Should Dilshad of Zee TV’s Qubool Hai move on with her life?
Rashid Khan (Vaquar Shaikh) inQubool Hai (4 Lions Films) may apparently seem to be one lucky man as there are two women in love with him- his former wife Dilshad (Shalini Kapoor Sagar) and his current wife Sheereen (Shabnam Sayed). He however can’t return to Dilshad though he too is deeply in love with her.
We asked Vaquar as to which woman he would like Rashid to be with- Dilshad or Sheereen? He replied, “I don’t think he has any reason to leave either of them. Both of them have been very sweet and have accepted him the way he is. However he obviously has to stay with one wife.”
However, shouldn’t Dilshad move on as after all Rashid and Sheereen have been living like man and wife for many years now and even have kids together? He jokes, “If you ask Rashid this question he won’t want Dilshad to move on as he is still very much in love with her. Nor would Dilshad want to move on as she is still in love with him. I can bet my cards on that she won’t.”
However, Rashid was forced to leave Dilshad to protect her and not because he was an infidel husband. Nevertheless as of now both of them simply don’t have a conjugal future.
In such a scenario won’t it be a progressive sign if they showed Indian women moving on instead of moping on lost love? Shalini Kapoor Sagar who plays Dilshad feels, “Dilshad and Rashid had spent a lot of quality time in the past however they aren’t together now. They both still care deeply for one another. Dilshad has quite accepted the fact that there is another woman in her husband’s life now. Her focus is however on her kids. So as long as he cares for her kids and they have mutual respect for one another, it is okay with her.”
Point taken but shouldn’t show makers depict a woman who is separated finding love again despite having children? It seems that on Indian television, viewers are more ready to accept a man remarrying but not a woman.
Dilshad however is a very dignified lady who has never pursued her estranged husband. In fact she has purposely keeps quite a distance for him. Shalini elaborates, “A woman should be at nobody’s mercy, so it’s good that Dilshad conducts herself so gracefully.”
Shabnam told us, “There are no shoulds and coulds in love. Only the two people who are in love know what is the best for them. Love follows the heart and not the head. However I can say for sure that if Rashid leaves Sheereen it will completely break her heart.”
As viewers maybe we would like to see Rashid’s reaction on seeing Dilshad getting emotional closer to maybe a highly attractive male friend. We do hope that the creatives won’t abide by the conventional way of Rashid returning to Dilshad after the death of Sheereen.
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9 Comments
desibella92
February 23, 02:21its hard to say, rashid and dilshad love each other but rashid has entire other family. his kids are still kinda young,and rashid has been their father their whole life.nuzhat,nikkhat, and ayaan could be psychologically damaged if rashid just packed up and left to go back withhis 1st family he had left 17yr ago.to lose a father thatt fast would mentally scar anybody. for the sake of his own happiness can or will he risk the happiness of his other 3 children .
Asad and najma have grown up without a father and they are use to it.if rashid re-entered their lives it would be very akward,if they accept him back into their lives.(asad- not likely)asad and his family are doing fine without rashid.i dont think dilshad would ask him to leave his current family
Caitlin
February 23, 10:00I can see your point. but dilshad would never ask him to leave his current family. she is too selfless.
but Im upset of the fact that indians are ok of a man remarrys but not a woman.
dilshad deserves to be happy.
I dont believe it would be the perfect solution if rashid goes back to dilshad either.
but I dont think that his 3 kids would be psychologically damaged if he did. they are grown up now and they should be understandable enough. of course its hard and painful but if they know the truth about rashid-dilshad seperation then they would understand, I think.
FaN
February 22, 11:25dilshad should move on..but not fall in love and get married to another man…the only man in her life she should have is rashid..
she should just accept that rashid and shereen are together…
and she should focus on her children (asad would definetly not be happy with her marrying someone else)
she should focus on getting justice for rashid (as this man cannot think as reasonably as her)
and she should focus on making asad and zoya recognizing their love for each other and not wait until zoya has married ayan…
FaN
February 22, 11:30oh and the whole “the creatives won’t abide by the conventional way of Rashid returning to Dilshad after the death of Sheereen”
if anything they should give justice to sheereen…she bore so much burden…of knowing rashid has another wife and children and putting up with razia’s @#$@#$…
if creatives try to unite rashid and dilshad…sheereen should then fall in love with someone else (although she wont be able to) and have happiness as well… just dont kill her..that is simply unfair
Caitlin
February 23, 10:07dont you think its enough of focusing on her children? she did that for 17 years now.
I agree that asad would not be ok with it if she’d remarry. but would be kinda selfish of him.
dilshad has the right to be happy. and asad should be old enough to understand. he seems so grown up and mature but sometimes I feel, he is very childish.
he wouldnt bear it if his mother would remarry but come on! who is he to keep her from getting happiness back.
seriously the more I think about it the more I want dilshad to move on and this means only remarriage.
BUT of course Indians are too consevative about it and and dilshad to dutiful 🙁
Anonymous
February 22, 10:50its a tough situation for rashid. dilshad and him should remain friends because of thier children. moving on doesnt mean she needs to re-marry because her character is of a dignified woman. i dont think her kids will be happy if she re-marries. anyways lets see what happens.
Caitlin
February 23, 10:10of course it would be hard for her kids. but they are grown ups now and should understand.
dilshad has a own life she does not have to live for others all the time and pay for others mistakes. really thats not fair.
she should remarry. her kids will finally understand.
Yvett
February 22, 09:00“after the death of Shireen.” Really, why should Dilshad get the what left. The truth need to come out now and Rashid returns to his real wife.
zoya lover
February 22, 07:16dilshad shouldnt move on…………..she loves rashad…….if she moves on whats the point of love there……..see jab tak hai jaan