Itna Karo Na Mujhe Pyaar 12th August 2015 Written Update
Itna Karo Na Mujhe Pyaar 12th August 2015 Written Episode
The episode starts with Aman asking Neil not to blame Ragini and says he should not take Arav and he is there for Arav as a father. Neil says he is just Ragini’s puppet and cannot be Arav’s father, he is still alive. He says he does not want to argue with him now and leaves. Aman follows him and gives Arav’s bag and says he wanted to drop it at Karan’s house, but since he came, he is giving it to him. Neil says as Arav’s father, he can right to take it. Aman says he is getting married to Ragini soon, so Neil should not come back again here as people will badmouth that Ragini’s ex-husband visits her often. Neil leaves sadly.
Aman goes back to Ragini and apologizes for his sudden change in behavior and asks her to accompany him for a dinner date tonight to chill. She agrees hesitantly. Ragini picks Arav’s passport and starts crying reminisces Neil’s taunts. Neil also gets sad while driving reminiscing Aman’s taunts.
Karan calls Agam and says he wants to try his clothes. Ranbir says he can try his clothes. Karan says his style is old and boring, so he likes only Agam’s clothes. Agam gives his clothes and says these are his new clothes and a bit lose. Karan wears them and says these are even loose for him.
Jignesh comes back home and asks Nishi why did she misbehave with his friend and says she was helping him setup business with her fiance. Nishi yells that he is lying and is having affair with girl. Jignesh says she is same as her mother who misunderstood Neil and divorced him. She says she will inform his parents. He says he will inform her parents instead and says he is tired of her taunts and wants to free himself.
Neil comes back home. Nivedita says she had been to Aman’s hospital to inform him to get Arav’s passport. Neil says Aman is insensible puppet and starts fuming. Karan comes wearing Agam’s tight clothes. Neil asks why did he wear Agam’s clothes. Karan says he is buying new restaurant, so going on a business meeting and wants him to accompany and even check restaurant. Neil hesitates, but agrees. Karan asks Nivedita also to accompany as he many need her legal opinion. She agrees.
Aman reaches same restaurant Ragini and says ragini that he wanted her to relax, so he brought her here. Neil reaches restaurant with Karan, Dimpy and Nivedita and sits in an adjacent table, but Ragini does not notice them. Neil walks towards washroom when he hears Aman proposing Ragini to marry him in 5 days as there is no good muhurat after that. Ragini sees Neil and leaves asking Aman to give her 5 minutes. Neil goes to washroom and starts washing his face to hide his tears. Ragini comes there and he congratulates her. She asks for what. He says after many days of wait, Dr. Aman’s time finally came and it is good as she is getting old and her children have reached marriage age. She gets angry and asks him to keep his concern to himself. He says he forgot woman should be reminded of age and says soon there will be new children, etc. She asks what is he talking about. He says he is talking about Aman as he would be wishing to have his own children. Ragini says it is their life and they will decide when they will marry and have children.
Ragini continues that Neil has everything, but always tries to peek into his wife and even snatched her child. He says he did not snatch, but her child himself came back to him unable to tolerate her torture. Aman comes and Neil says her would be husband came.. Aman asks what is he talking about. Neil says he is talking about their marriage and suggests to marry as soon as possible. Ragini says marriage is fixed after 5 days and says hope they don’t meet again.
Ragini goes back to her seat and reminisces Neil’s words and Neil reminisces Ragini’s words.. He sits back with his friends.
Precap: Neil says Ragini that her daughter is doing same mistake which she did long ago. Naani says he is mistaken. He says he is not and Nishi is doing same misunderstanding Jignesh and wants to divorce him, though he did not betray her and did not even touch, she is lying. He pushes ragini and says he will talk to Nishi now
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17 Comments
pete
August 13, 06:13I think we are missing the core question – what is the life lesson that this story is trying to teach all.
I do not agree that Neil is wrong and neither is Ragini they have a different approach to life and are just not compatible, as a couple they are both at fault as they could not grow beyond their basic character and look at life at large.
Neil is not a hypocrite and neither is he taunting Aman or Ragini, he is hurt – do you remember that when we said that it is time for me to move on his focus was his kids and thats it – he realises that now it is not about chasing Nivedita or getting married that time has passed in his life he is now trying to get the kids on a right track which is a challenge in a a broken family.
