Gustakh Dil 3rd January 2014 Written Update

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Gustakh Dil 3rd January 2014 Written Update by Amena Hasan

Gustakh Dil 3rd January 2014 Written Episode

The Episode starts with Nikhil saying Lajjo when you fall in love, you will understand me. She says I understand that Ishaana loves you a lot and you love her too. He says right. Gunjan brings tea for Samrat. Samrat asks about Rishi. Gunjan says I spoke to him about mum, he was very happy and told me what happened, he came home after 8pm. Samrat says was he with Anjali. She says yes and leaves. Samrat thinks about Anjali’s words that Rishi left in afternoon itself.

Barkha asks Samrat what will you have in lunch. Samrat says I m going in a meeting, so will have lunch outside. Ishaana comes to meet Nikhil. Barkha praises her. Ishaana says I need your help, and I have another plan. She tells it to Barkha and smiles. Nikhil comes. Ishaana gifts him and he thanks her. She says I hope you like it. He likes the shirt and she asks him to wear it and then lets go for lunch. He says should I wear it now. She says yes, why not.

Nikhil says I will ask Shaila to iron this shirt. Barkha says Shaila is busy, ask Lajjo to iron it. She says fine, I will tell Lajjo. Rishi sees a note from his mum and is very happy knowing she liked his gift. He says I m so happy, I can’t believe this, he thanks the Lord and keeps the note safe. Lajjo is ironing the shirt. Ishaana comes to her and asks why is you doing this, tell this to Chaya. Barkha calls Lajjo. Ishaana says Aunty is calling you. Lajjo keeps the iron and leaves.

Ishaana looks at the shirt. Barkha makes Lajjo busy. Nikhil asks Lajjo for the shirt. Lajjo comes back to her room and sees the shirt burnt. Nikhil comes and asks what happened. He sees its burnt and says what the hell, what did you do, Ishaana gifted me this shirt today and you burnt it. Lajjo says sorry, I did not know. Nikhil does not believe her. He scolds her and says you did this purposely.

He says Ishaana is right, you are jealous of me and Ishaana. Lajjo says its nothing like that, why will I be jealous of her, it happened by mistake. Nikhil says it can’t be a mistake. Barkha and Ishaana come there and adds fuel in the scene. Nikhil takes Lajjo’s side infront of them. Ishaana says she has ruined it and cries. Nikhil says calm down, its just a shirt. Nikhil hugs her. They leave. Lajjo looks at the iron and thinks how it happened.

Kunal comes to meet Aditi. They talk about Ishaana. Aditi says Ishaana does not know whats good for her. Kunal says when she is not listening to you, why will she hear us. Aditi says you are right, I don’t know whats wrong with her, she has changed, she does not care about her life and future, not even me. Kunal says don’t worry, everything will be fine, I will make tea for her. He goes to make tea for her. Barkha and Ishaana are happy making Lajjo get scolded by Nikhil.

They have a talk about Nikhil and Lajjo. Ishaana thinks about her mum’s words and says I feel I m not doing this right, Nikhil won’t forgive me for all this. Barkha says you love her, you are doing this for your love. Barkha encourages Ishaana to continue what she is doing. Nikhil comes getting ready. Barkha asks them to go together.

Aditi is talking to Kunal about Ishaana. She says Ishaana feels only Nikhil can keep her happy, no one else can love her. Kunal thinks I love her so much, even more than Nikhil does. Gunjan comes to Lajjo and Lajjo cries. Gunjan asks her not to cry and she tells her everything. Gunjan says see your planted these trees and they got flowers now. Lajjo asks Gunjan not to pluck flowers as everyone has a place which looks best at its own place. Lajjo thinks about Barkha’s words.

Precap:
Lajjo applies peanut butter on Ishaana’s sandwich. Ishaana has allergy and gets unwell having it. She does it purposely seeing Lajjo. Nikhil comes to Ishaana and asks Gunjan why did you apply peanut butter knowing about Ishaana’s allergy. Lajjo looks on.

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  1. ℘ɧơɛŋıҳ
    April 10, 07:40 Reply

    Luce , I wasn’t sure about where I should reply , but I think here is best ..
    I am happy that you have found answers that have given you some peace . .. I’m hesitant to give my views , which is why I couldn’t for this long . .. I didn’t want to upset your peace of mind that you seem to have found . .
    I find it interesting that death is compared to sleep , but where does the dead sleep ? Also , when the dead is risen , in what shape or form will they rise ? My mom died young , as did Ivy , if we outlive them , we would have grown , changed physically and with experience . .
    It’s more confusing for me to think about resurrection , because it doesn’t make sense in my mind . .
    Another thing , I saw that it says that not all shall rise , that those who were considered unworthy by the Jews , to not have a burial , shall not rise . My question is , how can any man deem another unworthy ? Especially if he is one of God’s children . . Jesus died for everyone’s sins , then how can some still be damned ?
    Every mother loves her child , regardless of who or what they are . . Circumstances sometimes lead men to do horrible things . Sometimes a murderer was paid for his services by the hands of a person with a saintly image . How can anyone truly decide who is damned or not , when we don’t know all the facts ? If God loves like a mother , then there will be hope for all . .
    I’ve read everything here , but unlike you , I never sought definite answers . I always sought possible answers . . I know that you want something to comfort you sweetie . My comfort and hope is that my mom doesn’t have any more pain . I can have that . .. and so can you . In the cases where young and vibrant lives are snatched away by others , or in accidents , how do their families find comfort ? Like you said , you were more grieved by Ivy’s death than by your grand moms . . she lived her designated life on earth .
    My mom , just like Ivy , really wanted to live . They both felt cheated that they couldn’t have more life to live . Some people though , think life is too long .
    I’m always open to everyone’s views , no matter how preposterous it might initially seem to me .
    But , I don’t agree with everything . .
    I am always aware that everyone of us has a different history , lineage , environment , education level , social network , and therefore we think differently based on that .

    I’ve come to a conclusion about being created in God’s image .
    Before I used to think the wrong way , I used to think that because man has negative tendencies , then it means that God also has negative tendencies . .
    But , I had an epiphany of sorts 😀 .
    Now for me it means that I can be like him /her . God has said that .
    I can be like God if I chose , I can be like God’s image , but it won’t be easy .
    It means that I shouldn’t judge , shouldn’t condemn , I should try to love , live peacefully , forgive , be hopeful and walk with the belief that things will work out , all the things that we forget to do sometimes is within me to accomplish , because God has said that I am like him/her 🙂 . ..

  2. Phoenix
    February 18, 19:01 Reply

    Sweetie , I’ll reply as soon as I can . .
    But , us being of different religions has nothing to do with understanding 🙂 . .
    Pain is pain , in all religions and race , genders , age etc.
    there is a language without words you know 🙂 . .
    a language essentially esoteric . .. . yet universal in nature . .
    The language of a smile or a tear 🙂 . .
    It’s understood by all . ..

    Love you sweetie , very much ❤️❤️❤️

    • lucy
      February 20, 04:37

      My lovely drew you are correct 😉 how are you these days I hope that you are fine, hows ur prayers going?
      you are right while reading I came across something similar, something I never knew, okay I’m young but I asked my mom and even she didn’t know this 🙁

      THE BOOK IS JUST AMAZING DREW…. 😀
      I READ IT IN A EYEBLINK..I don’t find it nor mystical nor mysterious and it goes along with my thinking
      i find solace in this chapter which i copied some part for you…what I posted below is before this chapter, but drew imagine how great it will be to be reunited with your mom and life forever without getting sick and all grief gone
      no war no poverty all those things gone.
      I will see Ivy again and my grandparents 😀 and a promise for everyone 😀
      when I talk to them I really feel a peace of mind and I do ask many question
      I hope you will read it, btw I went to the book store for the book you gave me but i have to order it. but i will read it when i get it thank you for thinking and caring for me

    • lucy
      February 20, 04:38

      WHEN A LOVED ONE DIES
      4 Have you lost a loved one in death? The pain, the grief, and the feelings of helplessness can seem unbearable. At such times, we need to go to God’s Word for comfort. (2 Corinthians 1:3, 4) The Bible helps us to understand how Jehovah and Jesus feel about death. Jesus, who perfectly reflected his Father, knew the pain of losing someone in death. (John 14:9)

      How did Jesus feel about losing his friend? The account tells us that Jesus joined Lazarus’ relatives and friends as they grieved over this loss. Seeing them, Jesus was deeply moved. He “groaned in the spirit and became troubled.” Then, the account says, “Jesus gave way to tears.” (John 11:33, 35) Did Jesus’ grief mean that he had no hope? Not at all. In fact, Jesus knew that something wonderful was about to happen. (John 11:3, 4) Still, he felt the pain and sorrow that death brings.

      6 In a way, Jesus’ grief is encouraging to us. It teaches us that Jesus and his Father, Jehovah, hate death. But Jehovah God is able to fight and overcome that enemy! Let us see what God enabled Jesus to do.
      >>>>>>>>>

      Is it unrealistic to accept the resurrection as a fact? No, for Jesus taught that someday “all those in the memorial tombs” will be resurrected. (John 5:28) Jehovah is the Creator of all life. Should it be hard to believe that he can re-create life? Of course, much would depend on Jehovah’s memory. Can he remember our dead loved ones? Countless trillions of stars fill the universe, yet God gives the name of each one! (Isaiah 40:26) So Jehovah God can remember our dead loved ones in every detail, and he is ready to restore them to life.

      ALL THOSE IN THE MEMORIAL TOMBS”
      16 The Bible’s resurrection accounts teach us much about the resurrection to come. People who were restored to life right here on earth were reunited with their loved ones. The future resurrection will be similar—but much better. As we learned in Chapter 3, God’s purpose is that the whole earth be made into a paradise. So the dead will not be raised to life in a world filled with war, crime, and sickness. They will have an opportunity to live forever on this earth in peaceful and happy conditions.

      17 Who will be resurrected? Jesus said that “all those in the memorial tombs will hear his [Jesus’] voice and come out.” (John 5:28, 29) Similarly, Revelation 20:13 says: “The sea gave up those dead in it, and death and Hades gave up those dead in them.” “Hades” refers to the common grave of mankind. (See the Appendix.) This collective grave will be emptied. All those billions who rest there will live again. The apostle Paul said: “There is going to be a resurrection of both the righteous and the unrighteous.

