Tumhari Pakhi 4th March 2014 Written Update
Tumhari Pakhi 4th March 2014 Written Episode
The Episode starts with Ayaan telling Anshuman that Tanya made him lie. Tanya says he is lying, he is trapping me, this is too much. Anshuman asks Maa ji for the uniform. Maa ji also lies which annoys Ayaan. Pakhi says Ayaan is not lying at this moment. He lied yesterday but not now. Ayaan pushes Tanya in anger. Tanya to save herself shows the papers on which Ayaan did his signature practice. She says I got this papers from Pakhi’s room. She is the one who was hiding this from you.
Tanya tells Anshuman that Pakhi knew about this. Anshuman gets angry on Pakhi and asks did you know this. Pakhi says yes. Ayaan sees all this and says I hate you Tanya. Anshuman says you are fooling me, my son does fraud and you encourage him. He says is this the way to do his upbringing, you are spoiling him, he will become a criminal tomorrow. He says whats all this, he does not need me, he does my signs. You are digging a pit for him, decide what you want to do. Tanya smiles. Anshuman leaves in anger. Tanya comes to Pakhi and smiles.
Pakhi thinks about Anshuman’s words and is upset. Ayaan comes to her and says sorry Maa, this is happening because of me. Dad scolded you a lot, Tanya is a liar, she has sent me to amusement park, I came to take dad’s sign but heard his words, so went back. Pakhi cries and hugs him. Tanya says great, I did not think Pakhi will also get trapped. Pakhi failed today with Ayaan. Sad for them. She gets happy.
Anshuman blames Pakhi for everything. He is angry on Ayaan for forging his signatures. Pakhi says its my mistake, but that I did not tell you this before, I tried to tell you but it does not mean you don’t feel your mistake. Anshuman asks what. She says Ayaan did not because of your high expectations, he is afraid of you. I explained you not to pressurize him, this happened because of you. He was afraid of your reaction. Anshuman says good one, you are putting the blame on me. Pakhi stops him and says its your mistake, how can anyone tell you, you give everyone an angry stare, sorry.
She says I will explain you, Ayaan came to our room to take your signs, but he went back hearing you about him. He got scared and left. She says I don’t want to spoil him, he did not do my sign, he did your sign. Anshuman says you are blaming me. He says don’t give me excuses, we have to make our kids competitive. Pakhi says tell me what would you do if he comes 4th. Anshuman says I would have not talked to him for some days, and encourage him. I won’t forgive him for gold medal. Pakhi says you might also did this, what did your dad do when you did something like this, he had forgiven you right. Anshuman says I did not give such chance to him, he was not rich.
He used to sell carpets. I earned all this. He says take your example, did you go from here losing, no, you went ahead. Pakhi says but the situations are different, try to understand. You are right, but your way is wrong. She says Ayaan will do everything different, he is different from you. Your situation was different, Ayaan does not know to bear all this. Ayaan is intelligent kid, he should get a direction. He can run but he is afraid that he will fall and you won’t be there to help him. He don’t have to teach to run, but ensure him that we are there for him to hold his hand.
Ayaan needs trust, not pressure. She leaves. Its night, Pakhi gets ready to sleep. Anshuman looks at her. She sees her shawl behind him. She asks him for her shawl. He gives her pillow. She asks him again. He gives his tab. She falls on him and Saiyyan……….plays……… as they have an eyelock. He holds her and gets up. She gives him medicines. She looks at Anshuman and Ayaan’s photo. She leaves from the room. Anshuman looks on. She comes to Ayaan and asks him why are you sitting here, wear this, its cold. She says I looked for you in the room.
Ayaa shows his drawing. She looks at it and says very pretty and why did you put wrong colors. She asks him to make the painting look real by putting right colors. She tells him woodcutter’s story. She asks him to always speak the truth. Ayaan says it was Tanya’s mistake. Pakhi says it was your mistake, don’t blame her. You could have rejected her deal but you agreed to her. Ayaan says sorry, I won’t do this again. Pakhi says tell your parents about everything, but don’t lie.
