Ek Mutthi Aasman 30th May 2014 Written Update
Ek Mutthi Aasman 30th May 2014 Written Episode
Scene 1
Kalpi leaves. She says sorry God I am breaking my promise but I ahs to do this. Its Nettu who has done this. She is looking at them. Pakiya and his friend turns the switch on.
Nettu says Kalpi must have ran. She must have gone to meet Ragahv. Its more important for me than for her. He will release myu daughter and we will get back whats ours.
She goes and dances with manda and other people.
Scene 2
Kalpi reaches the temple. She can’t find Ragahv. She says am I late. Has he done something wrong ? What should I do now. Its 10:30 already.
Kamla looks everywhere for Kalpi. SHe can’t find her. Kamla wonders where can she be.
Kalpi says you betrayed me Ragahv. You even didn’t come. I broke my mom’s promise to save you but you are not even here. she is about to go but stops again.
Scene 3
Vitthal says please clap for manda she dances so well. A lady asks Pakiya where is kalpi. Manda says she was here. Madna says ask Kamla tai. Another says kamla is not her to. Pakiya goes upstiars to look for kalpi and kamla he can’ find them.
Scene 4
Kalpi is crying. Ragahv is sitting behine the wall. He is listening everything. Kalpi says where are you Raghav please don’t betray me this time. The song ‘Ya rabba’ play in the back ground.
Kalpi is crying so hard. Ragahv stands up and comes in front of her.
Kalpi is shocked. He comes closer to Kalpi. Kalpi hugs him. He holds her tight. Kalpi recalls him in the wedding dress with Pakhi. She goes away.
Vitthal asks Pakiya did he find Kamla and kalpi ? He looks at Nettu she is so amused ? Nettu says why are you satrring at me ? I don’t now where kamla is Pakiay says ai and kalpi both are not at home. Vitthal asks where can they be ? How will we answer. Nettu says why they left from the party. That doesnot happen in our society.
Vitthal sys this is your society now.
Ragahv says don’t turn your back against me kalpi. I feel like everything is taken from me. Kalpi says its too late Ragahv you have taken your decision long ago. Ragahv says i was helpless. And today i have to take another decision in the same condition. I wanna divorce pakhi but i can’t do that. Kalpi says why have you called me here then ? Ragahv says i wanted to divorce her yesterday but mom wants her revenge. She said she will kill herself if i divorce her. I have got her after so long. How will i call myself her son if i don’t keep her happy. I can’t see her dying. Neither can i see our relationship dying in the fire of revenge Forgive me kalpi.
Raghav says I am helpless please forgive me Kalpi.
Kalpo throws his hand away. She is so shocked. KAlpi says i am helpless too Ragahv. You broke dreams of my family. What is my fault. What was my parents’ fault. The day I said i love you i considered you my husband by my heart. Ragahv says when I held your hand i promised myself that i will never leave it. Wedding is just a ritual i consider you my wife too since so long. Only one year wait for me kalpi. I will divorce pakhi and we will be together. Nothing will come between us. Kalpi says one year ? What do you think of me ? Why should I wait for you? I don’t trust your words. You want me wait for this nameless relationship. Then you will say that it will take 5 more years. Why should i trust you. WHy should i hurt the people who have always been with. Raghav says because i love you and you love me.
Ragahv says look I will show you how much i love you. He goes and takes the red powder. Kalpi is shocked and is in tears. He holds his fist. Ragahv comes closer to her. Kalpi is looking in to his eyes. Ragahv puts the entire color in his fist to Kalpi’s head. Kalpana is dazed.
Precap-Kamla is at the temple and says this is my mistake. SHe slaps her self and says when kids do something wrong its all the mistake of parents. What you did kalpi.
452 Comments
Kris
May 30, 20:09OOOhhh, I felt like hugging both of them and reassuring them that have patience and trust in their love and each other that everything will be alright.
Suni, I thought the same thing, he slapped that sindoor on like he was slapping on colored powder for holi lol,
I loved Kalpi’s dialogues, she is right in her own way and Raghav is right in his, that does not mean that they have to accept each other words and act upon it.
On the one hand Raghav was emotionally blackmailed by his mother and he did the same to Kalpi, he threatened to kill himself, that’s exactly the move Gaurie did to make Raghav do what she wants.
I did say it was Neetu who offed the lights, look at her, she wanted so badly for Paakhi to marry Raghav to grab his riches for themselves, now she want them to divorce so she could get back her riches. She is least bit concerned about her daughter’s happiness. She sees her daughter as a way to gain wealth.
Kalpi showed a strong character, when she rejected Raghav, she did not behave like a typical behenji and weep and moan at her situation, she will come out kicking and screaming and a much stronger individual.
She really has strong character and I must commend Kamla for that.
Paakhi is trying to do what Kamla tells her but she is nothing compared to Kalpi in that area.
M@hi
May 31, 08:10Yup Kirs. Raghav and Kalpi were right with what they said in their own way. Yesterday the WU won’t allow us to know that it was Neetu who switched the lights off but after looking at it we saw. Can you believe Neetu cares squat about Pakhi lol. She is trying to get Ragna together to fulfil her desire for wealth.
Pakhi has faced nothing like Pakhi so far (with regards to love) and boy is she doing some serious crying. Just shows how spoilt and immature she is.
M@hi
May 31, 08:11*Pakhi has faced nothing like Kalpi*
Arouhi
May 30, 20:07kamla is such an idiotic nosy jerk
℘ɧơɛŋıҳ
May 30, 20:02Paige do you watch Indian movies ?
Paige S
May 30, 20:07I have seen a few. Do you have any in mind?
℘ɧơɛŋıҳ
May 30, 20:21Veer Zaara
Paige S
May 30, 20:27Sorry. Haven’t seen it.
Paige S
May 30, 20:28I saw Lagaan and loved it.
℘ɧơɛŋıҳ
May 30, 20:39If you can , please watch it . I’ll try to watch Lagaan .
Observer
May 30, 19:58Such beautiful, powerful, incomparable, deep , immeasurable and unfathomable love can only be made in heaven, the bonding of hearts and minds and souls , so packed with spirituality.
