Punar Vivah 07th December 2012 Written Update

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Punar Vivah 07th December 2012 Written Episode

Scene 1:
Location: Yash’s house
Seeing Arti coming through the main gate, yash happily looks from the balcony. and goes inside. arti walking on the gravel path is confronted by prashant. She asks him what is he doing here. He tells her that he has come to take her and ansh back since he loves them very much and cant live without them. she says that he has lost his mind and that she loves Yash. He says that she has only and always loves prashant and that noone can love her more than him. He urges her to forget the past and hold his hand and come back to her. he says that she might be loving yash now but he is aftre all her first love, her first husband. He promises her to give everything that is rightfully hers. He extends his hand while saying so. Yash sees all this from a distance. arti is scared to see him. Prashant too finds yash stading behind him. yash says to arti that he has been very late but doesnt want to delay any longer in saying that he loves her and ansh very much and cant live without them as they are his life. He asks her to forget her first love and come with him as he would never betray her trust. Prashant intervens saying that she needs to think practically and not emotionally. Due to he hiding this truth from yash, he would always doubt her and that would always cast a shadow on their marital relations. Yash says that he can only say that he loves her very much. arti is lovingly looking at yash, when prashant comes in between and tells her that she should come to her. arti crosses prashant and much to his dismay, holds yash’s hand and walks with him into the house with prashant shouting behind them that she’s making a mistake and that she should come back to her. But she doesnt listen. screaming for arti, prashant wakes up in his bed and realises that he had been dreaming all this while.
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Scene 2:
Location: Arti’s house
When awake, prashant wonders what the dream meant and whether it was trying to tell him that yash would accept arti even after knwoing the truth about her past and still love her. He then convinces himself that even if he does, his family wont and they would throw arti along with ansh out of the house and she would be all alone once again. He decides that its his duty therefore to save arti from this and get her back to himself. He thinks that ansh is his son and has to be there to support him in his loneliness.He decides to get arti and ansh back to him.

Scene 3:
Location: Yash’s house
An anxious and hopelessly in love yash has decided that he would spill out his feelings for arti to her when she comes. But he is suddenly aware of a major problem and that is how is he going to say it to arti. He tries various types of prose and poetry but isnt satisfied with any of them. While he is in this dilemma, arti enters the room lost in her thoughts, which makes him wonder that she looks in tension and that now is not the best time to talk about his feelings with her. he asks arti about the talk with pari. She tells him what pari told her. They both are thinking about any other way to get pari out of this mess, when they are alarmed by pankaj’s voice calling out for everyone. The whole family gathers in the living area. Pankaj tells them that the date for the final hearing of pari’s case if out and it is tomorrow. everybody’s shocked to hear this and all the more scared that they dont have anyevidence to prove pari’s innocence in the court tomorroiw. Pankaj says that he tried his best to shift the date, but knwoing that they are at a lack of evidence, the opponent’s lawyer intentionally got such an early date, to give them a lesser time to prepare. Buaji immediately starts faking concern over the issue saying that now a stain on the Scindia family is sure to be, and that pari would be have to spend 7 years in jail, once she is convicted tomorrow. She urges pankaj and others that they have to find a way to save her punishment. Arti motions pari to talk but she replies in the negative. gayatri collapses into the sofa saying that by the next day, everybody would know that the daughter in law of Scindia family is a murderer and at a place, whwre they alwasy walked with their head held high, they would have to bow their heads in shame. She says that pari has stripped them of their respect in the society. Yash asks her to compose herself so that her health doesnt worsen. he also asks her not to say such things as that would completely break pari’s morale and strength. And right now, her family needs to support her as its the elders’ duty to forgive the younger ones’ mistake. Gayatri doesnt say anything but retires to her room with Suraj in tow. Buaji too leaves. Pari unable to contain any longer runs inside crying, with prateik after her. Arti is very upset to see all this.
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Prateik is trying to console pari who is crying uncontrollably, that nothing would happen to her and that if she at all has to go to jail, then he too would come to live with her. yash and arti are watching them from a distance. An upset arti tells yash that they have to find a way out to help them get their happiness back as she cant see pari and prateik like this, crying like children. Yash says that now there’s only one way left to save pari. Arti looks at him quizzically. The screen freezes on their face.

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Precap: While everybody is ready to go to the court, buaji comes and shocks everybody saying that yash and arti have left. She shows Suraj a packet and says that she thinks its the same packet in which the air tickets were delivered to them. Everybody is puzzled.

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114 Comments

  1. prsv
    December 09, 08:31 Reply

    i did mean it suni,i understand gayathri and the gayathri main attention is yash because pankaj has vidhi to look after and pratheik is jolly guy(she might have felt he was happy with pari as he didnt share anything openly as yash has done).

    actually when compared between the three men,yash is sesitive unlike pankaj and prathik.he has fear of injection,fire crakers,bams and easily prone to infections.
    for example, if one of the son in our house gets accident .we take more care of hima and may neglect others,that doesnt mean she doesnt love other son,every one is equal among the mothers eyes.

    yash is a typical person,inspite of all others efforts he never changed after arpithas death and aarti had done it succesfully,brouth change in yash. that might be the reason,gayathri gave more importance to aarti than vidhi(even thou she followed very well)and pari.

    i hope this is enough about gayathri.

    PAPA SINDIYA;i think he is not like gathri,we can understand it
    (when he accpted yash words regarding grand son).i think the main reason for not allowing pari to work is due to his fear of loosing his respect in society as it they are very rich,he doesnt like his family member to work under anyone.it is also not necessary for them.he is the one who takes major desions in the family but sometimes take the advise of gayathru(she was the one who selected,not papa sindiya).he always keeps himself high above gaythri(due male dominace)but he loves her
    (due rember the dinner secen,when aarti retured home,he told all that it was sad that gayatri is not here).which it does express openly for gaythri.i think he may forgive aarti when truth is revealed as it doesnt matter she may be a widow or divorcee.i think that aarti should a widow,this was the condition ckept by gayathri not papa sindiya.

    SONS OF THE HOUSE

    PANKAJ;he feels neglected by vidhi and even got angry on her but the anger did not lost for longer. i think he is a understanble person,he can understand her duty. that why he did not complaint to any other member about vidhi but try to be close with vidhi on different occations.
    before telling about yash and prathiek, one thing i feel to mention. children however may be different from their parents. but in some thing or other they will be influnced from their parents(its my personal experience).if u want u can check ur self.
    yash had been inflenced by papa sindiya and prathik had been in flunced by gayathri.
    YASH;he is against lies(THIS WAS PRINCIPLE FOLLOWED BY PAPA SINDIYA).HE is greatly influenced by it. but time had come where he too have to lie for saving prathiek marriage.now also he didnot support pari lie(as he said lie is a lie)but time may come when he will understand aarti for lieing.if his love sickness for aarti increases, he may forgive aarti.give a nice punch to that prashant and can tell that”AARTI IS HIS WIFE AND PRASHANT SHOULD BE FAR AWAY FROM HER”.
    prathik;he is so open minded but douted pari(he followed her to a resturent for meeting produer)because he is influenced by gayathri who dout’s women for moving close wih other men(it was clear when gayathri douted aarti for being with aman).but truly loves her very much and when pari’s truth is reveled he will be upset and get angry on pari but later he will defenitly support pari.
    FOR ONE REASON I HAVE TO APPRCIATE SONS OF SINDIYA HOUSE. THAT IS THEY LOVE THEIR WIFES VERY MUCH THAT THEY CAN DO ANYTHING FOR THEM.

    • Suni
      December 09, 10:14

      You have said it well prsv . Your characterisation of the characters are very well done . They are all very well balanced given their responsibility and positions in the family they see situations in different ways . Papa S carries the weight of that family upon his shoulders . We saw how much it affected him to see Yash’s second marriage in chaos . He belongs to a generation where one did not oppose the decision of their elders . This is why he was unwilling to change his mind at first about letting Aarti back into the Schindia’s house . However , he proved that he is not set in his ways , he is not beyond reason and his first priority is to maintain peace in the family . I respect this character beyond words for his ability to judge wisely and listen before he makes a final statement .
      Papa S and Gayatri’s marriage has survived the test if time because Gayatri has a man as wise as Papa S by her side to guide her decisions . She is prone to becoming hysterical and allows a situation take control of her instead of she taking control of it . Her favouring Aarti because she is Yash’s wife is not correct . We have seen Bhua’s attempts to create confusion in Pari’s mind because of such a bias . Bhua senses every weakness . While I understand her reason for favouring Yash , a mother has to be very careful on how she distributes her attention amongst her children .
      Pankraj has every right to feel neglected . You are correct to say that he is understanding . His wife is not fully maintaining her duties towards him . He has tried for we saw him trying to take her to the movies . She is too busy managing the household . I worry about Vidhi . I may joke about her worries but in all seriousness , I don’t know how she does it . She complains only to the one person who is bounded by marriage to love her despite her moods . In this aspect I believe that the absolute need within her to be the perfect bahoo is affecting her inner balance ; her happiness . She makes others happy , and has what I call Wi Fi happiness . Feeding off a source though not directly connected . She fuels herself with the joys of others . I hope the PV team eventually gives her a little praise from Gayatri , which is what she longs for .
      I do agree 100. % the Schindia men do know how to love . They have been blessed with loving parents .