      What about all the people who did not serve or obey Jehovah because they never knew about him? These billions of “unrighteous” ones will not be forgotten. They too will be resurrected and given time to learn about the true God and to serve him. During a period of a thousand years, the dead will be resurrected and given an opportunity to join faithful humans on earth in serving Jehovah. It will be a wonderful time. This period is what the Bible refers to as Judgment Day.

      Does this mean that every human who ever lived will be resurrected? No. The Bible says that some of the dead are in “Gehenna.” (Luke 12:5) Gehenna got its name from a garbage dump located outside of ancient Jerusalem. Dead bodies and garbage were burned there. The dead whose bodies were thrown there were considered by the Jews to be unworthy of a burial and a resurrection. So Gehenna is a fitting symbol of everlasting destruction. Although Jesus will have a role in judging the living and the dead, Jehovah is the final Judge. (Acts 10:42) He will never resurrect those whom he judges to be wicked and unwilling to change.

  3. lucy
    February 13, 08:18 Reply

    😀 Hi drew I told you,
    I will let you know what they told me,
    the jw yesterday was the second time they came. 😀

    I lavished them with so many questions that they say it’s best we make an appointment
    so that they can prepare themself to answer me.
    what happens with people who die, our loved ones?
    why so many misery as we are created in god image ?
    is this life all there is?
    why do I have to believe the bible?
    does he listen to my prayers
    but How can we be sure that God care and doesn’t like the suffering?

    • lucy
      February 13, 08:43

      it is soooo much that I will copy some for you
      I know you have a lot on your mind right now
      but this is for when you have the time to read them
      but I must say it’s verry logical……to me!!
      maybe you won’t find it logic .

      they gave me this book and omg so many questions I have ever asked myself were writen in this yellow book

    • lucy
      February 13, 09:15

      Where Are the Dead?
      What happens to us when we die?
      Why do we die?
      Would it be comforting to know
      the truth about death?

      THESE are questions that people have thought about for
      thousands of years. They are important questions. No
      matter whowe are or where we live, the answers concern
      each one of us.

      the Bible foretells a time
      when “death will be no more.” (Revelation 21:4) Meanwhile,
      we all die. “The living are conscious that they will
      die,” said wise King Solomon. (Ecclesiastes 9:5)We try to
      live as long as possible. Still, wewonder what will happen
      to us when we die.
      3 When our loved ones die, we mourn. And we may
      ask: ‘What has happened to them? Are they suffering?
      Are they watching over us? Can we help them? Will we
      ever see themagain?’ Theworld’s religions offer differing
      answers to these questions. Some teach that if you live a
      good life, you will go to heaven but if you live a bad life,
      you will burn in a place of torment.Other religions teach
      that at death, people pass on to the spirit realm to be with their ancestors. Still other religions teach that the dead
      go to an underworld to be judged and are then reincarnated,
      or reborn in another body.
      4 Such religious teachings all share one basic idea—that
      some part of us survives the death of the physical body.
      According to almost every religion, past and present, we
      somehowlive on forever with the ability to see, hear, and
      think. Yet, how can that be? Our senses, along with our
      thoughts, are all linked to the workings of our brain. At
      death, the brain stops working. Our memories, feelings,
      and senses do not continue to function independently in
      some mysterious way. They do not survive the destruction
      of our brain.

    • lucy
      February 13, 09:23

      WHAT REALLY HAPPENS AT DEATH?
      5 What happens at death is no mystery to Jehovah, the
      Creator of the brain.He knows the truth, and in hisWord,
      the Bible, he explains the condition of the dead. Its clear
      teaching is this: When a person dies, he ceases to exist.
      Death is the opposite of life. The dead do not see or hear
      or think. Not even one part of us survives the death of the
      body.We do not possess an immortal soul or spirit.

      After Solomon observed that the living know that
      they will die, he wrote: “As for the dead, they are conscious
      of nothing at all.” He then enlarged on that basic
      truth by saying that the dead can neither love nor hate
      and that “there is no work nor devising nor knowledge
      nor wisdom in [the grave].” (Ecclesiastes 9:5, 6, 10) Similarly,
      Psalm 146:4 says that when a man dies, “his thoughts do perish.” We are mortal and
      do not survive the death of our body. The
      life we enjoy is like the flame of a candle.
      When the flame is put out, it does not go
      anywhere. It is simply gone.

      I know it’s other then what you have learned 😉
      but does it makes sense to you???

    • ÐƦẸ₩
      February 13, 16:26

      I have a little time , so I’ll read it now sweetie 🙂

    • ÐƦẸ₩
      February 13, 16:31

      Ok , I’ll reply to the first part . ..
      I agree that we can’t function without our brain , but we also have a soul . .
      The soul is metaphysical , meaning that it transcends the physical , it is supernatural and always conscious , even while the body is asleep , the soul is awake and aware .

    • ÐƦẸ₩
      February 13, 16:46

      This one I can’t accept Luce . . It doesn’t resonate very well with me that we just cease to exist .
      Our bodies die , no doubt on that . But if we become nothing after death , then it doesn’t matter if I am good or bad in this life . . I could hate and murder , steal and live lavishly and then when I die , I shall receive no punishment 😐 . . Many people get away with being bad , and there is no justice for families who suffer . ..
      I believe that the soul never dies , and it is constantly learning and evolving .
      I always wonder why Jesus is seen as a white man . I know he is a Jew , but why not an Indian or African or even Chinese ? Colonisation and slavery were witnessed by religious men .
      Lucy , I’m going to suggest something to you 🙂 . . I know you seek answers . . But , I honestly think that religion alone will not provide these answers that you seek . You may need to become an ardent observer . If you can , please read a book called ” Veronica decides to die ” by Paulo Coelho or ” The Devil and Miss Prym ” same author . . Please don’t be alarmed by the titles 🙂 . .

    • lucky lucy
      February 14, 08:56

      OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO SNAAAAAAP MEN NO NO NO NO NO
      SORRY SORRY SORRY SORRY SORRY SORRY
      THERE IS A BIT A LEFT OUT WILL POST
      LATER ………..EVEN I WON’T ACCEPT THAT IF IT WAS JUST THIS….NO SWEETIE SWEETHEART SNOOPY SNOOPLEDEPPUPL 🙁

    • DƦẸ₩
      February 14, 09:02

      No prob. sweetie 🙂 . . And please don’t apologise . . .

    • DƦẸ₩
      February 14, 13:12

      Luce , you know I’m thinking a lot about him 😐 . .
      I’m using all my will power to not say happy valentines to him today . ..
      He may not like it if I do . ..
      I think I will just love him from a distance . I sent him a friend request
      but I’m afraid to see that he won’t accept , it will break my heart . ..
      So , I’m not going on fb . ..
      I’m trying to be strong , trying to keep focussed . ..
      I wonder if the Jw would know why love feels this way sometimes 🙂 and why it can’t just leave us
      when it becomes this way . .
      I was missing my mom also , almost a whole year , it’s unbelievable . . April 11 th will be a year . . Last year I was worried that she would die on my birthday , she was so sick . I was so so silly . As though she could choose when to die 😐 . ..
      Miss you sweetie , love you . .
      I hope that your studies are going well . .
      How is everyone at home ?

    • lucy
      February 17, 07:02

      aaawww and I didn’t know 🙁

      my dear friend I didn’t know you were here.
      no I don’t think anyone has the answers
      but I have called the jw who comes visits me and asked her
      and she told me to tell you that on their site there is this book called
      Questions Young People Ask–Answers That Work,
      in dutch it’s practical answers, but I guess the meaning is the same, practical is when it works for someone
      maybe not everybody

      page 206

      LOVE > What you know
      “I think that with love, you have a reason to be attracted
      to someone, and it’s a good reason—not a selfish one.”
      —David.
      “Tome, it seems that real love should grow over time. At
      first, you’re good friends. Then, little by little, you like what
      you have come to know about the person, and you start to
      develop feelings that you’ve never had before.”—Judith.
      Love is based on awell-rounded knowledge of a person’s
      strengths and weaknesses. It’s hardly surprising, then, that
      the Bible describes love as much more than a feeling. It
      states that love is, among other things, “long-suffering and
      kind. . . . It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all
      things, endures all things. Love never fails.” (1 Corinthians
      13:4, 7, 8) And lovemakes a person act in these ways based
      on knowledge—not on credulity or ignorance.

      I know you are busy this week,that’s why I went also searching and although it wasn’t courtship I think the feelings and emotions are quite the same as what you have , 🙁

      I have to go but will reply later
      love you angel…

    • lucy
      February 17, 07:04

      but I must give you a BIG compliment that you let your will power won and didn’t send a message

      bye sweetie 😉

    • lucy
      February 18, 02:26

      my dearest sis, the feeling you have I can imagine that it might be strange but I can’t tell how it feels. lIf you think about it what is time? ???
      April 11 ….will never be a day like others no more.
      I hope that during these days you experienced some kind of peace, acceptance …I think I’m talking rubbish how can you accept that fact that your most beloved person isn’t no more. I think you give it a place, and learn to deal with the ugly truth.
      I’ts true you don’t cry every single day, and although I had a very strong bond with Ivy and I knew she understood me, I still have my mom.

      I was thinking that if I’m feeling this way, then your feelings and emotions has to be intensely.
      and then it’s logical that you feel lonely sometimes
      oh drew I love you, and hope …
      I hope you can share your feelings with your uncle and best friend, especially because you all have the same faith and beliefs and traditions.
      ( I might be too stubborn and don’t understand you the way they will understand you)
      and she was young, I think when you lose your grandparents it’s quite differ because of the age. when I lost my omi I was sad, but she was ooooold and never known my grandpa but with a younger person I found it hard to digest.

      I send you a BIG BIG BIG warm hug 😀 and will always keep you in my prayers 😉
      have a nice day sweeti

    • lucy
      February 18, 02:32

      WHAT JESUS SAID ABOUT DEATH
      7 Jesus Christ spoke about the condition of the dead. He did so with regard to Lazarus, a man whom he knew well and who had died. Jesus told his disciples: “Lazarus our friend has gone to rest.” The disciples thought that Jesus meant that Lazarus was resting in sleep, recovering from an illness. They were wrong. Jesus explained: “Lazarus has died.” (John 11:11-14) Notice that Jesus compared death to rest and sleep. Lazarus was neither in heaven nor in a burning hell. He was not meeting angels or ancestors. Lazarus was not being reborn as another human. He was at rest in death, as though in a deep sleep without dreams. Other scriptures also compare death to sleep.