Take note Pakhi!!!!!!!!! and for nothingness like you to get in between these two people whose love has definitely been ordained by God will only be the Satanic works of the psychotic Writer/Producer/Kamla
Paige S
May 30, 20:08Exactly. agree with you Observer.
devya
May 30, 22:44Very nicely said OBserver..
M@hi
May 31, 08:06Love your choice of words here. According to what they are showing first the flower fell signifying Kamla should allow Kalpi to marry him now they are at a temple with no obstacles what is that telling you crazy Kamla.
Paige S
May 30, 19:51I felt those emotions. I felt so sorry for both of them especially Raghav. Oh my…the poor man is in such conflict. Did you hear him? He said he doesn’t want to pursue this revenge. What a welcomed change from his original position. THat is love manifested there, that for Kalpi’s sake he is forsaking revenge. But it is his suicidal mother that is the cause for this. Gosh…I felt it for him. he is so broken over the situation. I love this episode. THat is what true love it. The song they played in the background spoke of their situation well. Lovely words. Here is its meaning:
“Is it love or is it a punishment, tell me O heart of mine!
Why does this chain of events of pain not break?
In love there are so many difficult tests
There are amazing stories written in love
O God! If someone sacrifices oneself
May there be no effect of this on his/her beloved
What’s this journey towards the destination called faithfulness
There’s no solution to the problems of the heart
Complaints are spread in everyone’s heart beats
The bonds have been in everyone’s breaths
In some places, there’s complain on the lips in every moment
Someone’s whole world is ruined due to love
No one listens to the sobbing sound of the tears
No one takes hold of restless hands
The desires are all incomplete
All the requests have been broken
There’s suspicion someplace, there’s a wall of hatred in some places
In some places, even in victory, there lies a defeat
Kris
May 30, 20:18It’s a good thing they din show Paakhi in this song sequence, she really spoiled it the other day when Raghav got his speech off by Kamla.
Paige S
May 30, 20:30I thought the same. Thank goodness she didn’t pop up in it. Would have ruined everything.
devya
May 30, 23:14PAIGE, can u remember in one of my previous comment,I mentioned kamla May be in time to to witness the application of the sindoor n she did meet just AFTER.
She was furious,her claws were all up …..should she had reach earlier she would have prevented by holding raghav hand n give kalpi some slaps. Happy she didn’t reached before. Let she fight n slap up herself n do all the lamenting n analyzing where she went wrong ad a mother…
Raghav and kalpi better move away lol
devya
May 30, 23:25We may see a new version of kamla NOW since kalpi betrayed her trust n breaks the promise. She might get some sense to act like a real mother…hope she do find her faults.
naz
May 30, 19:47I’m sooooo sooooo happy today….hate kamla go to pakhi n stay wit her
..love Ragna… I just want raghav to support kalpi in every way he can coz after seen precap she needs his support… Can someone kick kamla out of Ema..
devya
May 30, 23:20Haha naz,she will calm down now,kalpi betrayed her trust broke THE promise. So THAT will calm her down we may see the real mother kamla NOW lol
Paige S
May 30, 19:38According to their god Raghav and Kalpi are married. The god witnessed it. and when you looked carefully, in their talking, vows were subtly exchanged. when she said she had accepted him as her husband and he said he had accepted her as his wife. the god witnessed it. the shell blew. the bells were ringing and the wind blowing. supernatural things confirmed it.
℘ɧơɛŋıҳ
May 30, 20:03She said that she had accepted him b4 , I didn’t here her say now .
Paige S
May 30, 20:10lol I know…both said it with reference to the past. But it did struck me as “hey it’s like they are repeating their wedding vows” Sort of came across like it… 🙂
devya
May 30, 22:50PAIGE,when we see those kind of atmosphere, like the wind blowing so heavily n the bells ringing its a sign of great happening..So kalpi n Raghav togetherness meant good despite the fierce battle awaiting them. BEING a couple they will TRIUMPH..THEIR love is PURE n strong n that will assist them to conquer all obstacles.
Paige S
May 30, 19:32I cried…. I cried watching this episode
That was so touching, so beautiful….
℘ɧơɛŋıҳ
May 30, 19:31He threw that sindoor like he was playing Holi 😀 . ..
Paige S
May 30, 19:53same thought. that way no one can say they didn’t see it. 🙂
℘ɧơɛŋıҳ
May 30, 20:01Lol 😀
devya
May 30, 23:17He was happy Phoenix. So he applied bountiful to wade off the evil kamla lol
℘ℏöḙn̛i̵ҳ
May 31, 00:13He didn’t have his happy face on though . ..
NIRVANA
May 30, 19:02I respect your thoughts here about what Raghav should or shouldn’t do, or if he is a coward or not or even if he’s being unfair to Kalpi etc. It is after all your point of view.
As Paige said, only if you’ve been in a situation do you know exactly how if feels.
I look at this character who was so smart, sure of himself, had his plans all laid out and started to action those plans. Then his life started to change and he had no plans for that because all he had was one plan and one plan alone. There was no plan B or C or D. All he did was live for plan A and nothing was supposed to hinder that. Then come interruptions one after the other and they are powerful one to boot. The love of his life, Kalpi and his love for the woman who gave him life, his mother. He really loves them both and he doesn’t want to let either of them down. He asked his mom to understand and she wouldn’t and now he’s asking Kalpi to understand and she can’t. The man is drowning here, he’s trying to survive and no ones throwing him a life jacket or a log to hold on to.
℘ɧơɛŋıҳ
May 30, 19:22He’s drowning because he has given someone else control of his life .
He has given his services to a mad , insensitive , selfish woman .
Paige S
May 30, 20:06You are so right Nirvana. Do not underestimate the love of a son for his mother. Such love is deep and Raghav understandably is right to love her so. SHe is the bad influence. Gauri is made enough to kill herself and no son can live with the guilt of the mother dying because of him. To me Raghav really tried to make both sides understand, which is what any rational man would do. I looked at that poor man sitting behind the wall. I saw a crushed man. I mean one has to be in such a situation to understand the emotions. It is not easy to deal with that. Raghav is damn if he do and damn if he don’t. he tried his level best to deal with this matter. No man wants to be in that position. And honestly, he has done well with both sides in how he tried to handle it. It would be wrong for us to expect him to do something that no man can ever do. Nirvana you are right. No human around Raghav is helping him. They all think about themselves: my life, my happiness, what will happen to me…Me …me..me…Look at it carefully.