The Morale of the story has to be either:
^ Both Neil and Ragini realise their mistakes and completely patch up which conveys the message that yes relationships can go sour but with careful thinking and …….. it can be corrected
OR
^ Done they just quit and go their ways and the kids should stay with Neil as Ragini is moving on – she is restarting her life with Aman and therefore there is no room for her kids there
hbk
August 12, 21:12i dont quite understand why all are treating arav and agam at same level. why cant all see the circumstamces. arav is furious with his mother. ragini’s wrongdoings allow arav to tak such a decision. not meeting atav in jaip was a big mistake. bt in case of agam neil hasnot done anything bad to agam.then neil has the right to stop agam.
also always ragini critcises neil in front of others. bt neil doesnt. he critics cise ragini directly to her. many times we have seen. as far sa pam is concerned neil does t know that pam s brainwashing kids about ragini
arti
August 12, 22:54But why is everyone saying that it was ragini’s fault arav went to jail.If you think about it neil was the one who encouraged his underage son to start a bussiness and didn’t even bother to help him. Ragini knew that they were middle class so she told arav to complete his education but if neil told arav to start a bussiness he should have atleast given him a loan so the whole thing wouldn’t have happened. Whether arav and agam can be treated the same or not, it doesn’t matter neil did not have the right to start parenting ragini’s kids when he didn’t allow her to interfere with his own.
Khushi
August 12, 18:52Why is Ragini a b**** for wanting to marry Aman – her son Aarav, the spineless prick has left her in greed of his father’s money, and that idiotic Nishi doesn’t think any better of her mother either. Ranbir has never given a hoot in hell about his mother’s side of the story, and remains completely (and unfairly) brainwashed by Pam for the last 16 yrs. It is amazing how he never felt the need to give his mother a chance, like Aarav and Nishi did for their father – again proof of how insecure Neil and Pam must have been as they had to provoke their kids against their own mother, and Ragini, who had more reason to do so (considering Neil did leave his wife n two kids for the daughter of his ex) never made him out to be bad person, and in fact, she allowed him to have some command over her parenting when he came back, whereas Neil never let Ragini get involved in his kids’ lives.
I accept Ragini is too egoistic, rude, judgemental and even cold at times, but it’s been made clear that she’s ready to look bad in front of her kids for their benefits. Whereas, Neil always plays his charm of a good, easy-going parent to make himself look like the better one…Building on what Sira said, Ragini gave up on her love again when Aarav went to jail, and she also accepted that Aarav had made a mistake by shooting someone, even if i was just out of defence. Hence, she let him be jailed, but did neil ever question Ranbir why he took a gun to the station that day, did he ever get angry on the fact that Ranbir planned to threaten Aarav with that gun, who is also his son? When Ragini said he never cared about Aarav as much as Ranbir, she was right, but still Aarav doesn’t seem to appreciate whatever ragini has given up in life for him and Nishi. Suddenly, when Nishi is making a mistake, again she has become Ragini’s daughter, but when it comes to claiming rights over Dr Aman, neil can’t stop chanting, ‘Aarav and Nishi ka baap abhi zinda hai…kehlane aur hone mein bahut farak hota hai’. Exactly, Neil deserves to be called their father, but Aman is just as much a father when it comes to rights, esp cos he was willing to transfer his grandmother’s hospital that he has worked so hard to build, to his stepson’s name just to provide him with a ‘secure future’. When Aarav refused this saying he’s not after the money, i laughed so bad, cos it is so clear that he would never choose Neil had he not got the money. So stupid and selfish, like father like son!
Most importantly, Ragini never mentioned Neil to her kids, but she didn’t bring them up to hate their father either, and she always let him have his pace i their lives, even when he was in front of her 247 during Nishi’s wedding, Nishi and aarav didn’t care at all about how Ragini must feel at the time. But Neil allowed Pam to badmouth and brainwash his kids against ragini, to the extent that Ranbir avenges his own mother by getting involved with his own brother’s love interest, just to indirectly hurt ragini, and he even stopped Suhani from creating a hurdle in neil marrying a woman, not much older than his oldest son? Why can’t neil be given this reality check? I’m not defending Ragini Patel, the egoistic idiot, but Ragini Patel, the helpless, loving and wronged mother.
Khushi
August 12, 19:23I know Nishi is following in her mother’s footsteps, which i’m sure ragini will stop her from doing soon, Neil still can’t blame Ragini entirely for being the reason the past is repeating himself, as he too was egoistic enough to turn his back on Ragini, Aarav and Nishi, saying his kids won’t miss any of them, instead of taking them time to explain to Ragini and save their marriage. If he claims to be the more sensible one to the ‘paagal aurat’, why doesn’t he act so when needed? So technically, whilst planning to save his ex-girlfriend’s daughter’ future, he sacrificed his own daughter’s, putting him just as much at fault, as Ragini in this situation.
sira
August 12, 19:23Exactly. I agree with what you said. Just because neil doesn’t shout as much as ragini and presents himself to be mre likeable doesn’t make him the bigger person or give him the right to insult her. Ragini was never mean to nivedita or interfered with her and neil’s relationship in fact there were times when she sympathised with her. Neil is wrong to insult ragini for getting married to aman when he himself was going to get married to some random girl a few months ago. Atleast dr aman was ragini’s best friend and around her age. ivedita looked like she could have been neil and ragini’s daughter or younger sister or something.