      Was it God’s original purpose for people to die? Not at all! Jehovah made man to live forever on earth
      God placed the first human couple in a delightful paradise. He blessed them with perfect health. Jehovah wanted only good for them. Does any loving parent want his children to suffer the pain of old age and death? Of course not! Jehovah loved his children and wanted them to enjoy endless happiness on earth. Concerning humans, the Bible says: “Time indefinite [Jehovah] has put in their heart.” (Ecclesiastes 3:11) God created us with the desire to live forever. And he has opened the way for that desire to be fulfilled.

    • lucy
      February 18, 02:33

      WHEN you hear the terms “soul” and “spirit,” what comes to your mind? Many believe that these words mean something invisible and immortal that exists inside us. They think that at death this invisible part of a human leaves the body and lives on. Since this belief is so widespread, many are surprised to learn that it is not at all what the Bible teaches. What, then, is the soul, and what is the spirit, according to God’s Word?

      “SOUL” AS USED IN THE BIBLE
      First, consider the soul. You may remember that the Bible was originally written mainly in Hebrew and Greek. When writing about the soul, the Bible writers used the Hebrew word ne′phesh or the Greek word psy·khe′. These two words occur well over 800 times in the Scriptures, and the New World Translation consistently renders them “soul.” When you examine the way “soul” or “souls” is used in the Bible, it becomes evident that this word basically refers to (1) people, (2) animals, or (3) the life that a person or an animal enjoys. Let us consider some scriptures that present these three different senses.

      People. “In Noah’s days…a few people, that is, eight souls, were carried safely through the water.” (1 Peter 3:20) Here the word “souls” clearly stands for people—Noah, his wife, his three sons, and their wives. Exodus 16:16 mentions instructions given to the Israelites regarding the gathering of manna. They were told: “Pick up some of it…according to the number of the souls that each of you has in his tent.” So the amount of manna that was gathered was based upon the number of people in each family. Some other Biblical examples of the application of “soul” or “souls” to a person or to people are found at Genesis 46:18; Joshua 11:11; Acts 27:37; and Romans 13:1.

      Animals. In the Bible’s creation account, we read: “God went on to say: ‘Let the waters swarm forth a swarm of living souls and let flying creatures fly over the earth upon the face of the expanse of the heavens.’ And God went on to say: ‘Let the earth put forth living souls according to their kinds, domestic animal and moving animal and wild beast of the earth according to its kind.’ And it came to be so.” (Genesis 1:20, 24) In this passage, fish, domestic animals, and wild beasts are all referred to by the same word—“souls.” Birds and other animals are called souls at Genesis 9:10; Leviticus 11:46; and Numbers 31:28.

      Life as a person. Sometimes the word “soul” means one’s life as a person. Jehovah told Moses: “All the men who were hunting for your soul are dead.” (Exodus 4:19) What were Moses’ enemies hunting for? They were seeking to take Moses’ life. Earlier, while Rachel was giving birth to her son Benjamin, “her soul was going out (because she died).” (Genesis 35:16-19) At that moment, Rachel lost her life. Consider also Jesus’ words: “I am the fine shepherd; the fine shepherd surrenders his soul in behalf of the sheep.” (John 10:11) Jesus gave his soul, or life, in behalf of mankind. In these Bible passages, the word “soul” clearly refers to life as a person. You will find more examples of this sense of “soul” at 1 Kings 17:17-23; Matthew 10:39; John 15:13; and Acts 20:10.

      A further study of God’s Word will show you that nowhere in the entire Bible are the terms “immortal” or “everlasting” linked with the word “soul.” Instead, the Scriptures state that a soul is mortal, meaning that it dies. (Ezekiel 18:4, 20) Therefore, the Bible calls someone who has died simply a “dead soul.”—Leviticus 21:11.

    • lucy
      February 18, 02:37

      THE “SPIRIT” IDENTIFIED
      Let us now consider the Bible’s use of the term “spirit.” Some people think that “spirit” is just another word for “soul.” However, that is not the case. The Bible makes clear that “spirit” and “soul” refer to two different things. How do they differ?

      Bible writers used the Hebrew word ru′ach or the Greek word pneu′ma when writing about the “spirit.” The Scriptures themselves indicate the meaning of those words. For instance, Psalm 104:29 states: “If you [Jehovah] take away their spirit [ru′ach], they expire, and back to their dust they go.” And James 2:26 notes that “the body without spirit [pneu′ma] is dead.” In these verses, then, “spirit” refers to that which gives life to a body. Without spirit, the body is dead. Therefore, in the Bible the word ru′ach is translated not only as “spirit” but also as “force,” or life-force. For example, concerning the Flood in Noah’s day, God said: “I am bringing the deluge of waters upon the earth to bring to ruin all flesh in which the force [ru′ach] of life is active from under the heavens.” (Genesis 6:17; 7:15, 22) “Spirit” thus refers to an invisible force (the spark of life) that animates all living creatures.

      A radio
      The soul and the spirit are not the same. The body needs the spirit in much the same way as a radio needs electricity—in order to function. To illustrate this further, think of a portable radio. When you put batteries in a portable radio and turn it on, the electricity stored in the batteries brings the radio to life, so to speak. Without batteries, however, the radio is dead. So is another kind of radio when it is unplugged from an electric outlet. Similarly, the spirit is the force that brings our body to life. Also, like electricity, the spirit has no feeling and cannot think. It is an impersonal force. But without that spirit, or life-force, our bodies “expire, and back to their dust they go,” as the psalmist stated.

      Speaking about man’s death, Ecclesiastes 12:7 states: “The dust [of his body] returns to the earth just as it happened to be and the spirit itself returns to the true God who gave it.” When the spirit, or life-force, leaves the body, the body dies and returns to where it came from—the earth. Comparably, the life-force returns to where it came from—God. (Job 34:14, 15; Psalm 36:9) This does not mean that the life-force actually travels to heaven. Rather, it means that for someone who dies, any hope of future life rests with Jehovah God. His life is in God’s hands, so to speak. Only by God’s power can the spirit, or life-force, be given back so that a person may live again.

      How comforting it is to know that this is exactly what God will do for all of those resting in “the memorial tombs”! (John 5:28, 29) At the time of the resurrection, Jehovah will form a new body for a person sleeping in death and bring it to life by putting spirit, or life-force, in it. What a joyful day that will be!

      If you would like to learn more about the terms “soul” and “spirit” as used in the Bible, you will find valuable information in the brochure What Happens to Us When We Die?

    • lucy
      February 18, 02:47

      on their site they have on the cover of the magazine of april a girl, and somehow when I saw her I thought that are you. 😀 😀

      drew after reading this I asked her, what if someone is not a christian?
      does this mean that it isn’t for these persons this promise?
      and then she told me that jesus died for everyone the whole humanity
      all religion included, thats why the resurrection!!
      but that God will not force anyone to love him and that only God sees in a persons heart
      thats why we cannot say who will get a resurrection, thats to God to do that.
      but if a person lived hating God then it’s logical that such person won’t get it
      but again we are no body to deside who will and who won’t
      I personally loved the idea of Ivy equal as your mom being in God’s memory waiting for the day that jesus will give them a resurrection. 😀 who knows then we will be neighbours

  4. Pḣöëṉịẍ
    February 02, 08:24 Reply

    Ancient Egyptians believed that upon death
    they would be asked two questions
    and their answers would determine
    whether they could continue their journey in the afterlife.
    The first question was, “Did you bring joy?”
    The second was, “Did you find joy?”
    -Leo Buscaglia

    To live in the hearts we leave behind is not to die.
    -Thomas Campbell

    Love is stronger than death even though
    it can’t stop death from happening,
    but no matter how hard death tries
    it can’t separate people from love.
    It can’t take away our memories either.
    In the end, life is stronger than death.
    -unknown

    Every man dies – Not every man really lives.
    -William Ross Wallace

    What we have done for ourselves alone dies with us;
    what we have done for others and the world remains and is immortal.
    -Albert Pike

    • kuekuatsu
      February 02, 12:19

      hey sweetie, I’m in a moody mode today.
      so this will not help me today, I’m sorry but I can’t find myself ….u know i’ts like I died along with Ivy, and it’s not fair to my mom, cause she is always there for me, but I lost my best friend she was my soul mate we looked at each other and she knew what I was thinking and she ..
      it’s different with mom, she is my mom and she is soooo
      catholic, and at this moment her answers, why am I this restless, WHY WHY WHY WHY I know you might say that I must accept what has to come blablabla
      but if parents explain to their kids why they are not allowed to touch certain things or to go somewhere
      why do I have to just believe that God has his plan and that there is no answer. I know you told me that you know as little as me but why these feelings if it’s his plan then I must have some kind of… why don’t I have acquiescence with his plans. Am i bold/impertinent for thinking this way……I’ll go out for a stroll… and come back tonight bye sweetie, plz don’t get mad at me
      this is not for you it’s just a scream in the void…
      and will come to tp page 😉

    • Phoenix
      February 02, 12:28

      Hey !! U here still ?

    • Phoenix
      February 02, 12:34

      I can’t ever be mad at you sweetie 😐 . .
      Never think that , I know the reality sometimes takes a while to sink in .
      The death of a loved one is hard to accept and I understand how much you miss her .
      You’re doing the right thing by taking a walk .
      Ayshel just sees the world differently dear . We connect with some people and when they leave ,
      no one else fills the void that they left . Take your time . I’m here 🙂 . .
      Like I said , even if I don’t reply immediately , I eventually will .
      Love you my angel , BIG HUG .

    • Phoenix
      February 02, 12:44

      My Big Girl 🙂 . .
      I know that you are brave , but it’s ok to rant and complain .
      Tell me all if you need to . Cry as much as you need , let it out .
      It’s catharsis or healing for the soul . I can give you 100 possible reasons and all
      could be wrong , for why such things happen . No matter how much we search , we will never know with certainty . One day at a time , never deny your feelings . Cry when you need to , laugh and smile the same way . But , we are not alone with our grief in this world .
      Many others have asked these same questions as we do . I’ll check back for you later . .

    • kuekwatsue
      February 02, 16:19

      I have hormonal migraine thats why my over sensitivety
      did good the walking but m beaten I’ll respond
      you tomorrow. going to sleep now
      thxs for the encouragements
      love you dearly nighty night 😉 😉

    • Phoenix
      February 02, 16:22

      Sweet dreams ❤️❤️
      I think we are becoming in sync 😀 .
      Must be an Angel thing 😀
      I’m watching football , but something made me check
      exactly now 🙂 . .
      Love you ,hormones can be little devils 😐

    • Phoenix
      February 02, 16:23

      You have me good luck 😀
      Real Madrid is now 1 goal up 🙂
      Yay !!!