Kamla’s happiness is important to her and her happiness lies in Paaki’s happines;
Paaki, her happiness is getting what she wants
Gauri’s happiness lies in her getting her revenge
Kalpi’s happiness lies in her family
Raghav has his happiness too, and he is trying not to be selfish and hurtful (as the others are doing). He tries to ensure both his mother and kalpi are happy. Whilst he himself is miserable. So now we can say “that’s right. he needs to take control of himself?” but it is not so easy. If he takes a stand for his mother, he loses Kalpi. If he takes a stand for Kapli, he loses his mother. It shouldn’t be this way. The problem lies in peoples selfishness. They are all too busy thinking about themselves, that they are not helping poor Raghav. The man wants the help. No human is expecte to solve his own problems by himself. no man is an island. Scripturally we are called to “bear one another’s burdens”. No one is doing that for Raghav. I feel it for him.
Kris
May 30, 18:32It’s the mothers, I blame he mothers for all the bad things that happening in this serial.
I blame from mommy ji down. She created that evil spawn Sahil, who influenced by the more evil Neetu, who is a mother, she spawned another evil, Prem, Then comes Kamla and Gaurie,
Its the mother’s, lets call for a boycott of the mother’s in the show, let the children do what they want 😀
Kris
May 30, 18:41ok time to hit the shower, curl up in bed and look at EMA,
Paige S
May 30, 20:14hahahah…i hear you Kris. and i agree with you on everything here. it is the mothers! Every single mother has an agenda they are pushing and are using their children as the pawns. WHERE ARE THE FATHERS TO STRAIGTHEN THEM OUT? The man is suppose to be the head of the home! if we stuck to the divine order for family, this would never have happen. Well, I understand in Gauri’s case she doesn’t have a husband. Someone needs to knock some sense into her. Listen I understand Gauri’s pain. I do and I want her to get her revenge. But please, not at the cost of ruining your son’s life. Come on, woman!
devya
May 30, 23:37Rightly said Kris
M@hi
May 31, 08:28Yes you guys are right. It all has to do with the mothers. I don’t know what’s the matter with the fathers. They are responsible for their wives behaviour because they never really put their foot down when they need to.
Paige S
May 30, 18:29I will be back online at 7:30pm. In 30 minutes the episode will start, so I am going to ready myself for it. This is it! 😀
Let’s now look at this in words, expression and everything.
See you guys in a bit 🙂
NIRVANA
May 30, 18:24I’m sorry for say this but it does look funny.
The last picture on this page where Kamla is standing in front of something (an idol I think), is a poor angle for the shot.
It looks like the sides of her head is all splayed out like one of those lizards that has its cheeks flaring out when its in attack/self defense mode.
Paige S
May 30, 18:28hahahahahahahahahahah…..gosh…I needed that laughter. Good one. I looked at it again and you are right!
Kris
May 30, 18:29lol, yes the Murti of Bappa is in the back of her, now as you mention it, look for it you will see it.
Maybe they wanted to symbolize something there,
That either she is playing Bappa or that lizard thing you mentioned (rotfl :D)
℘ℏöḙn̛i̵ҳ
May 30, 18:48True 😀 . .
M@hi
May 31, 08:30Oh my 😀 your description really made me laugh.
angel
May 30, 18:07Congratulations to Raghav…he has now attain the stage of bigamy……..not forgetting, say hello to Kalpi, the new mistress of Raghav
℘ℏöḙn̛i̵ҳ
May 30, 18:19Hmmm
Paige S
May 30, 18:26Phoenix…I really like your explanation over this red powder thing. I quoted it several times already. I will keep repeating it, it seems. (smile)
℘ℏöḙn̛i̵ҳ
May 30, 18:46Yes Paige 🙂 , the sindoor is symbolic of love .
I believe Raghav has true love for Kalpi , but , like I said once b4 , he isn’t fighting for it .
I feel sorry for Kalpi . I really feel her pain more than Raghav’s . I understand how much he’s demanding from her . . how broken , lost and alone she must feel . He has Sammy , but who does she have to talk to ??? . If she becomes lonely while he seeks revenge , should she carry on broken and without complaint ??
Also , how does Raghav know that his revenge will take only one year ???
What if there are unpredictable circumstances that lead to it being longer ??
Jaya
May 30, 17:50Ok I officially hate gauri. I my opinion she is the cause of all this, she could have let raghav marry kalpi and still get her revenge what was the need for marrying phaki?! They don’t feel bad for their daughter! It doesn’t hurt them it only hurts Paki! And then she blakmails raghav into staying with paki, is she really his mother?! or is she just some kind of revenge-famished monster?!!I like how kalpi behaves tho she still loves him but she still doesn’t give in easily. I would really hate if kamla behaves all biased, she was actually been nice to kalpi for a change but judging from the precap, I’ll most likely go back to hating her.
Kris
May 30, 18:00Yea Jaya, we’ve all been saying that from day one,
but these serial people don’t listen to us lol 😀
M@hi
May 31, 08:33Gauri – definitely a revenge-famished monster.
Kamla – its beginning to look as though the only reason Kamla being a mom to Kalpi was because she got Kalpi under how control to do whatever she asked her. Now she’s blowing up because Pakhi would be hurt.
Kris
May 30, 17:18Pani, you know earlier when you commented about adultery etc,.
according to the scriptures, adultery is one of the topmost deadly sins,
but in this case, I’m playing God 😀 and will forgive Raghav for this sin, he is not at fault, the entire universe conspired against his and Kalpi’s union, He just has to fight back, cannot sit idly by and let injustice happen to the one true love of his life, the reason for his heart beat, each and every breath he takes. Oh please I am rambling here please someone stop me lol 😀
Paige S
May 30, 17:36Lol…
Paige S
May 30, 17:38Will comment on this after I ponder on this situation.