  2. prsv
    December 09, 04:15 Reply

    i agrre with u sj every one preches others but they all will vanish when it comes to them. its human nature

  3. prsv
    December 09, 04:13 Reply

    not all sj,even i want to share my views and i enjoy ur comments alot but due to timings i cannt make it out.thank u

    • SJ
      December 09, 07:08

      Same here timing is a little problem I am in us

  4. prsv
    December 08, 20:52 Reply

    i fell that cvs has done a research before writing the script.

    suni, u told sindia want psycartist because everyone have their own flaws. it is coorect, but in general, no human being is perfect ,everone have thier own flaws.that is what cvs is trying to tell.

    the main thing is that i want give a clarity about such types of families.
    they are not people belong 1950 who follows old bad traditions.
    but they follow some customes,which their fathers have been following.they too have changed and have outlook ,but not totally. let me give u example sindiya’s are not worried about having girl child and give equal love and affection to both boy and girl but they want atleast one boy child to carry on their name.

    may be ur not understanding,cvs point of view .they are not only trying to show obout pv of a couple but also about various types of people in our socitey,their fellings,emotions,problems they face etc.
    for that u have to check each and every character.

    GAYATHRI;i think ,i can understand her very well she just like my mom.always cares about childern and family respect and next comes every thing. she is not much intrested in their social servies. she loves her very much her children in such way that she can do anything for their children(that is resonh why she married aarti to yash,inspite of her discomfort and get married pari,who is totally different from their cultyre to prathiek)

    i want to disscus more abou this topic, but i fell u guys may get frustrated as i am supporting cvs.

    it just my opoion, i dont want hurt anyone.soory suni if i had hurt u.

    • SJ
      December 09, 02:31

      i did not mean to jump between suni and you, there is nothing to br frustrated, every one can talk about there point of view. suni did not say sinthia wants a psych. she said they they need one, because , allthough everyone is tring to put back family togather but running in there own way everyone preaching everyone , not following what they need to do themselves
      dubeejee family need more psych than sinthia,s

    • Anonymous
      December 09, 06:56

      Thank you SJ for understanding me yaar . It is amazing how we can get to know each other through our discussions . I wrote to you below , beneath one of Afreesh’s comment , I think you may have missed it .
      Prsv dear , I don’t mean to scare you with my sometimes outlandish humour . I know that every member of the Schindia household has a reason for their being a certain way . I understand Gayatri . I even tried to figure out her presence of mind towards Yash . Why she favours him . It is just that it has never really been discussed in detail , and I am happy that you raised the point .
      There is an analogy that I remember , but not in much detail that speaks about a sheperd and his flock of sheep . It states that any sheperd having 100 sheep and losing one would leave behind the 99 that are there ,and search for the one that is missing . It made me think of Gayatri . I will tell you why .
      Gayatri recognised Yash’s pain before remarriage , she sensed a longing within him that she couldn’t fulfil . That could only be met by a wife . She focused all her attention and love on Yash because she felt he most needed it .She did the best she could do as a mother . When Aarti entered the household , she pressured her to do things right . All she wanted was for Yash to become his previous jolly self . I understand her motherly concern . But I don’t think she realised that she neglected the needs of her other two sons . She felt them to be secure in their life and saw them outwardly happy . She didn’t sense Pratheik’s dilemma , she doesn’t know of Pakraj’s deep longing . All her attention was focussed on Yash .
      I will say this prsv , extended families do bring complications , but there are also tremendous joys if and only when traditions and customs are upheld by all family members . Problems arise when one or more members defy those rules and chaos ensues . There are great advantages of having your loved ones near and it is a beautiful way to live if you are deciplined and not set in your ways . I welcome your discussion .

    • Suni
      December 09, 06:58

      Sorry again , for the anonymous . It simply doesn’t stick in my head to renter my name each time 🙁 .

  5. Srinija
    December 08, 13:08 Reply

    I agree prsv nyc view Prsv n suni ur cmnts r just hearttouching. But atleast we hav to wait upto nxt weeknd 4 seeing yash cnfessing her love to aarti and pari’s prblm solution. Hope yash might b cnvinced 4 aarti’s fb about prasant. And that cruel prasant wld get out of the shw leaving aarya and their cute. Now d next topic did anyone saw d promos of GC’s Yaar Mera Rab Warga.

  6. Srinija
    December 08, 13:02 Reply

    I agree prsv nyc view Prsv n suni ur cmnts r just hearttouching. But atleast we hav to wait upto nxt weeknd 4 seeing yash cnfessing her love to aarti and pari’s prblm solution. Hope yash might b cnvinced 4 aarti’s fb about prasant. And that cruel prasant wld get out of the shw leaving aarya and their cute. Now d next topic did anyone saw d promos of GC’s Yaar Mera Rab Warga. Punjabi film of yash.

  7. prsv
    December 08, 11:34 Reply

    suni, i want to tell u one more thing,in traditional families.they dont allow men to do women work(cooking,cleaning etc) they considerd that it is work of women and supposed to be done women.that why gaythri did not like prathiek doing cooking.

    i want share more views regading their life style and their thinking.

    • Suni
      December 08, 14:20

      I understand Prsv , even were I live there are certain unwritten rules regarding men and women . I understand Gayatri’s views . Certain roles are just accepted by society to be women’s work . I actually appreciate the traditional role of women . Some of the societies that claim the most “advancement ” and “modern thinking ” tend to have the most social problems . Please share your views .

  8. prsv
    December 08, 10:53 Reply

    suni, i want to answer one of ur question. why sindiya family dont have a cook and why all the time work had been done by DIL of the house.as i had already told u that cvs has been trying potrate the characters of real life.actually u know that sindiya family is rich and traditional family.it is quite normal in real life, for traditional family want to be done every thing very well .so they wont give up responsibility to servents and it will be done by themselves,so for their self satisfacton.u have to notice that they are living in bhopal(not delhi or mumbai).so it is quit natuaral.(belive me as i know many of my friends and relatives who are like sindhya’s. it is true in my mothers case,she find it difficult to do all household work,but she never appoints a cook, even on my advise.all the time she will be around the servent ,cheking whether she is working properly or not.)pv is telecasted even in telugu. all the viewers did not get this question in their minds,as mostly are living such a life style here.

    • Suni
      December 08, 11:21

      Thank u prsv for clearing that misunderstanding .. I know that there are many traditions that are upheld in India . Times are changing and Pari is a clear example that the modern women may not seek at first to spend her time in the kitchen . I respect women who hold on to tradition but I believe the choice should be between husband and wife and not primarily because of tradition . Pratheik has a strong desire to be in the kitchen instead of Pari . I don’t see anything wrong with this idea . It is just a matter of choice since a marriage is supposed to be based on equality and compromise .

  9. prsv
    December 08, 10:34 Reply

    THE prestent track is irritating every one.but i hope this would end in proper way.i think aarti may make special effort from bringing pari out of this case.therby, she will get special place in every ones. it may help her when her truth is revealed.i think truth will be reveald for yash when he will be deeply in love with aarti,in such a way that he caanot live without aarti as he did with arpitha. so he can forgive her and stand by her.if ones yash stands by her.ther will be no problem with family members.as they want to be happy(do u remberer papa sindia giving a chance for aarti.it is just for the sake of yash.)they all want yash to live life as before arpitha’s death.as yash change in behaviour is noticed by vidhi,soon all family members may notice it. so gayathri or papa sindiya dont wan to destroy his happiness which he again found from aarti’s love and definitly they dont want him to be like a meloncalic person. so i hope they may for forgive aarti for yash hapiness.

    whath do u guys think?

    • Suni
      December 08, 11:31

      I agree , Yash needs to stand by Aarti now more than ever . If she succeeds in solving Pari’s problem it would be done as a repayment of the debt she owes Pratheik for bringing Yash into her life . Pratheik loves Pari unconditionally and I believe he would forgive Her mistake , but only if she is sincere and has genuinely changed .

    • Suni
      December 08, 11:32

      Comment

    • Suni
      December 08, 11:33

      Sorry the ” comment ” was sent accidentally .

  10. prsv
    December 08, 10:09 Reply

    afresh,ur wright.yash and aarti when to mumbai. it was clearly mentioned by buaji in the precap

  11. Srinija
    December 08, 08:29 Reply

    No afreesh it’s not joke i saw it clearly that danger bua saying dat they got the tickets bhopal to mumbai in d precap . Its vry clear and ur comments towards sj. I njoyed them

  12. Afreesh
    December 08, 05:28 Reply

    Sj……in Precap Maya said air tickets has delivered to them….it means they went to somewhere (may be Delhi to surrender the CD at the suprem court)but I joked with you by saying it as Mumbai….I think I confused the people of this forum by saying that…However, the place can be anything but Yash has the privacy to talk freely without your enemy’s interruption and confess his love as soon as they get cleared out Pari’s matter at the court….(ha…ha…ha…)
    I read your yesterdays’s comment….I told you already….I have the habit of visiting previous WU to ensure whether you guys passed any comment or not….
    Sj…absolutely correct yaar…Arthi was looking very beautiful with those normal saris (when Yash was roaming on the street with the imagination of thinking everyone as Arthi)…yes they can try with those type of simple sari too and tied hair style…Let’s see what they do!!!!

