with him
A
February 26, 10:45Kris…. If in doubts have a CT done for a more accurate diagnosis..
X-ray do show if the lungs are congested.
trinity
February 19, 11:47Hi ladies hope u all are well and in good health.
Kris,glad to hear things are progressing well with your development.
Amaica glad to hear from you.
Suni what’s up home slice.
Well my excuse for scratching the car,didn’t work. The plan wasn’t to say anything and act as shock as him when he saw it.
But he had a tough day,he got into fight with a team-mate on the rugby team,and his mom is still a moron of epic proportions. So I told him its was my fault, he then buff meh tail, I felt like I was a teenager being scold by her dad, then he went and sleep and got up happy.
Have a great day ladies of to conquer the world and plan something nice for the hubby.
Suni
February 19, 12:02So no RM T-shirt for you 🙁 .
I’m glad it all worked out 🙂 , bro is an understanding guy .
So you’re like Pinky and the Brain , out to conquer the world 😀 , best of luck !!! Have a great weekend !!! ❤️
A
February 22, 21:46Suni….Kris.. Trin
Enjoying tonight’s 10.00 pm episode of Meri Saasu Maa..
Finally…. read several updates of M S M..
Easy to follow up with the show now..
Very nice story so far..(some crooks in the family)
Pari and Maasa are strong characters
Is Satendra Pari’s husband ? (also called Saatu)
Kris…See you are back in the land… Good !!!
I’m making pone now instead of carrots and fruit cake..
Trin..,How is the oil price affecting your company.?
How’s the little madam,,,!!!!
Suni
February 17, 21:04AMAICA!!!!! How are you ? 🙂
A
February 19, 08:00Suni. Sweetheart….thanks for asking, everything is fine.
I read the updates on the show…. and your bit to Kris..
I’ll eventually be hooked on the show I know…but not right now.
Enjoyed your story… I like the Chinese Doctor
Kris …… Trin….. Don’t work too hard.. Love you all.
Kris
February 19, 10:55Hey just got in, work start back on my development, so not much time, it feels so good to be busy with the land work, can’t wait to start my planting on my piece, tractor doing food job so far, things finally starting to move forward,
Keep good, till next time
Suni
February 19, 11:56Good to know you’re well Amaica dear ❤️ .
Kris , good luck with the planting it’s hard work .
I struggling to plant an xora hedge 😀 , doing battle with some donkey grass that keeps trying to take over .
Suni
February 17, 21:03A Lawyer Tries To Trick A Chinese Doctor Into Giving Him $100
A Chinese doctor can’t find a job in a hospital in the US, so he opens a clinic and puts a sign outside that reads “GET TREATMENT FOR $20 – IF NOT CURED GET BACK $100.”
An American lawyer thinks this is a great opportunity to earn $100 and goes to the clinic.
Lawyer: “I have lost my sense of taste.”
Chinese: “Nurse, bring medicine from box No. 22 and put 3 drops in patient’s mouth.”
Lawyer: “Ugh. this is kerosene.”
Chinese: “Congrats, your sense of taste is restored. Give me $20.”
The annoyed lawyer goes back after a few days to recover his money.
Lawyer: “I have lost my memory. I cannot remember anything.”
Chinese: “Nurse, bring medicine from box no. 22 and put 3 drops in his mouth.”
Lawyer (annoyed): “This is kerosene. You gave this to me last time for restoring my taste.”
Chinese: “Congrats. You got your memory back. Give me $20.”
The fuming lawyer pays him, and then comes back a week later determined to get back $100.
Lawyer: “My eyesight has become very weak I can’t see at all.”
Chinese: “Well, I don’t have any medicine for that, so take this $100.”
Lawyer (staring at the note): “But this is $20, not $100!!”
Chinese: “Congrats, your eyesight is restored. Give me $20”
Silent but deadly
A little old lady goes to the doctor and says, “Doctor I have this problem with gas, but it really doesn’t bother me too much. My farts never smell and are always silent. As a matter of fact, I’ve farted at least 20 times since I’ve been here in your office. You didn’t know I was farting because they don’t smell and are silent.”
The doctor says, “I see, take these pills and come back to see me next week.”
The next week the lady comes back.
“Doctor,” she says, “I don’t know what you gave me, but now my farts…although still silent…stink terribly.”