Kris
May 30, 17:48Hey if Kamla can behave like she is God or God has given her the right to control people’s life and emotions etc,
I could too hehehe 😀
℘ℏöḙn̛i̵ҳ
May 30, 17:53Kris , you’re wrong 🙂 . .
The entire universe was in favour of his union with Kalpi , but his mother was the only one who diverted this perfect union from occurring .
If we throw away or play with our blessings . .. how can we approach God again and ask for the same thing that we gave up ???
I think most of the fans are upset because of this moral dilemma that has arisen .
There is no way that 2 + 2 = 5 . . Wrong is wrong . .
We are trying to understand , we’re trying to see the grey areas . .
However , I’m going to speak my mind , although I understand Raghav’s dilemma , I do not support him .
I do not condone the fact that he’s making demands on Kalpi and he has nothing to offer .
He shouldn’t have placed sindoor on her head . . I know they love each other , but is Raghav truly acting like a man in love ?? He’s more in hate than in love !!!
He’s become an unrecognisable person who can’t even understand himself . He’s torn and dejected and desperate . And the greatest irony is that he is supposed to torment others during that one year 😐 . .. He’s tormenting himself !! He’s tormenting Kalpi !!
Kalpi is just collateral damage .
In that year Kalpi has to pine away for him !! How will she manage seeing him with Pakhi ?? She’s already having flashbacks . ..
Let the stupid old woman do as she wishes , put her in a good medical facility , after that suicide attempt she’s proven that she needs further treatment for her mental health . ..
Kris
May 30, 18:22Oh Suni, I understand where you coming from, I know,
but as Raghav so emotionally stated to Sammy, he don’t know what to do, he wants to make thing right but is torn between a mother he grieved for for 20 years and finally got her back, and the love of his life.
He really stuck and don’t know how to react, all he knows is that he loves Kalpi to no end and don’t want to lose her no matter what. He lost out all his life and when things should be going his way out of the blue his life was turned topsy turvy all over again, not once, not twice but trice,
first when he thought his mother left him his father being killed and the Kapoors taking advantage of him,
then again when he found his mother, then again after the speech off Kamla gave him he wanted to right the wrong and once again he back at square one.
He is grasping at straws right now to save his relationship with Kalpi
℘ℏöḙn̛i̵ҳ
May 30, 18:33No he’s not grasping at straws to save his relationship with Kalpi 🙂 . .
He’s grasping at straws to have control of Kalpi .
He wants to control everything .
But , why should he be allowed to have Kalpi ??
He is rejecting her in favour of something else . ..
How can he expect to have the best of both worlds ???
Paige S
May 30, 20:24No Phoenix… he doesn’t want to control Kalpi. He is desperately trying not to lose her. Raghav knows what she means to him. One can see the emotional turmoil he is in. When he was pursuing Kalpi, he told her how she changed his world. He knows that well. He doesn’t want to lose her. Honestly, I would have done the same if I love someone so much and don’t want to lose him. I will fight for him. And do whatever it takes to get her. See, I would have blamed Raghav for asking Kalpi to wait if his mother simply objected to the marriage. In that case, you can simply go against her and marry the girl. She’s on her own. But when a life is threathened that changes everything. When your own mother threatens suicide and literally set herself with fire and you see that, it scares you to death. it cripples you. As Nirvana said, everyone is making it worst for Raghav by not helping him or showing understanding. Raghav hasn’t done wrong by me to ask Kalpi to wait. He is expecting her to show that kindness to him that his own mother isn’t showing. It is not wrong to look for help and understanding from someone you know has that capability to do it. When people show that understanding to me, Phoenix, it solves HALF of the problem already. Life is about giving and taking. And in this world, we have to be willing to give and take and support each other AT THE TIME THAT PERSON NEEDS US THE MOST.
℘ɧơɛŋıҳ
May 30, 20:49Paige , while I understand your points , I don’t agree with Raghav .
I believe that if I make a decision , then I must live with the consequences ,
no matter how bitter they might be .
I expect no ones sympathies if I don’t deserve it .
” If you love something set it free , if it comes back to you it’s yours ” .
Why is Raghav afraid to set Kalpi free ???
Is it because he knows that she might not return ??
Why trap her in his web of revenge ??
Paige S
May 30, 17:16Hi you know something…when Kalpi had something, Kamla always made her give it up so Paaki can be happy. Seeing this picture of her shouting makes me wonder: why doesn’t Kamla use her own principle fairly this time and ask Paaki to give up something for Kalpi’s happiness for a change? If I were Kalpi,I would have said: “Ai, for all my life you made me give up my things, things that brought me happiness just so your favorite person can be happy. Why this time around, can’t you ask Paaki to give up something so I can be happy?” (Kamla’s principle is one must give up to make the other happy). Well, this is not a one-way street!
Kris
May 30, 17:19Oh these are thing I always wish to hear in one of these serials but very rarely get a chance, so far the dialogues have been good, I really wish something like this can happen, just to make us happy too.
Kris
May 30, 17:21I so agree paige, at least let Kalpi have a little piece of the cake too nah (well so to speak)
Kalpi can’t have her cake and eat it too all the time.
Paige S
May 30, 17:31Exactly.. I want to see how Kamla would react Kalpi had said that.
℘ℏöḙn̛i̵ҳ
May 30, 17:33I don’t feel sorry for Kalpi at all . Every obstacle in her way made her stronger because she had to overcome it . I think it will be very difficult for her to wait on Raghav , she doesn’t seem like the type to remain stuck for long . She has a bright future ahead of her , even without Raghav .
I think it’s unfair of Raghav to ask her to wait , he wants her to oblige him , but why can’t he oblige her ? What makes his hate more of an important mission than accepting her love ?
I understand what nirvana said , about the way he grew up , but he ain’t no kid no more 😐 . ..
He’s a grown man .
Kris
May 30, 17:46Yea, I agree to that too Suni, besides, Kalpi has been wronged by the Kapoors in many ways as well and she should be seeking revenge too, but she has let those unfortunate circumstances make her stronger against any storm and her way is by making herself better in front of the Kapoors who are low lifes
Paige S
May 30, 17:47I see your point Phoenix, but again true love will wait.