    Yes Sj…yellow colour doesn’t match with her much…but they conveyed through yash that he likes to see Arthi with Yellow sari (when Aman & yash converse about the colour suits with Arthi…)
    I’m very sure your costume suggestion are taken by the costume Designer without any refusal….but the writter is not lisening to you…So sad yaar….(LOL)

    • Suni
      December 08, 14:47

      SJ , you give such wonderful advice to the PV team and they have followed them with regards to Aarti . But I think that you need to remind them about Yash’s wardrobe …that stripped T shirt did nothing for him ( in my opinion of handsome men 🙂 ) . I kept thinking that Bert from Sesame Street would call and ask to have his shirt back ! He looked so sexy in the shirt he had on when they advertised the Zee Rishtey Awards .

    • SJ
      December 09, 07:32

      Suni what would. I do with you, you are hillarious , Yash tee shirt a sesame street Bart shirt
      I even forgot that Bart character. I was laughing, so funny I told many time about yash wardrobe
      N one listen to me, all he weare black pant or black check pant, same style three forth sleeves of tee shirt without collar.no one listen so. Gave up, now we have to do litte more thinking
      Beside yash and arthi fashion, stomach is greeting knought, tell arth tell please exactly like
      When you were putting oil in yash hair and what were you telling him , but it was your luck h q was sleeping
      Just say you did not knw at time, that your. Family does not know the truth, when I find out
      Everyday I am suffrung in my heart nd mind , I tried many time to tell the truth buy. Dubeejee family force me to keep quite.
      I love only you yash jee Parsant s my past. So d not delay , yash and arthi will going to schold again, did no tell family, where they are going, can not Stan that bua jee useless character
      Well on zee rishtay awards buajee was clapping and clapping on Arthis performance
      She did not say ” mere Bhagwan kee kasam, arthi s doing mura dance oh my g Sintha parivar
      Bhau , mere Bhagwan kee kasam bhaia ram ram ram ram .
      I am scared for coming explosion

    • Suni
      December 09, 07:42

      So am I SJ . They tortured us for weeks with Yash’s ordeal . We all want to see this couple unite , but as you say , the show would end then . I hope Aarti says exactly what you said , but knowing her , she might try to defend the Dubey’s . I keep supporting her , but she keeps disappointing us . Hope your exams went well .

    • Suni
      December 09, 07:46

      If you notice though SJ , none of Bhua’s plans actually work . She always fails her mission and only bring Yash and Aarti closer together . Aarti’s biggest enemy is herself .

    • SJ
      December 09, 09:57

      Suni first of all, how is your mom doing , just concern.
      My exam??? Would know until nest week, most of the q were choices questions, some of them needed written ( Bio question) that is where I wrote Yas arthi ash arthi under some chemical formulas, these exam becomes on line now, as son as I realize I went ack and corrected.
      I was mad at myself, generally I am o/k with good I’m and study, bu do not know what happned, I like Arthis acting very much each and every expression is very natural. Happiness, sadness, questions, problems, concern , you can see thru her eyes
      See her character av been written that way nt her fault but the way she look and act are superb

      Yes Suni mere Bhagwan kee kasam none of busjee’ s plan work Suni, thank gs mere Bhagwan kee kasam , I saw in yash eyes when yash got suspeious by the mechanic he was honking all va jee’s words. I think writer brought her character to bring some spice in to the story line
      And to show when people re unhappy with there life , they can not see anyone happy either
      Mere Bhagwan kee Adam we need to find someone to get a life he own fr this buajee

      When. Watched zee rshay award , wen arthi was dancing mira dace sh was capping and laughing . I cracked up , go bu jee go yappy

    • Suni
      December 09, 10:48

      Lol . SJ , I missed the awards though they showed it by us I had to go out 🙁 . They will repeat it on December 30 th . I will make it a much to watch then . I imagine that you imagined the real Buaji there applauding Aarti . That would be a very funny thing to see on PV , lol . We would question her motives and her sanity .
      I am happy to hear that your exams went well 🙂 .
      My mom has been through so many battles . She is a nurse but doesn’t really heed her own advice . I always try to reason with and to understand her . She had a stroke in 1998 as a result of her hypertension .A lumpectomy and node clearance done in 2007 . Her toes were amputated from the right leg ,because of her overly high blood sugar and diabetic sores in 2009 . Her list reads likes medical journal . Now there is a growth of between 4- 5 cms on her liver . She went for a CT scan on Friday . I will collect those results on Monday .I don’t know how she copes with it all . Thank you very much for your concern SJ . Much appreciated 🙂 .

    • Anonymous
      December 09, 20:52

      Oh afressh I get that now I am just a dumbh headed, you were pulling my leg, I hope your joke is right they went to mumbai than I will say ha ha , writter is listening to me.
      See I joke with everyone and laugh and make them laugh
      I dod not over talk but sometime people get rope in their own net . I do not know how to say properly
      Laughing pill time , Suni get scared when I say take a pill, all my pills have no side effect so safe to take
      like , laughing pill, chill pill, stress remover pills
      lipstick remover , I am being silly today feelling calm before the storm, my result next week…..
      where I put in my bio Arthi and Yash instead of chemicals name

  13. Anonymous
    December 08, 00:31 Reply

    if there iz a chance means i will kill thiz stupid prashant…….

  14. Srinija
    December 07, 20:24 Reply

    Frndz how can they go to mumbai i didn’t understand pv . Suni where r u

    • Afreesh
      December 08, 04:47

      Srinija….don’t think too much….I just guessed and joking with Sj…Suni is little busy with her tight schedule….she will come back once she become free…Thank your for your concern

    • Suni
      December 08, 05:55

      I keep forgetting that I need to enter my name each time now . Before it just remained there , sorry for the late reply Afreesh .

    • Suni
      December 08, 06:09

      Hi Srinija , thank you for the concern , I am here now 🙂 . I am one of the few people in this world who doesn’t actually have a fb account . I use my cousin’s account because the only reason I go on fb is to check PV . I like catching up with friends through conversation .He threatens to kill me when I like pictures since it reflects on his page , lol . He is no soap opera fan , the idiot is into Pokemon ( I love him though ) , although he is almost 15 but he looks down on me for my soap !! So sorry .. His name is Darius Boodoo , if you check his page you will see a bunch of weird stuff , but one of his likes is PV , haha .

  15. Afreesh
    December 07, 16:36 Reply

    Suni… let me move to the other title which is need to be discussed…. You said it very clearly yash lead his life with his conscience….fine…I take this feature to retort all our queries related with Yash’s mystified mind-set…,The purity of his mind & heart has achieved that spiritual quality of conscience
    Now, my first doubt regarding how he accepted to marry Arpita by looking at the picture is straight away vanished. The same conscience permitted him to take Arthi into his life as soon as he met her at the first time (mancy’s marriage)… things happened automatically by the support of Prateik.
    Suni…we never confer the incidents which happened before they get married… I used to wonder why he became like a rescuer to Arthi always even before they get to know each other. He didn’t even fascinated to see her face on their engagement day but touched her hip mechanically to kill the bug…. and saved her at the mall from falling into dangerous hole & carried her at the bachelor party to protect her from the hassle ….we were convinced clearly the whole things was not done by lust or attraction or love, then what prepared him to establish himself as a savior??? Yes the conscience allowed him to take the responsibility of Arthi at once. Arthi’s pessimistic responses drove his mind to realize the reality…He minutely observed every actions of her with his own interest and accepted her careless and senseless behaviours without complaint and supported her as a responsible husband when she lost her son….
    You know suni…I’m still wondering why he felt restless without Arthi and missed her like a lovely husband and worried deeply when he located her at the street while she was smiling with Ansh although she has done enough mistakes and left him lonely at hard time (of course she didn’t leave him, thrown by his family but his perception was like that) He didn’t get annoyed alternatively he wanted to know the reason for her rejection. In this point I connect his pure conscience with the universe’s plan
    One more thing to be noticed is…. unknowingly he appears in front of her to save Arthi from people…when Arthi had argument with Maya regarding kid’s debate yash entered there and asked the reason for their fearful looks…. whenever she met Prashand at shoba’s house yash’s presence was there without absence. He is not letting her to do any mistakes without trembling Whatever she wanted to hide from yash that’s not happening successfully. Accidently Yash coming to know all her activities through strangers or coincidence (here I’m referring the latest sequence… but his trust & love not allowing him to suspect her). How it is possible to him??? Again his pure conscience alert him to capture his wife when she was going on wrong path
    The most important thing is….his conscience led him to be close with Prashand and indicated him that I’m everything for Arthi & Ansh and you have to pack up…
    The writters of pv made the whole thing as the plan of destiny. But I’m convinced with his spiritual connection of his destiny though his pure conscience