    • kuekwatsue
      February 02, 16:27

      😉 mwah. thx u 2 sweet dreams

    • Pḣöëṉịẍ
      February 02, 20:59

      Lucy Lu , m feeling stupid for saying this . .
      Maybe it’s also my damned hormones 😐 . .
      I just need to say it though . .. to someone . ..
      I miss him . .. I need a neutraliser 🙂 or maybe some Makha . .
      Why can’t it just stop . .. ? 😐
      Wish you a good week sweetie , I’m off to bed . ..
      I’m hoping hat you feel better soon . .love you .. .
      If I’m not here tomorrow , I’ll try to come on Tueday .. .
      ❤️❤️

    • lucy
      February 04, 03:05

      hey sweetie 😀 I’m back, omg what are we a bunch of stupid people all together.
      FEELINGS EMOTIONS FEELINGS EMOTIONS
      WHY did God not make us robots that would be sooo easy
      but then again I think that would be to easy for us

      ooo plz give me some makha put me in the freezer with all those stupid husbands…okay that sounds dreadful..

      …no I’m glad he created us with emotions and feelings
      because we now can comunicate with one another
      you know I really want to stop asking questions but I see to many dumbo’s of my age getting pregnant not pursuing a career just interest in “mister winky”
      they just breath and polute the atmosphere and ….
      okay sorry 😀 😀 that was not nice they can’t help it
      damn…. again sorry “girls” your just … drew believe me they are empty… 🙁
      I don’t have much friends who can think.
      and lost a few because I ask to much 🙁
      you know I don’t like philosophers at all and don’t like to speculate and because most they say sounds mystical, yet not totally disclose fr me.. and what they say is to tickle your ears….my conclusion. and I know that we don’t think what this concern alike but like you said we have to embrace and respect each others way of thinking. and dear I know I know that I’m not gonna find all answers but it’s my endeavour to find plausible almost solid answers. and at this point while writing this I think that maybe is good to be like the other girls, just live and go with the flow. o my goodness then I will be like a member of a herd a cow or pig nope a sheep

      I know you might think I hold on something now cause I don’t have the answer and because of my grieve, maybe, but now because of my grieve I want to find just one convincing answer. I am aware that I might not find answer for all my questions.
      but I beleive in God and I can’t imagine that a Almighty send people to earth, create life just to live and die and then go to somewhere noone knows, hoping that it is good where you will go.
      and yes that was a good question of you, just like your thought what are they doing ???
      if we are allowed to pray and share our innermost feelings with God pour out all what is in our heart, then I thought it isn’t bold to ask. I’m not credulous. some words poems are nice really, but they don’t comfort me right now

      no drew I have understand that there is a possibility to be reunited with your loved ones who past away. therefore I asked you last time if you don’t want to be reunited with your mom, I understood of what the JW answered me that the possibility is for everyone every single human being…and about the Q…
      we are made according to God’s image and resemblance, although not yet an answer they will come this week and give me the answer, they came saturday but because of the migraine couldn’t talk to them. and mom ask to come this week wednesday.drew dear it’s not that I don’t believe others but my mind has his own way of thinking and I’m searching,(I know I’m stubborn, here this all the time) I want peace acceptance for the things that God does and before I decide to believe anything I want to know somemore about religions
      I want peace acceptance for the things that God does and before I decide to accept anything I want to know some more about religions.

      tp, though made indeed a good comparison, with that illustration of the counterfeit of money
      because I don’t think that all religions are good, I do believe that there must be “one “that get all God’s acceptance, but I do believe that mankind individually are good
      but the whole concept like you said before under the “ward” of the pastors priest (thiefs) pandit’s (B) makes it such a hypocritical combination/collection.
      yes there must be togetherness in that department but nonetheless there is more division then any other

      ooooops I have to go to classes

    • lucy
      February 04, 03:09

      and yes …one more thing don’t call urself stupid
      ur a beautiful young woman with human feelings
      and this was your playground, were you used to talk for hours so it’s logical that you miss him
      don’t worry someday he might say …..
      good evening back to you.
      and like cam said you don’t hold to grudges so that’s mean your are a polished gem 😀

      bye sweetie…and that essay of mine it’s just ?????
      my mind 🙁

    • Pḣöëṉịẍ
      February 04, 11:01

      It’s ok 🙂 . . He doesn’t need to say anything . . I can’t control anyone . .
      I’ve always known this , but I used to hope that things could be different . .
      Now , I just quietly accept thing as they are , without trying to change anyone or trying to
      persuade them see my point of view . . I can only speak for me . . I hold nothing against anyone
      Besides , he never did anything to hurt me . . I was the one who didn’t know better . . I hurt myself . .. He’s a brilliant guy and I miss his intelligence . ..
      It’s impossible for me to hate him . .. But , whatever 😀 . .. It is what it is . ..
      Thanx for the understanding , I’m not going to mention it to you again 🙂 . .. my decision . ..

    • Pḣöëṉịẍ
      February 04, 11:26

      Funny thing sweetie 😀 . . you don’t like philosophers , but you think a lot , and that’s exactly what philosophers do . . There is a difference between having an opinion and with being opinionated .
      We don’t know a persons raison d’être or reason for existence . Those girls were not as lucky as you sweetie , to have the kind of guidance and support that you have . Society was able to corrupt their minds . A baby is like a clean slate and adults leave their marks . You know I like words 😀 . . I used to read the dictionary when I had spare time 🙂 . . Surprise !!! These are 3 things I never hope to be . .

      Pedantic – displaying too much knowledge than is necessary in a situation with an air of superiority ( basically a know it all 😀 )
      Solipsistic – the theory or belief that ones opinion is factual and all other opinions are irrelevant
      Obsequious – being nice with a purpose of self gain , not because of genuine intentions . .

      We can learn from everyone around us . . Some teach us to be better , some help us to see what we don’t want to become . . Like you say , you’d rather keep your emotions . Emotional intelligence is of equal importance to IQ . .
      Darn !!! I’m sounding like a teacher 😀 . .
      This is to reply to half your message 🙂 . …

    • Pḣöëṉịẍ
      February 04, 11:27

      I’ll reply later to the rest . . 3 mins till that stupid bell rings 🙂 . .

    • Aaliyah
      February 05, 05:04

      DICTIONARY ^_^ @_@ NUH AHAH you did not!!! you reading dictionary, never crossed my mind. thats what most girl doe in their teens.
      okay pedantic (So pendule ish)
      -solipsistic ( so lipstick 😛 ) – and last but not least obsequious- ( creepy crawlers)
      no I don’t want to become the pendule one neitherthe others because thats what one girl once said to me, i think i’m the best and you know drew that hurts because i was just explaining

      why if you can study waiste your time with boy’s boy’s and going party al time
      and they where one time with a group they had camp and did that binge drinking
      since then i never say much unless someone ask me then my mouth create his own mind and i’m unstoppable.

      I really want to thank you for all your time spending with and at me. I really drew sometimes want to be like the rest feeling accepted by others. every yr at school my friends are the guys 😀 not that I complain but sometimes you just want the acceptance of those stupid plastic girls
      wow this is serious huh …no i grew up in a loving fam
      who really do everything for me..am i spoiled …hhhmm
      maybe maybe not and there she was my aunt my sister my best friend..and when those stupid girls didn’t accept me she became my best friend,

      Ivy used to tell me always that i’m intelligent ..sounds conceited maybe but that helped me becoming who i m now.
      Ivy told me that i need others but also I don’t need others do you understand what i mean??
      and that helped me during those yrs at school.

      and I sometimes reread what you tell me and it helps really believe me you help me a lot.
      and i feel i can tell or express myself with you
      and for that …….MUCHAS MUCHAS GRACIAS QUERIDA

      emotional intelligence is of equal importance to IQ ..plz teacher explain that to me

    • Pḣöëṉịẍ
      February 05, 05:15

      Hey Lucy Lu 🙂 , good morning to you ❤️❤️
      You are intelligent and I understand your feelings about those girls . . But , they were raised with a different value system and they place importance on different things . ..
      Ivy was a gem , we know , and maybe her purpose was to create another gem like you . .
      She lives on and always will in you . . I had wanted to mention this to you . . that in many ways I am my mothers daughter , though not a carbon copy , but I have her voice and a lot of her strong will . . Similarly , Ivy will always be with you . ..

    • Aaliyah
      February 05, 05:17

      SRY FOR GRAMMAR..DON’T EXPEL ME TEACHER 🙁

    • Pḣöëṉịẍ
      February 05, 05:23

      Lucy darling , it’s great that you think . . I’m going to suggest that you also observe and think . .
      I mean look at how things work around you . . Try to evaluate occurrences in your life . . Like when you’re in a good mood , what happens if someone cones at you with nonsense ? . . How do you react as opposed to if you are in a bad mood ? . . Also who controls those moods . . The external or internal forces ? And which one can you control ? Only the internal . .
      Those girls may not all be bad , because they do wrong things . They are searching for reasons also , but in a different way . They are seeking acceptance and an identity . But , they lack the maturity that you have so they are learning a lot the hard way .

    • Pḣöëṉịẍ
      February 05, 05:25

      Sweetie , I understand everything you say . So don’t worry , your grammar is fine . 🙂

    • Aaliyah
      February 05, 05:25

      😀 😀 Hey Hi goooood morning, 😀
      first thing you have to tell me
      does the sun shine already ???? 😀
      Oh I miss the sun sooooooooo much

    • Pḣöëṉịẍ
      February 05, 05:27

      I know this song Luce 😀 . .
      One of my favourites , I posted it once on PV also . .
      The minions are awesome and this song is a really nice feel good song . ..

