I want to marry a man whom I can dominate: Deepika Singh

Every single girl goes dreamy eyed when it comes to her soul mate. But Deepika Singh aka Sandhya of Shashi Sumeet Mittal Productions Pvt. Ltd’s Diya Aur Baati Hum is more down-to-earth when it comes to this scenario.

“I am just too busy with my Star Plus show to think about romance. If you push me, though I will say that I don’t want a prince charming for he will have too many butterflies fluttering all over him. And this is something what I will not be comfortable with. He also need not be dapper in terms of looks and but have a great sense of humour,” advocates Deepika.

“Most importantly I want a man whom I can dominate. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t want to be a doormat, but want a smart guy who always lets me have my way in any argument for I don’t like to lose for eventfully I will come around. He also should be a good and patient listener with whom I can talk at length for hours together,” she avers.

Drawing parallels with her show’s character Sandhya, Deepika says, “Unlike Sandhya who gives in to her in-laws pressure and lets go her dream for a while, I am fiercely an independent woman and will continue to work after marriage also. My to-be hubby also should has to have a separate identity of his own and a standing in the society which I can look up to. I want someone like my dad whom mom loves and respects.”

The actress has, however, no problems either with an arranged or a love marriage, “Since my parents are not conservative, they will accept whomever I choose. But, yes I will not break their trust. Their approval would be very important to me,” observes Deepika.

“Even if I do go in for an arranged married, it will not be with some stranger. A certain amount of understanding and familiarity is the need for a relationship to get going,” she concludes.