    • Anonymous
      December 08, 05:53

      I believe that the universe supports true love . That is why both Yash and Aarti’s first marriages ended and they were both given a second chance to find their soul mates . You are both condemning and praising Aarti , I will admit she has never been the wisest nor the first to appreciate her blessings . But her biggest blessing of all , is her ability to learn . You appreciated her personality and intellect and dismiss them as though there would have been no struggle to attain them . I say no . She could have wallowed in self pity , but instead she learnt to fight , hence her aggressive at times personality . She willingly learnt what was necessary for her to survive alone in the world with absolutely no family support . The universe conspires to help those who help themselves . She had no love and guidance as a child and when she met Prashant she was her true self . She represented what was taught to her by the very same universe that left her alone as an orphan . The universe doesn’t only give but it also takes away .
      Her personality was very different from Prashant’s , at the beginning . However at the end of their marriage she had changed . She noticed the untied laces in the same way a mother would have noticed . She had learnt the lessons taught to her by Shoba . Prashant left Aarti for a selfish , uncaring woman . How then was he escaping Aarti’s bossiness or over nurturing ? He ran into the arms of a woman ten times worse .
      Which mother would accept a bahoo against her own son ? Shoba is an intelligent woman . She clearly accepted Aarti and defended her against Prashant . When she pronounced Prashant dead , she praised Aarti’s efforts in being by their side through her long illness and Mr Dubeys accident . Aarti accepted them as her parents and they accepted her because she was worthy of their love even more so than their own flesh and blood
      Shoba did not get Yash for Aarti . Aarti owes this debt to Pratheik . Pratheik in his enamoured state , seeing life through rosé tinted glasses , recognised a suitable match for Yash . Why did he chose such a woman who threatened him with a hockey stick ? What did this man in love recognise that was worthy of Yash’s attention ? He saw the way Yash was silenced by Aarti’s arguments in favour of Mr Dubeys contract when Yash spoke to her over the phone . He saw a woman stronger than all of them and he felt that she could drag Yash out of the depths of his despair . Yash’s conscience had been silenced after Arpita’s death Aarti helped to reawaken it . She won her battle of words with him via the phone conversation because she fought on the basis of fair principles .
      Aarti was thrown out of the house by the Schindias . The condition was that once Ansh was found she had to leave . She agreed . Which mother wouldn’t agree to anything to save her child . She was made to promise to stay away from Yash . That is why she did not speak to him .. Bhua conspired to remove her completely as Yash’s wife with the divorce papers . Aarti was hurt and felt unwanted . What had been her fault . She was trying to adjust to their ways but had never been given a fair chance . She wasn’t the ideal bahoo , but their standards were very high and she needed time to adjust . She tried to change and she was even overly harsh on Ansh out of fear of failure . She was not totally unwilling like Pari . She had two new daughters , extra family responsibilities , Gayatri on her back at every turn and Bhua’s condemnation . Yash supported her because it was expected of him to support his wife . Again had he seen her to be incapable of being a good mother , he would never have trusted her care with the Girls .Remember one of the very first episodes where he had left the girls in Vidhi’s care but she had gone off to do an errand and she left them with Ramdularie , Yash was angered .
      Who had the final say with regards to accepting Aarti back into the house ? Papa Schindia . Why did he go against his final decision ? No one had ever seen him go against his word . Yash is very much like his father , he weighs a situation wisely and then makes a decision . How then was he persuaded to let Aarti back into the Schindia house . He saw her effect on the household and he did the unthinkable and changed his stance . He did the same thing when Aarti begged for Pari . He could have said no . Had Aarti been undeserving , surely a man as logical as Papa S would have kicked her to the curb without a second word .

    • Suni
      December 08, 06:32

      Afreesh , I am very interested in Pari’s character because I see her to be the antithesis of Aarti’s character . She has been blessed with parents , but no moral values nor respect for tradition . She doesn’t seek to change herself but rather manipulate others . She is talented but makes the wrong decisions . Her lie her is own concoction , to save and protect herself . She thinks only along the lines of self preservation and not about helping others . This is the girl who throws her blessings away , not Aarti…

    • Suni
      December 08, 06:59

      Afreesh I will give you a few quotes from Paulo Coelho’s book the ” Alchemist ” . I want you to think about how relevant they are to PV .

      ” So I love you because the entire universe conspired to help me find you ”

      ” And when you want something all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it ”

      ” what you still need to know is this : before a dream is realised , the Soul of the World tests everything that was learned along the way . It does this not because it is evil , but so that we can in addition to realising our dreams , master the lessons we’ve learned as we’ve moved toward that dream . That’s the point at which , as we say in the language of the desert , one ‘ dies of thirst just when the palm trees have appeared on the horizon .
      Every search begins with beginners luck . And every search ends with the victor’s being severely tested ” .

    • Afreesh
      December 08, 16:15

      Suni…..please don’t imagine as if I’m a complete enemy of Arthi….already I compared her with someone right….then how can I hate her???…..she is the women who can make everything possible….personality decided by birth but might be developed by the environment…..Who am I now is not decided by the surrounding…..without any struggle & bitterness of their childhood lIfe still there are strong persons are available in the world….how she become generous & caring person???….how she learnt to help others without thinking herself????….these valuable lessons taught by the orphanage…..you have imagined as if she spent her days on the street throughout her childhood…..how she know Aman & other friends???….they are her college mates…..right….It replicates she studied from a reputable organisation….
      Suni….seriously you need to gothrough the earlier episodes….then you will understand what is the worth of shoba…..each and every moment Arthi complained about yash and refused to marry…she rectified her doubt & wrong opinion about him each second…..prateik part was with yash…without shoba’s effort she might not get yash & without her timely advice her relationship might not continued…..I’m not sure whether her own mother can do better than shoba….perhaps the present track made you to be irritated with her
      Then…Suni….pls open your eyes….Arthi herself admitted her mistake to shoba that…. it’s my mistake that I was in my own world without realising that I have married some one, but I need one more chance to rectify my mistakes….what’s your problem to accept that???….
      You asked…how a mother can support her daughter in law than her son….that is what shoba…she is not gayathri….and shoba might be knowing that her son choice was wrong… shoba also a strong & unique personality…..
      Before I asked you one question but you conveniently avoided it….if Arthi remarried to a man who would be the replica of prashand….then could she survived her remarriage????
      Yash & ARthi mutually influenced by each other….we can’t say that only Arthi has done much to yash…..Arthi has blessed by the universe completely & purely. Just imagine if Arpita not died how can Arthi enter into that family….
      I know she married yash for her son…when they planned to separate them….why she has to take hasty decision???? Why you couldn’t able to watch her impatience & over confidence….she told yash not to say pari matter to prateik as he can’t forgive her….then what about herself….why she trust Prasand???… when she advices to some one who is facing the similar problem of herself…what is giving her hope?…. this is what I call over confidence….
      Again I remain you….I appreciates Arthi for all her qualities….at the same time I’m not ready to close my eyes to see her mistakes….please open your eyes

    • Suni
      December 08, 17:40

      I will remind you of something Afreesh , Shobha spent approximately 5 years with no desire to get Aarti remarried . Her decision was motivated by the matchmaker’s scorn of Aarti . She made a promise to prove her and society wrong . Did you see the first man she considered for Aarti ? Had it not been for Pratheik’s intervention Aarti might have ended up with someone far worse than Prashant . Even after seeing the first slimy man she encouraged Aarti to give him. chance . Any man would have sufficed for Shobha . She just wanted Aarti to get remarried . You said yourself that the Dubeys had done an injustice to Prashant by getting Aarti remarried . What was wrong with her decision to wait ? What was wrong with her decision to not remarry and live her life for her son ? Absolutely nothing . It was her choice . Shobha forced her to remarry and sent her on her way to a haughty house filled with mainly self righteous miserable people who Aarti was forced to bow before . She had to change her self for them . What was so wrong with her that she had to change for anyone . Yash appreciates her spirit even her temper , her jokes and her caring nature . She was perfect for Yash even before she married Prashant . True love doesn’t require you to change who you are as an individual. . Like Prashant rightly said , you even appreciate the thorns on a rose . No one is perfect . You only become perfect when you are loved .
      I did not ignore your question yaar nor did I deliberately avoid. It , I simply missed it . I tried my best to explain that Aarti isn’t as bad as you think she is and I will admit to being overly focused on that point .I humbly apologize . My answer would be that had Aarti met with another man as Prashant , her second marriage would have also failed . Prashant held no long lasting appreciation for Aarti . Pure love only becomes stronger with time , I believe he never loved her . Her good deeds and purity of heart allowed her the opportunity to be with her soul mate . It is in Aarti’s nature to blame herself . So yes , she will always admit to being the cause of her failed marriage . How can a man like Yash love her ,beyond a reason why, if she was so ungrateful as to not appreciate her blessings ? Wouldn’t his conscience have warned him against such a person ?
      I know that she did not grow up on the streets . But can any child , brought up without parents , not hold within them a longing for love and acceptance . This can explain her willingness to accept blame and to change herself for acceptance . I will never say that she is perfect yaar , but I believe their are reasons for her behaviour . If she appears to play with her blessings , it is only because she hasn’t yet recognized them all . I will admit that much . Even Yash did not appreciate his blessings before . Only when he faced the possibility of another lonely life , did he begin to recognize Aarti’s significance in his life . Aarti also needs a rude awakening .

    • Suni
      December 08, 18:03

      Afreesh we are both very stubborn in our own ways 🙂 . We agree so well on everything else . Why are we always at at a face off over Aarti , lol ??I am never too stressed by anything and I usually resort to my humour to keep me from getting overly worked up . I would rather laugh than be angry . Can I please take 2 guesses as to what is your horoscope ??