She asks why did you push Tanya, you should respect her, she is elder. You should be a well mannered kid. Ayaan says sorry Maa. Pakhi says go and sleep now, we will start a new morning. Ayaan asks will dad forgive me. Pakhi says its between you and dad, you should apologize and promise you won’t do this again.
Tanya talks to her dad and tells him everything what happened at home. Pakhi comes to her and shouts on her. Pakhi scolds Tanya and warns her not to play any games with Ayaan. Tanya argues with Pakhi and asks her to leave. Tanya says you have used Ayaan. Tanya calls Ayaan a liar. Pakhi gets angry and says he did all this because of you. Tanya says will you tell Anshuman, do what you want, Anshuman trusts me and will always do. Pakhi taunts her and asks her to see the reality.
Precap:
Tanya makes tea for Anshuman but Anshuman drinks the tea which Pakhi made. Tanya tells Anshuman that she will win Ayaan’s heart. Ayaan talks to Pakhi. Anshuman says Ayaan loves Pakhi and Pakhi also loves Ayaan. Ayaan is shocked to know that Anshuman and Pakhi are getting divorced.
27 Comments
viney
March 05, 02:49thanks for update.
Aaliyah
March 04, 15:14dear friends ………. sleep tight
sweet dreams…. life laugh love ….
bubbly I’ll reply u 2morrow 😉
mike
March 04, 17:21Dear friend you too sweetest dreams
love laugh love life love love 😉
mike
March 04, 17:23I have one question I want you to answer!
why engineer?
Aaliyah
March 05, 09:48Hi tripple x … why engineer , I am good in kicking nuts 😉
I’m 1000% a woman..petite just 53 kg 😀 but a woman…. but like I told you before I’m not into barbie’s give me jigsaw puzzles lego ..when little I use to be with my dad in the barn and help him with the scooter and bikes… … 🙁
my little fingers all with the grease of the engine,
(I thought ) don’t ask me what I was doing but he let me help him …afterwards he told me it was a kind of grease you can use to wash your hands :/ …. and the tools were bolts he didn’t need 🙂
but I was helping him 😉
.I did first precision engineering but that was only milling milling file and measuring
you can make/repair devices for dental devices and other clinics/hospital devices
although nice but didn’t give me the kick I wanted sooooooooo decision was made fast, I wanted something what would be a challenge
but now with mechatronics it’s from scratch to the result of a device. 😀 😀
making printboards pcb’s for the devices and so on
developing the little parts of devices….
did I answer your question?? … xXx
Aaliyah
March 04, 15:13tomorrow epi also gooooooooood
Aaliyah
March 04, 15:12I wonder if tanya don’t have daddy dearest what will be of her
Aaliyah
March 04, 15:11we are individuals we don’t want to be a copy of our parents
and thats exactly how pakhi xplain to u anshu ….I hope u understand wht she meant
Aaliyah
March 04, 15:10amena once again thanks for the dialogue between panshu 😉
Aaliyah
March 04, 15:07omg…. who are these people 🙁
how can a person liwith so much passion 🙁
tanya ma’aji
they are like mother and daughter..
I hope that ma’aji get layoff because how can you believe a backstabbing liar…. woman that lies all the time….. 🙁
Aaliyah
March 04, 15:09when tanya has to pack I hope pakhi show ma’aji the hole on the wall where the door is and so she can hit the road
I thought she liked ayan but she is just after the one with the $$$
TP...fan ;-)
March 05, 07:48hi dear you and me both
she is such a disgusting old hag
Aaliyah
March 05, 09:52hi dear how are you, nice to c u 😉
Aaliyah
March 04, 15:03amena thank you for your hard work 😉
bubbly
March 04, 11:55Meanwhile hello everyone… Vinn cam aaliya….sunita dee…etc.
viney
March 05, 02:51hiii
h r u
bubbly
March 04, 11:53No aalu…y will i scold or get mad at him…after all…he would be the result of my choice…as i told u that my husband should be of my type…n im particular in terms of selection…..but im very comprising.
Aaliyah
March 05, 09:55good afternoon/evening bubbs I hope you are enjoying a wonderful day.