The doctor says, “Good! Now that we’ve cleared up your sinuses, let’s work on your hearing.”
Suni
February 17, 21:01PROBLEMS can either make you or break you. The hammer that breaks glass can also shape up the steel. It is up to you to be a glass or a steel. Face your life bravely.
Unknown
trinity
February 17, 12:05Hi guys I hope everyone is having a great day.
I went back and watch ek Ti raja ek ta rani,boy that show got stupid fast! I’m not wasting my Time on dat load of crap!
Suni do you remember ur classic comment,” I would dilike it till it make sense” that statement applies to that show.
I’m hot water I scratched the hubby car with a rake from front to back. I haven’t told him as yet,you guys know how men get about their cars. I’m off to turn on the charm when he gets home.
Take care and have great day.
Suni
February 17, 15:37Watch Meri Saasu Ma , it’s good so far I’m not disliking it and I’ll fill you in on what you’ve missed.
Oh boy 🙂 , good luck with that , might I suggest , that as a peace offering, you agree to support RM wholeheartedly from this day onwards 😛 .. .
That seem like a very apt punishment for your error 😀 . ..
Kris
February 17, 15:48Oh yo yoi, some men are like that with their cars, good luck, tell him you misbalanced fell or almost, hope he concentrate on how you are more than the car lol,
Oh that Raja Rani show I gave up after a few episodes, I don’t even read the updates,
Sasuma looks good so far, the actress of massa is an excellent actress, I don’t know the rest of them, well Pari dadi and massi, Pari is a strong character so far, hope they don’t turn her I to a submissive typical bahu, looking forward to it, her father however is like, yes dear, lol, go and get milk, lol, yes dear,
JR is on and off OK,
So hope to see you together with Suni on Sasuma
This mayor sounding like dem typical dotish Indian men who blame the way women dress to justify rape, that statement would have been OK another time another day another place, but totally outta place and timing in Asami case, so I hear he resigned, hope his female relatives dresses decent
Suni
February 17, 20:05You know Kris , I don’t know that actress who plays Massa , at all ; but she’s really good with her expressions . The lead guy’s name is Pearl ; strange Indian name .
Massa has some really horrid daughters in-law . In an earlier episode she had tied a rope around her neck and jumped and had to be taken to hospital because she heard them complaining bitterly about her . The worse one is Babita , you’ll know her 😀 . . She had encouraged her husband to try to rob his mother’s house , but he got caught and Massa had said that she knew who had instigated him . The only one who genuinely loves Massa there is her son Sattu . It’s moving along nicely 🙂 .
That witch from Kamla’s show , she is Pari’s step mom , but she’s also Pari’s mother’s younger sister , so that’s why she calls her Massi Ma . I’m not sure if Pari’s siblings share the same mother as her , I’m still figuring that out . Pari’s dad really loves his daughter though , but he’s a weak character , you’re right 🙂 , he does seem like a pushover.
trinity
February 15, 17:35Rant away suni! Rant away!! I second your ranting’s!
I hope everyone had a great wkend and enjoyed it to the max.
So the idiotic mayor isn’t gonna resign sooo I guess I cant wear skirts,shorts and fitted pants because I’m asking to be raped. You really have to wonder what’s going on in the world to day.
I hope u guys had a lovely valentines day,with ur special ones.
Suni,Kris I’m gonna try and watch the new show you guys speak about.
Amaica !! Wats up SUNSHINE
Suni
February 16, 06:49Lol , we better pull out the burka 😀 . .
They are a bunch of jokers yes . .
Yay !! 🙂 It would be so good if we can all watch the new show .
It won’t be PV , but it’ll be something current to comment on .
All the best for your week ❤️ .. .
kris
February 13, 16:07My dearest Suni, your rant is justified, we find ourselves ranting somuch these days, just imagine basic items, and prices through the roof, and pnmites cheering when the imp say we go eat grass, it dont even have enough land to plant grass too. I’m glad Tim or as someone refer to him as Don Key, said thaat, let the people see who our leaders real face, remember when there were so much kidnapping what manning had said? Shameless people indeed, and the Point fortin mayor also supporting the idiot
Yes Amaica the BIL died recently also, finally going to the house tonight, I am sure the husband and children looking out for us all weeek, weent to seenath’s funeral, met so many people I did not see for so long, I guess weddings and funerals are the popular meeting
time for friends aand faamily now, people so busy with life.