    • Afreesh
      December 08, 23:50

      Suni……I didn’t say shoba brought yash to her…..that was the magic of universe….how can they travel in the same train at same tIme…..and the first alliance came through Dubey not from shoba once she looked at that man she immediately wanted to move from the place but he convinced her to talk to him for courtesy not for marrying him…..I said, before Arthi shoba understood about yash character & trusted him and convinced Arthi whenever she came up with complaints & doubts…okey let me move to the comparison of paridhi & Arthi then you can make out somethIng….my birth date is Dec 19th….I said yash conscience attracted him towards Arthi but I didn’t say she doesn’t deserve yash….there is no major complaint about Arthi…yes…her background is the reason for her character…why she give more importance to relationship & fellow relatives, because she knows very well the significance of it by being an orphan…fine….let me move….I didn’t see much restlessness from Arthi for maintaining her long standing lie…she become fearful & hot headed whenever the situations threatened her and then she become very normal with her routine….you just don’t know howmuch I got irritated when she accused for adultery….she created such kind of problem to herself…( she can’t inform yash by phone that she was wIth Aman…what nonsense?….yash supported her, but I’m not convinced by her lethargic attitude). Paridhi didn’t accepted her advice this time why???… she got the message through Arthi that to continue relationship one should hide something….eventhough Arthi gone to her like a legal advisor nothing achieved….why???….

    • Afreesh
      December 09, 01:21

      Suni….who is paridhi?….very charming & enthusiastic & smart & optimistic & straight forward & brave & independent girl…(almost like Arthi)….only child of a modern & rich family….she never faced problem to obtain her dream and wishes….very free & very cool personality….yes blessed girl by birth…she fall with the man who brought up from an orthodox family.
      Who is prateik?….very smart & caring & straight forward & truthful & affectionate & sentimental & emotional & enthusiastic & disciplined young man who fall for a girl who can’t match with him or his family….
      Papa scindhiya brought up his sons with well manners & dicipline & moral….they didn’t know much about black & white…they are not amature but pure men with good values….and that family got 2 bahus(vidhi & Arpita) according to their culture & customs…but unfortunately the last son decided his partner & 2nd son lost his wife….then that family was compelled to take risk by choosing the females who has no clues about their customs….
      Some way Arthi & Paridhi are similar personalities….where they differ???….Paridhi love herself & never mind to say cute lies to achieve her own will…Arthi doesn’t love herself & ready to do anything for others if needed ready to say lies….both of them is very clever to do tasks according to their will….paridhi’s intentions are self-contained & Arthi’s intentions are selfless….but they are not ready to accept Scindhiya’s views & command….
      Prateik’s blind love made him to give wrong promise to Paridhi but he wanted to fulfil her dream honestly….when she pushed him from the second day of their marriage he couldn’t able to do anything immediately….they are young & fresh lovers who can’t take right decisions at right time…so he started to listen to her tunes & he became helpless….
      Why Paridhi wanted to work??…..that’s the million dollar question…..is that she doesn’t like to spent time with households or she wanted to prove her innermost talents???….we have no clear idea about that & even she doesn’t have…..if she handled the situations with patience & truth she
      Might have won the race….but her young blood & powerful energy & adamant nature blinded her heart & mind…..she became aggressive & selfish girl and violently crossed the rules & regulations of the family…at the end universe taught her a tough lesson which she can’t bear or ignore…but she wanted to be honest with prateik but her mother misguided her all the time…you wondered why she become a perfect house wife now???…..there is nothing left for her to learn….so there is no wonder on it…
      I can sympathize with paridhi for her innocence & young blood….and what happened with her is not done by her intentions…in fact that producer rascal rapped her….everything happened without her control or plan….we can say it as punishment or lesson….
      Arthi also mismatch to that family but she recovered quickly to adjust with them…her innermost longing for relationship assisted her in a right path and she managed them with her pure love & affection. Today she made them to listen to her tunes & achieved a complete trust & love from them…..but she is playing with that blind trust now…..she will learn her lesson soon….

    • Anonymous
      December 09, 06:24

      I almost 100 % agree with you Afreesh 🙂 . The difference between the two of us is that you see things as they are , I try to see the things that aren’t there . You judge a person for there actions , I try to figure out why they acted . It has everything to do with the way we think . Neither of us are wrong , it is just difficult to agree with the others perspective ( totally ) sometimes . Like you said about Aarti., and it made immense sense , she did go to college and was exposed to many opportunities for learning . Similarly did Pari . She must have known that her actions are too demanding . She did not follow a proper process of bringing about her desire . She was not happy for more than a day with a marriage she eagerly wanted . I can’t blame her too much for her lack of obligation towards tradition , because her parents did not instill that into her . But , along the way , she would have learnt the difference between right and wrong . She sat there late at night drinking with the producer guy . Again I will reason on her behalf . She felt that she had no one to talk to . But she married for love not convenience , so why didn’t she run immediately to Pratheik ? Her career was worth risking her marriage ?
      We both agree that Aarti needs to be taught a lesson . You think it is because she plays with her blessings , I maintain that she hasn’t yet learnt the value of what she has . Remember I questioned the sincerity of her love for Yash once before ? I believe that she cannot sincerely love Yash once that lie is alive . i agree with you also that if she loses Yash , it would be as a result of her own actions or lack of action . The writers are generally good at letting things fall into place . But , they are also masters at leaving loose ends . I believe that Prashant still wields some power over Aarti . Here we can both condemn her ( if you agree ) . She is much too worked up at his presence . I know that it could be a simple matter of her being scared of the truth , but I don’t know why I doubt . Prashant seems to be a very calculated character . He would not have fancied having a chance , especially after Yash’s confession , if he didn’t sense some residual love from Aarti .( I know , I know 🙂 , you want to cross the east to west and pound some sense into me lol ) . I would have guessed at first that you were a Capricorn , you are very practical and wise just like that sign , the influence of Capricorn is great upon you , as that sign begins from December 21st . I myself am an Aquarius .

    • Suni
      December 09, 07:33

      Afreesh , I forgot to say that I agree with you about Aarti’s discussion with Pari . Pari is indeed an intelligent girl and here Aarti is facing the consequences of her actions . Do you know the saying ” People living in glass houses should never throw stones ” . I think of Aarti . She is all preachy and self righteous at times and I can understand why you get so irritated with her . She doesn’t realize her own mistakes . Pari rejected her advice and probably saw her as a hypocrite . This is why I say Afreesh that the lie serves another purpose for Aarti . It keeps her guarded , a safety net , if things fail with Yash it would be because of that lie , not because of her self .
      How can Aarti not recognise her own error ?? . For her to sit there and lecture Pari about truth and lie she must know the difference . I will admit to being totally confused yaar . I know that her character is strong and honest and somewhat defiant . I will never label her as deceptive . I believe that in her mind she has found a way to accept that she isn’t wrong . That the end result would justify the means . She was so honest before , this lie is eating away at her soul and controlling her mind . How indeed can she face Pari with a straight face ? Could it be that Yash will have to save her from herself ?? Yash’s biggest enemy was himself before . He held on to his dead wife’s memories and no one tried to reason with him. . The struggle was his own . Aarti is similar , her battle is more inward than outward . She functions normally in the presence of others but she is in turmoil within . I began to write something else but , my thoughts strayed Afreesh . I send them to you as they appeared in my mind .

    • SJ
      December 09, 10:12

      Hi Afreesh how are you, what s the next advice for PV cast
      Where show an go on interestingly, Parsant leave arthi alone, ash do not ge ad and go banana
      At say romantic and loving and caring.
      So funny, yash s imagining arthi asking sweater for him , eloping children in their homework
      Ancing with him. Like all marride coupple do, when they are in love.
      I know arhi is tring to help Paradhi, but when ash and her lve bloomed, she should thank
      Prateek and Vidhi. Vidhi always stood by her, sometime it seems all about arthi
      Vidhi should get best daughter naw award, she is beautiful and sweet, try to keep family to gather, take care of every family responsibility.
      I like yash outfit when yash was wearing white outfit when he planned surprise dinner
      And the other one when arthi was dreaming dance with yash on ash birthday , yash was wearing white without sleeve transparent shirt, we’re killer looking outfit

    • Afreesh
      December 09, 12:24

      Hi Sj….fine yaar….I agree with you ….yash looks great with white outfit….even white bath towel & his night dress also looking good yaar…..I know you fedup regarding the advices given to yash because they are not listening to you immediately as they did with Arthi…..but we hope they will changes his hair style & outfit once he confess his love to Arthi….
      Sj….precap says they left to Mumbai….so I still have hope that your advice has been taken…let’s see.
      You are so cute Sj…..how many times you remained to Arthi to thank Vidhi….but she is not ready to do that… very strange yaar…..I think Arthi doesn’t feel more closer to vidhi as lIke as vidhi felt with Arthi…I became overwhelming when vidhi showed the picture to yash….what a timely help yaar….really Vidhi deserves award…there is no doubt on it.
      Sj….I’m very proud of you two ( u & Suni)….I understood our gang( 3 idiots) has admired most of the people….and very generous guys openly appreciates us…some of them started interacting with us….I feel very glad….I pray to see u guys atleast once in my life time….what’s your horoscope yaar…..mine Sagittarius & Suni’s Aquarius….though we search for logic in life sometimes things are beyond logic…this is what I found from our friendship….