“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.”
And I know that lots of people say Raghav is wrong to have married Paaki. I know. I agree. Base on the above, I will forgive. You see this word forgiveness, it is deep. I know forgiveness does not mean you have to take him back. But I long for this to be a love story that shows that no matter what, love will forgive and forget and this can happen in our world, where there are too many people only willing to bring up our past and fling it in our faces every time.
I want to see a love that is so deep that it will not listen to what the world says but it will wait for the one the soul and heart longs for. And this can be corrected. Kalpi doesn’t have to be the other woman. Once she and Raghav has that understanding, then they can pursue their various objectives, away from the other, and then reunite when their time of separation is over. That way, Raghav would have had nothing to do with Paaki on his part (in his revenge) and at the same time, he had nothing physical to do with Kalpi until he clears up this situation.
Kris
May 30, 17:51Oh Paige this is so wonderful, lots of emotions here
Paige S
May 30, 17:55But it makes things easier to have the one you love wait on you. I mean love is so deep. You don’t want to lose that person and you are trying to keep it. Raghav has tried everything he can do to free himself. but is isn’t easy living with a mum that sets herself on fire. There is no telling what she can do at anytime. It is easy for us to say that Raghav can choose Kalpi easily over his mother( and he tried) but in real life when your own mother threatens suicide and actually shows you she means it, you live with a deep fear and your life becomes miserable. Your life is crippled by your suicidal mom. It is one thing to sit in the seat of spectators and say how Raghav should choose, but is a different thing when you are in the man’s shoe. Being in a situation is not the say as observing a situation.
That is why I want Kalpi to understand this and wait for Raghav.
Clearly you can see whilst I am fully for high moral standards, I am not a conformist to society, especially when society is so judgemental.
Kris
May 30, 17:59Paige, remember I talking about my past, I did ask someone to wait for me, to give me a little time, but they were too anxious and spoilt the whole damn thing,
Lets hope nothing (Kamla) come in between and spoil things for Kalpi and Raghav.
Paige S
May 30, 18:02God’s measurement of and standard for love. Real and geniune love. That’s my personal position and conviction. And hence me saying that I would have forgiven Raghav and take him back without holding his past against him. Moreover, since he has done everything to prove that love to me and commits to keeping his end to wait for me (remember it is hard for him too especially with a suicidal mother to deal with daily), then if I love him with a deep and true love, then I will wait. Raghav is not asking Kalpi to wait because he wants her to. He wants to be with her right now. But it is for the sake of his mother. A suidical mother too. He doesn’t want it to be a year waiting. If you recall that talk with his mother the night before. Raghav is in a rock and a hard place. It is easy for us to say “choose the girl” but you if he die and Gauri kills herself (which she would) Raghav will live with that guilt all his life that he never did anything for his mother and he is the cause for her death.
NIRVANA
May 30, 18:04Given the choice I think Raghav would divorce Pakhi and marry Kalpi the very same day if he can. Its his mum that’s putting pressure on him at this time. He did try to reason with her but she threatened suicide. Which one of us will allow something like that to happen to our own mothers (I’m sure we don’t have that problem). If he did then I don’t think he would be able to live with himself.
🙁
He is between the devil and the deep sea and I suppose he’s hoping that at least Kalpi can understand his predicament. Most men expect their partners to be more tolerant and understanding than the elders in the family 🙂
℘ℏöḙn̛i̵ҳ
May 30, 18:08Paige dear , there isn’t a single good reason for Raghav to make Kalpi wait on him . He didn’t tell her to wait while he goes away to study or work . He doesn’t have health or financial issues . He’s in a very good position to accept his love and to be live happily ever after .
He’s saying to Kalpi ” wait while I take revenge ” huh ???
Where’s the love in that demand ??
He can’t expect understanding from Kalpi , if he himself has none for her situation .
I know that Kalpi might wait , but I don’t like the desperation and demanding ways of Raghav .
Kalpi’s love is true and pure , she’s the one being tested here .
He shouldn’t have placed the sindoor on her head , he isn’t Raja Dhasrath , to have more than one wife at a time .
Paige S
May 30, 18:11Exactly Kris…I too once asked for a little time to complete something. The situation was such that I needed just a little time. Just a little time Kris. If I could have done it any other way, I would have, but the situation required only one thing to be done at a time. So i had to choose. All i wanted was an understanding from the the person for just a little time. it wasn’t an unreasonable request because we had come a long way. And i thought we had a deep friendship too. That was all I asked. That would have made things easier for me. I didn’t want the person to do anything major. Just to know that that person will be there. That would have meant the world to me. But the person didn’t and the situation became more horrible. It hurted and it brought on so much misery and pressure and anxeity when you know that you are about to lose something precious when you are trying not to lose it.
℘ℏöḙn̛i̵ҳ
May 30, 18:14There comes a time in each of our lives when we need to make our choices because it is the right thing to do and not because of fear or demands from anyone .
If Kalpi were to threaten suicide then that would be a rock and hard place situation .
But , Raghav is expecting understanding from Kalpi .
Why didn’t he receive any from his mom ??
All I’m saying is that Raghav has made his choice to exact revenge on the Kapoor’s , that’s fine . That’s his choice . Let I’m live with the consequences .
Raghav wants to have his cake and eat it too . ..
He shouldn’t expect nor demand anything from Kalpi .
Paige S
May 30, 18:18I totally understand Phoenix but that is exactly what I say about love. It doesn’t do what many would have done. Raghav doesn’t want to pursue this revenge as his mom wants. He told her everything of what he is about to do and the lady just sets herself on fire. I believe that if she didn’t do that Raghav would have divorce Paaki and marry Kalpi. And maybe Gauri knows that too that is why she set herself on fire. I’m recalling Raghav’s conversation with his mother. He told her it was wrong what they were doing. He doesn’t want to hurt Paaki or Kapli. They don’t have to go down the road. Perhaps the time Raghav ask of Kalpi to wait for him, will help him deal with Gauri too. Hey, Phoenix, Kris, Devya…if you guys were in Raghav’s sitation, what would you have done?