I did look at Ms last night, there will come a time sshe would cry for thaat ssame bahu and treaat her like her daaughter but before that is real drama,
I look at Santoshi when I get aa chaancee, some people aare really as superstitious like that rich family, right here in trinidad i see it.
HAPPY VALENTINES TO ONE AND ALL, LOTS OF LOVE
enjoy tomorrow
Suni
February 13, 18:36Lol Kris , you made me laugh with that comment 😆 ; you’re right though , NHA took all the land we could have planted grass on .
I hear you Kris 😐 , it’s just a sorry state of affairs . B4 people could have looked externally , to foreign lands , to seek betterment , now though , the whole world seems in crisis .
I have DirecTv and we have only 1 Indian channel . You have an overload with flow Kris 😀 . ..
You’re right about Massa Kris , one day she will appreciate that daughter-in-law .
Amaica dear , it’s on 10 a:m and I think 10 p:m .
It’s on weekends , but I’m not sure of the time .
Suni
February 13, 21:54Thank you !!
Happy Valentine’s Day to you too !!
Happy Valentine’s Day to everyone !! ❤️❤️
Kris
February 12, 17:18Hey, at the beginning of this year one of my friends said it’s the year of the grim reaper, well, seems she is so right, too many deaths, so many people we know, recently one of my neighbors at home, went mandir together growing up, not even 60 good, found dead on his porch, now a friend of ours, not 60 yet, got headache, went to hospital, prepping her for surgery, went to get her, she died, got a son my daughter age studying in England, he won open scholarship in pres, so sad for the husband and children, Sunday is funeral then my sis, some of her husband relative fell off a veranda in mayaro Crack his skull, Amaica you might be knowing him. Oh my sis did tell me she went to the same satsangh,
Them my friend father, Amaica you might know him, seenath from fyzo, the cinema people, tomorrow is funeral,
Trins hope you are keeping good my dear, I’m sure the little one is the apple of her dad’s eyes, take good care of her, give her lots of hugs and kisses, I give up on serials, too frustrating, instead of entertainment is stress, I sometimes look at santoshi, SMH, Jr, off and on these days, but the rest, balika vadhu I look at, my little one loves it and udaan,
Suni I’ve started looking at meri saasuma, will look forward to reading your comments on it, let’s see how long before they ruin it,
Aapka colors also has ashoka, I look at that,
Well busy weekend ahead take care all
Suni
February 12, 22:32I’m so sad to hear about all those deaths Kris 🙁 , it bothers us a lot when it’s people we know .
The news these days is just nightmarish ; grim reaper year indeed .
I seldom watch Ian Alleyne , but tonight I watched and saw police in uniform severely beating a man . I know that’s the norm , but I thought the dumb ass police would know better by now ; everyone has a camera phone .
Then we have that ridiculous mayor 😐 . I just feel like screaming the words of the old people ” lawd put ah hand ! ” . Imagine the mentality of that mayor , he was blaming the woman for getting murdered , suggesting that she brought it upon herself in some way .
The women activists protested ,in large numbers , and were opposed by 2 crazy looking PNMmites , who can’t even speak properly , defending the idiot mayor . They were loud and obnoxious and irrelevant and seemed so ignorant .
Remember when Rowley wined up on the 17 year old ? He himself has no respect for women . He insulted his wife openly but she just swallow that ” jus so ” . That girl could have been Rowley’s grandchild .
For the political campaign , he made these crass comments about Kamla saying his dog will deal with her cat . That man is disgusting .
Recently he was talking about how women these days don’t know how to peel cassava 😐 . Seriously !! I guess men in Trinidad don’t cook , we live in the Middle Ages and women alone must see about household duties . Furthermore , we came this far , to go back to the Amerindian days of depending on cassava .
I pray for the day that stupidity would be made an offense punishable by law ,
Thank you dear Kris , dear Amaica for considering the soap 🙂 .
It is a typical story thus far , but I’m liking it ; the heroine has some spunk like our Aarti . Comment when guys you can ok , I’m looking forward to your thoughts also .
Suni
February 12, 22:33Oh boy 😕 , sorry for the long rant . . .
A
February 13, 08:27Lovelies….