    • Afreesh
      December 09, 13:02

      Suni….I think I have done my task successfully….purposely I did it with you my friend…. you need to come out of that sympathized feelings from her(it’s not good for you….mind science is very interesting concept….I don’t want your mind to store unnecessary things into it, later without our consciousness it will play with our decisions)
      yes I know I’m strict with Arthi rather than Paridhi because Arthi has every qualities & well matured & got enough bitter incidences & lessons. Now she has to execute those valuable lessons into her life instead of playing with her life through risks. I shocked to read about mum’s health history….what is this yaar….you know the innermost reason for sickness is emotional imbalance…did you got the report?….I hope the treatment would be excellent at your place….I will pray for things to go peacefully….convey my regards to mum…..
      Suni…my close friend horoscope is also Aquarius….we always analyse things with different angle but endup with one conclusion…you have rIghtly mentioned that you are looking for the things which is not really there….that’s the quality of Aquarius….yes I’m closer to Capricorn and also I’m a left hand writer…..(I heared lefthander thinks logically)…
      I don’t encourage the females who demonstrates themselves as innocent & weak & insecured…they should know their inner strength & power. I admire the women who has out standing personality…

    • Suni
      December 09, 14:10

      Lol , Afreesh do you know that my first guess would have been Capricorn , second Sagittarius . My guess for SJ would be Leo first , Cancer second . My best friend is a Capricorn 🙂 .
      My mom has had a very challenging life from childhood . She would complain about her parents always arguing . My grandmother was my grandfather’s second wife and he had 2 sons prior to remarriage , but they stayed with his first wife . She was always resentful of the fact that she was married to a ” second hand man ” . She herself died at age 52 . My grandfather was my world growing up but he left scars on my mother’s mind . She married my worthless father and had me . Though she met a few men she never remarried . In fact she said she didn’t because he had me . She is one tough nut to crack and our personalities are so different . I love and respect her but she challenges me with her thinking yaar . She immediately goes to worse case scenario . I prefer to keep hope every step of the way . She reminds me of Aarti , because she doesn’t learn easily . She challenges the universe by doing the opposite things instead of for her betterment . I feel as though I am the parent most times . I must say though Afreesh , this time I plan to do what SJ suggested . She has to listen .
      Thank you so very much for your good wishes . I can feel your support from this great distance 🙂 . Our healthcare isn’t the greatest . There is a reason they call us third world . We have every amenity with regards to our way of life but successive government ignore the social services and health care system . Not enough properly qualified doctors nor enough equipment .

    • Suni
      December 09, 14:28

      I must add Afreesh , my mom would do anything for anyone who asked a favour of her . She has always supported her family members , including me , greatly . She is a good person in her heart but she just makes the wrong choices . I get your point strongly . It makes me think that Yash needs to take control of Aarti . She isn’t unwise , she just doesn’t think about herself . I know i defend her still , but i recognize that she hurts herself the most and it is her own doing .She needs someone to think for for her .. It isn’t correct , but it is the way it is . I learn a lot about many other things through our PV discussion . Thank you 🙂 .
      Do you know that on another forum they wanted to vote on which colour best suits Yash . Reminds me of SJ . They also had a vote on the best mother , prsv is greatly interested in Gayatri . There is another where they ask which time of year were you born , reminds you of anything ? Lol .

    • Afreesh
      December 09, 15:14

      Suni…..already I understood the reason behind your feelings on Arthi’s characterisation…..just because of that I was leaving you…..but I felt like I’m doing wrong by leaving you with that self pity that’s why I started the war with weapon ….mum’s problem is mental stress & self pity & grief & resentment which she was holding for long period of time….she is not ready to forgive & forget the unworthy person and punishing herself for her wrong selection….I think it will be better if you take her to yoga classes & try to take things in a cool way without spoiling your subconscious mind. I feel very bad to hear about the medical conditions of your place…. you should deal with mum in a balanced way not forceful nor careless…..if possible talk more regarding the chapters which has nothing to do with her bitter past & always watch the humorous programs & movies & listen to melodies music…..you have every quality to take care of mum & yourself…..nothing is impossible in the world unless or until the person is ready to face it….I’m very sure that you can manage things with distinct way….don’t discourage yourself for anything at any tIme my friend….by holding stress & worries & anxiety nothing going to happen…is that ayurvedic treatment or any kind spiritual treatment is available?…

    • Anonymous
      December 09, 16:47

      Afreesh , I must thank you for your kind words my friend 🙂 and your advice . There is yoga yes , but she complains about not being able to attend classes as she will not be able to practice it properly due to her present state of health . Every solution offered is usually met with a negative respone . There are no Ayurvedic options available , at least not that I have ever heard about . I do whatever she asks of me , she does hold on to negative thoughts , again I try but she is very set in her ways . She is my mother , and I will always be there for her . I want her to take better care and have a positive outlook for me , but she doesn’t listen yaar . I know that you are concerned and I greatly appreciate it , but I am never one to pity my self . I appreciate my blessings and I learn not only from my mistakes but also from the mistakes of others . I feel so helpless to change her as she has become so set in her ways , but I won’t give up on her . It is my duty not to . Hope you have a good week Afreesh 🙂 . Not as hectic as the last .

    • Afreesh
      December 10, 10:46

      Hi Suni….just now I have entered at home….this week also training sessions will be continued and we will discuss on this forum until we become comfortable to move on

    • Afreesh
      December 10, 13:42

      Suni…today you need to get the report know…Did you got it?….what happened yaar?….I’m waiting for your reply…

    • Suni
      December 10, 17:48

      Sorry to keep u waiting Afreesh , the report isn’t good …..much worse than I expected it to be . The cancer returned and is now in her bone , lung and liver . Not much anyone can do but try to make her days as comfortable as possible . Life is so cruel sometimes , she has never been a bad person to anyone . I feel so helpless ……worst feeling in the world when there is nothing you can do to change the inevitable . Thank you for the concern yaar …. I heard GC also wasn’t well . He is so fit and eats well but the stress, like you rightly said , is what leads to most problems .

    • Afreesh
      December 11, 00:36

      Suni…..I don’t know what to say & how to make yot to come out of this dilemma. you know sunI, my friend’s (Aquarius) mother also a divorcee (her father married another women) my friend mum became very resentful & showed all her negatIve energy to the innocent kids (4 kids). It mislead all of them and they all took ridiculous decisions to settle in their life ( one married a handicapped man & other married an old man & my friend couldn’t able to settle till now because of her love failure). She didn’t want to forgive her mother for her resentful & tortured attitudes throughout her childhood. Now she is earning good & havIng lavish life but failing to find a lIfe partner & it delays in spite of her willingness to get married soon. She made her life more complicated & couldn’t able to compromise anything regarding the choices of finding a man.
      Suni….you can’t believe she is the one bringing all the books (Depak Chopra) & the inspired articles & CD everything and we did group study on it (she is elder than me) but it couldn’t help her much as it did with me. Always we analyse about ourselves deeply & honestly through those powerful books. I influenced her more than the books & changed her corrupted mind eventually her negative & complexed attitudes has become loosened. Similarly her influence in my life is remarkable, we have given full rights to criticize each other qualities & attitudes.
      Through her family story I came to know, mental stress & negativity on life are the main cause of cancer apart from the other reasons ( her aunt who died with blood cancer was single in life & wanted to die soon)
      Why I’m saying all these things….because universe offers infinite possibilities, but people are not ready to accept it. Unless we ready to change our beliefs & activities nothing can help us in the world. The power & energy are inside on us no where else, we should take care of our conscious & subconscious mind & heart then things will become simple and easy. As you said brilliantly, it’s not necessary to learn from our mistakes even we can learn from other’s mistakes too. Please don’t get frustrated on the current path of the life, mum’s stubbornness & inner bitterness & stress are the causes for her illhealth. You can’t do much than giving abundant & unconditional love to her. God bless you & mum….pls don’t hesitate to share anything I’m here to give my shoulder for you at any time my friend…

    • Suni
      December 11, 02:08

      I cannot thank you enough Afreesh , I count you guys as a part of my blessings . It is sometimes easier to bear my soul to you than to people around . I have never been one to appreciate too much attention , I actually evade it . I am moved beyond words by your concern . You know in primary school it never bothered me that I didn’t have a dad . I was happy that for father’s day i didnt have the extra work of having to create a card for the occasion . I treasured my mom and never once did I wish to see my father and he never wished to see me . She never spoke of him much , and I held little interest for him .When I was about 4 or 5 he had sent me a a talking doll , which I ripped apart and buried . I kinda instinctively never trusted him .
      I think that the hardest part now is that I blame myself for not understanding her better ,for not trying harder . In retrospect , even simple mistakes seem to be a cause for her illness . I am so angry at the world for giving her such a hard life . I would take all her pain if I could . Life forces us to go forward when all we wish for sometimes is a chance to go backwards . I know that I have to be strong , I still believe in the forced smile rather than the frown 🙂 . Time is a great healer and great teacher but not a good listener . It has a one track mind , it will never go back no matter how much we plead .
      Your friend is very lucky to have found you . You are a very special soul and your presence in her life means that she is also a good person . My best friend married a doctor and settled in the U.S. West Virginia , with a 1 yr old boy . She cries when I cry and though she is far , I feel her near . I guess each of us walk different paths but our spiritual journey is the same . We all need love and care and acceptance and friends to give us courage when we are weak .
      There is a story about a little blue bird who heard one day that the sky was about to fall . He immediately got on his back and pointed his feet to the sky . A swallow rushing to safety found the little birds actions ridiculous and questioned him about the wisdom of staying outside ,when the sky was set to fall , with his feet insanely up in the air . The little blue bird responded that he will try to hold the sky up with his feet , as he can only do the best that he is able to do , in such a situation .
      Similarly my friend , I accept my challenge and I will do the best I can 🙂 .