Honestly, if I would have done the same thing as he did. (and it’s not because I like him so much I’m saying this).
Paige S
May 30, 18:24I remember witnessing a friend of mine in a heated argument with her mother over an issue. The mother started to cry and threatened to kill herself. My friend panic. She felt so helpless . She wanted to run away from home because she couldn’t take the pressure. It was horrible to witness that. The matter was worsened when the mother threatened suicide. I watched how devastated my friend was. In in cases like this, yes, we do look for that someone or somebody out there, away from our situation, not like us, who will offer us an oasis in this desert. Who will be our anchor in this stormy sea. We need such people in our lives. Raghav finds that peace and joy in Kapli. She is not in his world of mess and turmoil. She is a breath of fresh air for him after more than 20 years of misery and suffocation and now even more misery and suffocation from his own mother.
℘ℏöḙn̛i̵ҳ
May 30, 18:24Honestly , I would have sought psychiatric or psychological help for Gaurie .
She needs to be institutionalised or at least dealt with by some professional .
I would get the best medical care available , with some round he clock nurses .
Then go on with my life . I would 100% refuse to go ahead with my life while looking over my shoulder . I’m not the type of personality to take crap from anyone .
℘ℏöḙn̛i̵ҳ
May 30, 18:28But , Paige . . What is he doing to Kalpi ??
This is a cultured girl , she had to deal with the stigma of being ditched , how can he now expect her to become his mistress ?? What is he doing to her self respect ?? She’s still so young . . .
devya
May 30, 23:40Exactly PAIGE,but who WILL convinced pakhi to do so????well too sad She lost her dream Prince to kalpi…She should learn not to be greedy.
Paige S
May 30, 16:33Heyyyy…the pictures are in! nice. thank you Desitvbox. We miss these!
devya
May 30, 16:39Very nice dear,PAIGE look the anger in kamla’ s face,raghav better take kalpi n runaway lol
Kris
May 30, 17:10yea, that hug is just sooooooo, hmmmmmm, priceless and I’m at a loss for words, you can just feel, 😀
Paige S
May 30, 17:11Honestly…I glance for a second at the pictures but didn’t really look at them! I want to savour it when I see the episode tonight. lol…But all other times I would watch the pictures. It’s just that tonight’s episode means a lot to me, so I want to see the audio-visual. 😀
But I did look at Kamla’s picture because I want to write about her. Just look at her. Man, this woman can shout and scream and bully! Well, continue screaming. Raghav and Kalpi are deep into each other and there is nothing she can do about it. ha ha
Who vex get lost
May 30, 16:22After the initial shock that pakhi and ragav married I think Kamla is secretly happy for pakhi and wants her to have ragbag and all the happiness
M@hi
May 30, 16:52I feel the same also. Kamla is very annoying once again.
NIRVANA
May 30, 15:53My two cents worth 🙂
I’ve been thinking about Raghav and Gauri and was wondering if :
Raghav – is he a villian or hero. I think neither, rather, more like a little lost boy in a grown man’s body. Raghav lost is father at age 12, he thought his mother abandoned them and he was left at the mercy of strangers. Taken to the Kapoors house (who he hated because he saw Sahil kill his father), he was verbally abused by Prem, he had to escape to America to live with someone else. He grew up with one aim and that was to avenge his dads death and that meant distroying the Kapoors. He had no time to grow up emotionally as nature intended. He had seen too much, felt too much pain as a kid. He experienced things no child should have to and these situations rushed his emotional growth from boy to man before he had to. He becomes hardened emotionally as that’s the only way he can cope. Then he falls in love and he feels something he hasn’t experienced in 20 odd years, the ice around his heart melts, the blood coursing through his body warms, he’s like a cild on Christmas morning, all excited and happy with this gift of love. Revenge takes a back seat, it doesn’t control him like it used to and he’s happily making plans for the future. Then, wham he meets his mom, she relates her story and he’s in a quandary.
Gauri, she lost 20years of her life because of the Kapoors. First her reputation was destroyed, her faithfulness to her husband was discredited. She was attached, lost her memory, tortured, gived shock treatments, medicines to damage her brain, almost killed. Imagine losing 20 years of your life, constantly at the mercy of strangers. Then, bang, suddenly you meet your son and gain your memory at the same time. The floodgates of your memory open and just as if the walls of a dam break and the water floods the valley so too does Gauri’s memory come fooding back overwhelming her senses and her “compromised” brain. She’s a smart woman, she alluded to that when she lived with Kamla, she must have been fairly influencial when she was married and she carried herself well. Now, she’s hopping mad, she’s out for “blood”, she wants to hurt the people who destroyed her family killed her husband and hurt her son. So she uses the only way she feels is just and that is her son. “Send the prince to kill the ogres who destroyed the castle”.
Herein lies the tragedy of the whole story.
🙁 🙁 :'(
devya
May 30, 16:24Nicely put over Nirvana.
℘ℏöḙn̛i̵ҳ
May 30, 16:31Beautifully said nirvana 🙂 . ..
Kris
May 30, 16:34Oh my nirvana, you have put in words so nicely what some of us could barely imagine, much less put in words, well said.
Kris
May 30, 16:36Oh Nirvana, also that description you gave of Raghav reminds me of the Grinch, when little Lucy Lou gave him that nice warm cuddly hug, it melted the ice, his heart grew and he felt warmth all over.
Wow, you really really described it so wonderfully,
℘ℏöḙn̛i̵ҳ
May 30, 16:38Lol Kris , that’s true 🙂 . ..
Little Lucy Lou Who 😀
Paige S
May 30, 16:39I know what you mean…But I think Phoenix answered well on the challenge in Raghav. That Batman example hit it on the head! Spot on. I think the writers should have shown more on Raghav and his thinking and feelings and how he is torn between two worlds. Which I quite understand. I mean there is nothing wrong with it but he needs to settle on what HE wants in life. And that Batman analogy with the inner conflict was so good. The writers did a bit of injustice to the character of Raghav, I think. Because he is so complexed and torn between what he wants and what others want, more scenes were necessary, more inner thoughts necessary to help us, the viewers, understand this man more. HIs mission and why he does the things he does, or does not do the things he ought to do.