Kris…
Her BIL passed away the same time that my BIL moved on…
We met while awaiting cremation approval forms at the SPS..
Only yesterday my friend from Floral Creation told me of her
death… Heard about Mr Seenath’s death last night… He used
to seriously lime KR cousin LR in his youthful days… she was
the manager at F’bab republic bank… In Houstan now must
tell her…sorry to hear about the other friends and relatives…
Be strong be happy…love you.
Suni…
I enjoyed reading your write…..
you are absolutely correct about all that you mentioned.
He was teaching the seventeen years old to peel casava..
He’s such an arse.
By the way… what time the show starts… Pls let me know.
Will do anything for you… Love you.
trinity
February 11, 17:12Hey guys I hope everyone is well.
Kris I don’t watch those soaps anymore they just annoy the hell out of me. I almost got sucked in by Ek Ti raja Rk Ti rani,but then it got stupid so I said goodbye. I’ve directtv and I more watch discovery and natgeo.
Amacia love that post about marriage so on point. My daughter is truly a joy so it makes everyday easier having her and the hubby around.
Amaica
February 11, 20:50Hi Trin… Glad that you found the post interesting.
Good to know that you are doing okay with the help
of the two Angels.
Amaica
February 11, 20:58Kris…
Your sis and family attended our Satsangh tonight.
Her children music guru delivered the message.
The guru is a very dear and loved friend of ours.
A
February 12, 10:42Embrace Life My Friends….
MUST READ: Dying Girl’s Hidden Message on Mirror Stuns Her Family
We were completely moved by the UK’s Athena Orchard, 13, who died of cancer. Her parents were shocked to find a 3,000 word message adhered to the back of her mirror.
Because her words are so profound, her family decided to share it. Here is the letter for you to read:
“Happiness depends upon ourselves. Maybe it’s not about the happy ending, maybe it’s about the story.
The purpose of life is a life of purpose. The difference between ordinary and extraordinary is that little extra.
Happiness is a direction not a destination. Thank you for existing. Be happy, be free, believe, forever young. You know my name, not my story.
You have heard what I’ve done, but not what I’ve been through. Love is like glass, looks so lovely but it’s easy to shatter.
Love is rare, life is strange, nothing lasts and people change. Every day is special, so make the most of it, you could get a life ending illness tomorrow so make the most of every day. Life is only bad if you make it bad.
If someone loves you, then they wouldn’t let you slip away no matter how hard the situation is. Remember that life is full of ups and downs.
Never give up on something you can’t go a day without thinking about. I want to be that girl who makes the bad days better and the one that makes you say my life has changed since I met her!
Love is not about how much you say I love you – it’s about how much you can prove it’s true. Love is like the wind, you can feel it but you can’t see it. I’m waiting to fall in love with someone I can open my heart to.
Love is not about who you can see spending your future with, it’s about who you can’t see spending your life without… Life is a game for everyone but love is the prize. Only I can judge me.
Sometimes love hurts. Now I’m fighting myself. Baby I can feel your pain. Dreams are my reality. It hurts but it’s okay, I’m used to it.
Don’t be quick to judge me, you only see what I choose to show you… you don’t know the truth. I just want to have fun and be happy without being judged.
This is my life, not yours, don’t worry about what I do. People gonna hate you, rate you, break you, but how strong you stand, that’s what makes you… you! There’s no need to cry because I know you’ll be by my side.”
Suni
February 12, 22:37Thank you Amaica 🙂 . Very true , only we can be the judge of our individual positions .
SJ
February 10, 23:10Dear AMAICA how are you, thank you For thinking of me loving me giving me your affection & keep your door open for me always make me feel I have a home to visit do not need an invitation
I hope you and everyone in your Family are good and doing well. I often think of everyone , our nice healthy discussion ,all yours and Kris’s wisdom much more to think and remember all ours up & down our caring and sharing our ups & down togather
Thank you so much for keep this forum alive and well
I love all of you stay blessed
Hello and love to all forum friend
Kris
February 11, 08:53Hey SJ, so good to hear from you, keep good my dear,
Oh, I think too much rest is never enough, maybe I’m just lazy, lol
Amaica, Suni, Trins, do you have flow cable, they’ve taken off mist of the good channels and pack in some crappie ones, we’ll like they want to overdose we trinis with Indian channels, aapka colors, star plus, Sony Asia, life OK
I’ve been flipping through Chanelle,
Haven’t had a chance to look at MSM, I really wanted to see it, some good actors, I hardly look at zee, getting fed up of these soaps not, they start off so promising of good story then it all comes down to the the same Ole same Ole confusion and back biting etc, I now look at Balika Vadhu on aapka colors, really nice, never fails, bit dragging, but the story is really nice, .