I told you I’ll reply today…..because I want to tell you sooo many things…. what i’ll do gradually…..so plz give a bit of time to give my reply ….your 19 and your in search for true love..right?
and last week you asked if any of us found true love … I joked and said that 7up is my true love…but after reading you comment yesterday about WHY be mad as it’s your choice ….. you made me thinking…..if I understand you, you won’t be mad at him because he is your type? then you are going on a date to know him right?!!
but hey ….he is a individual you have your own way of thinking and so does he too 🙁
maybe you won’t scold..that’s huge.. that’s bad for a marriage but you will have those moments that things won’t go as you wish?!?
I can’t believe that you won’t be mad at him, for a simple reason and that’s… because we are different. you know…..man… woman.
potato ….potatoh…tomato ….tomatoh 😀
Aaliyah
March 05, 09:59it’s true that you have to be aware of what you want,
like having a ” to do” list 😉 of the things your future husband has to fit in.
I do have this list, and many don’t fit in what I want.
and I’m stubborn…ask phoenix she knows 🙁
“The shrewd one considers his steps.” says the holy book
your list have questions for you, as well for the future husband
and the first one is for your self ….although I don’t know if by your culture it’s allowed 🙁
to ask yourself ….Am I ready to date !? ? or do you have an arrange-marriage????
Aaliyah
March 05, 10:04Look bubbs I have this I wanna share with you
you might not agree with everything but this is
my “black list” and I just love it
Is This Person Right for Me?
Take a moment to complete the following quiz:
What qualities would you currently view as essential in a potential marriage mate? In the list below, put a ✔ next to the four traits you feel are most important.
□ Good-looking □ Spiritually-minded
□ Friendly □ Trustworthy
□ Popular □ Morally upright
□ Funny □ Goal-oriented
When you were younger, did you ever develop a crush on anyone? In the list above, put an × next to the one trait you found most appealing about that person at the time.
THERE’S nothing wrong with any of the above traits. Each of them has its own appeal. Wouldn’t you agree, though, that when you’re in the grip of a youthful crush, you tend to dwell on the more superficial qualities, such as those in the left-hand column?
As you mature, however, you begin using your powers of perception to examine deeper issues, such as those in the right-hand column. For instance, you start to realize that the cutest girl in the neighborhood may not be all that trustworthy or that the most popular boy in class may not be morally upright. If you’re past the bloom of youth, you most likely look beyond the superficial traits to answer the question, “Is this person right for me?”
Aaliyah
March 05, 10:06Know Yourself First
Before you can consider who might be right for you, you need to know yourself well. To learn more about yourself, answer the following questions:
What are my strengths? ․․․․․
What are my weaknesses or vulnerabilities? ․․․․․
What emotional and spiritual needs do I have? ․․․․․
Getting to know yourself is no small task, but questions like those above can get you started. The more you understand yourself, the better equipped you will be to find someone who will amplify your strengths rather than your weaknesses.* What if you think you’ve found that person?
Aaliyah
March 05, 10:09Will Just Anyone Do?
“Can I get to know you better?” That question will make you either cringe or leap for joy—depending on who’s asking. Suppose you answer yes. Over the course of time, how can you tell if your boyfriend or girlfriend is right for you?
Suppose you want to buy a new pair of shoes. You go to the store and find a pair that catches your eye. You try on the shoes, only to find that—much to your disappointment—they’re too tight. What would you do? Buy the shoes anyway? Or look for a different pair? Clearly, the better choice is to put the shoes back and look for others. It would make little sense to walk around in a pair of shoes that just didn’t fit!
It’s similar with choosing a marriage partner. Over time, more than a few members of the opposite sex may catch your eye. But not just anyone will do. After all, you want someone you’ll be comfortable with—someone who truly fits your personality and your goals. (Genesis 2:18; Matthew 19:4-6) Have you found such a person? If so, how can you tell if that one is right for you?
Aaliyah
March 05, 10:11Looking Beyond the Surface
To answer that last question, look at your friend objectively. Be careful, though! You might be inclined to see only what you want to see. So take your time. Try to perceive your friend’s true nature. This will take effort on your part. But that’s only to be expected. To illustrate: Imagine that you want to purchase a car. How thoroughly would you research it? Would you be concerned only about the outer appearance? Wouldn’t it make sense to look deeper—perhaps learning as much as you could about the condition of the engine?