    • Pḣöëṉịẍ
      February 05, 05:29

      Nah , not yet , it’s 6:28 . . It now rising
      From around April I think , the sun will be out by 5:30 . .
      But as it’s winter time in the States , we have sunrise at a later time .:)

    • Aaliyah
      February 05, 05:45

      aaaaww thxs for understandin 😉
      we had the shortest day Dec 21,
      meaning that on that day the sun rises at around 8
      and sets around 16:00
      at 17:00 it’s already pitch dark.
      eg yesterday was the sunset around 17:00
      so 17:30 it was still light.
      and in the morning now we have sunrise around 7:30
      during the spring to summer, we have that upward 3:30 it’s already light and the sunset is around 24:00, and the longest day is July 21

      yes aren’t they just adorable did you see DM? 😀
      I only saw the first

    • Aaliyah
      February 05, 05:49

      dear I wish u a blessed day and see you maybe tonight
      lots of love and enjoy the sun …think of me when you enjoy the sun okay 😉 bye sweety mwah
      I have classes in an hour gotta go

    • Pḣöëṉịẍ
      February 05, 05:53

      Yep , I saw both of them 🙂 . .
      The second one was good . ..
      Enjoy your day sweetie , love you 🙂 ❤️❤️

  5. lucky lucy
    January 28, 08:53 Reply

    darling you know what..?? I’m gonna ask them also that Q
    If man was created in God’s image why aren’t we perfect?
    thats a logical Q. He is perfect and Almighty why do we now have to cope with so much pain and sorrow. I will tell you what they answered me, for sure 😀 😀 I’m curious now. 😀

    I like this, the way we share our thoughts with each other.
    you asked me about the 40 days prayer, to be honest drew I don’t believe in those formalities sorry. That’s also ..so not me…I mean do we bring Ivy back by having these rituals and prayers??? NO !!!! I don’t want to be rude or don’t know what
    but I don’t believe in such prayers,

    I know respect should remain BUT
    **if I would have the audacity to say to mom that I will not be going to do that..I think you might hear me screaming from here to ur island.. 😀 it will be like lightening 😛 shall be like trinity from matrix who dodged the bullet 😀 😀 I will only hear …whoooffff like a breeze 😀 😀 ****

    I remember Ivy as she was, and how much I’ll pray she wont come back
    but because of the traditions of the elders I will respect what they do… 🙁

    • Pḣöëṉịẍ
      January 28, 17:33

      I hear you dear . I understand how you feel . I think the prayers help the living with their grief though , because it brings relatives together . .. . and it sort of represents finality . It’s all that we can do to show our respect and love and we hope that our actions mean something . As humans we need togetherness , ” no man is an island entire by itself ” . When we go to a cinema , we enjoy movies better , because it’s said that collectively we have greater appreciation from having a mental connexion , a togetherness or unity . Similarly , I think that such prayers help us to heal , we appreciate the solidarity and love . And love is never a bad thing to be around .
      When my mom died ,we had a 10 day prayer and a 12 day prayer that involved a lot of rituals and things that we needed to get together . We had to fast , meaning abstain from all meat , eggs and egg products , we couldn’t eat fried or food tossed in hot oil . . We had nightly Satsang or readings from the scriptures . The fasting part I’m unsure about . But , just like you , I follow what the elders say .
      Yeah Ayshel might really send you flying if you tell her how you feel 😀 . .. I think many times we do things because we don’t want to upset the natural order .

  6. Aaliyah
    January 11, 05:59 Reply

    ABOUT THE SONG…….MY OPINION !!!

    what came up into mu mind during the song
    what a title!?!..a mother a daughter a grandma ???
    mom/son/love…LACK OF GUIDANCE
    attention…spend time together
    he doesn’t know better….interesting!! his world
    loneliness….and..a messed up environment/childhood

    and after hearing and reading

    HEAVY…TOUGH…UPHILL….SORE….PAINFULLY…BUT ALSO REAL WORLD

    We call those kids, “keykids” “latchkey”
    kids without guidance structureless kids
    a phrase used to indicate that a child is left alone to his fate untill his parents come home
    but why are they that way, cause mom had to work
    mostly single parent who had jobs outside since her kid was very jong. It was decided when she was looking for a job, that she won’t start make career , or became an “emancipated” woman, , and it was not because she did not like her kid. Her reason? “To make ends together,” Yes, to be able to care for her kid they often must assume low-paid jobs that they really hate.
    In general, mothers who work outside the home, which made because of financial reasons
    Young people do not always realize the tremendous financial pressure under which parents are at this time our modern time
    when these kids goes to school they come back at a.. a empty house, not a home because there is nobody there they have the house key, thats why the name “keykids”
    and I believe that in the beginning it was because of poverty but now many married women who can stay at home choose to go working because they lost that parental love.. I think 🙁
    I mean they come inside a empty house put the tv/internet and there is their nanny their mom, their father, and indeed those slim girls who are always laughing with “DAD” the great rapper …so its not that difficult to comprehend that those kids will honestly think that what the man on the screen is singing is true cause she sees/hear it with her own eyes
    those little brains captivate that and transforms it into a life lesson reality check indeed they grewsup without parental guidance and no one to intervene and like he said

    he thinks disrespectfully she thinks of that sexually but
    bitch is bitch
    you know I/we dont have any music channels, my uncles/dad didn’t want it and I must say that I dont miss it, you dont miss what you never had huh 😉
    I listen to the radio

    THE SONG LET SEE THAT OUR BRAINS GET CONDITIONED LITTLE BY LITTLE WITH WHATEVER EITHER GOOD OR BAD IF WE DONT give good guidance
    IT WE WILL BE MESSED UP…and unfortunately the youngsters are the major prey

    • Aaliyah
      January 11, 06:03

      omg sry drew didn’t know it was this long 🙁 🙁

    • Pḣöëṉịẍ
      January 11, 10:38

      Lucy darling , you can never write too much for me . ..
      Your uncle used to tease me about the length of my writings , but like I said , he used to read every word . .. I know you must be wondering why he never said anything about Ivy . .. I think it might bother you a bit . He has his insane reasons , that you see him as evil and that he has become evil and wants to remain that way . .. Men 😐 , go figure , who knows how they think so contrary to us . . I had suggested that he offer his condolences . .. I can never see him as bad and I know that you can’t either , because Ivy loved him so much . . But , he won’t believe that ..
      Like I said , we don’t talk anymore , but I sent that message via an option on fb , he replied .. Then he blocked that option . .. The reincarnation theory dear , I don’t know why I care so much for him and he doesn’t give a damn no more .. As long as I live I’ll remember him and Ivy .. . because they both touched my heart and soul . .
      Just needed to get that off my chest 🙂 . ..

    • Pḣöëṉịẍ
      January 13, 12:14

      The reason I asked you to give me your opinion on that song is because I wanted you to try to see things from a different perspective . You were able to see so many things there , very good points , that others may dismiss , simply because of the way in which that song was presented . There is a very good message in there . That little ones are impressionable . That poor parenting leads to kids growing up with messed up thinking . The boy heard his mom referring to herself as a bitch , so he thinks that a bitch is female but , should be decent . The girl thinks that a bitch should be like those she saw in the videos , and though she is smart , she acts dumb because she thinks it is the way to please her guy . . Its a pretty good song , but I doubt that it will ever win a Grammy .
      Think about if this song was played to a regular mom , not cool ones like Ayshel 😀 , would they be willing to understand the point that the artist is making ? However , this song can be understood by a certain section of the population , that may not be able to understand if we were to teach them in a formal way . But , the sad part is that just like this song has a positive message , many others that your uncles shield you from. . do not . .
      I think that the priests , pastors , pundits and other religious leaders , do not try hard enough to reach people . They want to teach only in one way , and expect all to understand . They are close minded towards accepting change , because according to them there are rules within the scriptures that demand that we always follow rules 😀 . .
      In order for me to understand and appreciate your perspective , and likewise for you to appreciate mine , we must both be willing to acknowledge our differences but to also embrace out similiarities . Because everyone will not come from the same place , nor carry the same social baggages .

    • Pḣöëṉịẍ
      January 13, 12:28

      Lucy , darling . . Like I said b4 . . Feel free to write as much as you need to . ..
      I will always reply , even if not immediately 🙂 . ..

    • Aaliyah
      January 16, 03:25

      but I never even talk to him why does he think that way?
      no I dont think so, he is a guy and guys dont know how to show their emotions, and yes I love Ivy but I also know that he had this special place in her heart. Ivy said to me that it’s like he wants to hide his true self behind all those shady characters. I know your are no longer on fb atleast thats what i understood from you, so if your able to send him a msg please tell him that I could never think evil of him nor you drew!! why I dont know you guys
      just as you dont know me, look the moment we shake hands and see each other in the face thats the moment that we begin knowing each other. I’m a very realistic person like a gv it change all the time but that doesn’t mean that the gv defines you… it defines only what u like you want to convey a msg true but its not totally who u are, after talking talking talking talking sharing experiences and goes thru maybe the same cases or difficulties experiences we grows in knowing each other.
      I beleive that the world has a impact on each person, that ur environment helps forming you but also your believes,
      I once heard that God brings out what is in you , but also the devil brings out what is in you
      Now I’m not saying that you are possessed 🙁 but all bad things come from the devil , he’s just a producer, he himself does nothing , he is a screenwriter, producer and author , and we are the actors , and everything we do, we do ourselves he just puts everything ready and now you can use your brains and choose which side you want to go on
      and with God it’s the same, the difference I find is that God shows you through his scriptures/koran/and others that whether right or wrong can go with you.

      while the devil conveys in a way that you think it’ll be fine !
      while he uses the media , music like you showed me in fact to deceive . little ones
      I one time heard a lecture that illustrated how savvy/artfully/shrewdly the mindset of the opponent is. how he puts pressure on marriages . how children lose the respect for their parents and I’m not just talking about little children, but also adults who mistreat their elderly parents .

      brb

    • Aaliyah
      January 16, 03:26

      btw like ur gv 😉

    • kuekuatsue
      January 22, 03:32

      hi dear, I was thinking, drew your mom isn’t here anymore
      are you happy…I mean are you aaaahhhh don’t know how to phrase express this…
      but drew sorry if you dont want to answer is no problem
      I really want to understand you,and of course I respect your faith, beliefs and vision.

      The prospect of being reunited with our loved ones who have died is appealing, to say the least
      do you nourish such hope
      because what u said to me about the soul an its rebirth
      is there any posibility to be reunited with your mom or grandparent??