There’s quite a few shows, I sometimes look at
Hope all is well with everyone,
Amaica how are you and the family dear
A
February 11, 09:27Hi…. Girls,
SJ…Just making a quick pass through and saw you here…
How is your Mom and Sis… How’s work with you.
I often think of you my dear..The good times we shared.
Keep good and take care of yourself.. Love you.
Kris…Busy body… Girl time out is good…Your presence
is important here too… I am learning Spanish.. (don’t laugh)
always loved the language.. Guess I’ll fulfill the desire.
Suni… Sweetheart!!! Which band were you in.?
I’m sure you had a great weekend. C keep good.
Trin…I’m happy to hear that you enjoyed your weekend.
That Princess will be sunshine in your life… She came in
the right time… God is good, regardless of the dark clouds
that hang over us sometimes…we just got to rise and shine.
Amaica
February 11, 15:58This is for you young ladies……
HARDCORE TRUTH ABOUT MARRIAGE! !!!!
1. There is nothing that threatens the security of a wife than the thought of another woman competing for the attention and affection of her husband. Nothing is more painful. Nothing is more disrespecting. Nothing is more insulting. Nothing is more belittling and degrading.
2. Marriage flourishes when the couple works together as a team; when both husband and wife decide that winning together is more important than keeping score.
Good marriages don’t just happen. They are a product of hard work.
3. Your children are watching you and forming lasting opinions on love, commitment, and marriage based on what they see in you. Give them hope. Make them look forward to marriage.
4. Husbands: The reason why other women look attractive is because someone is taking good care of them. Grass is always green where it is watered. Instead of drooling over the green grass on the other side of the fence, work on yours and water it regularly. Any man can admire a beautiful woman, but it takes a true gentleman to make a woman admirable and beautiful.
5. When a husband puts his wife first above everyone and everything except God, it gives his wife the sense of security and honor that every wife hungers for.
6. A successful marriage doesn’t require a big house, a prefect spouse, a million dollars or an expensive car. You can have all the above and still have a miserable marriage. A successful marriage requires honesty, undying commitment and selfless love and Jesus at the center of it all.
7. Pray for your spouse every day; in the morning, in the afternoon and at evening. Don’t wait until there is a problem. Don’t wait until there is an affair. Don’t wait until something bad happens. Don’t wait until your spouse is tempted. Shield your spouse with prayer and cover your marriage with the fence of prayer.
8. The people you surround yourself with have a lot of influence on your marriage. Friends can build or break your marriage; choose them wisely.
9. One spouse cannot build a marriage alone when the other spouse is committed to destroying it. Marriage works when both husband and wife work together as a team to build their marriage.
10. Don’t take your spouse for granted. Don’t take advantage of your spouse’s meekness and goodness. Don’t mistake your spouse’s loyalty for desperation. Don’t misuse or abuse yours spouse’s trust. You may end up regretting after losing someone that meant so much to you.
11. Beware of marital advice from single people. Regardless of how sincere their advice may be, most of it is theoretical and not derived from real life experiences. If you really need Godly advice, seek it from God-fearing, impartial and prayerful mature couples whose resolve has been tested by time and shaped by trials.
12. Dear wife, Don’t underestimate the power of the tongue on your marriage. The tongue has the power to crush your marriage or build it up. Don’t let the Devil use your tongue to kill your spouse’s image, self-confidence and aspirations. Let God use your tongue to build up your marriage and bless and praise your spouse.
IF YOU AGREE KINDLY TAG YOUR “SPOUSE” TO READ THIS .
Suni
February 12, 22:40SJ , SJ , SJ . . you visit then run away . . 😐 . .
Do you think that we forgot you , and only Amaica remembered 😛 . .
Hope you’re good . . I send you my love .
Please don’t throw it back with accusations that I abandoned you 😯 😛 .
You’re in my heart forever ❤️ .
Now talk and tell us what’s up 😀 . ..