    • Afreesh
      December 11, 12:13

      Suni….I know very well that you are very dynamic & positive & brilliant female but very emotional. We used to feel very depressed & furious towards the time when we supposed to handle unpredictable things & situations. First, we start blaming ourselves for any kind of reasons as you said you might have read mum’s emotions earlier. Actually, that’s not possible for us to change someone who is not ready for it. Every individual has unique purpose for their life, no matter how much bondage or connection we hold with our loved one. We feel helpless & restless for matters which is beyond our control rather to accept the intelligence of universe we start complaining ourselves just because of our positive approach on life. The way you feel now I too did 6 years before when my Dad died with liver cancer. He was very healthy & very active person never afraid or worried about anything in life (he was a smoker) my mother & sister took him to hospital (at India) when he had stomach pain by checking his stomach the doctor suspected and sent him to the specialist on pathology dept….and finally they diagnosed he has liver cancer which is in advanced stage spreaded to lungs the maximum days left were one week to ten days (everything happened within one month) . Me & all of my brother who were in abroad went to India as soon as we hear the news while I reached there my Dad gone to unconscious state. He was admitted in the hospital just for making him to sleep without pain. He was suffering & struggling to become normal (he didn’t want to die by leaving my mum & us with huge shock. He was innocent & not much aware of treatment procedure….may be his positive mind forced him that he can live for some more time) finally the doctor told us to take him home. He was staying at home for 2 days nothing happened but we understood he was incurring heavy pain eventhough he was unconscious. You know what I did?…. I spoke to him alone (he was unconscious but I knew he can hear me) for few minutes and explained him there is no way to cure his cancer and promised him that I will take care of my mother and requested him for accepting the reality with full satisfaction….you know Suni….as soon as I finished my conversation his symptoms of death started instantly and after one hour his last breath stopped . I had found evidence through my Dad that the strong will of a person can give strength to survive even with last moments of death. Still I have the complaint about myself that, why I couldn’t able find his disease before 6 months since there is no meaning on that. Each individual has the responsibility of taking care to their body & mind hence the universe doesn’t care about even the innocence .
      So…pls don’t blame yourself for anything….I won’t encourage you to smile forcefully unless you really like to smile. If you wanted to cry please go ahead don’t hold your emotions within yourself
      Of course you can’t show your low energy to mum but you can cry at bath room. Try your best to see things with different angles. I feel like mum doesn’t even worried much about her state because she might have gave up her life long time before. We are actually helpless to fight with time & reality. Whatever the emotions alarms or threats you try to express it immediately through writing to me…you will be relaxed once that weak energy come out you
      All I want to say is take care of your emotions & feelings without looking yourself

    • Afreesh
      December 11, 12:32

      there is a typing mistake I wanted to say to take care of your emotions without loosing yourself.
      Yes suni…your silent witness (inner thought or inner mind) should watch your emotions silently.
      Try to spend time with mum as much as you can and make her to talk openly about her biiter past. If you can make her to forgive him not for his sake just to make mum’s soul to be relaxed at this life time. But nothing to be done forcefully…ok

    • Suni
      December 11, 16:56

      Afreesh ,you may never know how much I appreciate your words . It must have been difficult for you to remember your dad in that way , but somehow you did it for me . At present she is still able to talk and laugh with us and she amazingly holds a positive outlook . She is much less affected by the things that usually upset her . I feel as though she is making her own peace . I know the value of your story , you have lived through the pain I can only imagine to come . I do cry , and cry …..I get uncontrollable . I am sometimes reminded of little things when i am out , like the food she likes or the way she speaks and I may be in a crowd , but I feel the tears welling up . Routine forces us to face the life we would rather hide away from . I don’t know why , but I feel that the stronger you are the more you get tested by the universe . I read the report to my friend’s husband ( the doctor ) and he said she may only have 3 months . 3 months Afreesh doesn’t seem like enough time to tell her how much I love and need her . I don’t want her to suffer , everyone speaks of the evil pain of this type of cancer . I am so sorry you also had to go through this my friend . You give me courage and I hope that your mom lives a long , healthy , happy life . .

    • Suni
      December 11, 17:11

      Afreesh , your words do bring me comfort . You are right , I need to release the negative energy . I cannot care for her if I neglect myself . I need to find that inner strength . Not an easy thing but I know very well what you mean by that inner voice . Something within us recognizes the truth when we lie to ourselves that we are ok , when we are not . It is better to speak the truth .

    • Suni
      December 12, 06:03

      Afreesh , I need to ask you something yaar , please if you don’t mind . I can’t understand and even though you also may not know for sure , I feel I need your views .
      A week or so before my mom went for the CT scan I had a premonition in the form of a very frightening dream . I dreamt that my mom had died . Now that I am faced with this reality to come , I wonder why and how do such things occur ? She has been ill before but I have never felt nor sensed her dying . Do you think that it only because I am connected spiritually to her and I could somehow sense what was taking place within her ?
      I have been reading about the final stages of her disease and they speak about dying people calling out to dead people long gone as if they were right in front of them . I have heard real life tales of this as well . The literature did not explain why , but people who have experienced it say that their loved ones came to take them away . I can’t even understand life most times , now I am trying to understand death . In “Hamlet “. Shakespeare said that there are more things in heaven and earth that can be explained by mere reason alone . I am sorry my friend for making you deal with such a dark topic .

    • Afreesh
      December 12, 12:59

      Suni….pls don’t use the word sorry to me for asking something… I can sense your feelings even without a word from you. OK
      Your doubt is connected with dream theory. Yes….there are many aspects & beliefs pertains to dream theory. Since dreams are the messages provided by our soul in advance but the time can be shorter or longer and it’s not necessarily to be happened with the same people or situations (it can send the message indirect way also). Hence your soul indicated your loss in advance due to the connection which you posses with mum.
      Suni….actually this is what I’m trying to convey you but your soul clearly informed you that you are going to face the loss & the universe allotted me to prepare you for accepting it’s decisions which is taken for some hidden purpose.
      I should explain you about the silent witness. It is your soul which is minutely watching each second what is going on with your mind & body???….what are the emotions raised????…How do you react with the situations???…. when? & where? & why?…. but it is non attached which has nothing to do with our feelings, It’s purely a silent observer that’s it. Once we deeply connected or made ourselves closure to this silent observer nothing can affect us enormously. Henceforth, we can see our own feelings & worries & thoughts as if happening with some one else. That nonattachment we can experience as soon as we find our silent witness. Hence I just introduced that word without explanation just to find out your familiarity of this word. Now my request is…..pls try to connect yourself with your silent observer
      Suni…you should understand very clearly mum’s conditions is nothing to do with herself because that is her destiny & the universe would take care regarding her sacrificed life & painful soul. How would your life become without mum’s presence is the bitter reality to be focused now.
      Don’t hesitate to share any feelings ……I will wait for your reply regarding the above topic

    • Suni
      December 12, 17:59

      Afreesh you are immensely intelligent . What you said is so profound , very deep yaar . Our soul , is that inner voice we try so hard sometimes to silence . We doubt its truth because of the things we were taught growing up or the adversities we faced that make us non believers . I guess that is why some people rise above life’s challenges and some get beaten down by there troubles .It depends on how well we listen .
      Do you know Afreesh that we have a little dog , 2 yrs old but a small dogy , who loves my mom unconditionally . I can also see how he is affected by her illness . He is very protective of her and let’s no one he doesn’t know near her without much complaint . Recently he is not eating well and appears so sad each day . He has never been the most jolly dog , but my mother sometimes can be quite melancholy herself . I am amazed Afreesh by this connection through the soul . It seems as though we are indeed just inhabitants of our bodies but we exist on a much higher level . Sometimes I meet people and I instinctively like them , other times I am weary of their negative energy . I myself have so much to learn and sometimes I feel as though one lifetime just isn’t enough . There must be something beyond this life where we are constantly baffled by things we see and hear but cannot understand . Like how do some people get by on being evil all the time yet they die peaceful deaths without suffering ? People take life and their blessings and even health for granted but live to an old age . Are such answers not available to us on earth ? Or are these answers buried so deeply within us that we find it next to impossible to find them .
      Afreesh the universe has indeed blessed me with your presence in my life . You have awakened mind to many dynamic thoughts . I must always say thank you for being the dynamic person you are .,you possess suchva beautiful soul .

    • Suni
      December 12, 18:29

      Afreesh , SJ misses you much on the regular wu’s . She is quite worried about the present plot .