      I really want to be reunited with Ivy, and if she or her soul reincarnate in someone else than, isn’t she loosing a bit of herself so she can either help herself from things she did good or wrong in this lifetime ……hhhmmmm …confusion confusion..my head is twirling

      you know I knew someone who told me take things like they come, but I’m not like that I mean look at my choise of carreer..not many girls like to milling .
      I want facts why does this happen why did someone has chosen this or that why. and I know that not everything has an answer but I like solid evidence although I know that certain things you just have to believe have faith

    • kuekuatsue
      January 22, 03:40

      just read it again and the question should be
      are you it is possible that you can have peace of mind in your belief that your mother is somewhere where you do not know and that you hope she’s happy? and that all this is God’s plan that your mother my aunt has been blanked/taken away from this earth????? why why so young,
      Ivy, according to me, was only 33

    • kuekuatsue
      January 22, 03:56

      hey sweetie how did you know they were Jehovah’s Witnesses? clever of you! or are they the only one who uses that name jehovah?
      you got them chase away with your questions.. 😀 😀
      HA! I wanted to see that, because they are very persistent in the return.
      I did a lot of questions but they keep coming 🙂
      maybe i ask the wrong Q… amateur ……… 🙁
      They are currently the only ones so far that have given me. satisfactory answer I’ve even gone on their website. I spoke to a fellow student.
      and I found out that he was a….
      Listen and shiver, he’s a Dutchman
      (which generally are atheists)
      but he has the Jewish faith following the Messiah 🙁
      I said WHAT?? you are the first jew anyway that i know and i thought you guys did reject the Messiah
      yes he says, but we believe in the Old Testament. but personally I think that the new testament, new belongs to the whole book it should be a aprt of it
      I said okay …………! IO can not say what I thought was neat, you see I speak other languages ​​except rubbish too 😀

    • Pḣöëṉịẍ
      January 25, 20:16

      Honestly sweetie , I never thought about reuniting with my mom or grandad . ..
      I understand as little as you do . .
      If you live to have grand kids , you will be very changed from the person that you are now . . You will have many new persons to love in your life . So many more to love . What if one of your grand kids look just like Ivy ? What if you get reunited with her spirit while here on earth ? . . I’m just thinking , I know nothing about this really , in the whole scheme of things . .. We can only wonder without having any real conclusions . We just need to find an answer that best satisfies our questions . .. because we can’t ever have the truth while on this earth 😐 . .. Therefore my thinking . . . and your thinking . .. are both equal . . . because at the foundation . . .there only lies only our personal belief . .. without actual facts . ..

    • Pḣöëṉịẍ
      January 25, 20:23

      My mom was 45 . . She wanted to live to see her gran kids 🙂 . . To see them grow up and to help me with them 🙂 . .. Ivy would also have wanted the same for you . ..
      I rarely ask these questions sweetie , only when I’m feeling sorry for myself . .. Which I vow to never do again 🙂 . .. I don’t know God’s plans . . When I look around , I see so many people who are living happily , but they don’t lead ideal lives . . It is disheartening also , to see people taking their health for granted , smoking , drinking in excess , bad habits in general . . But , somehow my mom and Ivy got ill 😐 even without such things . .

    • Pḣöëṉịẍ
      January 25, 20:44

      The only Dutchman I know is The Flying Dutchman 😀 ; that’s doomed to sail the seas forever from Pirates of the Caribbean . . Btw , I saw the actual ship that was used on the movie in St Lucia . .. and even the location where they filmed part of the movie and also where they filmed The Blue Lagoon 🙂 . .
      You see , I ask them questions like why did Mary have to be a virgin ? Why is the Bible written primarily from a male’s viewpoint ? Why is it that the females always lead the men into disrepute ? Like Sampson and Delilah , Adam and Eve . . Mary Magdoline . . If man was created in God’s image , why aren’t we perfect ? Why did God destroy the people he loves with the Great Flood ? If God can give up on his people , then why should we believe in him ?
      Now you see why they run away 😀 . .. ??

    • Pḣöëṉịẍ
      January 25, 21:02

      It’s already 1 month 😐 . . for Ivy . .
      You never told us about the ceremony . .
      I remember that you said that it was beautiful . .
      I wish that Cam could join us here , she’s on my mind . ..
      My mom’s one year prayer will be held soon , on March 8 th , one year already on April 11 th 😐 . . Will you all have a 40 day prayer for Ivy ?
      I’m thinking like you at present , because although she isn’t here , I still say mame when I talk about her ( I used to call her that 🙂 ) because she will always be my mame no matter how old I get and her death didn’t change that . . But , what can they be doing until we meet them again ? What is there to do after life 😐 ? So many questions . . and when we find the answers we can’t share it with the living . ..

    • Pḣöëṉịẍ
      January 25, 21:05

      I’ll check back daily for your reply sweetie . .
      B4 I was checking but , I thought that you were busy and couldn’t reply and then I became busy and didn’t check again , so I missed your messages until you pointed it out 🙂 . .
      Love you and take care , see you soon ❤️❤️

  7. Aaliyah
    January 08, 02:54 Reply

    No dear I dont think your harsh on religion nope (its not mine its tradition what they followed 😀 ) I mean did you hear, see, read how many dreathfull things they did in the name of God those catholics
    I mean how can you do that.
    My friend asked a priest why do people die
    He told its because we are sinners, 🙁
    okay she ask why are we sinners
    but then he told her she shouldn’t ask to many question , ……she was was young back then?? I think she was 9 or 10. I think it’s like you said about resurection, I truly believe that being part of a religion does not give you a card blanche for salvation. Why do I say this because
    there are religions by whom you have to be a member to get cured.
    I have my aunt is pentecostalism, and that believe never attracted me, I really find them hypocrit like catholics, all those pastors getting all the money, going on vacations and the followers giving them all the money and he playes with their feelings. Demons in disguise, fallen angels I call them!!
    The only one who knows us better than we knows ourself is God and he dont see a group but sees an individual.
    He sees your heart
    I was also thaugt to follow traditions, but at a certain point you want to know, you want to know the truth, no correction I want to know the truth., why they baptise me when I was a baby, I want to choose by myself what I want, and this choise was made by my parents
    And like I use to say to aunty Ivy “I dont know much about the bible but even Jesus was an adult when he got baptised, why on earth do they take such an important desicion for a human being, sometimes I think I drove her crazy, but she then grab me hug me and said to me that I’m special and I will get my answers, cause she had the same questions, and did find just one answer of many question she had,
    she asked can I believe the bible? and this is also tradition …I mean u grew up as a hindu, those tradition are they are valuable for you and one believe that coming from your parents it must be good.

    but what if they also got it from their parents without making any efforts… ever… for finding/ asking /searching if what they believe is indeed according to what God really wants 🙁

    My break’s over….. I’m not done yet .. 😀

    to be continued………

    • Aaliyah
      January 08, 02:59

      YEEEAAAAHHHHH…..the teacher is sick…oops sry 🙁
      but I can continue.. 😉

    • Aaliyah
      January 08, 03:05

      Ivy told me she had also many question
      she asked can I believe the bible?
      I mean its writen by imperfect human beings. And what she told me make sence, that times may pass by, many people will write many books, and put in their theory or even philosofy about mankind, but after some time that book will be part of the past with merely some thought people remember
      But at certain point, men will forget the book. But the bible contains reliable principles to help us cope with life’s problems and anxieties. The bible is a bestseller, in whole or in part, the bible has been published in more than 2000 languages and thus available to more than 75% of world’s population. Billions of copies of either the whole Bible or part of it have been produced.
      And many books can be related to the Bible, cause when you read something someone wrote down you will find it somehow written in the bible
      The Bible has withstood the timeline, though many do not believe in the Bible it is the book world’s most cited
      And you know why I asked you about the dead cause when I was there with her I met someone and they gave me a flyer with the same question and what was/is writen in wait I’ll write it down for you
      Parents looking at pictures of their young daughter who has died
      Can the Dead Really Live Again?
      Would you say . . .
      yes?
      no?
      maybe?
      WHAT THE BIBLE SAYS
      “There is going to be a resurrection.”—Acts 24:15, New World Translation.
      WHAT THAT CAN MEAN FOR YOU
      Comfort when loved ones die.—2 Corinthians 1:3, 4.

      Freedom from a morbid fear of death.—Hebrews 2:15.

      A real hope of being reunited with your dead loved ones.—John 5:28, 29.

      A family and a widow are comforted by the resurrection hope
      CAN WE REALLY BELIEVE WHAT THE BIBLE SAYS?
      Yes, for at least three reasons:

      God is the Creator of life. The Bible calls Jehovah God “the source of life.” (Psalm 36:9; Acts 17:24, 25) The One who gave life to all living creatures is certainly capable of restoring life to someone who has died.
      God has resurrected humans in the past. The Bible reports eight instances of humans—young, old, male, and female—who were brought back to life on earth. Some had been dead for a short while, but one had been in a tomb for four days!—John 11:39-44.
      God is eager to do it again. Jehovah hates death; he views it as an enemy. (1 Corinthians 15:26) He has “a yearning” to conquer that enemy, to undo death by means of the resurrection. He longs to bring back those who are in his memory and to see them live on earth again.—Job 14:14, 15.
      TO THINK ABOUT
      A young boy growing into an old man
      Why do we grow old and die?

      The Bible answers that question at GENESIS 3:17-19 and ROMANS 5:12.

      okay ….. we have a replacer…okay I’m going to welding and milling machine 😀 😀

      to be continued….

    • Aaliyah
      January 08, 13:52

      U said …. I will practice many things because I was taught to do so , but ,
      my heart and soul isn’t into it …… yes at certain point I feel the same but I don’t just want to do something pure out emotions, just like you I believe in spirituality
      . . that I exist to be happy , to be free , to not hurt anyone , to forgive . That I receive from this world what put into it . . That I should treat others how I wish to be treated . .. All religions believe fundamentally in goodness , in peace and love . . But , mankind corrupts these principles . I do agree with u in all these statements

      Drew dear about all the lifetimes or janam a human takes can you explane to me why this is this way, because this mean that now you are in your highest form of existence? All humans are now in there upmost form of existence and when we now die we become a “wuthering heights” that search for a body to be part of it and make up what you did wrong in former life? But never your own????

      about the animals your saying you dont worship animals?
      glad to know cause I always thought that was the GODDESS
      the core of this believe…
      and its true many animals behave/have tendencies
      like humans they care for cute puppies and pussys 😉
      and many humans r like ” beast”… I mean animals
      you know in the bible there are parabolic illustration spoken by jesus and many references to animals

      the resurection part follow 2morrow

    • Aaliyah
      January 09, 06:45

      do you know what I think is strange that when I got that sheet/flyer about the dead they told me they are now giving away this flyer worldwide … did you also received such flyer?
      but drew about resurrection how do you see it
      I mean

      I have to go will come later again and finalise this one
      I have a question…u say ask as many as I want

    • Pḣöëṉịẍ
      January 10, 06:15

      Angel , I know about the part the church played in history and the part that it is still playing even today . I didn’t want to say however , because I didn’t want to offend you in any way . .,
      I’m known to chase Jehovah witnesses away , not because I avoid them or tell them to leave , but , because I ask a lot of questions , and they really avoid my house now 😐 . .. Just like you , I question everything about religion . The concept is great , but the implementation part , leaves a lot to be desired .
      About the practices and traditions though , imagine having a wedding with no religious official , or a funeral service . It would seem odd . At these times we rely upon the ordained ” men of God ” to be present , to represent the Almighty , because in those times , our traditions seem sacred for some reason . Therefore , I practice the others also . I’m not a person to be halfway into anything ( as you know already 😀 ) . I observe fast at holy times , like for Divali , I followed all the customs , that I was told to , when my mom passed . Maybe we long for our actions to have some meaning . For our actions to speak louder than our words . I have no problem with such traditions . The problem arises when there is lack of respect for each other’s choice to practice as each sees befitting . The live and let live principle . .. is not always everyone’s way . . ..