Kushy
August 13, 00:48oh hello not Neil has Ragini leave is was Ragini’s decision the separation from Neil and the Kids. And the second separation from Neil (Aarav went to jail) was also Ragini’s decision, so stop blaming Neil for separation. Nishi and Aarav hates her Mother and loves her Dad,but that is not Neil’s fault, because he was 15 years not there, blame Ragini and her supportive partner (future husband) Aman for the faulty upbringing from Aarav and Nishi and not Neil.
Kartik
August 12, 15:14Yes I m agree . Nil is right whatever Nishi seen in her mom , she learned from her. When they went farmhouse,they decided that they going make Nishi and Jignesh life together,but instead they start fighting. And it’s happen because of Pem and Aman. They both don’t to have to be there. Always story is going off the track. What happen Kartik supposed to do treatment to Nishi , Ragini-Nil going to help Nishi -Jignesh , RK was loving Pem , what is all this ? All unsolved story. Now new things Ragini -Aman get marry. What the hall director doing
Khushi
August 12, 18:56I know, but had neil not chosen to keep secrets from his wife, and leave her with two of his kids for the daughter of his ex, nishi wouldn’t have learnt seen this insecurity 🙂
Kushy
August 13, 01:09@Khushi
oh hello not Neil has Ragini leave is was Ragini’s decision the separation from Neil and the Kids. instead of sensible solution Ragini decides to breaking up. The second separation neil had told her outside d court..but she was in no mood to relent. So stop with blame Neil for the separation,because it was only Ragini decision.
Kushy
August 13, 01:11ragini never gives a chance for a person 2 either explain or make their point
Sona
August 12, 15:01Ragini is such a bitchh . She wants to marry with Aman anyways why she was doing all this Natak. And she said she is getting marry after 5 days, how dare she do this ? She knows her both children r in trouble and how she can do this ? Specially Nishi. If she really think about kids she never think to get marry. Anyways goog luck to her. I hope her life going to hell.
sira
August 12, 15:06I don’t even now if I should feel bad for neil anymore. He’s turning into such a hypocrite. Like why is arav able to leave his mom and make such a decision by himself but agam isn’t mature enouhg to make his own decisions. It’s not a big deal if ragini’s child leaves her but if his own child is away from him it hurts? He claims to love ragini but can’t even understand her pain. And okay if he can’t stop arav from leaving why is he stopping agam from fulfilling his responsibilities. Instead he is supporting his children in badmouthing ragini. Wow! I’m not saying that ragini is entirely right. She is arrogant, rude and egotistic but atleast she is firmto her principles and aware of her responsibilities. Neil is also quite arrogant but covers it up with his charm. Is everyone forgetting how much he bullied aman. Sure he was jealous and wanted to poke fun at him but neil took it to a whole new level. The man was in emotional and mental distress! Dr. aman’s behaviour is upsetting but it is natural. Ragini promised to marry him so why should he be okay with her constantly meetng her ex-husband. If bullying someone isn’t a sign of arrogance than what is?
Neil was not very understanding either. How can we just forget the whole pam fiasco? He got into a fight with his best friend who thought of him as a brother and falsely accused ragini just for his cow of a sister. If pam really loved rk why did she leave him. The kids were old enough them she could have happily married him but she said i don’t care about marriage. Neil knowing all this about pam still blamed ragini and called her a meddler.
Why is he insulting ragini’s parenting style when his is no better. He even admitted he never spent time with his kids and handed them over to his sister. What about that time when he found out ranbir was trying to take revenge on arav. He never put a stop to it. What kind of parent lets one of their children take revenge from the other?
I admit ragini is rude and shouts alot but atleast she is aware of her responsibilities. neil just seems like a likeable person who can only speek of his concern and love but does not shoulder any real responsiblity. Showering your children with gifts and giving them money is not the only thing he is supposed to do.