Suni
February 09, 20:13By the way , Meri Sasuma looks interesting , do any of you look at it ?
The girl Pari seems like a strong character.
Amaica
February 11, 20:38Suni….
Any recommendation from you is proven success…
Little occupied with other things but will try my best to look at it.
Amaica
February 08, 07:38Happy Sweet Sixteenth Birthday Princess Suni.
May God Continue To Shower His Choicest Grace And Blessings Upon You.
Enjoy Your Special Day…Love You… Mwah.
I know that your birthday is on the 9 th February…just being proactive.
Suni
February 08, 10:35Nah Amaica dearest , it is today 🙂 . ..
Thank you soooo much for the lovely wishes ; it really touches my heart that you remembered .
Love you very much ❤️ .
Hope your feeling better .
Kris
February 09, 13:06Happy birthday to you my dear Suni, wish you all the best that life has to offer and many more
We had retreat this weekend it was simply awesome,
Too tired, need rest lol
Take care
trinity
February 09, 18:25Happy BDAY! SUNI be blessed on this special day and share the love and joy.
Didn’t play mas this year,spent the longwkend at Sans Souci watching the husband surf and trying to keep our water baby from putting everything in her mouth.
Be blessed everyone.
Suni
February 09, 20:12Thank you all so much ❤️ 🙂 .
Kris , that happens , I think we always need a bit of time to recover from a mini vacation ; there’s never enough time to enjoy the change of routine .
I’m imagining her playing Trinity 🙂 ; you’re truly blessed . ..
Good to see you both safe and sound .
Love you guys ❤️ . Take care . .
HOPE YUU HAVE AN AWESOME REST OF THE WEEK !!!
Drew
February 03, 20:26Good night Kris ❤️ , QH finally ended , thank goodness !!
I hadn’t realized until I saw a new show in its time slot .
I’m surprised there isn’t a fan page 😕 . ..
Good night Amaica dear , Trinity my darling ❤️ . ..
kris
February 04, 07:18wow, finally, such good news, indeed
hows everybody, amaica deaar how are you doing,
Trins, do enjoy the baby, she’ll grow up too fast.
take caare, kindaa busy these daays,
trinity
February 04, 19:50Thanks goodness that crappy show ended.
Kris the little one is quite a hand full but we are enjoying every moment of it, right now she’s obsessed with her dad’s tattoos,the colours has her captivated.
Suni aka drew I did see the goal,that was crazy.
Oh yeah BARCELONA 7 VALENCIA 0! VISCA BARCELONA!!
BE BLESSED EVERYONE.
AMAICA what’s up sunshine.
Amaica
February 05, 12:13Kris… Suni… Trin…
Lovely rainy day on my end…but the real sunshine are you guys..
I need sometime away from everything …mind you I am well and happy..
So please…please continue to visit and discuss with each other…
That will make me very very happy… I’ll still be around but not as active.
Trin… I am really happy to hear about our Punar Vivah Baby… Pls continue
to share..
Kris… Busy body..
Suni…Sweetheart
SJ…Caring and Loving Dr.
Mwah… Lots of Hugs… and …Kisses…
trinity
February 02, 11:54Hi guys hope all is well with everyone.
Kris,amaica by gods grace I’m cherishing life and celebrating my parents life and legacy. My husband and daughter have been my strength throughout this difficult time,my daughter’s innocence and my husband’s strength has been truly amazing.
SUNI!SUNI!SUNI!!!!!!!!! RUNS ALL OVER D PLACE LIKE AH NUT!!!!!
SO HAPPY TO SEE UR BACK!!!!!! FORCA BARCELONA!!! LOL I had to get my football dig in.
Drew
February 02, 15:33HALA MADRID !!! HALA MADRID !!! HALA MADRID !!!
I’m loving Zidane as the coach . . 🙂
You’re a brave strong girl ❤️ ; kudos to my bro. for being there for you .
I hope the baby girl chooses Real 😛 . ..
Suni
February 02, 15:34trinity
February 02, 17:13Don’t say that my child can’t be a Madrid fan,they’ll drive me bonkers! Daddy and daughter are quite a pair,it’s so adorable.
U hope things are good with you,your family and your professional life.
Hmmmm I wonder how the love or the like or kinda like life is going? Hehehehehe
Suni
February 02, 17:45I will pray that she becomes a Madrid fan 😛 . ..