But to the writers’ credit, the last few episodes have been very good in filling in the details and explaining these things.
℘ℏöḙn̛i̵ҳ
May 30, 16:47Raghav just has to be careful Paige , that a Harvey Dent doesn’t sneak in and steal his Rachel 🙂 .
. .. Sammy is like Alfred 😆 , always offering advice and support to Raghav 😀 . ..
Paige S
May 30, 17:07Correct!
I wish there were more scenes on Raghav and dialogues to bring out his character more. you need some smart people for Raghav to have this dialogue with. Nope…can’t see Neetu having this kind of dialogue. Raghav is sharp and deep, Neetu is shallow and dim! More like the Joker. She is such a clown. Sahil is a klutz and Prem a hyper-rich little boy! I also think the writers need to start making Neetu, Sahil and Prem more horrible as villians. Or bring in more villians to help the Kapoors. Cut the clown sides to the bad guys. I can’t see a revenge story having so many funny people (funny in what they do and funny when they still don’t do anything). I expected more meanness from Sahil.
Kris
May 30, 17:12Suni and Paige, like I had said in an earlier comment, hope Prem don’t come inbetween Raghav and Kalpi during that year, hemight try to destroy Raghav by getting to Kalpi,
℘ℏöḙn̛i̵ҳ
May 30, 17:16Paige , the Joker wasn’t just any clown , he’s one of the deepest characters of all time . .
℘ℏöḙn̛i̵ҳ
May 30, 17:25I understand what you’re saying Paige , they do seem like lame opponents . .
Raghav can easily destroy them . .
How on earth will he take a whole year to do that 🙄 ??
Paige S
May 30, 17:28Shoots, sorry I stand corrected. I wasn’t thinking of Heath Ledger as The Joker in The Dark Knight, I was thinking of the penguin guy (in Batman Returns (1992)). This one, only because he freaked me out, like Neetu is freaking me out. Both are crazy! 🙂 It’s like this sinister way they behave freaks me out. I hated the penguin man. he was creepy!
http://i1.cdnds.net/14/16/618×500/movies-batman-returns-the-penguin.jpg
FM
May 30, 15:46What if kalpi is the real kapoor….kamla knows that pakki is her real daughter she exchanged the babies so her own daughter could have the things which she couldnt provide for her……will raghav accept and truelly continue to love kalpi???
devya
May 30, 16:22Very interesting question FM…wonder if it is so what would be raghav reactions…. with kamla contended nature I don’t think she will intentionally do that. She was providing everything for Kalpi besides the FULL motherly love…She was firm with kalpi taking the maximum of education and was very supportive…..
I admire that trait in her. As WELL she is encouraging others to do the same with THEIR kids.
Kris
May 30, 16:25I shudder at the thought,
℘ℏöḙn̛i̵ҳ
May 30, 16:37Someone raised this question b4 , and while anything is possible in soap opera land , I doubt that Kamla would deliberately switch her kids .
It could be possible that it happened unknowingly somehow .
It’s an interesting twist that they can explore , that Kalpi is in fact the Kapoor’s daughter . ..
Paige S
May 30, 16:43Me too, I shudder at the thought. And I won’t want that to happen because it will mess up this story and I can’t take more of that!
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Kris
May 30, 14:25wow, so much comments, will take me allevening to read, just got in read the update,
I truly admire Kalpi more today, she did what is right, she needed to meet Raghav, she showed her immense love, but remembering his marriage immediately backed away. She did the right thing.
Yea Kamla slap yourself, slap yourself silly, you want to control everybody’s life.
Still don’t agree with GAurie keeping Raghav and Paakhi married,
I call for divorce pronto.
Let Kamla know that she should not encourage her dumb bimbo daughter Paakhi to stay in that marriage.
If Gaurie don’t want Raghav to divorce Paakhi, then Paakhi need to divorce Raghav. Then that will make my day.
devya
May 30, 16:36Rightly said Kris,Pakhi SHOULD divorce raghav after seeing the sindoor on raghav shirt n getting an explanation she shouldn’t hesitate……n that WILL give raghav some space n PEACE that he get raid of one obstacle(that’s Pakhi) and he can WORK on the revenge with his own timing n not that of gouri predicted time…….
I like the way he maintained his WORDS meaning he told pakhi there will not be a relationship between THEM n he proved it to the kamla,pakhi ,neetu ,vithal who he really LOVE. Genuine young man..
Paige S
May 30, 16:46Kris….lol…that was hilarious…the slapping part. Almost choked laughing too much here! Good one. I volunteer to slap her.
I agree with Gauri for wanting revenge, but not with her keeping Paaki. Divorce pronto, I say.
NIRVANA
May 30, 14:18A picture speaks a thousand words that words alone can’t convey. Those are some power packed pics, full of emotion, promise, the works.
It was easy for Kalpi to pre-empt Raghav’s intention with that sindoor filled fist, and she could just as easily stopped him if she wanted to. Just wondering about that….
I am anti adultery, bigamy, polygamy, infidelity etc etc. However, I have to wonder if what Raghav did was a “marriage” or a promise (because he did ask her to wait and she was doubting and questioning him).
I also agree that marriage and what it entails is not something to fool around with or trivialise in any way (too many of these seriels do that these days). However, can a marriage be a real marriage if its one sided, full of hate and wrong intentions, hurt and suffering. Wouldn’t it be better to end it and be happier than staying married and living in misery, loneliness and hatred. What sort of life would that be for anyone, be it real or reel life. You can’t spend your life waiting for your spouse to notice you, acknowledge your importance or give you happiness. These things should come naturally in a marriage. (Oops. Sorry I digressed). 🙂
Have a good night everyone.
Kris
May 30, 16:27OOOh, se wanted so badly for it to happen too subconsciously, so the reason for not backing away.
You know I was in similar situation as Kalpi, well not that there were a marriage and all that.
But wished I could have been taken away far far far away by the one I loved and never look back. 😀 but that was wishful thinking, it only happens in serials.
That’s why I think I have no objection to today’s episode.