    • Pḣöëṉịẍ
      January 10, 06:28

      These traditions were taught t to me , like yours were taught to you . .. I did a lot of research once on the symbolisms within Hinduism , and it is a lot . I think what I practice is basic , compared to what I should be doing . Also , although there are Hindus , many pundits or priests do see differently . They have different ideas about how things should be done . Therefore the holy scriptures are subjected to their interpretation . Some people try to follow every single rule , they observe fast for every thing , on the Hindu calendar . But , I’ve observed some of these people , and their actions in the community are not always as holy as their practices .
      The first time that I relied a lot on religion was for my mother’s funeral . The older ones guided me and I respect them , and I never questioned . I followed exactly what they say . I will admit to having many doubts about if such practices can actually help the departed . But , somehow , I couldn’t avoid others telling me what to do . ..

    • Pḣöëṉịẍ
      January 10, 07:05

      Aaliyah my Angel . . I’ll write more later . ..
      I have to go help organise the assembly 😐 . ..
      About the song I asked you to listen on this page , please tell me your opinion 🙂 . …

    • Pḣöëṉịẍ
      January 13, 11:48

      About the Bible dear .. . I vy was correct , I think , it was written by imperfect human beings ..
      Someone once said that everything can be justified in the Bible . I agree with that , because it has been subjected to so many different interpretations . There are so many versions , old and New Testament . . So many sub sects of Christianity . . Presbyterians , Pentecostal , seventh day Adventist , Mormons , Anglicans , Catholics , etc. . . I wonder if one God intended for his people to be so divisive about his messages ? . You see , dear , some people will never accept another persons way , even if it is right . They seek to for their own ideals , to look from a different perspective . .. But , fundamentally I believe that religion teaches togetherness , love , understanding , peace , harmony , but idiots seek division . .. Some want a feeling of superiority or exclusivity . ..
      Do you know that some stories are similar within the Quran , Bible and Hindu scriptures ?
      For example when Jesus was born , his uncle Herod had ordered his death Because it was foretold that Jesus would bring about his downfall . Joseph received a warning from an Angel to flee to Egypt . It was the same with lord Krishna . His uncle Kansa had ordered that all babies to be murdered , who were born on or around Lord Krishna’s birthday , but his father Vasudev , managed to save him .

      ” But God planned otherwise. At midnight when the eighth child was born, the guards fell fast asleep and Vasudev’s chain fell off his hands and feet. Wasting no time, Vasudev picked up the newborn baby, and carrying it in a basket, he started towards Gokul. Gokul was a village of cowherds, located across the Yamuna river, where his friend Nanda lived.
      Vasudev carrying baby Krishna out of the prison cell in a basket

      It was a dark stormy night with blinding rain continuously pouring from the sky. When Vasudev reached the river bank of Yamuna, the river was in spate. The wind and storm were blowing wild, and Vasudev was in a fix.

      “Lord, what should I do,” said Vasudev in a hopeless voice.

      Suddenly a miracle happened, the river parted and Vasudev walked through the river. Throughout the way Vasudev and the baby were protected from rain by the hood of the great eternal snake, Vasuki. Finally, Vasudev reached Nanda’s house. ”

      Do you remember another time when the river also parted for Moses ?

      Then there is the story of Abraham and Ishmael or Isaac . . That is common to both Islam and Christianity :

      ” It is well known to Muslims, Christians and Jews that Abraham was ordered to sacrifice his son and he was willing to do so but God gave him a sheep to sacrifice instead of his cherished progeny. So far, everybody agrees. However, Jews and Christians say that the sacrificed was Isaac-“Abraham’s only son”, whereas according to the Islamic tradition the sacrificed is Ishmael(P). The opposition between the two versions has not bothered any side that much because in the common mind “what we think is certainly right and those who think differently are necessarily wrong ”

      With this story I always wondered what sort of father could sacrifice his own son even to GoD ? It just seemed odd to me . . Biblical scholars often nitpick over every word within the Bible . .. I guess scholars aren’t always smart . ..

    • Pḣöëṉịẍ
      January 13, 11:51

      Even within Hinduism there these debates dear , there are , like I mentioned b4 , many branches of Hinduism as well . ..
      About the resurrection , I don’t believe in it at all . I think that one we leave this realm , that we never return the same to it .. . It’s just my thinking .

    • Suni
      January 06, 13:24

      I tried many times to figure out your method of giving me that no. . .
      That’s why I told you last time to give me half here and half on PV or another forum . .. ,

    • Suni
      January 05, 21:23

      No , he said nothing . . I spoke to him earlier . .
      He is fine . .

  8. salma (malsha)...
    January 05, 21:13 Reply

    Ok ..ill give it directly..+940911..nw can u add me..and add tomrw date 5 times after 0… Ok

    • Suni
      January 05, 21:22

      But where is the rest ?
      It should have 12 numbers right ?

    • Suni
      January 05, 21:25

      Malsha , give me the rest on PV page please . .

  9. salma (malsha)...
    January 05, 21:04 Reply

    Hii suni ..hw r Uzbekistan??
    Zaara asked ms to cum.cz u wanna talked to me..n in did page wasnt me..smone ws using my name dear …nsuni talk to me

    • zaaru
      January 05, 21:05

      it ws pinku

    • Suni
      January 05, 21:06

      Just wanted to say that the no. u gave me isn’t working ..

    • Suni
      January 05, 21:07

      It’s ok , Zaara , I don’t mind Pinku . .
      Guys have a different way of expressing themselves 🙂

  10. Suni
    January 05, 08:54 Reply

    Lucy my darling . .. Pain changes us , and forces us to see things and to understand things that we never did b4 . . You are very young to have this experience , but knowing you , and the wisdom that you have , at such an early age , I know that you will march forward . There will always be more questions than answers . The hardest part is to accept . Accept that something’s cannot be changed , but will change us instead .
    But , change for the better , you’re wiser , stronger , braver . I always wonder if the dead also misses us , if that empty feeling that we have , if they have it also ?? Two souls missing each other , but forced onto separate journeys . But , it’s just not our time to know 🙂 .. .

    • Aaliyah
      January 05, 16:40

      drew dear, don’t worry, I read it twice
      I’m catholic from birth, but at this moment in my life I want answers and can’t get them.
      mentally, hhhmmm, I understand what u say
      but I’m very stuborn and I want evidence…I like reasoning..I will not philosophize not that I say that your philosophizing!!! plz understand wat i mean

      I understand that what you wrote is merely your thought.
      the soul part is still a insecure don’t understandable for me though.
      why can’t it be the fact that those kids have the ability to sing and do others things the parents can’t do, be a gift….?

      reincarnation is a gray sphere/area for me… like uncle said he had solid evidence 😉 …I dont want solid evidence just…. evidence
      dont worry its not an essay

    • Aaliyah
      January 05, 16:42

      sometimes I think I think too much

    • Aaliyah
      January 05, 16:53

      Now analyzing what you wrote me.
      I also believe in God.
      and I do not believe you will come back into the body that you had, cause that was a sick body
      there are so many answers, and I’m searching for the right answer to my questions. I know there must be answers to my questions.
      its like religion so many, why so many?

    • Aaliyah
      January 05, 17:11

      drew…take the soul part and its journey….
      THE BIBLE SAYS
      “There is going to be a resurrection.”—Acts 24:15,
      can I believe what the bible says?
      why do people have to die? why the journey i dont understand and plz drew I hope you won’t tell me its a mystery plz dont say that to me…dont insult my intelligence. U know sometimes I think that maybe the answer or answers are simple and that we humans has made it difficult and incomprehensible

    • Aaliyah
      January 05, 17:25

      I totally agree with you that if you do the right thing you receive good things.using ur words 😉
      “We all have to be conscious of our actions and recognise that we have an impact on the world around us”
      agree with you, this similar thought is
      also writen in the bible..
      ” All things, therefore, that you want men to do to you, you also must do to them.This, in fact, is what the Law and the Prophets mean”
      you now I respect the Bible and koran.I have a lot of friends who believe in the koran and while reasoning, together there are many things similar with the bible

    • Aaliyah
      January 05, 17:57

      and why I ask you that question about
      Can Dead Really Live Again? cause personaly I believe that the soul is mortal, meaning that it dies

      they all have the same outcome. As the one dies, so the other dies; and they all have but one spirit. So man has no superiority over animals, for everything is futile. All are going to the same place. They all come from the dust, and they all are returning to the dust. Who really knows whether the spirit of humans ascends upward, and whether the spirit of animals descends down to the earth?

      Okay now I will not give you an essay, sleep tight … know you have someone out there somewhere on this planet who looks up to you……. 😉

    • Suni
      January 05, 18:51

      Hey 🙂 , be careful what you are saying dear . . Telling me that you don’t mind essays might turn out badly for you 😀 .. . I’m no expert on anything , but like you and your aunt , I think a lot . . But II’m not insistent upon knowing exactly , because I can never know exactly the truth about the things I wonder about . . It’s just my wondering as to why some people know the things that they know naturally . . Everyone has a gift , like you to call it , but where did it come from ? What makes some natural born leaders and others natural born killers ?
      I heard an interesting reasoning once . . It involved the question about babies . . Some are perfect angels , others cry incessantly and give their mothers a wold of trouble . The reasoning was that , no one knows what journey that soul had before it came on earth . . Maybe some are born with a troubled soul. . . whilst others were born with inner peace . .
      There is something in each of us that thinks independently from what or how we are told to behave . . An inner voice that drags us in a different direction from where we want to go sometimes . I often wonder which I should listen to ? That inner voice . .. or my better judgement . . For most of us , better judgement wins. . There is an author called Paulo Coelho . . If you can , check his books . .they are inspirational and didactic in an indirect but profound way , which might appeal to you . ..