Love life is fine 🙂 , I love myself very much 😀 . ..
Did you see Vardy’s goal today ? It’s a must see .
A
February 01, 03:15Blueprint for Achievement
Being kind to yourself pays off in this way.
If you want to move past crippling self-esteem and to come full
circle and appreciate yourself for everything you are,
it is the decision that only you yourself can make.
And if you want to start doing so, all it takes is to start living in the moment.
Take a good look in the mirror and see what you can be grateful for.
Chances are, all it takes is a shift in perspective.
Feel complete gratitude for yourself by allowing yourself to acknowledge
just how lucky you are in life.
You have so many blessings and aspects of your life that you can love
Thank yourself for taking care of yourself and being resilient.
Take the time to go over everything that you have to be thankful for,
and truly mean it for yourself.
Do this every day so you realize that every day of your life is a blessing.
aarya
January 31, 12:32Read…. 🙂 Junoon : It’s not human love episode 52 on it’s official page 🙂
http://www.desitvbox.net/beautiful-drashti-dhami-celebrates-her-birthday-today/
Suni
January 28, 07:01Good morning all !!
Kris 🙂 , all the best to your boy for exams .
Hope you all have the best day possible !!
I guess the very fact that there are thousands and thousands of inspirational quotes and messages out there proves that life can be total crap sometimes 🙂 .
What can we do but move on and be grateful for what we have left .
Sometimes we have to be happy to have had what we had even though we lost it , we knew great people , like your brother in law Amaica , he sounds so genuine , the way he cared for his wife , and you knew such a man 🙂 , that’s amazing . Trinity’s parents had such a strong bond , it’s the kinda love that movies are based on .
Life gets overwhelming at times , there always seems to be something there trying to interrupt our joyful times . We cry we laugh we grieve but we keep on living . What else can we do ? We can’t give up ever .
Kris
January 31, 11:53Suni, so great to see you, what’s up at your end, thanks, my boy is having a hard time finishing his SBAs
Amaica my dear, hope you doing well, did not get a chance to check here, so now saw your message below, thanks,
We got retreat carnival weekend, not going out alone, missing satsangh because my boy can’t go, but every chance I get I’m going
Take care of yourselves and all trinis be safe for the carnival
Suni
February 02, 15:36I’m good 🙂 Kris , no complaints at all . ..
How’s your mom ?
Suni
January 28, 06:25Trinity 🙁 . . I can’t imagine how you got through that .
We always have to pick up the pieces wherever they fall and keep moving forward .
You’ll never forget , but in time the memories become softer and you’ll remember the good times more . They loved each other in life and till death . My love is with you always .
Suni
January 28, 06:17Amaica I’m good dear 🙂 . . thank you for looking out for me .
Sorry to hear that you weren’t well , and glad to hear that you are recovering .
You need to rest properly . I think you allow a lot of people to become idle because you work so hard ; they take it for granted that you will always get things done and they just put their feet up and relax . I really admire your good heart , but please , don’t allow anyone to take advantage of your kindness . I love you very much and I wish you good health and strength always ❤️ .
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January 31, 23:33Hi Suni…. ….
It’s really great hearing from you..I’m all smiles.
I missed you…hope to see you again soon.
Excellent tips … Thanks… It’s just my nature to be kind…I know when
to draw the line also…KR is great support.. can’t complain. God Bless.
My doctor also think that I’m pushing myself too much… Get buff too.
Hi Kris…
Time do fly, your young man is busy with exams..He will excel
I’m sure my girl is very happy at UWI .. Still got to be very careful …
Don’t move around alone. Girl now is time for the children.. You are right.
Take care… Keep well.
Hi Trin
Hope you are healing one day at a time…God will give you the strength.
Do visit and share about the baby and the family.
SJ… Mwah..God Bless.
Liman… Hope you got a new phone…Keep well… Blessings.
Afresh… Our super brilliant star… Love you…
MU.. Raji …Others…How can I forget you all .. Hi…
Stay as sweet as you are ladies…. Bye.
Suni
February 02, 15:37I promise to be around more Amaica dear , you all are much too valuable to lose . .
A
January 26, 07:16These red lights might indicate you need to remove people from your life.