Paige S
May 30, 16:49Like you Nirvana, I am anti adultry, bigammy and anything that desecrate a real and sacred marriage. Phoenix gave a lovely explanation that what Raghav did that was not a marriage but it was symbolic of his promise to marry her. That they will wait for each other in trust and patience until they become one. Raghav knows he is still to divorce Paaki. He was reinforcing his seriousness to Kalpi.
fahmo maxamad
May 30, 13:50how can he marriage two wife’s
fahmo maxamad
May 30, 13:47nice
pani
May 30, 13:32So I am cruising on my EMA sabbatical when my friend hollas at me saying I should check the updates cos something awesome happened today on the show. I rush here like crazy to read and Yes Marie something did happen. Raghav just made Kalpi ‘the other woman’ ain’t that great? So Kalpi is now the mistress I reckon since Pooki is the one with the legal papers. Yes its great! Kalpi is now streamed into the married men rhetorical ‘i will divorce her…just give me sometime’ yeah something great did happen. Oh Lord how did these writers do this to this pure and enthralling love story?! Why?!
Make no mistake, I am a Ragna fan, I have survived this track by constantly wtahcing old episode of their pure and charismatic love story. BUT I will not condone what is wrong and in this case its ADULTERY. You dont need to get physical to be adulterous any single man/woman who as much as muses, thinks, drools about someone else’s hubby/wife IS adulterous!
Oh pure innocent kalpi! What kind of Kismat is this in your life?!! Where u born with a mark of bad fate on your forehead.
Yes, spluttering the sindoor on her has no value but with no one even there, no priest to serve as witness and to make it even more concrete or ceremonious…I am sorry but to me the writers just messed the essence of this love story. Now its going like all the other serials, making a mockery of love and the institution of marriage. They should never have made Raghav marry Pooki. Marriage is a sanctimonious setup which should not be trivialized. Its a spiritual thing.
Oh Raghav people have made tough choices in life and sometimes unfortunately we have to choose between people or situations that mean so much to us. Clearly you have chosen your mom aka revenge. Thats that. Stop trying to eat your cake and have it. Lemme ask, what if Kalpi too threatened to set herself ablaze what are you going to do? You will have to decide who should die right?
I feel very sad. When I see the past episodes and how promising it was…what is this now?
pani
May 30, 13:36I meant spluttering the sindoor on her has value.
M@hi
May 30, 13:59Hi Pani. I agree its not complete marriage but a marriage in court without any rituals is not great in the sight of God. It would be just signing papers then intimacy comes which is more like fornification. But a complete marriage with rituals can never be questioned by God. It weighs more against a legal marriage. So my thoughts now are Raghav should maybe take her away and get married to her completely.
M@hi
May 30, 14:05Also divorce silly Pakhi.
pani
May 30, 14:15Hi Mahi. You are right marriage in court with no blessings from God is incomplete. But what Raghav did is not a presentation before God either. In the eyes of society he is married to Pooki cos of its legal terms. Even spiritually the sindoor spluttered on Kalpi aint enough either since there was no officiating priest or is that how it works over there? You just put sindoor on any girl and she is your wife? I read people talking of a soul engagement as a result if this act, but fact remains Raghav is already a married man.
Take her away and marry her? huh! Is he allowed two wives? Didnt you hear him saying he cant betray his mother? This mother who has commanded him to forget Kalpi for now.
Oh Mahi I feel so heavy inside. Why did this serial turn like this…
Kris
May 30, 14:27so true Pani
M@hi
May 30, 16:38Girls I also said let him divorce Pakhi.
devya
May 30, 16:45Nicely written Pani, like the name u give gouri lol…true supposing kalpi had said the same …he would have been in a serious predicament.
NIRVANA
May 30, 13:21Paige, Phoenix reading your Batman dialogue makes me think that the writers are fans of Batman too. Raghav’s story is very similar to that of Batman. Wonder what Raghav’s alter ego would be? 🙂
Glad to see that Kalpi put her love before her promise to Kamla for once. At least now she knows the whole reason for Raghav’s “betrayal”. Love the end with the application of the sindoor. It is more Raghav’s way of sealing a promise than marriage itself as their marriage will not be recognised/accepted by anyone. In some way Raghav too defied his mother but yet respected her wishes.
As for Kamla slapping herself, its about time. Kamla, can you give yourself two slaps on my behalf. One on each cheek as I don’t want any one of them feeling left out!!!
😉 🙂
At least this weekend brought with it some form of relief from all the stress of the last two weeks.
Paige S
May 30, 16:54Agree with you. I want her to slap herself on my behalf too. I am happy with what has turned out in this episode. I don’t see it as Raghav marrying Kalpi, but have to go with Phoenix on this one that he was just showing her symbolically that he will marry her when he sets everything right. But before I jump into conclusion, I want to see what happens on Monday with respect to this new twist before commenting on their status.
Paige S
May 30, 12:56Hi guys….I’m heading out for a while. Will be back on this evening after I watch the episode on TV. there will be lots more to comment on afterwards. there is so much to get from the audio-visuals. I so enjoyed talking with all of you and am looking forward to seeing yous guys later on. Guys, I had some interesting discussion today. Learnt a lot. And I am delighted really. Interesting discussions on the serials on how to strengthen it.
Hope the writers/Creators and actors of EMA read the comments herein.
See you guys later tonight. See you Phoenix, Mahi and all the others. Be back in while.
℘ɧơɛŋıҳ
May 30, 13:04Bye dear ,take care until !! 🙂
M@hi
May 30, 13:09Okay Paige. I’m sure you will enjoy Raghav and Kalpi’s scenes. They were lovely.
nivi
May 30, 12:50Nice episode!! Finally raghav and kalpi meet but now what next, will kalpi accept this and if she accept it, how can she explain to her father and will gouri accept this all. O god why all this with kalpi! ! Please writer do somthing better for kalpi. She is the best character of this serial and i love her a lot!!!!
M@hi
May 30, 13:10Hi Nivi. Yes, there are so many questions right now but we will have to wait until Monday and the other days to see how it unfolds. Kamla will be a big turn off on Monday.