    • Suni
      December 13, 05:08

      Afreesh , you have been a tremendous help and support . I cannot thank you enough for guiding me towards understanding and treasuring the presence of my soul . You have gone beyond what was necessary and so kindly shared your own story . I know how difficult that would have been .
      I am going to try my best to practice what I learnt from you . It may take me a long time to accept that it was her destiny , but I will work on trying to accept that her soul has been tested and has emerged stronger . She has been a good , kind , caring person throughout her life , despite her many ailments . Though she was stubborn , I understand how difficult her life is , as she met negative people along the way. I have to accept what will inevitably be . Life demands that I do . I thank God for giving her to me , I couldn’t have wished for a better mother .
      My friend , thank you . I shouldn’t remain stuck on my grief , I should count the many blessings I had along the way ……I will continue to try .

    • Afreesh
      December 13, 06:42

      Suni…. you know the animals can sense the future outcome better than the human beings….in 2000 there was a tremendous loss happened at kadalour (which is situated at south India) due to tsunami. The admiring fact was there no animal died due to tsunami at kadalour and which was the place where elephants used to live with their big family. You mentioned about dog….that’s true Suni dogs are very sensitive & profoundly connected with human soul….
      Then you noted how much we are strong enough that much the universe testify us…..yes it’s true I have seen some people who never give up always dealing with challenges…. I used to get irritated what’s wrong with universe?… why did it torture the people who never complained about their destiny? but I got the answer from DC….. the word called SURRENDER we need to practice with our Almighty…yes Suni as long as we resist to accept the truth of our existence & the reason for our birth we will be testified…who we are??? ONE OF SLAVE OF GOD WHO TOOK BIRTH FOR AN UNIQUE PURPOSE once the purpose of the life completed we have to go back. But our mind always try to disguise us & complicating each moments & leading us to wrong path. Whenever the reality threatens we should surrender ourselves with God instead of resisting. That’s why I told you to cry if you wanted to cry & smile if you wanted to smile…. it’s unnecessary to hide our emotions to God. unless we knock the door we can’t get inside

    • Afreesh
      December 13, 09:01

      Suni….if possible check for the documentary CD which may be available at any CD shop. The name is SECRET OF LIFE…..it can help you very much at this time.

    • Suni
      December 13, 09:11

      Thank you Afreesh , I will look for the CD . Time is never enough during the day . I will have to find some and go to the book store . I need to calm my soul .

  16. Raji.trs
    December 07, 14:42 Reply

    Aarti is Pregnancy. She is carrying baby but punar vivah writter not carrying this matter becaze every episode she is driving, travel to long way, crying, more then tension, mendel stress. Doctor informed take care of aarti by yash. . .
    No tension,
    No cry,
    no drive,
    no travel to long way,
    no stress:-)

  17. esmeralda.
    December 07, 14:09 Reply

    Thank GOD,i don’t have anybody like buaji in my family,or else i wuldnt be able to stomach it,my goodness she is of so much venom anϑ hatered for her self.she need some major therapy anϑ anger management/penance.

  18. esmeralda.
    December 07, 14:02 Reply

    Someone please!!!!get ♍ε a rifle anϑ some bullet.i want shoot prashant. What that is the meaning this.thank GOD for that dream(prashant you r a loser)that is what the dream was trying to tell you.yep loser.i hate you.common why do most male folk think they can eat they cake anϑ have it back.this is just too unfair,on us females.
    Thank GOD we will stil have some few decent man like yash character.

  19. lilly
    December 07, 13:24 Reply

    Loved the dream. I hope that Prashant’s character soon succumbs to cancer so that Yash and Aarti will have that happy ever after.

    • SJ
      December 07, 15:04

      You want PV show should end, if writter shows Yash and Arthi are living happily ever after
      nothing to show, PV will end bye, bye, anyway I had knought in my stach with Parsant ‘s dreame, I hope he does not do that, what an h give arthi, He has no job, no health, no respect for woman, ungratful , he is getting BM from. Ansh, the mistake he did can not be forgiven
      His 2 wife left him, now he wants arthi ack, how about she arring yash’s baby. I hope if ths happned, SHOBHA who give lecture all the time and got award for better sas, and if Parsant tries to hurt arthi , SHOBHA shoud kick him out. This is image he was in such a critical situation
      With cancer got better in 2 BMT, Ansh did not even have bandage or any Bo Bo
      Writer think we are stupid. I like yash finding Shari let us see what next please yash jee say it say it, I love you before it s too late and Prsant messed everything up without arthi knowing you love her

    • Afreesh
      December 07, 16:44

      Sj….Yash & Arthi has gone to Mumbai….is that your suggestion accepted by Pv once again?
      There is a chance of creating romance scence at Mumbai and yash could confess his love without any disturbance (I mean your enemy Prashand)…..

  20. Raji.trs
    December 07, 13:12 Reply

    Today episode nice. . Gud nit everybody.

    • SJ
      December 07, 18:28

      LoL Afreesh you are too cute, my suggestion LOL again
      how do you know they went t Mumbai
      Did not say anything in episode. If they went Mumbai. I hope as per you my enemy Parsant
      Would not know where they are and create problem fr them. On the same note ow Coe arhi and yash can go to Mumbai paradi s hearing and court date is tomorrow
      Both of them were so worried, arthi was crying for Paradhi
      Here you go again if they went Mumbai for good tie arthi can nt enjoy will be thinking
      For paradhi. I feel Bad how yash was happy and excited to tell her, as soon as he saw er face
      He could not, anyway you ae e laugh where s Suni ,did you red my yesterday comment
      If writter are flowing my advise,I shoud get I’d LOL again , something I think they are, yello colour dies n look god on arthi , dd you see wen yash was dreaming about arthimn street and finding every where is arthi how beautiful arthi loo n simple sari and change of hair
      I want to see arthi in a bright hit red Ain sari just touch f work in edges big neck blouse hair at front, no tie roe on back either in chiffon or light satin sari et me see if writter or producer listen to me

    • Maggie
      December 08, 00:19

      Is the producer really dead or did he set this up to get back at Pari. Could Yash have gotten some info about that which led to the Mumbai trip? As for Prashant, all I can is some people have absolutely no shame.

    • Suni
      December 08, 06:17

      Hi SJ , you made me laugh so hard at the thought of you not remembering to change those answers . Your professors would have wondered about you yaar . PV is dangerous for our studies lol . No , no SJ , I am not in love with Prashant . He reminds me too much about someone I know for me to love him . I just wish to give him a fair chance as I would give anyone who has decided to change their ways . He only wants to spend time with his son .

    • Suni
      December 08, 06:19

      Your plans for PV are always excellent SJ 🙂 . I also believe that they listen , Aarti looks much better these days with the changes you suggested .

  21. Raji.trs
    December 07, 13:07 Reply

    Buaji’s mouth was very big autobomb becoze it was blast very bad words and think…

    • Raji.trs
      December 07, 13:11

      Plz show diya aur baati hum video and written updates everyday and every episode.

  22. Raji.trs
    December 07, 13:01 Reply

    Buaji’s mouth was very big autobomb becoze it was blast very words and think…

  23. Anu
    December 07, 13:00 Reply

    It was nice to see true love prevail, but the exciting part is that THEY LEFT!! and I wonder what Yash has to in mind????? 🙂

  24. Raji.trs
    December 07, 12:48 Reply

    Prasanth’s dream very nice becaze yash and aarti’s love won. Prasanth’s dream really show to future episode.. Today episode aarti is very very beautiful and nice action. But when yash’s love said to aarti? Pari’s life problem saw aarti but aarti isnt tell truth to yash…

    • Pinky
      December 07, 13:39

      Ya u r ryt .. His dream clearly says ther s no place for him in arti’s lyf .. Even aft knowing the truth yash wnt leav her .. And obviously just nw he got recover from arpita’s lost n enjoyin his lyf back .. So for sure his family doesnt want yash bein upset again for losing arti ..

    • SJ
      December 07, 15:10

      You did not hear when Parsant woke u he said no , no, yash have to know when yash and family will know the bitter truth they will kick and throw arthi out, she will be alone, and I will get her back. So when he said that it was not dreame, he was fuly n scence, seems his evil mind is cooking something

  25. sathi
    December 07, 12:39 Reply

    @anu: u wer absolutly ryt, anu. . Arthi shd tel d truth. . She s makng vry big mistak. . .by hiding truth frm yash.

    • Anu
      December 07, 12:50

      Yeah and NOW Prashant wants her back what is he thinking and Yash should speak up before he loses his wife…again!!! This track MUST stop draging, it’s the same thing over and over again!!

  26. sathi
    December 07, 12:35 Reply

    @anu: i told u na. . . T wud b a dream . . . Coz d daily soaps r lyk dat. . Ll nt conclud anythng ds much soon. .

    • Pinky
      December 07, 12:50

      Ya u r ryt .. Only by then they can tak dis to 200 episodes 🙂

  27. sathi
    December 07, 12:31 Reply

    anu. . I thnk t ll b a dream. . .

    • Anu
      December 07, 12:35

      Oh you were right, but hopefully ARYA will preveal and Prashant will fall in a hole (I din’t mean the actor just the character), aarti needs to tell Yash!

  28. Anu
    December 07, 12:29 Reply

    OMG!!!!! UPDATE ASAP!!!

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