Finding a mate is a much weightier issue than choosing a car. Yet, many who date don’t look beyond the surface. Instead, they quickly point to the things they have in common: ‘We like the same music.’ ‘We enjoy the same activities.’ ‘We agree on everything!’ As mentioned earlier, though, if you’re truly past the bloom of youth, you look beyond superficial traits. You see the need to discern “the secret person of the heart.”
—1 Peter 3:4; Ephesians 3:16.
Aaliyah
March 05, 10:14For example, rather than focus on how much you agree on things, it might be more revealing to note what happens when you disagree. In other words, how does this person handle conflict—by insisting on his or her way, perhaps giving in to “fits of anger” or “abusive speech”? (Galatians 5:19, 20; Colossians 3:8) Or does this person show reasonableness—a willingness to yield for the sake of peace when no issue of right or wrong is at stake?—James 3:17.
Another factor to consider: Is the person manipulative, possessive, or jealous? Does he or she demand to know your every move? “I hear of dating couples who fight because one person can’t stand that the other hasn’t constantly ‘checked in,’” says Nicole. “I think that’s a bad sign.”—1 Corinthians 13:4.
Issues such as those raised above focus on personality and conduct. However, it’s just as important to learn something of your friend’s reputation. How is that one viewed by others? You may want to talk to those who have known this person for some time, such as mature ones in the congregation. That way you will know if he or she is “well reported on.”—Acts 16:1, 2.
It might be revealing to jot down your personal observations as to how your friend measures up in the areas discussed so far.
Personality ․․․․․
Conduct ․․․․․
Reputation ․․․․․
You will also benefit by consulting the box “Would He Make a Good Husband for Me?” or “Would She Make a Good Wife for Me?” . The questions raised will help you determine if your friend would make a suitable marriage partner.
What if after considering the matter, you conclude that this person may not be right for you? In that case, you’re faced with the serious question:
should we break up
Aaliyah
March 05, 10:17Would He Make a Good Husband for Me?
Character Basics
□ How does he handle any authority he may have?—Matthew 20:25, 26.
□ What are his goals?—1 Timothy 4:15.
□ Is he now working toward those goals?—1 Corinthians 9:26, 27.
□ How does he treat his family?—Exodus 20:12.
□ Who are his friends?—Proverbs 13:20.
□ What does he talk about?—Luke 6:45.
□ What is his attitude toward money?—Hebrews 13:5, 6.
□ What type of entertainment does he enjoy?—Psalm 97:10.
□ How does he demonstrate his love for Jehovah?—1 John 5:3.
Assets
□ Is he industrious?—Proverbs 6:9-11.
□ Is he financially responsible?—Luke 14:28.
□ Is he well reported on?—Acts 16:1, 2.
□ Is he considerate of others?—Philippians 2:4.
Danger Signs
□ Is he disposed to anger?—Proverbs 22:24.
□ Does he try to involve you in sexual misconduct?—Galatians 5:19.
□ Is he physically or verbally abusive?—Ephesians 4:31.
□ Does he need to use alcohol to have a good time?—Proverbs 20:1.
□ Is he jealous and self-centered?—1 Corinthians 13:4, 5.
YOU TOLD ME YOU GO TO CHURCH THATS WHY I FELT AT EASE TO POST THIS FOR YOU.!!!!!!!
bubbly
March 04, 11:50Aalu…in that video
…anshu n tanya are in a park…where tanya plans to romance with anshu…they hug..only hug nothing else….tanya is sitting on a pole bridge… N tilts on anshu who is standing behind her … N shouts i love u anshuman…..n the video says what will happen if pakhi sees her cheating husband….
marie
March 04, 11:44lovely epi. I love how this show is so realistic. this *itch Tanya is so annoying. pakhi is a wonderful mother and wife and slowly the great anshuman rathor will realize this. Tanya is using his own son against him. shes a horrid person. I hope anshuman kicks her out one day on his own. cant stand this girl