Having the right support system can totally elevate you, but the wrong one can destroy you. So many people advocate for surrounding yourself in a positive environment with the right friends. Sometimes it is hard to let go of friends, we find excuses for them and ourselves, but you can’t ignore these seven signs. If they do any of these to you, cut them off. You will thank yourself in the long run.
1. Money is always the issue
These people will constantly borrow and ask for favors but don’t return the favor. They will think you can cover the bill and somehow try to make you pay. They only look to you as a wallet. Stick with people who support each other financially.
2. They don’t do what they say they will do for you
In other words, they never mean what they say. A person with real character will follow through. Cheap talk will just drag you down.
3. They are too busy
If you want to make the time for someone, you are able to. If they are too busy for you, reevaluate the friendship.
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4. They don’t care if you are struggling, just what your success gives them
Once you’ve reached the top, they all of a sudden flock to you. They don’t care about the struggles and challenges you have faced. If that is the case, they won’t be there for you when you actually need it. Real friends are proud of how far you have come.
5. They want to compare
They are always trying to one-up you. A real friend wouldn’t try to make you feel uncomfortable and they don’t compare, either. They’re always happy for each other.
6. They feed on drama
If your friend is constantly gossiping and backstabbing, they aren’t a real friend, or even a good person. Real friends are mature and act like adults.
7. You start to question yourself because of them
If friends in your life make you question yourself and your lifestyle, then leave them. Find friends that inspire and elevate you. Don’t lie to yourself; you know how you feel.
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January 26, 07:24The faults of another is only for me to witness, to learn, and to let go…
If I allow it to affect me, it then becomes my fault.
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February 10, 19:03Raghda BassyouniFollow
October 17, 2015 ·
I spent 5 years hurting a good woman by staying with her but never fully choosing her.
I did want to be with this one. I really wanted to choose her. She was an exquisite woman, brilliant and funny and sexy and sensual. She could make my whole body laugh with her quick, dark wit and short-circuit my brain with her exotic beauty. Waking up every morning with her snuggled in my arms was my happy place. I loved her wildly.
Unfortunately, as happens with many young couples, our ignorance of how to do love well quickly created stressful challenges in our relationship. Before long, once my early morning blissful reverie gave way to the strained, immature ways of our everyday life together, I would often wonder if there was another woman out there who was easier to love, and who could love me better.
As the months passed and that thought reverberated more and more through my head, I chose her less and less. Every day, for five years, I chose her a little less.
I stayed with her. I just stopped choosing her. We both suffered.
Choosing her would have meant focusing every day on the gifts she was bringing into my life that I could be grateful for: her laughter, beauty, sensuality, playfulness, companionship, and so … much … more.
Sadly, I often found it nearly impossible to embrace – or even see – what was so wildly wonderful about her.
I was too focused on the anger, insecurities, demands, and other aspects of her strong personality that grated on me. The more I focused on her worst, the more I saw of it, and the more I mirrored it back to her by offering my own worst behavior. Naturally, this only magnified the strain on our relationship … which still made me choose her even less.
Thus did our nasty death spiral play itself out over five years.
She fought hard to make me choose her. That’s a fool’s task. You can’t make someone choose you, even when they might love you.
To be fair, she didn’t fully choose me, either. The rage-fueled invective she often hurled at me was evidence enough of that.
I realize now, however, that she was often angry because she didn’t feel safe with me. She felt me not choosing her every day, in my words and my actions, and she was afraid I would abandon her.
Actually, I did abandon her.
By not fully choosing her every day for five years, by focusing on what bothered me rather than what I adored about her, I deserted her.
Like a precious fragrant flower I brought proudly into my home but then failed to water, I left her alone in countless ways to wither in the dry hot heat of our intimate relationship.
I’ll never not choose another woman I love again.
It’s torture for everyone.
If you’re in relationship, I invite you to ask yourself this question:
“Why am I choosing my partner today?”
If you can’t find a satisfying answer, dig deeper and find one. It could be as simple as noticing that in your deepest heart’s truth, “I just do.”
If you can’t find it today, ask yourself again tomorrow. We all have disconnected days.
But if too many days go by and you just can’t connect with why you’re choosing your partner, and your relationship is rife with stress, let them go. Create the opening for another human being to show up and see them with fresh eyes and a yearning heart that will enthusiastically choose them every day.
Your loved one deserves to be enthusiastically chosen. Every day.
You do, too.