    • Suni
      January 05, 19:26

      Dear , my grand mom also died from cancer , I grew up with my grand mom , grand dad and my mother . . All 3 have passed on . B4 my grand mom died , many older folks would come to visit . I was 8 then , but I still remember their comments . They would say that she is ” travelling ” . They looked at her and would determine that she was already partly into another place . I’ve never been afraid of death . . . I used to sleep in the same room that my grand mom passed away in . . Years later at age 17 my grand father died , but b4 he died , he said that he had seen men in white coming to meet him . I’ve heard many other stories , from people whose relatives had reacted the same way b4 death . My mom , the day b4 she died , had seen a woman and child , but we saw no one . This is why I personally believe that there must be something after death . I’ve even had instances where I felt that she tried to contact me and even visited me . I was telling this to Amaica one night . I will tell you something strange about me , I have looked at some people and I get a feeling that death is near them . I don’t know why , but it has happened more than once or twice and I wasn’t wrong . Dear , I knew about Ivy b4 you told me , but I couldn’t process it , I was thinking so much about you and her . I don’t know why , but I often sense people’s untold feelings and thoughts . I have never said this to anyone . I always remember this quote from Shakespeare in Hamlet , it is very overused by me 🙂 .

      ” There are more things in heaven and earth , Horatio ,
      Than are dreamt of in your philosophy “

    • Suni
      January 05, 20:17

      There are many religions , because everyone sees things from a different perspective . .
      It’s like a Quentin Tarentino movie , with many variations but only one truth . .
      Originally there were the Roman Catholics and the Anglicans , but then came the guys with questions like Luther and Calvin who established the Protestant churches . .
      Even within Hinduism there are many different practices . Islam has suni and shiate types .
      My belief in religion is shaky . I will practice many things because I was taught to do so , but ,
      my heart and soul isn’t into it .
      I believe in spirituality . . that I exist to be happy , to be free , to not hurt anyone , to forgive and most importantly , I believe in what I mentioned b4 . . That I receive from this world what put into it . . That I should treat others how I wish to be treated . .. All religions believe fundamentally in goodness , in peace and love . . But , mankind corrupts these principles .

    • Suni
      January 05, 20:35

      Hinduism believes that your dharma or your actions on earth . . will determine your future birth .
      This birth isn’t restricted to human form . A soul can return as an animal . It takes many lifetimes or janam to be born as a human being , which is considered the highest form of existence .
      If you look at the Hindu scriptures , many feel that Hindus worship animals , but it’s only because Hinduism describes a lot through symbolism .
      Again from just my observations . I have noticed many animals with human tendencies , also animals that have the good fortune to be treated like humans . I’ve read about animals that work or save their masters from harm . Bees even , can be trained to detect land mines . Elephants they say , mourn the death of pack members . So why is it then that animals should be separate from humans , after death , if they live in harmony with us on
      earth ?

    • Suni
      January 05, 21:02

      These are my questions though about the resurrection . .
      In the meantime , where is that person who once existed ? If the body is buried and has been decayed , what is there to resurrect ? Also it is believed that only the born again believers shall be resurrected , does that mean that we have a selective God ? Despite my being a Hindu and leading a pure life , I shall not rise again because of my choice of faith . . But a murderer who repented before death and was baptised and ordained to be born again , shall rise instead ? I’m sorry if my questions are harsh dear . I’m not diminishing your religion , but these are my own questions because I have a different upbringing and perspective .

    • Suni
      January 05, 21:30

      I honestly don’t know why people have to die 😐 . .
      We have such strong minds , but such weak bodies . .
      Maybe some continue to evolve until they reach perfection . . Until we can reunite with God .
      Maybe we eventually become God’s angels or some do the devil’s work . .
      Because everything on earth is in balance and opposites to each other . . . Equal good and bad , male and female , sunrise and sunset , joy and sorrow . . So , life and death . .

    • Suni
      January 05, 21:33

      Never ever , ever feel that you write or ask too much and you looking up to me is amazing , because I think that we are equals 🙂 . . .. I may have 6 years extra on you and a few inches 😀 . .
      But you have so much natural smarts , makes me wonder where it came from 😉 . .

  11. Pḣöëṉịẍ
    January 04, 17:16 Reply

    Lucy Lu dearest Angel , if my essay confuses you . . .
    Ask as many questions as you wish . . I promise 🙂 no more essays !!

    • Aaliyah
      January 05, 16:56

      sweetheart I’m not uncle 😀
      I’m not affraid of your essays!!
      like I said, I like reasoning, used to do this a lot with my aunt, and now … can’t do that no more

    • Suni
      January 05, 18:53

      To his credit dear , he used to read every word that I wrote . .
      He is very intelligent , the most intelligent guy I knew actually . .

  12. Aaliyah
    January 04, 03:45 Reply

    drew?

    may I ask your point of view

    Can the Dead Really Live Again?

    u dont have to answer its just one of my big Q at the moment

    I’ll be here maybe 2night but 2morrow evening sure i’ll check

    pleasant weekend dear 😉

    • Aaliyah
      January 04, 03:46

      sry cam u 2.

    • Suni
      January 04, 08:15

      Hey sweetie ,
      I’m a Hindu by birth and within Hinduism there is the belief in reincarnation , or being born again , but honestly , I am not a very religious person . I believe in a God , though . I don’t think that the dead can be brought back to life in its previous physical form . Within each of us there dwells a soul , something that lives on beyond the physical form . They say that the soul must go on its journey , even without the physical body . The soul is a collection of our experiences our deeds . By deeds I mean , if we did right or wrong to other people , while here on earth . There is the theory of Karma , that means that if we did any wrong to anyone , while being in the physical form , we will have to receive punishment , also there is good Karma , in that if we did right , we will have a good life . We all have to be conscious of our actions and recognise that we have an impact on the world around us .
      This is only my thinking , but I’ll give you my reasons for believing in reincarnation . In my profession , I’m around little kids . By an early age , they each have different tendencies . Some can sing well , some dance or draw well without ever being taught by anyone , they have this natural ability despite no family history of such tendencies .. . I wonder where did it come from ? In some cases , the child and parents just don’t match , the parents seem to be dimwits, but the child has an uncanny intelligence . Some children exist in unfortunate circumstances , but they rise to the top , they have an inner drive to succeed and I wonder , where is that coming from ? Likewise some might have it all and take it for granted . My point is that , the soul within seems to have an independent motive from its body . I believe this is because the soul has been around many times, collecting experiences . Some have learned souls , while others have very evil souls within .
      No one knows what or where we came from , or where we are going . But , if you observe life around you , you notice that the happiest people are not the wealthiest people . The happiest people are the ones who find inner peace , who appreciate the beauty of the sky more than a trip around space . The ones with good friends , and family . I’m saying this because Ivy was happy despite her illness . She appreciated her life , she fought for her life , she encouraged , shared her wisdom , loved wholeheartedly . . She lived as much as her time on earth allowed her to live . . This I guess involves the theory of predestination , meaning that her soul could have only remained in that physical form , for a certain time , an no more . It was predestined to only be here a short time , but she made the most of it . . I’m just going to apply the Karma and reincarnation part a bit . If in her previous life , Ivy had hurt someone or had done any wrong , maybe without bad intention , in this present lifetime , she had to receive some punishment . But maybe she knew and accepted her wrong from the previous life , she repented , but hinduism doesn’t allow you to repent and escape like Christianity does , you need to receive punishment . Ivy never felt sorry for herself , she never drew anyone down because of her situation , never made anyone miserable , didn’t harm anyone , she didn’t complain much , she saw the pain in others . Her soul was wise enough to recognise that her journey on earth had a purpose . She was an inspiration . She lived a pure life this time . So, I’m thinking that , if there is such a thing as reincarnation , that Ivy has no more bad karma . That she will have received a lot of blessings for her rebirth . I’m thinking that her soul gained great knowledge on its previous journeys for it to be so strong and wise while it was here .
      I don’t believe that we can have the same physical form ever again , life moves forward . . So if she has to have a physical form again . . it will happen in the future . . You ever met someone and felt that you always knew them ? Maybe your souls met once b4 in different bodies . Then also there is the thought about guardian angels . . Maybe not every soul returns to earth . It’s just my thinking dear . My apologies for the length , your uncle always told me that I write essays 🙂 . …

    • cam
      January 03, 15:58

      Hi dear, how was ur day
      I cant give coment on TP 😥 Uuuuuuu

    • cam
      January 03, 16:00

      Maybe my device 🙁

    • Pḣöëṉịẍ
      January 03, 16:01

      I saw , but don’t worry , it’s not only you 😛 . .
      I can’t post any comments either . .
      My day was good , how was yours ?

    • cam
      January 03, 16:05

      Lololol omg i’m feeling dizzy
      From one page toanother
      Plz stay here 😥

    • Pḣöëṉịẍ
      January 03, 16:07

      Hahaha , yeah , I was thinking the same , we went page hopping 😀 ..
      But , I asked you a question there 🙂

    • cam
      January 03, 16:09

      Hahahaha…omg m like a grashopper 🙁
      They married if i recall 18 yrs ago childhood marriage

    • cam
      January 03, 16:13

      Then he went with his father to chimla and now he needed her signature
      And went to her village to got that and at the time anot
      her ellegable men came for proposal

    • cam
      January 03, 16:16

      She touches his hands and knew after so long tbat he is her hubby
      Oh yeh he went for divorce and came back with his wife
      Its like those shirts

      my parents went to mexico ad bought me this lousy t-shirt 😉

  13. cam
    January 03, 15:32 Reply

    Adit kunal yes ishana has changed
    I liked what lajjo said….. A lie has no place t hide.
    And now ishana become along with barkha a villain

  14. cam
    January 03, 15:29 Reply

    Nikhil seriousy i will buy u a bench
    Mon dieu, how can men b this BLIND
    Even a blind person knows something is fishy
    And you nikhil ………. Tsk tsk tsk
    EYES WIDE OPEN stil cant tell

  15. cam
    January 03, 15:25 Reply

    Lajjo I have room for you at my penthouse
    Sweety, plz plz why do u have to taki this shit

  16. cam
    January 03, 15:21 Reply

    Amena thxs for this WU

  17. Sabiya
    January 03, 11:40 Reply

    She s wants to get him by doing that to laajo

  18. Ileana
    January 03, 10:00 Reply

    I truely hate ishana n nikhil gosh lajjo deserves much btr

  19. neeti
    January 03, 09:57 Reply

    no one does that if he/she truly i love

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