Priyanka
August 12, 15:30Sira, you are right. Neil is such a hypocrite. Amidst Nishi problem and treatment, Neil is going back to US with all his kids. I think it includes Nishi too. Else he would have stayed back. Is Karthik planning to stay back and give the treatment. Whatever, he is leaving Nishi when she always running behind Papa, papa. Is he responsible. For sure, Nishi will not listen to Ragini. if Ragini would try to correct her, then again neil will land up in India to taunt Ragini without knowing the reason. When all her kids are not beside her, let her live her life. Not anymore. Whey she should think of the thankless kids. It is shown that Ragini is doing with full heart but she is a human, she must be tired with all such stupid drama.
I don’t know understand why Neil is so much affected with ragini’s marriage. If that marriage wouldn’t have stopped, Neil and Nivedita would have been married. From day 1, Neil is taunting Aman like anything. Is Ragini and Aman interfering in any of the matters or passing taunts. Really today, totally, I felt pity for Neil’s arrogance and his thinking. get on my nerves. I would have slapped him and Arav and Nishi if I was Ragini. damn sure.
I am sure Aman is not trying to woo but he Wants to end Nil chapter as he can see that pain in Ragini’s life. bahut Thadapa diya. And Neil constant taunts. That’s the reply to neil saying don’t interfere in our life and control your tounge.
Actually problem is with the script. The CVs don’t know they should go with the situation. Just dragging and dragging for no reason. Even Neil and Ragini’s divorce is not justifiable to me. Atleast in court it should be proved that Neil s cheating and he is at fault.
Khushi
August 12, 19:14There seems to be nothing she can do about Aarav, she doesn’t yet know anything about Nishi’s problem n why is Dr Aman treated like a servant, taken for granted, she can’t keep messing around with him???
Priyanka
August 12, 14:30OMG!!! Neil has stooped low today. This man is really annoying than anyone else. Same old taunts from neil. grow up man, you have Nivedita and all the kids now, so be happy. Why the hell is he so concerned and get affected with Ragini’s marriage. let her live her life now. Neil’s attitude from the day 1 towards Ragini is really unappreciable. He came and put his legs on the table as if he is sitting in his living room and from there starts the taunt. Respect woman, when he is moving with Nivedita to US, why cant he think, is he doing the right thing? simple problem and the CVs are dragging so much with no reasons. I still don’t understand how did they get divorce. Atleast in court it should be proved Neil was at fault. Unjustifiable.
divya
August 12, 14:09I’m not sure if I even feel bad for neil right now because he is being kind of a hypocrite. When arav decided to leave for the us it was his decision and he was right but when agam wants to stay with ragini he is not allowed to make these decisions by himself? When he is seperated from his son it hurts but ragini can live without arav because she is a mean and egotistic person? I agree ragini has a big ego and can be rude but at least she is firm to her beliefs. If you think about neil is really everything that he is accusing ragini of being. Is everyone just forgetting how much he bullied dr. aman. I get that he was jealous and wanted to poke fun at him but neil took it to a whole new level where he was causing the man emotional distress! Ragini was also jealous of nivedita but she never treated her like garbage. And yeah the new change in dr. aman is upsetting but it is only natural. Things are different now ragini has promised to marry him so why should he like to see her with her ex all the time. An considering the way that neil bullied him for no reason this is nothing. I don’t want to fend for him or say that he is better for ragini than neil but he is only doing what a normal person would do. Neil also isn’t very understanding either. How can we forget the whole pam fiasco? He got into a fight with ragini and his best friend just for his stupid cow of a sister. If she really liked rk why didn’t she just marry him before leaving for america when he asked her too. The kids were grown up then but nooo… I think rk was right she just wanted someone to chase after her it wasn’t really love. Neil is just as bad as ragini but covers it up with his charm and money. Why is he so keen on criticizing ragini’s parenting techniques when he never had time to raise his own kids and had to get his sister to do it. Neil found out about how ranbir was tryng to take revenge on arav but didn’t put a stop to it nd let it pass. Where was his concern for arav then?
I don’t think it is entirely neil’s fault but the way he s hating on ragini and treating her is immoral. I thought he loved her. If he really loved her he wouldn’t seperate her from her child or atleast stop the one child who is aware of his responsibilities from staying with her. To me neil seems like a man of words who doesn’t have the courage to shoulder some real responsibility and puts the blame of his children’s foiled lives on ragini and dr. aman instead. And why is ragini the only one who is interfering. Didnot interfer in nishi and arav’s life.
How can we just forget that he was the one who told arav to start a bussiness and did nothing at all to help him. Why didn’t he just give arav a loan then NONE of this would have happened.
Ragini’s only problem is that she is rude and arrogant but atleast she is fully aware of her responsibilities and tries her best to fulfill them.